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  • @momma6angels11 Congrats on the + test! I'm really happy for you! 
    momma6angels11
  • @stairbear what was your 3rd beta today?
    @kaseycoco when is your ultrasound?
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  • @momma6angels11, congrats!! FX for a great beta! 

    @cmiller73, tripling fridays number? You already have an overachiever on your hands! 
    momma6angels11
  • @cmiller73 Congrats on your little fighter! That must have been a long and stressful weekend, and then the news was better than you could have hoped for! I'm so happy for you.

    @momma6angels11 Congrats on the positive! A line is a line! Sounds like you come from the Stairbear school of compulsively peeing on sticks. :)

    AFM, my beta today was 3218, which is great. But then I went for my first run since before the transfer (I'm a semi-serious runner), and I really took it easy and only went 2.5 miles, but afterwards I felt crampy which made me realllly nervous. I am not going to run again until after the ultrasound, which is 10 looooong days away. I'm so afraid it will show a blighted ovum or an otherwise nonviable pregnancy. You're so right, @Cowboycorgi that the waiting is brutal. And there's waiting at every stage... waiting for retrieval, waiting to see how many fertilize, waiting for how many make it to blast, waiting for PGS results, waiting for transfer, waiting for first beta, second beta, third beta, ultrasound... It never ends.

    momma6angels11
  • Stairbear just have to say you're a smart cookie...not even sure i wouldve realized the midwife thing - wouldnt have crossed my mind that was an option.  I'm thrilled u got such a great beta!  And i'm sure you're super fit and an athlete but girl you worked SO HARD to get here, you'll have forever to run!!  My gf was 40 when she got pregnant and just went for a light brisk walk with a friend and starting spotting and her dr said, you're older and its not necessary and to take it easy.  Now she was not like you exercising all the time, but this was just walking.  Let your bean get all comfy cozy and then later on bounce it around like crazy ;)  Maybe biking would be less on the body right now?

    @Cowboycorgi yay on a great beta - looking forward to doubling away!!  I used to have patience...I dont know what that is anymore ;)  

    momma6angels11 awwww how exciting - let that line keep getting darker everyday!!

    @cmiller73 u got this girl - thats so exciting!!


    History of TTC in spoiler box
    TTC since 2014
    Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
    7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN 
    IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle :( RE thought I would get at least 10.
    IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
    IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F,  3DT)-BFP  with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks  :'( 
    IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP  (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal  :'( 
    IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! :)
    IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! :)
    IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!

    momma6angels11Stairbear
  • @colette18 thank you!! Have you decided when you will poas?
    *TW*
    @stairbear thank you!! Yes i definitely couldn't hold back..lol..i was poas everyday when i hit 3days past and nothing...i had to rethink if i should keep testing or not..then i thought about the fact that the first transfer was with 5aa's and this time with a 4, 3, and a morula .. i just compared tests and they match up.. so these are 1 1/2days behind?? 
    End*tw*
    Yes i definitely wouldn't be running just yet..maybe once you pass 12 weeks..
    @Hopeful_mom Thank you.. yes thats what im praying for..
  • edited June 2017
    @i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake how are you doing today 1dp transfer? I haven't seen an update yet,  i hope all is ok and those embies are getting snug..when will your beta be?
    i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake
  • @momma6angels11 congrats!! so happy for you
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
    momma6angels11
  • edited June 2017
    @brooklyngirl18 thank you!! When is your next ultrasound?
  • @momma6angels11 I go back next Wednesday July 5. I'll be 7w3d I think.

    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
    momma6angels11Hopeful_mom
  • Hi Ladies! So sorry I didn't update after my transfer yesterday...it went perfectly! Transferred two hatching blasts (courtesy of assisted hatching), OH did acupuncture on me immediately before and immediately after and my Mom was there for support. The rest of the day OH and I just sat on the couch and ate a bunch of food (I started my pineapple & brazil nuts) so it couldn't have gone any better. This past weekend has been pretty rough since the car accident, I've been very sore with headaches and neck pain but it's improving each day. Just been trying to rest a bunch. Thanks everyone for checking on me! My beta is on 7/6 (10dp6dt)!!!
    momma6angels11brooklyngirl18Hopeful_mom
  • thucksthucks member
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    Looks like July 5th is US day for alot of us. I hope its a great day for everyone. 
    @i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake I'm glad transfer went great yesterday. 2 hatching blasts sounds perfect. 

