@BusyZee How do they do that? It has always been an "all or nothing" experience for me.
Also, because I am avoiding the pain of waxing, I had DH use his hair trimmer on me a week or so ago and am pretty pleased with the results.
They don't really do that, you just keep your hair so short(trim) that most of it can't come out lol. But some will come out and itl be enough to take off the edge this time around and next time around;)
@chiquita928 I've always been a shaver, too. Even if my husband agreed to take over (which I can't even imagine asking him) I don't think I'd be comfortable with it. Now that I can't see what I'm doing, I'm just trimming versus shaving but I'm still worried about my poor doctors' and nurses' view. I don't know what else to do!
@GlitterFish I get waxed and I go every 4 weeks now that I am pregnant because my hair grows faster pregnant. I would say 2 weeks out would probably be good. It's not going to feel great, but I would just get it done in one go. Even after getting waxed 10+ years, when I am pregnant, it is more sensitive for almost that whole day I get it done. But I think it's worth it because then you don't have to worry about shaving/trimming for awhile.
I typically use the trimmers, and although we don't have many boundaries, DH was horrified when I told him why the full length mirror was in the shower.... So I guess that is one we do have! Lol
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Here's a copy of my hospital bag list for the whole family. This is in the ideal circumstance that we are at the hospital that is ten minutes from our home and our hospital stay is about three to four days. I just went on my hospital tour today and I will be removing a few items. But I left the list mostly unedited for someone who may not be able to get the same items I can from my hospital. Feel free to copy and paste what you need.
Mommy Basics:
1. Makeup and Toiletry Bags
2. Warm Blanket
3. Emergency Snack Bag and Flavor Packets
4. 16 oz Cup and Thermos
5. Comfy Shoes
6. Underwear (X3), Bras (X2) and Socks (X4)
7. Nightgown and Nursing Pads
8. Towel and Washcloths (X3)
9. Going Home Outfit
10. Wet and Dirty Bags
After-Delivery Kit: (Padsicle Method)
1. Overnight Pads and Depends
2. Mints, Lip Balm, Germ-X and Tissues
3. Patch Me Up Kit and Nursing Cream
4. Ice Pack and Hot Water Bag
5. Tums and Hemorrhoid Wipes
6. Robe and Comfy Underwear
7. Notebook and Pen
8. Thank You Gifts and Cards For Staff
9. Emergency Information (See Pink Folder)
Mommy's Toiletry Bag:
1. Body Wash, Tush and Facial Wipes
2. Conditioner and Shampoo
3. Toothbrush, Toothpaste and Mouthwash
4. Deodorant and Perfume
5. Razor and Shaving Cream
6. Comb and Brush
7. Q-Tips and Cotton
8. Sponge Rounds/Squares
9. Shower Cap and Night Cap
10. Tissues and Nail Clippers
Pumpkin Basics:
1. Pre-Pumped Milk in Cooler
2. Diaper Bag and Changing Pad (Already Packed)
-Mittens, Socks and Hats
-Swaddlers (X2) and Extra Tush Pads For Car Seat Blow Outs
-Baby Clothes (Bodysuits x2; PM, N, 0-3 M)
-Pacifiers and Bottles
-Bibs and Burp Cloths
-Going Home Outfits (X1; PM, N, 0-3 M)
-Blankets (Receiving and Thermal)
3. Infant Car Seat and Stroller
Daddy's Toiletry Bag:
1. Body Wash, Tush and Facial Wipes
2. Cologne and Deodorant
3. Toothbrush, Toothpaste and Mouthwash
4. Q-Tips and Cotton
5. Tissues and Germ-X
DD Basics:
1. Car Toys
2. Healthy Snacks and Meals
3. Extra Outfits (X4 - X6)
4. Sippy Cups (X3)
5. Diapers, Pull-Ups and Wipes
6. Sweater, Socks and Shoes
7. Teddy Bear and Blankets (Light/Heavy)
8. Toothbrush and Toothpaste
9. Grooming Kit and Medicine Kit
10. Pacifiers, Bibs and Burp Cloths
11. Emergency Distraction Toy
12. Car Seat and Baby Carrier
Daddy Basics:
1. Pillows (X2) and Warm Blanket
2. Healthy Snacks, Mints and Flavor Packets
3. Shirts (X2), Underwear (X3) and Socks (X3)
4. Hoodie, Sweatshirt and Pants
5. Comfortable Shoes
6. Towel and Washcloths (X3)
7. Toiletry Bag
8. Mega Thermos
9. Wet and Dirty Bags
10. Laptop with Hard Drive
11. Notebook and Pen
12. Cellphone, Charger Cables and Plugs
13. Charging Cells
14. Empty Bag for Hospital Stuff
Baby Olivia Born October 28, 2015 Baby Pumpkin Due July 17, 2017
@Xath Your comment made me chuckle and you have definitely made my day. But don't feel bad, pregnancy hormones and lack of sleep can make anyone go a bit out of it.
