2. Tta 3. Rave the weather is amazing today! Rant I feel some strep throat coming on, ugh! My throat is on fire! 4. My favorite show for years has been ncis and I've really gotten into Bull. Not very "guilty pleasure" but hey, I like what I like
Introduce yourself (if new). New..been lurking. Now finally ready to join. Been TTC for 4 years. Had BFP in March with 3rd round of Clomid. MC naturally at 8 weeks. Had positive opk but Dr said 21 lab showed no ovulation. 3 days late for AF...so just waiting. Due date was November 24, 2017. 2. Status? Waiting? Waiting for AF waiting for BFP..waiting...waiting for sign to keep trying or give up. 3. R/R? None right now. 4. GTKY: What is your favorite guilty pleasure TV show? All Chicago shows ( med, justice, pd)
@vlagrl29 I also cried after sex for a little while.
@Mack2342 unfortunately this is already my second AF after the MC. The first one was insane but Dr told me to expect that. This one I thought would be back to normal but nope. Hopefully this isn't the new norm...
Me: 27, DH: 26 Married November 24, 2015 TTC since November 2016 BFP: January 11,2017, MMC: February 19, 2017 at 9 weeks TTCAL since March 2017 BFP: July 30, 2017
@sck2411. After my first MC it took about 6 cycles to regulate and then it was a new norm. Cycle has never returned to pre TTC cycle. It's sucks. I hope it doesn't take long for your body to regulate. Each cycle got less heavy and shorter and finally the 5th and 6th seemed to be the same. I've only had one so far after this MC and it was like the last one I had. Who knows body is wacky after a MC
@SCK2411 Yeah, ‘close’ friend is a joke. Hoping therapy
tonight helps him to see what a twat she is. Also, some of my periods after a
loss were heavy for several months. I’ve
learned that whatever your body/cycle/period was like before, there’s no
guarantee that it will go back to that afterwards. Sometimes it’s wonky for several months
after, sometimes it goes into a new wonky pattern, sometimes it reverts. I
guess mother nature wants to keep us guessing?
As if this process isn’t fun enough as is…
@amberruka well I don’t wanna get the ban hammer for
swearing, so I had to make my normal statement more 'G' rated.
@40momma I live half my life (at least, I’m trying to give
myself SOME credit for attempting niceness) in an anger-fueled rage, feel free
to vent with me!
@hdaley I really want to watch the Handmaid’s Tale, but don’t
have Hulu. Blah. I’ll probably break down and get it at some
point… but putting it off for now.
@vlagrl29 We use pre-seed too. So, if we’re ‘trying’ in the FW, we use the
applicator (but not the FULL amount…) and if not trying or in FW, sometimes he
just uses a bit without applicator to ‘get ready.’
@pumpkin0913 I also lurk TTGP for the snark. Sometimes I think it’s too much and
undeserved, but other times I feel like a teenager in the corner yelling “Fight!
Fight! Fight! Fight! GO GO GO!!”
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
@40momma really?! That's awesome! I'm so obsessed with that show. I really hope there's something there but am starting to have some doubts. I'm worried that someone else has already found it.
@hdaley I feel ya on that. There are months where we BD a million times and it just doesn't work. This month I think I've only hit maybe one fertile day in my cycle so far. I do have a day or so before o but I don't really even care at this point.
@vlagrl29 yeah, you sorta suck up the lube with the applicator and insert it. I've done it that way a time or two. I just thought it was making sex a bit to scientific. I tried to do it before hand so that I didn't take all of the fun out of sex but it kinda comes back out pretty soon after. So don't wait too long! Lol
1. Introduce yourself (if new): Newer, but previously introduced myself.
2. Status? Benched. Waiting to ovulate so I can get testing done through OB. RE initial appt next month.
3. R/R? Really feeling down on myself with my weight. I have put off weight loss to try to get pregnant (and when I was), but now see that I should have continued eating healthy and losing the weight. At least I can use my benched time to buckle down I guess.
4. GTKY: Right now I'm watching Pretty Little Liars on Netflix. But my favorite show is probably Game of Thrones
@Chawk17 I recognize you from the N17 board (I was due 11/11). I'm so sorry you're here. It's a sisterhood no one wants to belong to, but it's a sisterhood nonetheless. Welcome.
