Had my follow up ultrasound this morning and the doctor has confirmed this is an unsuccessful pregnancy. Had some growth since last week but the fetal pole looks abnormal and there "really should be a heartbeat by now"

My OB wants to see if I miscarry naturally but I have another follow upon Wednesday to double check no heartbeat and she will medically cause the MC at that point if needed.
This sucks.
Hope you all have a very happy & healthy 9 months and our other measuring-behind-mamas get better news!
Me: 30 DH: 31
Married: 2012
BFP #1 Sept 2014, MMC Dec 2014 | BFP #2 May 2015, DD Jan 2016

| BFP #3 May 2017, MC July 2017 | BFP #4 Jan 2018, MC Feb 2018 | BFP #5 July 2018, fingers crossed
Re: Wishing you all the best
Been through this myself. Do you have any questions about what you will need?
DD: Aug '16
10/2017: Twins confirmed with TTTS at 22 weeks.
10/10/17 Twin B passed after in utero surgery
11/2/17 Twin A & B born
11/26/17: Twin A passed after 24 days fighting in the NICU
Benched 6 months
BFP: 6/28/18 MC:7/16/18 BO
BFP: 10/2/18 EDD 6/15/18
@neener*neener* Unfortunately, I have been thru this before as well so I have an idea of what to expect. I'm just not sure if my body will recognize it since it didn't last time, and the "assisted" process was so awful.
Fortunately, this time I have a beautiful spunky daughter to help keep my mind off the negative rather than being completely consumed by the loss like I was the first time.
Married: 2012
BFP #1 Sept 2014, MMC Dec 2014 | BFP #2 May 2015, DD Jan 2016
TTC #1 since April 2015
RE Dx: Fibroids, surgery Jan 2016
IUI #1 and #2, Nov/Dec 2016, BFN
IVF March 2017: ER - 5R/3M/3F, 1 PGS normal
Polyp removed May 2017
FET May 2017 - BFP!
Baby boy born 2/2/18
DS 2/17/15
BFP 6/12/17
EDD 2/18/17
Married: May 2015
TTC since September 2015
Married Aug. 2013
TTC #1 Sep. 2016
***TW***
BFP Jun. 5, 2017; MMC Aug. 2, 2017 at 11w6d
BFP Nov. 20, 2017; ended in CP
All the tests. Everything normal except treated for ureaplasma and DH potentially has high DNAF.
BFP Dec. 25, 2017; EDD Sep. 5, 2018; DD arrived Aug. 26th
My chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/63f71d
DD angel baby 10/16
Rainbow Due 02/20/18