    I've been trying to keep the spread sheet updated. Here is the link: 
    https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1Xpf5tj_Dx9eDL8pBzCId0xAfjuUc8OsS6TQGhDHAieo/edit#gid=0
    Me: 33  DH: 39
    Me: Endo, PCOS, 
    DH: low life span and mobility 
    Married and TTC since 12/2008
    3 IUI's in 2012
    IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
    IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
    ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's 
    FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP 
    FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP 
    FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
    FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363  
    US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
    Insta acct ionlywant1more


    momma6angels11i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cakebrooklyngirl18
  • @joneser1281 thank you!! Definitely praying for all of you who had to move to different months!
    joneser1281
  • @Hopeful_mom You are so right -- now's the time to let my nearly-microscopic bean nestle in all cozy, and I can bounce him/her around when I am safely in the second trimester. I know I've worked so hard to get to this point, and so after not reacting well to yesterday's run, I am at peace with letting my fitness slide for the next several weeks, even though I like having the next day's workout as something to think about/occupy my mind. But I am going to really take it easy, at the very least until next Thursday when I go to my first ultrasound and see what's  happening in there.

    So happy about all the recent transfers, BFPs and encouraging betas. Wishing the best for everyone on here!
    momma6angels11Hopeful_mom
  • Hey ladies, as June is wrapping up and our FET cycles are taking different courses, where will you find yourself on the bump in the next few months? 

    Bmb? Another FET month? A fresh IVF month? Taking a break? Paif? Hanging out with the complete newbs and hardcore vets in 1stTri? 

    Im asking because I want to keep intouch with your fertility journeys, but for those that are moving to BMB we will be split between Feb/Mar. 
    Of course the girls that have BFN, CP, or other forms of miscarriage might all be headed off into different directions. 

    My plan is to head to the March BMB once it is created, or if this baby doesn't end up being my take home baby, I'll be taking a break but on TB infertility forum. 
    momma6angels11brooklyngirl18
  • My plan is to be in the march board, but it hasn't been created yet.. hopefully it will be soon. With me, there is still a possibility of being in the Feb board or even the January board.. i guess time will tell. But when that time comes ill update here FIRST!!
    Cowboycorgibrooklyngirl18
  • @cmiller73 and @cowboycorgi im looking forward to seeing your beta # today..
    Cowboycorgi
  • thucksthucks member
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    @Cowboycorgi I'm planning on being in the BMB February board, assuming my due date is Feb 1 . I've been thinking about being in the PAIF 1st trimester board but may just lurk there.  
    Me: 33  DH: 39
    Me: Endo, PCOS, 
    DH: low life span and mobility 
    Married and TTC since 12/2008
    3 IUI's in 2012
    IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
    IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
    ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's 
    FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP 
    FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP 
    FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
    FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363  
    US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
    Insta acct ionlywant1more


    momma6angels11Cowboycorgi
  • @cowboycorgi that's a great question, I'm not sure. I joined my bmb for DS and i still talk to some of those girls every day and they are some of my best friends but idk if I fit in with a regular bmb given all I've been through this time around. I might check out PAIF or the feb bmb and see how it is. 
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
    momma6angels11Cowboycorgi
  • thucksthucks member
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    Can I vent for just a second? TW all over this. I'm feeling pretty shitty today. We got a call the other day that DH's Grandfather is in his last days. DH's mom lives with us and takes care of the twins. She hopped a plane this morning to go be with her dad. DH acts like he doesn't want to go but I feel like A he needs to and B deep down he wants to. But I have barely any PTO cause I've used it all for FET's I have 4 days left for the year and I still have a bunch of doc apt's to fill. I only have a backup baby sitter for a few hours a day so he has to stay home to be with the girls. I kinda feel like my desire for this child is trumping his ability to be with family right now. His brother called me yesterday and was saying that is bogus that DH isn't going and kinda got nasty with me but no one knows that we have been doing all this. Kinda hard to deal with today. 
    Me: 33  DH: 39
    Me: Endo, PCOS, 
    DH: low life span and mobility 
    Married and TTC since 12/2008
    3 IUI's in 2012
    IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
    IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
    ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's 
    FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP 
    FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP 
    FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
    FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363  
    US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
    Insta acct ionlywant1more


  • @thucks I'm sorry you're in such a tough position and your bil got nasty with you, he was way out of line. Family stuff is so hard but don't beat yourself up. You're doing the best you can given the circumstances.
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
    momma6angels11
  • **lurking**
    I have basically been following this thread from the beginning and congrats to all you BFP mamas to be and also GL to those mamas to be that hasn't gotten BFP yet but in the process.