@dpjennifer@pumpkin0913 I do check out the TTGP board every now and then, but feel like I would say something wrong, and immediately po the wrong person. I understand being jaded after years of TTC, but that's exactly why you should be nice to the ones that don't really know what's wrong with their bodies. I think it's safer that I just stay here.
@vlagrl29@SCK2411 I didn't feel like crying for the first couple of BDs after the mc, but it did hurt a little bit. Weird.
2. Status? CD18, 1DPO, I believe. 3. R/R? Some of you saw my post yesterday in WTO... I had an ultrasound yesterday to check my lining because of all of my surgeries/asherman's and my lining is virtually non-existent, so implantation may never happen. This is devastating for us. Then I came home to a letter saying my OB/GYN who is amazing is switching roles and no longer practicing obstetrics. I couldn't sleep much. Feeling so depressed and hopeless. 4. GTKY: What is your favorite guilty pleasure TV show? I watch a lot of HGTV shows. CA is too expensive to buy a house and do those cool things, so I have to just dream about it.
*TW*
TTC#1 - 6.3.16 BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17 MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d Misoprostol 4x D&C - 9.12.16 Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open. Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed... Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. TTCAL #1: 4.24.17 Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next... Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
well the time I got pregnant with our loss I wasn't using pre seed, temping or OPK - so I've just been sticking with that plan. It was a huge defeat to loose it and I kept thinking "damn! 6 months to get that and probably at least another 6 months to get another"
I think it was mentioned last week that maybe we should start a "healthy" thread for those that are trying to get in a more healthy and active lifestyle. I'd be up for that. I've been practicing yoga for 4 years. Wasn't able to go last week due to my sinus infection so I'm dying to get my yoga in this week! I don't know what I'd do without it. Last night I was able to skip the dessert again I eat pretty healthy but sweets are my weakness.
@Chawk17@tlq0726 I was also a N17 mama. My EDD was 11/18. FIL was pumped because it's the day before his birthday and I'm sure he was hoping that baby would be born on the same day as him.
@vlagrl29 I'd be down for an healthy thread; I could do with losing a few pounds, especially while I wait for everything to fall back into a normal rhythm.
right @amberruka - thats why I stopped doing it all. Gets annoying when you try your best and still nothing so the blow is less to me if we just BD whenever the heck we want to with or without lube if need be. Must keep the faith!
If we do a health thread maybe Thursdays? We just added WTF wens and we already have check in monday and tgif friday.
1. I am not new, but I have not been on since January. I see a lot of new names and am sorry you are all here. I had a MMC in September and we have been TTC since (minus one month) with no success.
2. TWW CD25 but not at all hopeful. Timing was crappy this month. I got back from a month long work trip on a Friday night and DH left for a work trip early Sunday. I had a positive OPK on Friday evening and we only got in one BD.
3. We have an appointment with an RE tomorrow afternoon. I am nervous and excited. I wish we would have gone sooner, but alas, here we are.
4. GTKY: I don't know that I have guilty pleasure show, but I like Dexter.
I will comment on posts soon.
**TW - Loss & Child mentioned** Me: 40 DH: 47 Married: 10/2015 DSD: 17 BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15 BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15 BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19 BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018 Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.
@NewMommyCoop +1 Dexter. Shame about the last season, though. Heard it was filmed because fans were demanding another season. If felt like a complete departure from the original characters; I personally hated it.
@silvergreen As usual, I am late to the game. I only started watching Dexter on Netflix last year, so I think I am only on season 4. I only get to watch it once in a while. That is a shame to hear about the last season.
1. Introduce yourself (if new). Not new, but for those who are. CP/PUL/ECTOPIC August 2016, MMC at 12weeks 12/27/16
2. Status? BENCHED but in the TWW
3. R/R? Not much really. Had a new girl to help but she is totally inept. Literally no common sense. She put in a huge rice warmer into a 3 bay sink with the plug and all. That's a $200 equipment that's now fried because of stupidity. She did a bunch of other stuff that I had to roll my eyes at too. Good help, help with common sense is so hard to find. Who does that?
