@bridge-and-wall and @wyomama0427 I use to be a major party girl so i have kinda the opposite thing going. I My husband and I were in the same "crowd" but he always had a steady girlfriend. I know it use to bug him a little at first but occasionally he still brings it up so I think it bothers him more than I know. We never see any of our old friends from then any more just because we cleaned up our lives and none of them ever will. But my question for you is what's something that your SO could do to make it less of a thing? I mean I can't change the past but I want to make him feel better.