I composed the list myself and I wanted to give thank you cards and small gifts this time. When I had my DD I was totally unprepared (medical emergency) and some of the nurses were amazing, understanding and helpful. To this day I feel guilty that all I could say was thank you and I don't even know their names...
But my packing list will be about 10+ items smaller due to the new information I acquired on my hospital tour yesterday. The L&D nurse said to just bring toiletries, clothes, and any items that make me feel comfortable. Because they basically take care of any needs that I or baby may have. They even let us see what was in the welcome kit, the postpartum kit, and the going home kit. All three kits are already included in the price of your hospital stay and she said it was just better to take advantage of it.
But if you have any other questions, I'll be more than happy to answer them.
Baby Olivia Born October 28, 2015 Baby Pumpkin Due July 17, 2017
No, my MIL is going to meet us at the hospital and pick her up. But we do have my sisters on stand by to do the same if my MIL is going to take a while or etc. And everyone lives within 35 minutes of the hospital I intend to visit. Worst case scenario, we have light plans with a family friend who can stay my home to take care of her while DH stays for the delivery part.
Baby Olivia Born October 28, 2015 Baby Pumpkin Due July 17, 2017
My MIL told me that if I do become over due, I can try pumping to jump start the process naturally. I'm not sure if it is true or will work. But it was just something I included on the list as a reminder if I needed or wanted to try it.
Baby Olivia Born October 28, 2015 Baby Pumpkin Due July 17, 2017
My MIL told me that if I do become over due, I can try pumping to jump start the process naturally. I'm not sure if it is true or will work. But it was just something I included on the list as a reminder if I needed or wanted to try it.
Even if you used your pump ahead of time, I don't understand why you would need to bring A cooler to the hospital. Just bring your boobs?
Here's a copy of my hospital bag list for the whole family. This is in the ideal circumstance that we are at the hospital that is ten minutes from our home and our hospital stay is about three to four days. I just went on my hospital tour today and I will be removing a few items. But I left the list mostly unedited for someone who may not be able to get the same items I can from my hospital. Feel free to copy and paste what you need.
Mommy Basics:
1. Makeup and Toiletry Bags
2. Warm Blanket
3. Emergency Snack Bag and Flavor Packets
4. 16 oz Cup and Thermos
5. Comfy Shoes
6. Underwear (X3), Bras (X2) and Socks (X4)
7. Nightgown and Nursing Pads
8. Towel and Washcloths (X3)
9. Going Home Outfit
10. Wet and Dirty Bags
After-Delivery Kit: (Padsicle Method)
1. Overnight Pads and Depends
2. Mints, Lip Balm, Germ-X and Tissues
3. Patch Me Up Kit and Nursing Cream
4. Ice Pack and Hot Water Bag
5. Tums and Hemorrhoid Wipes
6. Robe and Comfy Underwear
7. Notebook and Pen
8. Thank You Gifts and Cards For Staff
9. Emergency Information (See Pink Folder)
Mommy's Toiletry Bag:
1. Body Wash, Tush and Facial Wipes
2. Conditioner and Shampoo
3. Toothbrush, Toothpaste and Mouthwash
4. Deodorant and Perfume
5. Razor and Shaving Cream
6. Comb and Brush
7. Q-Tips and Cotton
8. Sponge Rounds/Squares
9. Shower Cap and Night Cap
10. Tissues and Nail Clippers
Pumpkin Basics:
1. Pre-Pumped Milk in Cooler
2. Diaper Bag and Changing Pad (Already Packed)
-Mittens, Socks and Hats
-Swaddlers (X2) and Extra Tush Pads For Car Seat Blow Outs
@Xath Your comment made me chuckle and you have definitely made my day. But don't feel bad, pregnancy hormones and lack of sleep can make anyone go a bit out of it.