4. GTKY: What is your favorite guilty pleasure TV show? I love that Amazon show Catastrophe, and Transparant. But honestly I watch so much shows via Netflix, Amazon and, Xfinity I don't know which one is my most favorite guilty pleasure.X
@silvergreen I feel you on the snarkiness on some of the boards, but I always just let it roll ever. I've gotten into a lot of physical fights in my early twenties and I hung up the towel. I can't risk getting arrested at my age lmfao!
@tlq0726 so glad you enjoyed time with the college roommate!
@sprkls8506 I'm in MA too! I swear we all live in game of thrones here, Winter is forever coming....
@vlagrl29 My mom is always saying I'm fat. DH had to go to her restaurant to pick up something and she told him he lost weight and for him to "tell his wife to too". Oh mom.
@MooFish2364 I think I need to start watching that then too. I love a good adventure.
@ladipale I think we are cycle buddies. I'm around the same. But I'm benched. Hope you have good luck this cycle
@dpjennifer that person sounds like an assshat that needs a punch in the face.
@SCK2411 sorry for your loss. My first AF after loss was heavier too. Much heavier than my first loss. I was 12 weeks along but the baby stop developing at 9 weeks as oppose to being only 6-7 week a long the first time (supposedly)
@amberruka might need to try some of that preseed stuff when I'm back to TTC
My DH love all the Chicago shows too. It might be because we live in Chicagoland and he was born here too so he knows all the landmarks in the shows. One of my best friends' husband is a Chicago firefighter and has been an extra on the show as one if the firefighters! Pretty cool!
Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012
Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!
Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017
NewMommyCoop
Sorry you’re still here as well. I hope the RE appointment goes well. Good luck trying to find some answers.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks) MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks) MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP) RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017 MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP) RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017 MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023. Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing. Surgery for endometriosis January 2024 Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
@MooFish2364 - Your niece's mother sounds very insensitive. I am so sorry.
@mack2342 - GL with the shot today. Keep us updated on how it goes Friday. FX for you!
@ladipale Do whatever feels right for you. If you think it would be to difficult mentally, don't go and just send a gift.
@jchpg I am a light sleeper as well. I have to use ear plugs to sleep. DH got me some on Amazon, I think they are called Dream Angels. They work really well.
@dpjennifer What a "friend". Some people are so insensitive. I wouldn't go either.
@silvergreen When I got on TB last July, I went straight to this board because I had already had two losses. I have not posted on any of the other boards, but hear lots of "stuff". This community is so compassionate, supportive, and caring. Oh, you did not ruin Dexter for me. I will keep watching until it ends or I don't like it anymore.
@40momma Welcome to the board. I am very sorry you find yourself here. It is so maddening to keep seeing/hearing PG announcements when you have had a loss. I still am constantly asking myself why everybody else I know except me. I am fit, healthy, active. Am I such a terrible person that I don't deserve it. The questions are ridiculous, but I can't stop wondering.
@vlagrl29 I agree with it being a crap shoot. I got PG so easy the first three times (all ended in loss) and now we try to BD every two days so the sperm aren't old, yada, yada, and eight months later... nothing.
@weareturtles I am so sorry you received such devastating news. Prayers that a miracle will happen for you.
**TW - Loss & Child mentioned** Me: 40 DH: 47 Married: 10/2015 DSD: 17 BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15 BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15 BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19 BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018 Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.
@sprkls8506 - I am also behind. I watched a TON while I was pregnant so when i lost the baby I kind of stopped.. started up a bit in last couple of days
**** TW - kids and loss mentioned **** ~~ married 8.11.07 ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~ ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~ ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC ~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
@silvergreen The snark is unbelievable on some of these boards. Sometimes I lurk them when things are slow at work or if I am bored. There was some snark on TTGP yesterday. It's good for a distraction
@tlq0726 Glad you had fun. I know you were a little wary of so much company at once last week. I find myself always dreading plans but end up really glad I went.
@vlagrl29 Moms are so darn insensitive. I have one of those. She yells at me to get pregnant. Thanks mom. #1mom In other news, congrats on DH almost being at the finish line. I use the applicators to preseed. Yup just insert. I only fill to the "2" though.
