@anewadventure I have crazy reflux and heartburn so I'm on Prilosec every day and Zantac 150 as needed sometimes twice a day (every 12 hours). But I think I am more of the extreme side for this as the acid flies up my throat and I puke everywhere.
@AMCsquared with my first, I had itchy boobs and they just got worse and worse until even prescription powder wouldn't help me. So this time my doc told me to put Cetaphil on them everyday to stay ahead!
@GraysonsMama She mentioned that I should be over the sickness stage by then. I think my body did not get the memo. Lol I went back on it. It's better for baby because not being able to keep anything down is definitely not good for baby or mom. Did you have sickness the entire pregnancy?
@cait5413 the office is closed friday-sun. I didn't call the after hours because I hate bugging people. I decided to go back on it because if not I would end up in the hospital for dehydration.
Hoping my body gets the memo that it's second trimester soon.
@ktcakes87 thats exactly what 2 of my friends told me. 2 others also told me to mention it at my next appointment in case i need to have my cervix checked?
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@GraysonsMama She mentioned that I should be over the sickness stage by then. I think my body did not get the memo. Lol I went back on it. It's better for baby because not being able to keep anything down is definitely not good for baby or mom. Did you have sickness the entire pregnancy?
Mine didn't either with DD1. I threw up until 28 weeks, took a 6 weeks break and started again. I deliver at 38.3 and was still sick here and there. Sometimes our body's suck! With this DD, I have get so much better since around 13 weeks. Still have my days but good for the most part. Hoping this passes for you sooner than later!
@AMCsquared Totally normal to have round ligament pain when sneezing. sometimes it helps to put pressure on your abdomen if you feel a sneeze coming on. I don't know why they'd tell you to have your cervix checked...
Married May 2014 DD born August 2016 Baby #2 due December 2017
Thanks to whoever suggested chugging milk for heartburn. I can't do tums so I had a Babybell at bedtime last night. It took the edge off so I could sleep.
@AMCsquared Totally normal to have round ligament pain when sneezing. sometimes it helps to put pressure on your abdomen if you feel a sneeze coming on. I don't know why they'd tell you to have your cervix checked...
Because you're clearly going to sneeze the baby out
So I'm not really active on here, my work scheadule is crazy and I never have any time to myself so I apologize for being that person who only posts when they need something and have a question. I've been going through like a serious depression the last couple of days and I don't really know what to do. I was upset, in tears crying last night because I just felt upset and like the world was crashing down on me. I tried to talk to my husband about it and he kept asking me why I was feeling depressed, obviously I don't know why I just do. So when I told him that he told me I was crazy and acting crazy and of that kind of stuff which is super unlike him, he's the most loving and supportive person I know. So I decided to talk to my primary doctor today, who happens to be my employer, and I mentioned how I was feeling and he told me it was just hormones and I can talk to someone if I really feel like I need to. Has anyone else felt this way?
@andipandicWed121369 that twas' meeee! Hehe! I don't know where I got that from but it's my go to for heartburn. Which I've never had till pregnant lol. And cheese works too! For me also I've been battling a headache today...I feel better if I get up and move around. But at one point I felt a little sick and was like ugh. But so far so good. No throwing up since the one time.
@vvitchhazel oh geez. Hope that lets up soon. How miserable xoxo
@hscott95- During this pregnancy there have been times when I've definitely felt moody and emotional, and exploded into tears a few times sometimes for no reason, or sometimes just really over-reacting to something I'd normally just shake off. I don't think I'm depressed, but I definitely have been at different points in my life.
Trust your gut on what you need to do to take care of yourself. Talking with a therapist that you like might be a really good idea.
Sorry your husband reacted that way. Lots of folks just really aren't informed about mental health problems.
I have been really trying to stick to my usual ongoing mental health care for myself throughout this pregnancy- keeping myself active and moving, including once a week yoga which REALLY helps my mental health. Also some acupuncture as well, maybe once a month. Trying to get enough sleep, and to take some time to do things I know will make me feel better like giving myself a manicure or pedicure, or taking a bath.
