The countdown continues in my world! 4 more days til I'm PUPO! The PIO last night wasn't really too bad at all. OH had it ready and waiting when I got home from work last night. He ended up doing a very good job - he even put a band aid on my bum! lol
I forgot to mention this the other day but OH and I had a lengthy discussion with RE about transferring 3 vs 2 embryos. OH suggested to me that we do 3 so we decided to ask at our last monitoring appt. RE said she would advise to only do 2 as I am young and she doesn't feel the need to go "balls to the wall" with 3 (she actually said that! LOL). She thinks that we are being aggressive enough with transferring 2 day five blasts as opposed to 2 three day embies like last time. I voiced my concerns about the lone embie and going thru the financial and emotional expense of this whole process for our last and worst looking embie (should this cycle fail or we want a 2nd child). She said that if this FET doesn't work then she would prob want me to just do another cycle from scratch. ugh! So in short, there's nothing I want more than for this FET to work!!!
Hey all, been avoiding this thread after my June FET got cancelled. But stopped by here now and caught out a little bit and I'm soooooo happy to see so many BFP!!!!
AFM... had the hysteroscopy yesterday and now I'm on 2 weeks antibiotics. And will probably start the prep after I'm done with the it. So probably my FET will be in August.
TTC history in spoiler box:
Me: 42, single Hysteroscopy: 2013 IUI #1-2: 2013 BFN Surgery 10/2015: Planned to start trying again but had a surgery. (Not related to fertility) Surgery 5/2016: Planned to start trying again but had another surgery. (Not related to fertility) IUI #3-5 (with Clomid): summer 2016 BFN IVF #1: 11/2016. 30R; 21M; 20F; 8B (6 day5 & 2 day6); 4 normal after PGS Medicated FET #1: 1/31/2017 transferred 1 embryo 3AA. BFP. Embryo stopped growing at 6w 1d. MUA at 9w 3d. Medicated FET #2: June 2017 - cancelled... Hysteroscopy #2: June 2017 Medicated FET #2: 8/7/2017 transferred 1 embryo 5BB. BFP. Ended in CP. Medicated FET #3: 10/11/2017 transferred 1 embryo 3AA. BFN ERA: December 2017 - need an extra 12 hours of PIO Medicated FET #4: 1/24/2018 transferred 1 embryo 4AA. BFN Out of embryos. IVF #2: 03/2018.
Hey all! I'm sooo happy to hear about all the BFPs and PUPOs! I decided to stay off the board this week and try not to think too much about my transfer...
Side note: today I fell up the stairs at work, lol so embarrassing.. At least that distracted me a bit hehe elbow and knee got the brunt of it..
Anyway I've been on Crinone for a few days now, and it's starting to bother my nether regions, lots of dryness and gunky build up. I'm kinda scared to tell my RE as I don't want to risk cancelling my cycle...I guess I'll just have to grin and bear it, since I definitely don't want to switch to the poi....*sigh* the joys of ivf
@cmiller73 I was getting worried about you glad to hear from you!! hoping the double numbers are on its way!! You're still in it!!
colette18 my nurse mentions once it gets too clunky to just take that out...mine felt like a stuck tampon.
i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake kind of interesting that your RE doesn't want to do all 3? I get it too. Instead of doing the 2 strongest, why not do one strong and the weaker one? Hopefully you wont have that issue of the what to do next. good luck!!
Questions for all!!
Besides acupuncture before and after transfer did anyone keep going leading up to the transfer? Once a week? Twice a week? or after??
And the Sex question, once you started prep no sex? I basically dont have a sex life doing all these back to back ivf cycles so just curious.
thanks!!
History of TTC in spoiler box
TTC since 2014 Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30 7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10. IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
@Hopeful_mom, I only did acupuncture before and after transfer, however I am a massage therapist and doula so I did fertility massage for the last 4 weeks.
As for sex I only avoid it for a week after transfer. We had protected sex before transfer, waited a week, and now back to regular unprotected sex.
@Hopeful_mom I have not done acupuncture so I don't have any say there. As far a sex goes the only time I'm told not to is during the TWW, protected or unprotected, but it is actually on our med schedule to have sex 2 days prior to transfer.