@MooFish2364 What is wrong with your niece's mother? What is wrong with people? I get if she didn't know about your struggles and loss, but since she does..... Wrong, just wrong. I'm sorry she made you cry : ( I'm so not new either : (
@Mack2342 I feel like the temping and OPKs give me some kind of freakish control. I want to let go, but I'm afraid that if I do I'll regret it because I won't have my "data" to go on. Again, so freakin' excited for Friday for you!
@ladipale Like others said, I wouldn't go. This weekend is going to be rough with Mother's Day and all. I wouldn't subject myself to that. Same EDD? F no. I would just enjoy your DDs and pretend the shower isn't happening.
@jchpg Two long weekends? Jealous. I don't know how to deal with the situation upstairs besides leaving a rug for them anonymously.
@dpjennifer I don't think you are snarky. I think you are delightful. There were a few drive bys that got to me. One was something about a cat scratching at the door. Another was someone who thought she was going through a mc and then nope not ( good for her really), but it was her tone that didn't sit well with me. Then she blasted us on her BMB. Suck it.
3) Rant: Last couple days was just a roller coaster. Last week DH was diagnosed with the flu and pneumonia. Spent the week taking care of him. He took a whole week off of work. Thankfully he is feeling much better.
4) I love Teen Mom OG. I love the train wreck.
***TW*** Me: 36 DH:35 Married: 7/10/2016 TTC#1 - May 2016 BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016 BFP 5/5/2017 - CP IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161 Adam Born on 3/18/18
Re: TTCAL Check-In Week 5/8/2017
3. Rave the weather is amazing today!
Rant I feel some strep throat coming on, ugh! My throat is on fire!
4. My favorite show for years has been ncis and I've really gotten into Bull. Not very "guilty pleasure" but hey, I like what I like
@silvergreen @tlq0726 @dpjennifer give me all the snark!! I lurk ttgp just for the snark!
Umm, @vlagrl29 excuse me!? Sometimes moms say the worst things. Hugs.
@MooFish2364 ugh, sorry your niece's mom is being a pain.
@Mack2342 yay for insemination Friday! Fx so hard for you.
@ladipale I wouldn't go for my sanity.
@SCK2411 sorry for your loss.
@40momma one of my coworkers has the same edd as me and it sucks to see her progress. Hugs
@hdaley hopefully you got good timing!
New..been lurking. Now finally ready to join.
Been TTC for 4 years. Had BFP in March with 3rd round of Clomid. MC naturally at 8 weeks. Had positive opk but Dr said 21 lab showed no ovulation. 3 days late for AF...so just waiting. Due date was November 24, 2017.
2. Status? Waiting? Waiting for AF waiting for BFP..waiting...waiting for sign to keep trying or give up.
3. R/R? None right now.
4. GTKY: What is your favorite guilty pleasure TV show? All Chicago shows ( med, justice, pd)
@Mack2342 unfortunately this is already my second AF after the MC. The first one was insane but Dr told me to expect that. This one I thought would be back to normal but nope. Hopefully this isn't the new norm...
Married November 24, 2015
TTC since November 2016
BFP: January 11,2017, MMC: February 19, 2017 at 9 weeks
TTCAL since March 2017
BFP: July 30, 2017
@SCK2411 Yeah, ‘close’ friend is a joke. Hoping therapy tonight helps him to see what a twat she is. Also, some of my periods after a loss were heavy for several months. I’ve learned that whatever your body/cycle/period was like before, there’s no guarantee that it will go back to that afterwards. Sometimes it’s wonky for several months after, sometimes it goes into a new wonky pattern, sometimes it reverts. I guess mother nature wants to keep us guessing? As if this process isn’t fun enough as is…
@amberruka well I don’t wanna get the ban hammer for swearing, so I had to make my normal statement more 'G' rated.
@40momma I live half my life (at least, I’m trying to give myself SOME credit for attempting niceness) in an anger-fueled rage, feel free to vent with me!
@hdaley I really want to watch the Handmaid’s Tale, but don’t have Hulu. Blah. I’ll probably break down and get it at some point… but putting it off for now.