Of course, we're all different, so I think it really is figuring out the best coping mechanisms for you, and what you can do or what kind of help you can get to start healing and feeling better.
Take care, it's really not easy.
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@hscott95 I've definitely had days where I just feel like I can't deal, but it hasn't been ongoing. Those days though... I just feel like everything is caving in on me and nothing will ever be okay again. It's sad and scary and you know what else? It's totally normal for you to be feeling this way. Your primary isn't wrong. Hormones can wreak havoc on us! You should talk to your OB about it too, as they might have a little more insight when it comes to prenatal depression. I think your best bet would be seeking out counseling though. There's nothing wrong with that and you shouldn't feel ashamed about how you're feeling. I'm sorry your husband wasn't very understanding. Maybe if you get into counseling, he could come to a session and learn a little bit more about how mental health can be affected by pregnancy?
@hscott95 antenatal depression is very real. you should get some counseling sessions immediately and/or a referral to a doctor that is more specialized than your primary. in the meantime, i hope you can find some coping mechanisms and you can ask your H to be as supportive as possible even if he doesn't understand "why you're acting crazy."
ETA: i can't type today.
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@hscott95 I'm so sorry that your hubby wasn't helpful. I bet he is worried about you and wondering if all these changes are permanent. Guys have it rough during pregnancy because all they can do is watch us and wait while they worry about how much their life is about to change. The thing is we talk about it and guys, in my experience, don't. Having said that, don't let him stop you from getting what you need. For me, when I'm depressed I ask myself 'Will I feel better tomorrow?' If my mind says 'No, I'll always feel like this', I know that I'm in a bad cycle and that I'll need help getting out. Sometimes it's counseling and sometimes it's meds and both are totally okay. A lot of times as Mamas we try not to ask for help because we're holding everything together so we can't be weak. But asking for help takes strength. Strength that you need to have to keep supporting your family. Be brave!
@hscott95 I just wanted to second what everyone here has said. Go with your gut if you think you need to talk to someone. I think it's hard because many people expect pregnant women to be glowing and excited and happy all the time. The reality is that there are a LOT of other emotions at play for many of us. And antenatal depression is something that effects many women. I've recently gone through some tough family stuff, and (thanks to the suggestion of many ladies here!) have found it helpful to talk to a counselor.
I also wanted to add that my husband sounds pretty similar to yours in that he just doesn't quite understand mental health issues. When I've had issues with depression in the past, he's said things like "well maybe when you don't work at x, you'll feel better" or something like that. He really wants the depression to be situational so that he knows how to fix it.
I think you really have nothing to lose by talking with a counselor in your area. Good luck. Keep us updated on how you're doing.
@kyrwyn When I told my NP about my afternoon headaches, she told me to have a little caffeine to soothe them. I was a little iffy about that advice (since I had to get over my caffeine withdrawal headaches during my 1st tri and I wasn't excited about the idea of getting myself re-hooked), but at the same time it's pretty logical advice, since that's what makes Excedrin work so well. Luckily I haven't had to try it myself, since the headaches have faded since then.
@djd0404 Thanks! We must on the same wavelength. I'm having my Tylenol with a side of iced tea. It will either help with the headache, or help my post-lunch technical-meeting survival chances.
ETA: added "Thanks!"... because manners are hard with a headache.
@kyrwyn So sorry! That's the pits. I must've been having a sympathy headache today in your honor. I felt flat out, first trimester rotten today! C'mon 2nd Tri, treat us better than this!
Whelp. The Braxton hicks have started. Not surprised because they started a week earlier last time. I have such a love-hate relationship with them. For some reason they make me 'feel' pregnant. Which is good. But they are annoying.
Not a symptom but I am so sick. I cast breathe and I'm miserable. I never had one day of sickness (well excluding morning sickness) with DD. I feel terrible and there really isn't anything I can take. Pity party over here.