Me: 33 DH: 39 Me: Endo, PCOS, DH: low life span and mobility Married and TTC since 12/2008 3 IUI's in 2012 IVF #1 BFN 08/2012 IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013 ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363 US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
What a day I am having! I was rear ended on my way to work. This is (was) my poor car....I hit the back of my head pretty hard on the headrest and have a headache but hoping that's all it is.
@i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake OMG! I was about to answer some questions about Crinone, acupuncture, etc. but just saw the picture you posted and am horrified! So, so, so glad you are ok. Maybe you should see your internist about your head just to be sure? Take care of yourself.
Me: 33 DH: 39 Me: Endo, PCOS, DH: low life span and mobility Married and TTC since 12/2008 3 IUI's in 2012 IVF #1 BFN 08/2012 IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013 ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363 US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
@i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake im glad you are ok and i agree definitely better than happening on transfer day.. Thanks @nim81 @Hopeful_mom i was told no sex until beta @colette18 praying you have a smooth transfer tomorrow and that the embies are sticky ones!! AFM I slept so good since my transfer and im just so tired ...before the transfer i was having trouble sleeping hoping and praying this is a good thing..
@i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake OMG I am so happy that you are ok! How scary! Keep close attention on your head/neck... get it checked out if you are feeling funny!
AFM, Beta #2 was good but again not great. (being blunt is helping me haha) I had a 62% increase so yes, a good increase and basically what they say is what should be happening every 48 hours or so (at least thats what doctor google says). I stay the course over the weekend with my meds and go back on Monday.... FX Lucky lil #10 wanted to be fashionably late to the uterus party and is now settling in nicely
@momma6angels11 it was 63 up from 39 (technically I rounded up haha) The nurse also told me to stop testing... 'YOU ARE PREGNANT. Geez, we just need to make sure it is developing and growing properly!" hahah I LOLd at that. I was so proud my line got much darker and she was like 'aw sweetie... stop testing'
@momma6angels11, I havent had beta yet, so take this with a grain of salt. Around 4-5days after transfer I had intense back aches that lasted 2 days and since I've just felt drained and achey. Today I was nauseous, but I had just eaten and was running around outside in the heat so... not sure if that was related.
I have also experienced cramping, breast tenderness, bloat (oh the bloat), gas, and extra sweaty... but I'm pretty sure that is all the PIO.
TW: the only other time I have been pregnant I experienced the low back pain as well. I was convinced my period was coming any second because it felt exactly like the start of my period.
@cowboycorgi thanks! I definitely have had the ache in my lower back and crampy and just so tired.. Your beta will be here soon enough!! @colette18 i hope all went well today with your transfer!! And you are PUPO!!
Congrats @Cowboycorgi@stairbear @kaseycoco all you can really see is a white blob but you can definitely see it on the screen and on the photo. @i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake omg i'm so sorry about your accident, that's so scary but I'm glad you're ok.
TW*** Child and loss mentioned Married 10/12 DS 11/14 Ectopic 2/16 PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16 IUI x 3- BFN Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos FET- 6/17- BFP! Due Feb 15, 2017
@momma6angels11 i appreciate your positive thoughts! So far so good...I'm unofficially pupo! They transferred 2 embies, one of which was already hatching. The nurse and doctor seemed really happy about that.. it's a 2hour drive home so we stopped for lunch right after, went for a walk, did a little food shopping then headed home. I slept half of the car ride, felt really exhausted!
... and the TWW begins! when is your first BETA? Mine is July 3rd...
@i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake Oh geez thats a scary photo! So glad you're ok! How are you feeling? If this had to happen glad it was now, I totally get it, watch that head of yours, maybe get it checked out anyway!
Cowboycorgithucks thanks for the info. ladies! Glad to hear ppl resume normal activities, I just have this feeling OH will have no part of it, guess I better try to get it all in now
cmiller73 thats good news! slow an steady wins the race! hoping for triple digits on monday
colette18 yay! sending you super sticky vibes! sounds like you had a nice day! hoping the 2ww goes by quickly! Will you POAS?