@vlagrl29 We use pre-seed too. So, if we’re ‘trying’ in the FW, we use the applicator (but not the FULL amount…) and if not trying or in FW, sometimes he just uses a bit without applicator to ‘get ready.’
@pumpkin0913 I also lurk TTGP for the snark. Sometimes I think it’s too much and undeserved, but other times I feel like a teenager in the corner yelling “Fight! Fight! Fight! Fight! GO GO GO!!”
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@40momma I feel like it's hard to see almost any pregnancy. I always feel like I'm surrounded when we go out!
@pumpkin0913 I am jealous of your amazing weather day!
@Chawk17. So sorry for your loss.
I love all the Chicago shows too but Fire is my fav
@Mack2342 I am on my 6th cycle after MC and I feel like I am almost back on track too but like you said-a new norm.
@hdaley I feel ya on that. There are months where we BD a million times and it just doesn't work. This month I think I've only hit maybe one fertile day in my cycle so far. I do have a day or so before o but I don't really even care at this point.
@vlagrl29 yeah, you sorta suck up the lube with the applicator and insert it. I've done it that way a time or two. I just thought it was making sex a bit to scientific. I tried to do it before hand so that I didn't take all of the fun out of sex but it kinda comes back out pretty soon after. So don't wait too long! Lol
I'm late on this, so lots of replies
@silvergreen UGH I know, people can be so rude. I feel like we have all been there questioning things and looking for answers in tough times.
@tlq0726 Glad to hear the weekend went well! Sometimes a change in pace is good for things!
@sprkls8506 I hate when shows are discontinued! I loved the bridge but it’s gone now. I’m in MA too – hey neighbor!
@vlagrl29 Moms! No filter. My Mom told me that my butt is growing. But hey we can be healthy buddies – I’m also trying to drop some LBs.
@moofish2364 I think you should definitely say something. She may not know how it is impacting you emotionally.
@mack2342 FX for Friday!!!
@jchpg My husband actually commented on the binge watching thing the other night because I’m the same way on Netflix, so I totally get it!
@dpjennifer Eek, sounds like snark is totally called for here. I’ll meet you at the scorpion pit.
@40momma Sorry for your loss and welcome to the board.
1. Introduce yourself (if new): Newer, but previously introduced myself.
2. Status? Benched. Waiting to ovulate so I can get testing done through OB. RE initial appt next month.
3. R/R? Really feeling down on myself with my weight. I have put off weight loss to try to get pregnant (and when I was), but now see that I should have continued eating healthy and losing the weight. At least I can use my benched time to buckle down I guess.
4. GTKY: Right now I'm watching Pretty Little Liars on Netflix. But my favorite show is probably Game of Thrones
@dpjennifer @pumpkin0913 I do check out the TTGP board every now and then, but feel like I would say something wrong, and immediately po the wrong person. I understand being jaded after years of TTC, but that's exactly why you should be nice to the ones that don't really know what's wrong with their bodies. I think it's safer that I just stay here.
@vlagrl29 @SCK2411 I didn't feel like crying for the first couple of BDs after the mc, but it did hurt a little bit. Weird.
TTC: 3/23/2013, BFP: 2/28/2014, EDD: 11/6/2014, ADD: 11/7/2014
TTC: 2/1/2016, BFP: 3/4/2017, EDD: 11/11/2017, No HB @ 8 weeks, MC: 4/8/2017
TTC: 5/24/2017, BFP: 4/14/2018, EDD: 12/22/2018
Hey MA neighbor. At least there is some sunshine today
theres a few of us from ma here !!
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
3. R/R? Some of you saw my post yesterday in WTO... I had an ultrasound yesterday to check my lining because of all of my surgeries/asherman's and my lining is virtually non-existent, so implantation may never happen. This is devastating for us. Then I came home to a letter saying my OB/GYN who is amazing is switching roles and no longer practicing obstetrics. I couldn't sleep much. Feeling so depressed and hopeless.
4. GTKY: What is your favorite guilty pleasure TV show? I watch a lot of HGTV shows. CA is too expensive to buy a house and do those cool things, so I have to just dream about it.
