Risky move making this its own thread but I'm hoping some of you watch the Bachelorette? I usually don't do reality TV but I have been a member of Bachelor Nation for wayyy too long to stop now. I love it, and DH even got hooked a few years ago so it's our guilty pleasure thing to watch together... very much like Ashton and Mila for those who watched last night (how cute are they?). Now I mostly watch it so I know who is who when the best TV show in the country comes on this summer: Bachelor in Paradise -- for those who don't know, BIP is a spin-off where they invite memorable contestants from previous seasons who didn't win the Bachelor/Bachelorette, and put them in a beach resort in Mexico with a ton of booze. They start forming relationships and hooking up but every day a new person arrives to "paradise" and throws everything off, especially if someone already there has a crush on the newcomer, which of course happens all the time. Daily drama. It's really must-watch TV.
Anyway...
I love Rachel so far. I was excited they picked her and she's very relate-able and easy to watch on TV, and doesn't say or do anything cringey like I thought Nick did. I like that she waits for the guys to make the first move and that she's being pretty clear that she wants a guy who is confident and real.
The guys I like so far: Dean, Kenny (though I think he is shy and needs to step it up a little more), Peter
Don't like/not sure about: Whaboom and Blake's rivalry is stupid and annoying. I don't like either of them so I hope Rachel sends both home soon. I did like DeMario although he was super cocky, but it was obvious that Rachel was into him. Thoughts on what happens next week?
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Re: The Bachelorette
Anyway, love Rachel, love BIP, stoked for this thread. I'll be back later to add my thoughts on this weeks episode after I watch it tonight
Could not agree more on Whaboom guy and Blake. It reminds me of Alex and Chad. Chad was awful in his own right obviously but Alex just went on and on about it and was like obsessed with him. It's annoying.
LOVED Peter's one on one date!! So cute and I felt like they had really good chemistry. I also love their matching gap teeth lol.
SPOILER ********* not surprised about DeMario. He's the one that she was warned about on the first episode when she was talking to her friends. I hope she chooses not to talk to him/give him a second chance next week.
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Married 10/13/12
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I am loving Rachel - when she said just f-ing go to DeMario, I was like - hell yes! She doesn't take anyone's nonsense and I like it. I thought her and Peter were absolutely adorable. So over Waboom and Blake - Blake's intro video was disgusting. I hope he's eliminated soon bc he's gross.
Every year there is always 1 person that is over the top, but I'm sure they do it for ratings, and to help with the "drama". I will be happy when Whamboom goes home, as he is SUPER annoying!!
I do really like Rachel though and I'm excited to see how her season progresses.
I also love BIP. It's such a train wreck.
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The rose ceremonies change from night to night with women giving out roses or men giving out roses, and usually 1-2 people will leave. It's quite amazing when someone breaks off a relationship during the ceremony and gives a rose to someone "they want to get to know better."
Then at the end, when there are no more new people entering paradise, Chris comes on and announces that everyone who is in a couple needs to decide if they want to continue dating beyond paradise or break it off. Sometimes there are engagements. I can't make this up.. it's absolutely wild television.
Married: Oct 2015
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Me: 29 DH: 31
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I vote Copper for next seasons Bachelor. What a cutie.
ETA Jesus fucking Christ. What an asshole! “Guys … when is the last time YOU actually saw a pretty feminist? There is a reason for this.” Is he aware who the Bachelorette is? Not that this would make it okay, but WHY DONT PEOPLE SCRUB THEIR TWITTERS BEFORE BECOMING "FAMOUS" ughhhhhhhhhhhhhh what a douche
Me: 29 DH: 31
Married 10/13/12
TTC Since 8/2016
BIP is the best. Carly & Evan 4EVA.
i was also a huge Janner fan. I'm so happy they are together still and having a baby.
Edits: Spelling
BIP is my fav though and super excited for whatever the Winter Games will bring - to think we'll probably have little newborns to care for while watching the highest quality show that TV has to offer....
I had high hopes for Fred (the guy from Rachel's childhood) and was hoping that he would surprise Rachel with romance but that kiss was really cringe-worthy and needed to stop the second it started. I felt bad when she sent him home but it was the right thing to do. I really like all the other guys who were on the Ellen date with Rachel, especially Bryan, Will, and Peter.
The mud wrestling date was weird although I like Kenny, Bryce, and Dean. Not a big fan of Eric after this episode and was surprised Rachel gave him the date rose. Noticed that Rachel's "girls" are all on BIP except for Jasmine I think. I'm surprised that Corrine is in Rachel's squad... I gathered that she made 0 friends on her season. Raven is awesome though and I hope she find someone good on BIP.
Last comments.. I don't like Lee and I hate when episodes end with the to be continued cliffhanger. So dumb.
Married: Oct 2015
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Yeah, Eric's woe is me attitude was really off-putting. Dude, you've been there for like a week. You're not going to be in love with each other just yet, give it some time.
And of course there is Lee. After reading about his tweets, his conversation with Eric was making me SUPER uncomfortable. He was basically gaslighting him!
So I loved Corinne lol I think I am in the minority here, but I am glad that Rachel likes her because that makes me feel a little more validated in thinking that a lot of her "villain" persona was largely from a select few perspectives/editing. Oh, and I think Jasmine IS going to be on BiP! I like all of those girls that Rachel has brought on the show so I am glad to see that they'll all be in Paradise.
Me: 29 DH: 31
Married 10/13/12
TTC Since 8/2016
Married: Oct 2015
TTC #1: Sept 2016
BFP: 10/19/16 ~ blighted ovum ~ D&C 11/23/16
BFP: 3/24/17
TTC #2: July 2018
BFP: 8/26/18