History of TTC in spoiler box
TTC since 2014 Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30 7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10. IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
@colette18, congrats on being Pupo! Your after transfer activities sound like a perfect blend of getting the blood to flow and getting rest. FX for you embies to snuggle in deep
I had an infuriating phone call on Friday afternoon, and I'm still fuming more than 48 hours later. My RE can see me through nine weeks of pregnancy, so I called my OB/gyn's office to make an appointment for the 9-week mark. (Hope I didn't jinx things by calling that early, but I wanted to get on their calendar.) I love the doctor that I've seen at this practice, but the receptionist I spoke with could not have been more unpleasant.
I called and said, "I'm a 40-year-old patient of Dr. G's, and I'm pregnant after IVF, and I wanted to make an appointment to see her at 9 weeks after I've been discharged from my RE."
Surly receptionist: "Well, you would see all our doctors throughout a pregnancy. Not just Dr. G." [No "congratulations" or warmth, but that's fine. Just don't be rude.]
Me: "I totally understand that I need to rotate through, but I'd love to start with Dr. G, given that she's the one who first referred me to ART, and I've been through two IUIs, three IVFs, a miscarriage, and surgery to remove an ovarian cyst, and she consulted with me about the surgery."
Surly receptionist: "Well, Dr. G is on vacation the week you say you are at 9 weeks."
Me: "What about the next week?"
SR: "She's on vacation then too."
Me: "Okay, I'll see a different doctor then."
SR: "Okay, I have you down to see Kerry Smith at 1 pm."
Me [wondering why she didn't say "doctor Smith"]: "Is Kerry Smith an MD?"
SR: "She's a midwife."
Me [pissed]: "I have nothing against midwifery (except maybe that ridiculous word), but I just explained to you that I've been through a loss, a surgery, two IUIs and three IVFs, and I'm 40. I want to see a medical doctor!"
And... it turns out that there were tons of appointments available that day with another doctor. She gave me an appointment with a doctor I've seen and liked. So, basically, I felt like the receptionist was just trying to sneakily slot me in for my first OB appointment with a midwife without asking me. It felt underhanded and calculating, and I was so annoyed. If I didn't think highly of the doctors I'd seen there, I would want to switch practices. But after the call, while my BP was sky-high, my husband calmed me down by saying that it would be ridiculous to give up on doctors I like over a problem with the support staff. And I know he's right. But man, I picked up the phone with such optimism and joy and by the time I hung up I felt defeated and furious.
Okay! End of my novel. Hope everyone had a nice weekend.
@i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake praying that your transfer goes smoothly and your embies are sticky and strong!! Will be waiting for all the beta updates today!!
@Stairbear I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I'm kinda nervous about calling the OB so I'll be waiting for a while. I LOVED the OB i had before and would hope to have him again but he is now a delivery doc only not a regular OB but I understand that he does step in as an OB/delivery for those who are having multiples so I'm hoping that's in my favor.
Me: 33 DH: 39 Me: Endo, PCOS, DH: low life span and mobility Married and TTC since 12/2008 3 IUI's in 2012 IVF #1 BFN 08/2012 IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013 ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363 US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
@Cowboycorgi looks like cashewchicken is transferring July 24th. Oh no brown spotting? I hope it's nothing since it's not bright red. FX for you today girly.
Me: 33 DH: 39 Me: Endo, PCOS, DH: low life span and mobility Married and TTC since 12/2008 3 IUI's in 2012 IVF #1 BFN 08/2012 IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013 ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363 US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
Lots of luck to @i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake today on your transfer, and @Cowboycorgi on an encouraging beta result. I know the spotting is disconcerting, but the fact that it is brown has got to be reassuring...
I've had a sore throat and have been sniffly and feeling cold since yesterday afternoon, the day after my transfer... Also have extra cm ( that's prob bc of all the progesterone tho)...
I'm considering POAS... when would be the recommended time to test you think? Anxiety is already peaking!! Haha
@colette18, I got my bfp at 8dp2dt or 10dpo. The urge to poas was so strong, I don't know how people wait until beta... but they are probably smarter for it.