TTC#1 - 6.3.16
BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
Misoprostol 4x
D&C - 9.12.16
Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
I think it was mentioned last week that maybe we should start a "healthy" thread for those that are trying to get in a more healthy and active lifestyle. I'd be up for that. I've been practicing yoga for 4 years. Wasn't able to go last week due to my sinus infection so I'm dying to get my yoga in this week! I don't know what I'd do without it. Last night I was able to skip the dessert again
@msstephanielynn GOT - yaaaasss!!
@vlagrl29 I'd be down for an healthy thread; I could do with losing a few pounds, especially while I wait for everything to fall back into a normal rhythm.
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
If we do a health thread maybe Thursdays? We just added WTF wens and we already have check in monday and tgif friday.
1. I am not new, but I have not been on since January. I see a lot of new names and am sorry you are all here. I had a MMC in September and we have been TTC since (minus one month) with no success.
2. TWW CD25 but not at all hopeful. Timing was crappy this month. I got back from a month long work trip on a Friday night and DH left for a work trip early Sunday. I had a positive OPK on Friday evening and we only got in one BD.
3. We have an appointment with an RE tomorrow afternoon. I am nervous and excited. I wish we would have gone sooner, but alas, here we are.
4. GTKY: I don't know that I have guilty pleasure show, but I like Dexter.
I will comment on posts soon.
Me: 40 DH: 47
Married: 10/2015
DSD: 17
BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
@ladipale I am so sorry for your loss.
Me: 40 DH: 47
Married: 10/2015
DSD: 17
BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.
@mack2342 Thank you.
Me: 40 DH: 47
Married: 10/2015
DSD: 17
BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.
2. Status? BENCHED but in the TWW
3. R/R? Not much really. Had a new girl to help but she is totally inept. Literally no common sense. She put in a huge rice warmer into a 3 bay sink with the plug and all. That's a $200 equipment that's now fried because of stupidity. She did a bunch of other stuff that I had to roll my eyes at too. Good help, help with common sense is so hard to find. Who does that?
4. GTKY: What is your favorite guilty pleasure TV show? I love that Amazon show Catastrophe, and Transparant. But honestly I watch so much shows via Netflix, Amazon and, Xfinity I don't know which one is my most favorite guilty pleasure.X
@silvergreen I feel you on the snarkiness on some of the boards, but I always just let it roll ever. I've gotten into a lot of physical fights in my early twenties and I hung up the towel. I can't risk getting arrested at my age lmfao!
@tlq0726 so glad you enjoyed time with the college roommate!
@sprkls8506 I'm in MA too! I swear we all live in game of thrones here, Winter is forever coming....
@vlagrl29 My mom is always saying I'm fat. DH had to go to her restaurant to pick up something and she told him he lost weight and for him to "tell his wife to too". Oh mom.
@MooFish2364 I think I need to start watching that then too. I love a good adventure.
@ladipale I think we are cycle buddies. I'm around the same. But I'm benched. Hope you have good luck this cycle
@dpjennifer that person sounds like an assshat that needs a punch in the face.
@SCK2411 sorry for your loss. My first AF after loss was heavier too. Much heavier than my first loss. I was 12 weeks along but the baby stop developing at 9 weeks as oppose to being only 6-7 week a long the first time (supposedly)
@amberruka might need to try some of that preseed stuff when I'm back to TTC
@40momma So sorry for your friend.
@pumpkin0913 urg I had strep throat years ago and its a pain!!!
@Chawk17 Sorry for your loss. Welcome to participating. I hope you enjoy the support of these lovely ladies as much as I do.
@msstephanielynn I love love love Game of Thrones!
@weareturtles I hope their something medically they can do to improve your lining?
@NewMommyCoop I lovedddddd Dexter til the end!
edited because didn't finished
@sprkls8506 Chicago PD's voight...= love
Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!
Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
@hdaley that's cool about a friend being an extra!
@ladipale I would say those are my 2 favs as well! I'm so behind tho! I need to catch up
NewMommyCoop Sorry you’re still here as well. I hope the RE appointment goes well. Good luck trying to find some answers.
MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)
RE #3: More testing 2023.
Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
Lupron Depo March 2024. Benched 3 months.
FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)
Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.