I composed the list myself and I wanted to give thank you cards and small gifts this time. When I had my DD I was totally unprepared (medical emergency) and some of the nurses were amazing, understanding and helpful. To this day I feel guilty that all I could say was thank you and I don't even know their names...
But my packing list will be about 10+ items smaller due to the new information I acquired on my hospital tour yesterday. The L&D nurse said to just bring toiletries, clothes, and any items that make me feel comfortable. Because they basically take care of any needs that I or baby may have. They even let us see what was in the welcome kit, the postpartum kit, and the going home kit. All three kits are already included in the price of your hospital stay and she said it was just better to take advantage of it.
But if you have any other questions, I'll be more than happy to answer them.
My MIL told me that if I do become over due, I can try pumping to jump start the process naturally. I'm not sure if it is true or will work. But it was just something I included on the list as a reminder if I needed or wanted to try it.
Even if you used your pump ahead of time, I don't understand why you would need to bring A cooler to the hospital. Just bring your boobs?
That is true, but if there was a medical issue with myself (as there was with my previous child) breastfeeding could possibly not be an option at that time. So if I was able to pump a head of time, my DH could just come home and grab said milk instead of having someone make that choice for me. If not, I would put my baby on formula to avoid extra time added to our stay due to complications.
As I said before, it's just there in case someone finds it useful. Everyone's birthing experiences are different and I made my list to tailor to my own needs, worries, and previous experiences.
Baby Olivia Born October 28, 2015 Baby Pumpkin Due July 17, 2017
My MIL told me that if I do become over due, I can try pumping to jump start the process naturally. I'm not sure if it is true or will work. But it was just something I included on the list as a reminder if I needed or wanted to try it.
Even if you used your pump ahead of time, I don't understand why you would need to bring A cooler to the hospital. Just bring your boobs?
That is true, but if there was a medical issue with myself (as there was with my previous child) breastfeeding could possibly not be an option at that time. So if I was able to pump a head of time, my DH could just come home and grab said milk instead of having someone make that choice for me. If not, I would put my baby on formula to avoid extra time added to our stay due to complications.
As I said before, it's just there in case someone finds it useful. Everyone's birthing experiences are different and I made my list to tailor to my own needs, worries, and previous experiences.
I actually had a feeling when I was pregnant with DS that I wouldn't be able to breastfeed him within that first hour or two after birth so I hand expressed about 8 oz of colostrum (I was leaking a lot so I basically just collected it instead of letting it leak all over my bra) from weeks 35 on. Well my gut instincts were right and he had some complications that had him in the nursery for the first hour and a half after birth so my husband was able to give him my colostrum in a syringe instead of giving him formula. It worked for us, I plan on doing the same thing this time as well. If you don't end up using it, great but just in case you can't feed them immediately for whatever reason at least it's there.
I mean some doctors will tell you that you can after a certain week. I don't think it's frowned upon? I'm sure if I tried to do any of that I'd get plenty of colostrum..I'd just prefer to not put myself into labor at almost 36 weeks.
nah @rae1-3 when I hit 39 weeks my drs suggested I try pumping to get things started- it didn't work and hurt like hell but it does cause the uterus to contract which is why you wouldn't want to do it too early. They say nipple stimulation will help progression in labor too.
Someone can correct me if I am wrong - but It's my understand that you aren't supposed to pump before delivery.
If you're past a certain amount of weeks it's generally ok depending on the advice of your provider. I'm still nursing my son which also contracts the uterus but my providers are not concerned. I also hand expressed, I didn't pump.
@Knottie22668383 you sure do have a lot of lists, you're going to have a lot of stuff to bring home. I mean do you really plan on shaving your legs right after giving birth?
@Knottie22668383 you sure do have a lot of lists, you're going to have a lot of stuff to bring home. I mean do you really plan on shaving your legs right after giving birth?
@Knottie22668383 you sure do have a lot of lists, you're going to have a lot of stuff to bring home. I mean do you really plan on shaving your legs right after giving birth?