    @thucks Do you have anyone that can help out for a day or two so your DH can spend some time with his grandfather? Also, I hope you told your BIL to piss off because he was really out of place. I really hope things work out in both your favor because we all know what it likes to not be able to say goodbye to a love one and I'm sure your MIL can use the support right now as well. Do what's best for your family hun and take it easy as well.


    Me:28 DH:33
    01/10/12 : First ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    Dx:PCOS
    2012-2015: TTC #2 (2 rounds of clomid + metformin)
    04/13/15: Second ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    02/29/16: Third ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    Tubal Infertility
    Married: 2/11/17  <3
    7/21/17 : Consult with RE  :#
    10/12/17 : Second consult with a different RE
    1st IVF Cycle scheduled for Feb 2018
    02/13/18 : ER
    (22 follies,16m Eggs, 11 fert, 5 blasts)
    02/18/18 : ET 
    - 2 beautiful blast 3AA,2AA (highest quality)
    02/27/18 : First Beta - 193!!!
    03/01/18 : Second Beta - 546


    momma6angels11
  • thucksthucks member
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    @mrsa2017 I was trying to get it covered and I think I can for a couple days. But he keeps telling me not to worry about it. But deep down I do. He tried to get my BIL to go last week with him and he said no. So it's not fair that he's being this way. 
    Me: 33  DH: 39
    Me: Endo, PCOS, 
    DH: low life span and mobility 
    Married and TTC since 12/2008
    3 IUI's in 2012
    IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
    IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
    ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's 
    FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP 
    FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP 
    FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
    FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363  
    US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
    Insta acct ionlywant1more


  • @thucks, that is a no win scenario! I'm so sorry that no matter what you do you can't make everyone happy. I know my husband isn't super sentimental, and he would probably be saying the same things your husband is saying. His sister would call to bitch me out knowing they can't get to him. So in these cases I just let my husband make up his own mind and not push. It isn't the best way to handle it, but best for my sanity. 

    @cmiller73, woowee!!! That is awesome news! 
  • thucksthucks member
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    @cmiller73 THat's awesome I'm so glad it keeps growing and growing. 
    @Cowboycorgi That's kinda how he is. I'll just leave him be and hope that this 1 on 1 time with the girls will be good for him. Although I highly doubt he will attempt to leave the house the next few days. lol 
    Me: 33  DH: 39
    Me: Endo, PCOS, 
    DH: low life span and mobility 
    Married and TTC since 12/2008
    3 IUI's in 2012
    IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
    IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
    ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's 
    FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP 
    FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP 
    FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
    FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363  
    US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
    Insta acct ionlywant1more


  • @thucks I agree with @Cowboycorgi just let him know that it's up to him but just have your back up on stand by in case he chooses to go. 

    Both of your in laws needs to be put into their place, really really out of line smh.
    Me:28 DH:33
    01/10/12 : First ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    Dx:PCOS
    2012-2015: TTC #2 (2 rounds of clomid + metformin)
    04/13/15: Second ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    02/29/16: Third ectopic pregnancy  :'(
    Tubal Infertility
    Married: 2/11/17  <3
    7/21/17 : Consult with RE  :#
    10/12/17 : Second consult with a different RE
    1st IVF Cycle scheduled for Feb 2018
    02/13/18 : ER
    (22 follies,16m Eggs, 11 fert, 5 blasts)
    02/18/18 : ET 
    - 2 beautiful blast 3AA,2AA (highest quality)
    02/27/18 : First Beta - 193!!!
    03/01/18 : Second Beta - 546


  • thucksthucks member
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    Thanks ya'll for letting me vent just a little frustrated today. MIL is landing right now in San Diego so far so good on that. 

    @cmiller73 Did you get an US apt yet? 