Afm: 1st beta 242! Now to wait until Wednesday to find out doubling time... ugh, the waiting continues. Infertility has not taught me patience. Infertility has taught me to hate waiting even more. I hope you girls never have to wait for another thing in life. We have done our waiting.
@Cowboycorgi That's a great beta!!! Did they say anything about the spotting?
Me: 33 DH: 39 Me: Endo, PCOS, DH: low life span and mobility Married and TTC since 12/2008 3 IUI's in 2012 IVF #1 BFN 08/2012 IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013 ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363 US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
@thucks, thank you! The nurse I spoke to said it was pretty common for women going through IVF to get brown spotting, or even light bleeding. She said it could either be implantation bleeding, or a little cervical bleeding from the procedure just making its way out now. She didn't seem to mind it lasting for 3 days, and no spotting today!
@cmiller73 how was your beta today? @cowboycorgi that is a great beta!! Usually brown blood means nothing and im glad the nurse was not concerned.. @colette18 all pregnancies are different as they can be slower to implant so poas is hard to judge when to do it.. Who else was supposed to have beta today?
BUT AFM yesterday i got a wave of nausea out of nowhere with steady backache and today had crazy heartburn..
**TW** My last pregnancy i poas 3dp5dt and got a very very faint + and at 3dp5dt this time it was a - But Girls......this morning at 4 1/2 dp5dt i got a very very faint BFP that got a tad darker later today at 5dp5dt (i had an afternoon transfer)
@momma6angels11 Today's beta was 206 (it more than tripled from Friday!!) I go back in on Wednesday again for blood work and take it from there...
Congrats everyone who had their transfers in the last few days! I haven't been on as much lately so I am out of touch on everyone's timing. Also congrats on those with awesome betas!
Re: June FET
@Stairbear another rising number!! Ill be watching for betas on monday too..
@momma6angels11 Congratulations for being pupo!!
@cmiller73 FX for your numbers to continue to rise.
AFM, my period started so I'm getting ready for FET #2 cycle and started estrogen patches.
I forgot to mention this the other day but OH and I had a lengthy discussion with RE about transferring 3 vs 2 embryos. OH suggested to me that we do 3 so we decided to ask at our last monitoring appt. RE said she would advise to only do 2 as I am young and she doesn't feel the need to go "balls to the wall" with 3 (she actually said that! LOL). She thinks that we are being aggressive enough with transferring 2 day five blasts as opposed to 2 three day embies like last time. I voiced my concerns about the lone embie and going thru the financial and emotional expense of this whole process for our last and worst looking embie (should this cycle fail or we want a 2nd child). She said that if this FET doesn't work then she would prob want me to just do another cycle from scratch. ugh! So in short, there's nothing I want more than for this FET to work!!!
AFM... had the hysteroscopy yesterday and now I'm on 2 weeks antibiotics. And will probably start the prep after I'm done with the it. So probably my FET will be in August.
Hysteroscopy: 2013
IUI #1-2: 2013 BFN
Surgery 10/2015: Planned to start trying again but had a surgery. (Not related to fertility)
Surgery 5/2016: Planned to start trying again but had another surgery. (Not related to fertility)
IUI #3-5 (with Clomid): summer 2016 BFN
IVF #1: 11/2016. 30R; 21M; 20F; 8B (6 day5 & 2 day6); 4 normal after PGS
Medicated FET #1: 1/31/2017 transferred 1 embryo 3AA. BFP. Embryo stopped growing at 6w 1d. MUA at 9w 3d.
Medicated FET #2: June 2017 - cancelled...
Hysteroscopy #2: June 2017
Medicated FET #2: 8/7/2017 transferred 1 embryo 5BB. BFP. Ended in CP.
Medicated FET #3: 10/11/2017 transferred 1 embryo 3AA. BFN
ERA: December 2017 - need an extra 12 hours of PIO
Medicated FET #4: 1/24/2018 transferred 1 embryo 4AA. BFN
Out of embryos.
IVF #2: 03/2018.