I shaved my underarms. I would not have wanted to go 2-3 days without that option. It certainly doesn't have to be done, but helped me feel more normal.
To be fair I'm pretty minimalistic but I bring a razor for under my arms. 3-4 nights I'd go nuts if I couldn't shave. I don't remember caring about my legs after abdominal surgery though lol.
There are a TON of unnecessary items on that (and all) lists. FTMs...think about what your hospital provides, and how you think you will feel after a huge strain on your body. It will help you to prioritize your bags. Think about how much you will want to shave/makeup/etc. We're all different, but I will tell you that you should treat this as a short hospital stay, where if you forget something small, it won't be the end of the world. I know "OMG baby" is the biggest event in your world, but you will probably not miss anything you forget. And stores exist...anything you truly wish you had, you can always get one if it's that important.
There are a TON of unnecessary items on that (and all) lists. FTMs...think about what your hospital provides, and how you think you will feel after a huge strain on your body. It will help you to prioritize your bags. Think about how much you will want to shave/makeup/etc. We're all different, but I will tell you that you should treat this as a short hospital stay, where if you forget something small, it won't be the end of the world. I know "OMG baby" is the biggest event in your world, but you will probably not miss anything you forget. And stores exist...anything you truly wish you had, you can always get one if it's that important.
@chiquita928 i agree and understand what you mean.. I know for a fact that most of my prep for the hospital is mainly coming from a place of excitement. I may be overpacking for some of us here but it's part of the fun!
How about just packing all of these non-essentials in a separate bag that your partner can keep in the car so if you really do need all that stuff with you after all, they can just go grab it from the car?
How about just packing all of these non-essentials in a separate bag that your partner can keep in the car so if you really do need all that stuff with you after all, they can just go grab it from the car?
This is a good plan. Our hospital rooms are so small, there's no way I could bring all that with me. And I would just feel silly carrying it all up there and having to put it somewhere while I'm in triage and stuff. I plan to have one small bag for L&D, and another small bag for PP recovery, and have H go to the car and switch them out when I change rooms.
I'm having such a hard time packing because I don't know whats going to happen. This is not a good situation for an over packer who prefers to have everything planned way in advance. My birth center is 2 hours away, and we may end up staying down there for 2 nights, or we may end up not staying at all. They won't admit me until I'm in active labor, so if we get down there too early and it's really late at night, we'll probably have to go to a hotel. Then, we get released as early as 4 hours after birth, so again, if that's the middle of the night, we'll have to get a hotel then too, PLUS I have to be back down there probably within 24 hours for a check up, So we might stay over for that too, but it all depends on what time all of this goes down.... I'm losing my mind trying to figure out if I'm packing for just labor and the 4 hours, or if I'm packing for two nights away and how to possibly separate the bags. Plus they don't provide things (like pads and diapers) the way the hospital does, so I'm trying to figure out everything I will need, and hoping that I don't miss anything. And I'm trying to pack for a possible 24 hours away with a newborn when I've never had a baby, so I have no idea how many diapers or wipes or onesies I even need.
Hubby and Me Friends since 2008 Started dating: July 1st, 2013 Engaged: July 1st, 2014 Married: July 1st, 2016 R born: July 8th, 2017 N born: June 30th, 2019 Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022 (maybe I only ovulate in October XD)
@kerils trust me they will give you as many diapers and wipes as you can stuff in your bag - you will not find yourself with a newborn and no diapers. I kicked myself for bringing so many non-essentials and not having as much room for all the diapers and supplies.
Re: Hospital Bag & First Days
Highly monitored internet and no cell service in the office, so I'm postin' and ghostin' while I'm workin'
Feel free to copy and paste what you need.