FET #2: September 2024 (failed)
FET #3: December 2024 (failed)
#BitterHagPartyOf1
@mack2342 - GL with the shot today. Keep us updated on how it goes Friday. FX for you!
@ladipale Do whatever feels right for you. If you think it would be to difficult mentally, don't go and just send a gift.
@jchpg I am a light sleeper as well. I have to use ear plugs to sleep. DH got me some on Amazon, I think they are called Dream Angels. They work really well.
@dpjennifer What a "friend". Some people are so insensitive. I wouldn't go either.
@silvergreen When I got on TB last July, I went straight to this board because I had already had two losses. I have not posted on any of the other boards, but hear lots of "stuff". This community is so compassionate, supportive, and caring. Oh, you did not ruin Dexter for me. I will keep watching until it ends or I don't like it anymore.
@SCK2411 I am so sorry for your loss.
@40momma Welcome to the board. I am very sorry you find yourself here. It is so maddening to keep seeing/hearing PG announcements when you have had a loss. I still am constantly asking myself why everybody else I know except me. I am fit, healthy, active. Am I such a terrible person that I don't deserve it. The questions are ridiculous, but I can't stop wondering.
@vlagrl29 I agree with it being a crap shoot. I got PG so easy the first three times (all ended in loss) and now we try to BD every two days so the sperm aren't old, yada, yada, and eight months later... nothing.
@weareturtles I am so sorry you received such devastating news. Prayers that a miracle will happen for you.
Me: 40 DH: 47
Married: 10/2015
DSD: 17
BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
@silvergreen The snark is unbelievable on some of these boards. Sometimes I lurk them when things are slow at work or if I am bored. There was some snark on TTGP yesterday. It's good for a distraction
@tlq0726 Glad you had fun. I know you were a little wary of so much company at once last week. I find myself always dreading plans but end up really glad I went.
@vlagrl29 Moms are so darn insensitive. I have one of those. She yells at me to get pregnant. Thanks mom. #1mom In other news, congrats on DH almost being at the finish line. I use the applicators to preseed. Yup just insert. I only fill to the "2" though.
@MooFish2364 What is wrong with your niece's mother? What is wrong with people? I get if she didn't know about your struggles and loss, but since she does..... Wrong, just wrong. I'm sorry she made you cry : ( I'm so not new either : (
@Mack2342 I feel like the temping and OPKs give me some kind of freakish control. I want to let go, but I'm afraid that if I do I'll regret it because I won't have my "data" to go on. Again, so freakin' excited for Friday for you!
@ladipale Like others said, I wouldn't go. This weekend is going to be rough with Mother's Day and all. I wouldn't subject myself to that. Same EDD? F no. I would just enjoy your DDs and pretend the shower isn't happening.
@jchpg Two long weekends? Jealous. I don't know how to deal with the situation upstairs besides leaving a rug for them anonymously.
@dpjennifer I don't think you are snarky. I think you are delightful. There were a few drive bys that got to me. One was something about a cat scratching at the door. Another was someone who thought she was going through a mc and then nope not ( good for her really), but it was her tone that didn't sit well with me. Then she blasted us on her BMB. Suck it.
@SCK2411 & @40Momma & @Chawk17 Welcome : )
@amberruka I consider you ladies my girls as well. What up homie?
@hdaley I'm so sorry for you friend. I have hate the world moments too. Ok, sometimes days.
@pumpkin0913 Hope it's not strep!
@msstephanielynn GL with RE appointment.
@weareturtles I'm so sorry to hear about your lining. I really hope you get to talk to your OB to see if they can see you as an exception.
@NewMommyCoop Welcome Back : ) How did your RE appointment go?
@MimoCa She ruined $200 worth of equipment? WTF?
AFM
1) So not new.
2) WTO CD 1
3) Rant: Last couple days was just a roller coaster. Last week DH was diagnosed with the flu and pneumonia. Spent the week taking care of him. He took a whole week off of work. Thankfully he is feeling much better.
4) I love Teen Mom OG. I love the train wreck.
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
To all that responded - I'm not going to shower and I don't give a $hit what DH's family thinks....
~~ married 8.11.07
~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
~~ BFP4 10.27.16 MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~