Side note: today I fell up the stairs at work, lol so embarrassing.. At least that distracted me a bit hehe elbow and knee got the brunt of it..
Anyway I've been on Crinone for a few days now, and it's starting to bother my nether regions, lots of dryness and gunky build up. I'm kinda scared to tell my RE as I don't want to risk cancelling my cycle...I guess I'll just have to grin and bear it, since I definitely don't want to switch to the poi....*sigh* the joys of ivf
@cmiller73 I was getting worried about you glad to hear from you!! hoping the double numbers are on its way!! You're still in it!!
colette18 my nurse mentions once it gets too clunky to just take that out...mine felt like a stuck tampon.
i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake kind of interesting that your RE doesn't want to do all 3? I get it too. Instead of doing the 2 strongest, why not do one strong and the weaker one? Hopefully you wont have that issue of the what to do next. good luck!!
Questions for all!!
Besides acupuncture before and after transfer did anyone keep going leading up to the transfer? Once a week? Twice a week? or after??
And the Sex question, once you started prep no sex? I basically dont have a sex life doing all these back to back ivf cycles so just curious.
thanks!!
Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN
IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10.
IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks
IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal
IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!!
IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!!
IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
As for sex I only avoid it for a week after transfer. We had protected sex before transfer, waited a week, and now back to regular unprotected sex.
As far a sex goes the only time I'm told not to is during the TWW, protected or unprotected, but it is actually on our med schedule to have sex 2 days prior to transfer.
Me: Endo, PCOS,
DH: low life span and mobility
Married and TTC since 12/2008
3 IUI's in 2012
IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's
FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP
FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP
FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363
US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
Me: Endo, PCOS,
DH: low life span and mobility
Married and TTC since 12/2008
3 IUI's in 2012
IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's
FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP
FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP
FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363
US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
after transfer what symptoms did you have if any and how soon did you poas?
Thanks @nim81
@Hopeful_mom i was told no sex until beta
@colette18 praying you have a smooth transfer tomorrow and that the embies are sticky ones!!
AFM I slept so good since my transfer and im just so tired ...before the transfer i was having trouble sleeping hoping and praying this is a good thing..
AFM, Beta #2 was good but again not great. (being blunt is helping me haha) I had a 62% increase so yes, a good increase and basically what they say is what should be happening every 48 hours or so (at least thats what doctor google says). I stay the course over the weekend with my meds and go back on Monday.... FX Lucky lil #10 wanted to be fashionably late to the uterus party and is now settling in nicely
I have also experienced cramping, breast tenderness, bloat (oh the bloat), gas, and extra sweaty... but I'm pretty sure that is all the PIO.
TW:
the only other time I have been pregnant I experienced the low back pain as well. I was convinced my period was coming any second because it felt exactly like the start of my period.
@colette18 i hope all went well today with your transfer!! And you are PUPO!!
@kaseycoco all you can really see is a white blob but you can definitely see it on the screen and on the photo.
@i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake omg i'm so sorry about your accident, that's so scary but I'm glad you're ok.
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
... and the TWW begins! when is your first BETA? Mine is July 3rd...
Cowboycorgi thucks thanks for the info. ladies! Glad to hear ppl resume normal activities, I just have this feeling OH will have no part of it, guess I better try to get it all in now
cmiller73 thats good news! slow an steady wins the race! hoping for triple digits on monday
colette18 yay! sending you super sticky vibes! sounds like you had a nice day! hoping the 2ww goes by quickly! Will you POAS?
Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN
IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle RE thought I would get at least 10.
IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F, 3DT)-BFP with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks
IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal
IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!!
IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!!
IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!
@Cowboycorgi haha thanks, I have a good feeling about it too!
@Hopeful_mom I hadn't thought about it. I'm gonna try to resist testing I think... we'll see how that works out! Lol
I had an infuriating phone call on Friday afternoon, and I'm still fuming more than 48 hours later. My RE can see me through nine weeks of pregnancy, so I called my OB/gyn's office to make an appointment for the 9-week mark. (Hope I didn't jinx things by calling that early, but I wanted to get on their calendar.) I love the doctor that I've seen at this practice, but the receptionist I spoke with could not have been more unpleasant.
