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Re: April WTO

  • Thanks for the love @SP128! Sorry about AF....brain fart, you have an RE appt coming up?
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
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  • @SP128 - treat yo' self today. CD1 is hard every.damn.time

    I go back and forth with temping/tracking. Sometimes it is nice to have something to focus on and sometimes it makes me crazy.
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
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    @amberruka yes lady. Had a follow up appointment yesterday. Last natural cycle for us. Dh isn't going to be away for most of fw. 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • amberrukaamberruka member
    edited April 2017
    @SP128 That sucks!!....but I get what you said before, "need to get this party started."  ;)  So true. 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @SP128- enjoy your last natural cycle - maybe not even temp :)  GL with your plan with RE.
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  • SP128SP128 member
    hahahha @vlagrl29  I'm too much of a control freak not to temp.  
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • you're funny @SP128 lol
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  • I just wrote out a new goal list for 2017 -  I tore up and threw away the one I had from 2016.  On it are things that make me happy and nothing of it includes another baby.  Starting tomorrow I'm going to organize the basement better and that means getting rid of my maternity clothes from 6 years ago.
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  • OPK strips still positive but I think I'm more +1. We tried like hell last night but DH, God love him, just couldn't perform. So one more go time tonight just to cover all the bases. Then I'll mosey on over to TWW. @hdaley I'm pretty close to you if you need a cycle buddy!!  :):):)  
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @amberruka yes please!  I have been feeling pretty pathetic sad lately.  The pregnancy announcements and pictures of pregnant women are all over my Facebook.  As the weather gets warmer I see them everywhere.  It is just a firm reminder every freaking time that I am not pregnant and am an angel mommy.  

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • @amberruka - GL this cycle.  I'm glad you were able to find something that works better for your DH. 
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  • Yeah, so last night we tried again and again he couldn't finish, multiple 13 hour days and he has issues with "the pressure involved" but also a water pipe busted in our house literally right before. But hey, whaddya gonna do, right?!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @amberruka  oh that sucks. We had some of that last year when dh was working all the time trying to finish his project - it was stressful. Then he couldn't finish either. I don't miss that.
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  • @amberruka - bummer man - but you still had some good timing last week - right?
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • @amberruka. That's a bummer.  It's happened to us a time or two too.  Luckily you got some BD in
  • SP128SP128 member
    @amberruka that stinks. You did get some days in so fx crossed 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Thanks ladies...yeah, we did get some in so I'm not completely out. Thanks for the encouragement  :). Happy Easter to those celebrating!!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • Guess I'm getting close to O.  Noticed some EWCM today.  Purging of the basement has started today.  I couldn't believe I had 2 large trash bags full of maternity clothes from DD 6 years ago.  I'm seeing items I want to either sell on CL or put in MILs garage sale next weekend if she'll let us.
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  • Anyone else WTO?  I noticed creamy CM this morning - I think I'll O this weekend probably.
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  • I think most of us are on the other side @vlagrl29 ! I'll probably be back on this side with you by the weekend ;) So we have opposite cycles right now
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • Well early next week I'll probably be in TWW.  Tonight I pulled down my underware, told dh I felt something come out, he said EW, told him I think an egg is about to release and he said he was going to release an egg tonight lol. Needless to say we got some sexy time in tonight.
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    I'm right here. Prob won't o til next monday at the earliest. Wish I synced up with someone. Lonely waiting by myself 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Joining the party again. BFN this morning 10 dpo, cramping and spotting, temp drop.  She will be here tomorrow full force. 

    My cycle was only 25 days.  With a LP of 10 days.  I am wondering if that could be our problem. Our timing seemed good.  -2, -1(x2), O, +2.  

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • @hdaley possibly - you should ask your OB about it. 

    Im tired and loosing hope we will ever get pregnant.
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    im with you on that lady.  :s I'm usually miss negative nelly @vlagrl29
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • the insurance stress we had yesterday and the last couple of years have been hard on me.  I'm pretty much convinced we won't conceive until DH is in a better place financially for us.  I mean we aren't poor but we aren't where we were a couple years ago.  This is why I've given up on everything tracking related.  God has a plan for us and apparently now is not the right time.  Though if I get to 38 and still not pregnant I'll probably look into medical intervention with it.
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  • @hdaley - were you tracking before? I have short cycles. 24 - 26 days and have gotten pregnant 4 times. It isn't a problem for me. My cycles have always been short. My losses were 2nd tri so had nothing to do with cycle length, low Progesterone, etc. 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • @ladipale I was tracking.  I range from 23-29 days.  My LP has never been longer than 11 days.

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • @hdaley - I think anything longer than 10 is considered decent. 12 - 14 ideal.
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • I just want to curl in a ball and not come out until cd 5 when this period is over. My cramps are horrendous. 

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • oh that sucks @hdaley - last cycle they had me try prog suppositories and that made my AF cramps way worse when AF did come.  Glad I don't need to take them any more.
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  • I went to this yoga workshop last night that was really cool.  Hard to explain.  It wasn't normal yoga poses/class.  It involved movement kinda dance like and it was energy work - felt good to release and let go.

    Lots of EWCM last night.  Guess we better BD 1 more time this weekend.
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  • CD2 for me and I couldn't be happier as over the past 9 months since my MMC, I've gone from no periods, to spotting, to light periods and now it seems like I'm bleeding a normal amount (30-45ml in the first 24 hours of AF!)! All thanks to modern medicine! (Appropriate since yesterday (CD1) was the March for Science.)

    I'm hoping my docs think this is good enough news to let us TTC this month, so I'm joining you all in WTO (though I potentially have an office hysteroscopy on May 23 to take a peek at my uterus to make sure everything looks good and no more surgery is needed). I know it could be a long road before we get KU, but it's already been a long road and I'm just hoping to finally be back in the game!

    Now I just want to start getting my eating and exercise habits back in line and out of stress mode!
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
  • @weareturtles. So glad you got AF and it appears normal.  I hope all goes well from here on out. It has been a long rough road for you.  
  • @weareturtles glad things are going better and I hope they continue to do so.
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  • @weareturtles, glad to hear things are looking up!  :) 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • hooray @weareturtles - so happy to hear this good news!!
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • i go here now 
    ::sniff sniff ::
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • SP128SP128 member
    @weareturtles so happy to hear that things are finally looking up

    @ladipale hugs lady

    got blood drawn this morning to see if i ovulated. I don't think I did since there was no temp shift. So hopefully I'll hit a this least one day of fw. Dh is goon get away today and won't be back until thursday. Here's hoping I o today !
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128. Hope you O today. Even if you don't sperm can live more than 1 day so they can wait for it.
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