Mommy Basics:
1. Makeup and Toiletry Bags
2. Warm Blanket
3. Emergency Snack Bag and Flavor Packets
4. 16 oz Cup and Thermos
5. Comfy Shoes
6. Underwear (X3), Bras (X2) and Socks (X4)
7. Nightgown and Nursing Pads
8. Towel and Washcloths (X3)
9. Going Home Outfit
10. Wet and Dirty Bags
After-Delivery Kit: (Padsicle Method)
1. Overnight Pads and Depends
2. Mints, Lip Balm, Germ-X and Tissues
3. Patch Me Up Kit and Nursing Cream
4. Ice Pack and Hot Water Bag
5. Tums and Hemorrhoid Wipes
6. Robe and Comfy Underwear
7. Notebook and Pen
8. Thank You Gifts and Cards For Staff
9. Emergency Information (See Pink Folder)
Mommy's Toiletry Bag:
1. Body Wash, Tush and Facial Wipes
2. Conditioner and Shampoo
3. Toothbrush, Toothpaste and Mouthwash
4. Deodorant and Perfume
5. Razor and Shaving Cream
6. Comb and Brush
7. Q-Tips and Cotton
8. Sponge Rounds/Squares
9. Shower Cap and Night Cap
10. Tissues and Nail Clippers
Pumpkin Basics:
1. Pre-Pumped Milk in Cooler
2. Diaper Bag and Changing Pad (Already Packed)
-Mittens, Socks and Hats
-Swaddlers (X2) and Extra Tush Pads For Car Seat Blow Outs
-Baby Clothes (Bodysuits x2; PM, N, 0-3 M)
-Pacifiers and Bottles
-Bibs and Burp Cloths
-Going Home Outfits (X1; PM, N, 0-3 M)
-Blankets (Receiving and Thermal)
3. Infant Car Seat and Stroller
Daddy's Toiletry Bag:
1. Body Wash, Tush and Facial Wipes
2. Cologne and Deodorant
3. Toothbrush, Toothpaste and Mouthwash
4. Q-Tips and Cotton
5. Tissues and Germ-X
DD Basics:
1. Car Toys
2. Healthy Snacks and Meals
3. Extra Outfits (X4 - X6)
4. Sippy Cups (X3)
5. Diapers, Pull-Ups and Wipes
6. Sweater, Socks and Shoes
7. Teddy Bear and Blankets (Light/Heavy)
8. Toothbrush and Toothpaste
9. Grooming Kit and Medicine Kit
10. Pacifiers, Bibs and Burp Cloths
11. Emergency Distraction Toy
12. Car Seat and Baby Carrier
Daddy Basics:
1. Pillows (X2) and Warm Blanket
2. Healthy Snacks, Mints and Flavor Packets
3. Shirts (X2), Underwear (X3) and Socks (X3)
4. Hoodie, Sweatshirt and Pants
5. Comfortable Shoes
6. Towel and Washcloths (X3)
7. Toiletry Bag
8. Mega Thermos
9. Wet and Dirty Bags
10. Laptop with Hard Drive
11. Notebook and Pen
12. Cellphone, Charger Cables and Plugs
13. Charging Cells
14. Empty Bag for Hospital Stuff
Baby Pumpkin Due July 17, 2017
DS1 - 7/2011, DD 12/2012, DS2 - 4/2014, MMC - 12/2015
DS1 - 7/2011, DD 12/2012, DS2 - 4/2014, MMC - 12/2015
I composed the list myself and I wanted to give thank you cards and small gifts this time. When I had my DD I was totally unprepared (medical emergency) and some of the nurses were amazing, understanding and helpful. To this day I feel guilty that all I could say was thank you and I don't even know their names...
But my packing list will be about 10+ items smaller due to the new information I acquired on my hospital tour yesterday. The L&D nurse said to just bring toiletries, clothes, and any items that make me feel comfortable. Because they basically take care of any needs that I or baby may have. They even let us see what was in the welcome kit, the postpartum kit, and the going home kit. All three kits are already included in the price of your hospital stay and she said it was just better to take advantage of it.
But if you have any other questions, I'll be more than happy to answer them.
Baby Pumpkin Due July 17, 2017
Baby Pumpkin Due July 17, 2017
Baby Pumpkin Due July 17, 2017
QFP this is golden
As I said before, it's just there in case someone finds it useful. Everyone's birthing experiences are different and I made my list to tailor to my own needs, worries, and previous experiences.
Baby Pumpkin Due July 17, 2017
@rae1-3
And you can pump after a certain time as it may help progress labor.
And Knottie#s, also...wow.
Wow.
Friends since 2008
Started dating: July 1st, 2013
Engaged: July 1st, 2014
Married: July 1st, 2016
R born: July 8th, 2017
N born: June 30th, 2019
Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022
(maybe I only ovulate in October XD)