@Tennis11785 it's almost like a non-painful muscle cramp. Your ute gets super tight and while it's uncomfortable, it doesn't hurt. They're pretty subtle at this point, but I had them tonnes with DS so it's unmistakable for me.
Not a symptom, but I threw out my back yesterday. I can barely move, DH had to call in to take care of DD, and I'm in constant agony. Any recommendations on relief, ladies? I've got a bottle of Flexeril here that is making me cry, because I want one so bad. Instead, I've been alternating between hot and cold compresses. It's just so excruciating! I need a break!
@jackiesmom324 I called my OB about the Flexeril I already have and she said nope. One of my friends took it during her last pregnancy after her OB okayed it, so I was hopeful. But I'd rather rough it than risk anything if my OB is uncomfortable with it! I've been doing stretches and DH has been rolling a tennis ball firmly against the pulled muscle and it's helped! It's just a waiting game for now. Fortunately I've got plenty of help the next week or so with DD!
I've recently been able to feel my uterus and it's so weird (in a cool way)! I'm due at the end of the month so for most of you this is probably old news lol.
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@AMCsquared with my first, I had itchy boobs and they just got worse and worse until even prescription powder wouldn't help me. So this time my doc told me to put Cetaphil on them everyday to stay ahead!
She mentioned that I should be over the sickness stage by then. I think my body did not get the memo. Lol I went back on it. It's better for baby because not being able to keep anything down is definitely not good for baby or mom.
Did you have sickness the entire pregnancy?
Hoping my body gets the memo that it's second trimester soon.
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DD born August 2016
Baby #2 due December 2017
@vvitchhazel oh geez. Hope that lets up soon. How miserable xoxo
Trust your gut on what you need to do to take care of yourself. Talking with a therapist that you like might be a really good idea.
Sorry your husband reacted that way.
I have been really trying to stick to my usual ongoing mental health care for myself throughout this pregnancy- keeping myself active and moving, including once a week yoga which REALLY helps my mental health. Also some acupuncture as well, maybe once a month. Trying to get enough sleep, and to take some time to do things I know will make me feel better like giving myself a manicure or pedicure, or taking a bath.
Of course, we're all different, so I think it really is figuring out the best coping mechanisms for you, and what you can do or what kind of help you can get to start healing and feeling better.
Take care, it's really not easy.
Due date 12/9
I can't figure out the pregnancy countdown tickers, but I do know how to make a signature!
#40andpregnant
As of 12/15/2017, my new hashtag is #41 and pregnant!
ETA: i can't type today.
Met: September 2005 Married: October 2008 DS: 09/2014
Having said that, don't let him stop you from getting what you need. For me, when I'm depressed I ask myself 'Will I feel better tomorrow?' If my mind says 'No, I'll always feel like this', I know that I'm in a bad cycle and that I'll need help getting out. Sometimes it's counseling and sometimes it's meds and both are totally okay. A lot of times as Mamas we try not to ask for help because we're holding everything together so we can't be weak. But asking for help takes strength. Strength that you need to have to keep supporting your family. Be brave!
I also wanted to add that my husband sounds pretty similar to yours in that he just doesn't quite understand mental health issues. When I've had issues with depression in the past, he's said things like "well maybe when you don't work at x, you'll feel better" or something like that. He really wants the depression to be situational so that he knows how to fix it.
I think you really have nothing to lose by talking with a counselor in your area. Good luck. Keep us updated on how you're doing.
TTC #1 since 12/2015
BFP 4/4/17, EDD 12/4/17
TTC #1 since 12/2015
BFP 4/4/17, EDD 12/4/17
ETA: added "Thanks!"... because manners are hard with a headache.
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#1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
Met: September 2005 Married: October 2008 DS: 09/2014
Due date 12/9
I can't figure out the pregnancy countdown tickers, but I do know how to make a signature!
#40andpregnant
As of 12/15/2017, my new hashtag is #41 and pregnant!
DD - 12/28/17
TTC #2 3/2019
BFP 5/2019 || MC - D&C 5/2019
BFP 2/2020 || EDD 10/10/2020