C&P from Randoms:
Can we talk diaper bags? What's everyone getting/asking for? I had a boxy petunia pickle bottom and I loved the backpack option on it so I am thinking of getting another backpack but I almost want to try a different bag. The PPB didn't feel particularly roomy and it was a little bit heavy.
I know this was partially discussed in the Baby Gear and Baby Item Recommendations thread but I want to hear from FTMs too. What are you going for? And also if you are a STM and didn't get to chime in before or if you feel like sharing again what your bag of choice is and why.
Me: 38 DH: 36
Married 8/27/2011
BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
Re: Diaper Bags
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01AUHGCJA/ref=br_it_dp_o_nS_ttl?ie=UTF8&colid=20AV87KXP68A8&coliid=I3GX3TLFTUMZ4L&vs=1&th=1
https://www.verabradley.com/us/product/Uptown-Baby-Bag/Wavy-Stripe-with-Navy/15625-15625697951?Ntt=VB-PDP-BAGS-DIAPER-BAGS-PDP-VB
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https://www.katespade.com/products/watson-lane-betheny-baby-bag/PXRU7645.html?cgid=ks-diaper-bags&dwvar_PXRU7645_color=001#start=1&cgid=ks-diaper-bags
1st Baby 5/12/17, Henry
Sweet Baby H 12.21.11
Sassy Baby P 03.26.14
Little Brother Due 05.22.17
I have a petunia boxy packpack. It's been great for 1 child and I love the changing pad. After 1.5 years of daily use it looks brand new. I usually wear it messenger style while carrying DS into daycare. It does not fit in the bottom of my stroller and I usually just use it for daycare or day trips. I wanted another bag that's a little bigger for 2 kids so I got the mud pie bigger bundle diaper bag. I haven't used it yet but overall I like it. I think it will be good for 2 kids stuff to go to daycare and when we are gone for the day.
https://smile.amazon.com/Mud-Pie-Diaper-Bag-Bigger/dp/B00KTTN7XY/ref=sr_1_2_s_it?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1488815909&sr=1-2&keywords=mud+pie+bigger+bundle
I registered for and got the JuJuBe BFF diaper bag. I really like:
-It has a light-colored interior, which is supposed to make it easier to find things inside.
-It has back back straps and a long shoulder strap, both of which are fully removable. The backpack straps are very well padded (I haven't unwrapped/really examined the longer strap, but I read that it's long enough for cross body or can be just one shoulder)
-It has tons of different pockets for staying organized
-The whole thing can go in the washing machine!
I'm not sure I'll love:
-It seems a little heavy without anything in it yet.
My first bag with kid 1 was the Kate Spade Stevie. They are routinely on sale at the KS outlets for about $125. I liked this early on because you can FTM overpack it without it getting too crowded and hard to use. The outside side pockets are great for keys and your phone, you will want those handy. Also the wide open top make getting things easy especially while you are still getting your baby groove going. I did add a interior divider which made it even more user friendly. Something like this: https://www.amazon.com/Baby-Bottle-Diaper-Organizer-Divider/dp/B00C3NI15S
After that i think I got the Storksak Elizabeth. I LOVE this bag. It is smaller inside once you get tired of the big mom bag feeling and have the hang of cutting down on bag contents. The leather is really nice and the optional carry strap clip on is great for strollers and wearing messenger bag style at the park. This also has good exterior pockets for keys and phone and the extra zippered pocket inside is great for holding mom stuff like tampons, makeup, etc.
I got a second Storksak during the Nordstrom Anniversary sale and went with the Olivia. It has all the features of the Elizabeth but a bit more space. The exterior storage pockets are more plentiful which I liked once my toddler dictator got picker and started demanding more things on the reg like sunglasses (eyeroll)
May '17 labor memes
@starphish18 - that's one stylish looking bag. Somehow I feel like it fits you well.
Married 8/27/2011
BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
with DD we just got a free black Carters tote diaper back at BRU during some promotion. It was on the bigger side and great. We are hoping to find something similar. As long as it can hold Diapers, wipes, change of clothes, couple bottles (if you are at the bottle point).
Oh and ALWAYS an extra shirt for yourself! DD had a poop-explosion all over me when we were out one time, I've never forgotten extra clothes for me since!!
https://www.dagnedover.com/collections/legend-tote
Married:09/14/13
Baby 2 - Due: 5/4/17
https://www.verabradley.com/us/product/Stroll-Around-Baby-Bag/Vera-Vera-Classic-Black/14883-14883081?Ntt=VB-PDP-BAGS-DIAPER-BAGS-PDP-VB
This time I got the Eddie Bauer Fashion Heather Back Pack from Target. It is smaller than I would have hoped, but I'm hoping that will cut down on the clutter in the bag. I wanted a back pack this time, because two kids and I need all the hands I can get. DD is potty trained, so I usually just carry a change of clothes for her and some snacks. I'm hoping this will work nicely.
https://www.target.com/p/eddie-bauer-fashion-heather-back-pack/-/A-51465602
I'll weigh in on the diaper bag debate! I have a Kipling and have used constantly for almost three years and will use with this LO, too. It has held up really well - mine's a black patent that I'm not sure they make any more but I've seen a more nylon type that they typically carry which looks sturdy as well. Lots of storage and it's not as heavy as others I've seen unless it's packed full like mine lol.