I called and said, "I'm a 40-year-old patient of Dr. G's, and I'm pregnant after IVF, and I wanted to make an appointment to see her at 9 weeks after I've been discharged from my RE."
Surly receptionist: "Well, you would see all our doctors throughout a pregnancy. Not just Dr. G." [No "congratulations" or warmth, but that's fine. Just don't be rude.]
Me: "I totally understand that I need to rotate through, but I'd love to start with Dr. G, given that she's the one who first referred me to ART, and I've been through two IUIs, three IVFs, a miscarriage, and surgery to remove an ovarian cyst, and she consulted with me about the surgery."
Surly receptionist: "Well, Dr. G is on vacation the week you say you are at 9 weeks."
Me: "What about the next week?"
SR: "She's on vacation then too."
Me: "Okay, I'll see a different doctor then."
SR: "Okay, I have you down to see Kerry Smith at 1 pm."
Me [wondering why she didn't say "doctor Smith"]: "Is Kerry Smith an MD?"
SR: "She's a midwife."
Me [pissed]: "I have nothing against midwifery (except maybe that ridiculous word), but I just explained to you that I've been through a loss, a surgery, two IUIs and three IVFs, and I'm 40. I want to see a medical doctor!"
And... it turns out that there were tons of appointments available that day with another doctor. She gave me an appointment with a doctor I've seen and liked. So, basically, I felt like the receptionist was just trying to sneakily slot me in for my first OB appointment with a midwife without asking me. It felt underhanded and calculating, and I was so annoyed. If I didn't think highly of the doctors I'd seen there, I would want to switch practices. But after the call, while my BP was sky-high, my husband calmed me down by saying that it would be ridiculous to give up on doctors I like over a problem with the support staff. And I know he's right. But man, I picked up the phone with such optimism and joy and by the time I hung up I felt defeated and furious.
Okay! End of my novel. Hope everyone had a nice weekend.
Will be waiting for all the beta updates today!!
Yes today is a big day lots of Beta's and @i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake GL with transfer today.
Me: Endo, PCOS,
DH: low life span and mobility
Married and TTC since 12/2008
3 IUI's in 2012
IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's
FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP
FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP
FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363
US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
Did I miss @cashewchicken, transfer? It's not listed on the spreadsheet, so I think you are the last June girl.
AFM: just got poked, nervously waiting beta after 3 days of brown spotting.
Oh no brown spotting? I hope it's nothing since it's not bright red. FX for you today girly.
Me: Endo, PCOS,
DH: low life span and mobility
Married and TTC since 12/2008
3 IUI's in 2012
IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's
FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP
FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP
FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363
US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
Ill update with beta number when I get the call. I appreciate the FX!
I'm considering POAS... when would be the recommended time to test you think? Anxiety is already peaking!! Haha
Afm: 1st beta 242! Now to wait until Wednesday to find out doubling time... ugh, the waiting continues. Infertility has not taught me patience. Infertility has taught me to hate waiting even more. I hope you girls never have to wait for another thing in life. We have done our waiting.
Me: Endo, PCOS,
DH: low life span and mobility
Married and TTC since 12/2008
3 IUI's in 2012
IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's
FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN
FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP
FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP
FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363
US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
She didn't seem to mind it lasting for 3 days, and no spotting today!
@cowboycorgi that is a great beta!! Usually brown blood means nothing and im glad the nurse was not concerned..
@colette18 all pregnancies are different as they can be slower to implant so poas is hard to judge when to do it..
Who else was supposed to have beta today?
BUT AFM yesterday i got a wave of nausea out of nowhere with steady backache and today had crazy heartburn..
**TW**
My last pregnancy i poas 3dp5dt and got a very very faint + and at 3dp5dt this time it was a -
But Girls......this morning at 4 1/2 dp5dt i got a very very faint BFP that got a tad darker later today at 5dp5dt (i had an afternoon transfer)
Congrats everyone who had their transfers in the last few days! I haven't been on as much lately so I am out of touch on everyone's timing. Also congrats on those with awesome betas!