    What are our restrictions right now? Can I go swimming or have bd yet? 
    Me: 33  DH: 39
    Me: Endo, PCOS, 
    DH: low life span and mobility 
    Married and TTC since 12/2008
    3 IUI's in 2012
    IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
    IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
    ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's 
    FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP 
    FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP 
    FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
    FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363  
    US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
    Insta acct ionlywant1more


  • @cmiller73 Awesome news im so happy your number 10 is proving to be a fighter!! When will your ultrasound be? Or are they doing another beta?
  • @thucks im so sorry that you are going through this..from my experience I would definitely leave it up to your husband!!
  • @cowboycorgi how did your beta go today?
  • You guys, I'm only 2dp6dt and I'm already sweatin' my TWW! Last time I remained pretty cool until about 5 days past but I'm just terrified that I don't feel any different. The only good thing is that my last transfer was 3 days after retrieval and I was just off the stim meds so my body was all out of whack and there's no way I could tell the difference between side effects and symptoms and this time I actually have a level of 'normal' and will hopefully be able to feel if I am pregnant. But then again it's so so early in my possible pregnancy that any symptoms would prob be imperceptible. AHHHH!!! I feel like I'm going crazy. Suggestions or advice welcome!
    momma6angels11brooklyngirl18
  • @momma6angels11, just got the call. 469, so not quite double, but good enough for my clinic! Ultrasound on July 11th
    i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cakemomma6angels11cmiller73brooklyngirl18
  • thucksthucks member
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    @Cowboycorgi Yay that's still a great number. 
    @i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake keep calm girly you got this. You'll be ok it's still way way early hun. I'm 20dp6dt I have no "real" symptoms besides knowing that I'm prego and probably with twins. 
    Me: 33  DH: 39
    Me: Endo, PCOS, 
    DH: low life span and mobility 
    Married and TTC since 12/2008
    3 IUI's in 2012
    IVF #1 BFN 08/2012
    IVF #2 11/2012 Twin Girls born at 35wks 7/2013
    ER 4/2016 Freeze all 11 embryo's 
    FET #1 5/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #2 7/2016 Transfer 1 BFN 
    FET #3 09/2016 Thawed 3 Transfered 1 CP 
    FET #4 1/2017 Transfer 2 CP 
    FET #5 April 24, 2017 Transfering 1 BFN
    FET #6 June 8, 2017 Transfer 2 Beta #1 721 Beta #2 1363  
    US on 7/5 1 baby found EDD 2/24/18
    Insta acct ionlywant1more


    momma6angels11i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cakeCowboycorgi
  • @i-wanna-b-the-girl-w-most-cake relax and take a deep breath.. some people dont get any symptoms  regardless of the outcome.. i know its very hard..trust me..i was going crazy and even pos as early as day 1!! Lol! The lord has this!!
    @cowboycorgi that is a great beta number regardless of the doubling time..
  • thucks - I was actually looking at our spreadsheet today and at your beta #s and I thought "I wonder if she has two in there?" Lol! How would you feel about twins? I'm guessing since you transferred two you're OK with it...
    momma6angels11
  • momma6angels11 - Day 1??? HAHA!!! I love it and knew you guys would understand! I feel blessed to have this group. Truly. 
    momma6angels11
  • @thucks sorry you're in a tough situation, but your OH is a big boy and you'll support him the best way you can.  Try not to make yourself sick over it.

    @cmiller73 congrats glad u got a lil fighter on your hands!  grow grow grow!!

    History of TTC in spoiler box
    TTC since 2014
    Unexplained Infertility - but I am 40...Low AMH .30
    7 - IUI (50mg-150mg Clomid) Feb - August 2016 all BFN 
    IVF#1 August 2016 (Antagonist protocol 4/5 eggs) Cancelled cycle :( RE thought I would get at least 10.
    IVF#2 Sept 2016 (microdose luporn pro - disappearing follies, ONLY ONE, convert to IUI) BFN
    IVF#3 November 2016 (4 ER, 3 F,  3DT)-BFP  with TWINS // MC both at almost 10wks  :'( 
    IVF#4 March 2017 //EPP  (10 ER (1 wonky so 9 ER) 7F, 3B (5AB, (2)5BB) PGS tested- ALL abnormal  :'( 
    IVF#5 April 2017 // EPP (7 ER, 7F yes! 6B) 2/5 day 4/6 day - 2 PGS normal! yes!! :)
    IVF#6 May 2017 // Antagonist didn't have time for Estrogen Priming...(4 ER, 3 F, 3B) (5AB, (2) 5BB) 2 PGS normal, yes!! :)
    IVF#7 June 2017 // EPP praying this is it and then on to an FET!

  • cmiller73cmiller73 member
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    edited June 2017
    Thanks everyone for the positivity and good thoughts :)

    The nurses say they will review my numbers and progression with my RE tomorrow when he is in the office and call me with instructions (either another beta Friday or an U/S date)... so we shall see!
    momma6angels11Hopeful_mom
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