ETA: link to a gorgeous marble print one I found on Amazon in the same style as my black one-
https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01MSP49WF/ref=mp_s_a_1_4_s_it/163-9305897-0688447?ie=UTF8&qid=1488819030&sr=1-4&refinements=p_4:Kipling
My first bag was my 'dream' bag because I was obsessed with how it looked, and I actually don't have many bad things to say about it. It was easy to keep organized, had plenty of space, and I still love how it looks. However, it got pretty heavy after a while. I thought cross-body would be a good option, but it really took its toll on my one shoulder.
https://www.etsy.com/listing/78723857/water-proof-cross-body-bag-diaper-bag?ref=shop_home_active_8
From there, I went to a simple daypack from REI. I LOVED IT! It was very light and comfortable to carry, and I could grab stuff out of the side pockets without removing it from my shoulders. My ONE complaint was that there was not easy way to access whatever was on the bottom since the zippers only went down part way. I ended up having to unpack everything to get to what I needed. (And, I was unsure if it would hold enough for two babies.) https://www.rei.com/product/895886/osprey-daylite-daypack
My current - and hopefully LONG TERM bag - is the Jujube BRB. I really don't see myself going back from a backpack (and you won't either once you try one!). After the small backpack, it took a while to get used to the bulk of this bag, but it will definitely hold more and it's very easy to keep organized. BEWARE: It's easy to go down the Jujube rabbit hole and think you need 37 matching smaller totes to put inside. Consider yourself warned.
https://www.amazon.com/Ju-Ju-Be-Collection-Backpack-Diaper-Diamond/dp/B01EA47WYI/ref=sr_1_sc_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1488820756&sr=8-1-spell&keywords=jujube+brb&th=1
It is big, lots of pockets, and I'm sure I'll use it all the time.
www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B01GKVWID4?ref=br_ov_mobile_detail&colid=22BXWYG9JHOF0&coliid=I1A3YCIHBAMJ8W
With DS, I started with this Skip Hop bag. I liked the way that it looked and it seemed (based on reviews) like I would love the functionality. Not so much. For a FTM, I felt like the pockets were really shallow and it just felt hard to get everything organized the way that I wanted it to. I also just felt like the bag was too narrow and it was impossible to find things in it. I used it for maybe 3 months and then moved on.
https://www.amazon.com/Skip-Hop-Special-Diaper-French/dp/B00B7XUVLW/ref=sr_1_5_s_it?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1488828122&sr=1-5&keywords=skip+hop+diaper+bag
After I ditched the Skip Hop, I started using a large from Longchamp along with a host of smaller bags internally to organize snacks, diapers, change of clothes, formula, bottles, etc. I much preferred this and kept using this system for the first year while DS was on formula and needed more "stuff" to travel. After the 1st year, I just started throwing a leak proof sippy and a diaper clutch in my handbag. And we use this monster as a "diaper bag" for longer spurts of travel (airplane, long car rides, etc) and swim lessons, park days, etc--I can't recommend it enough. It's HUGE, super light weight, very roomy, washable, just an awesome all around bag (this isn't my pattern, ours is a super cute black/white Tokidoki print that appears to be discontinued).
https://www.shop.ju-ju-be.com/super-be-the-first-lady/
Now, looking forward to 2 kiddos, I actually had a woman make a bag for me (she's made a few other bags that I adore) so that it fits my exact specifications. But it's basically a leather convertible backpack/shoulder bag/messenger bag with water proof lining and external pockets for sippys/bottles and a train case bottom with 2 personalized diaper clutches inside. I wanted something that is not at all a diaper bag, definitely had a backpack option, and is practical for multiple stages of child life to come. And I'm using this insert while #2 is still small enough to need a lot of stuff that I want to keep organized:
https://www.lifeinplaycompany.com/
Assuming once she passes the 1 year mark, I can just carry a bag of snacks for both, diapers for her, water/sippies for both of them.
I mostly used this JJ Cole one with DS and really like it.
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This time I've been eyeing this Kidnid one.
1/7/2015 Twins born @ 34 weeks
It’s not that I don’t like you, it’s that I don’t know you. Stranger Danger.
I was also gifted this 31 organizer thing that you keep in the car. I never used it but just decided last week to set it up in the car. There is an extra change of clothes for DD in it plus extra diapers and a small pack of wipes. When this LO is born he will also have his own stuff in there as well and we will keep other spare things that we tend to use on the go but sometimes forget.
The diaper backpack I just got:
May 2014: DS2 born 40w3d, 10 lb, 23"
Due May 2017 with DD1!
Me:31 DH:32 Married 11/06/10
DD: Born 8/23/13 (clomid+ovidrel+IUI)
BFP 9/9/16 EDD 5/19/17
PSA. Petunia Pickle Bottom is up to 60% off on Zulily.
https://www.zulily.com/e/petunia-pickle-bottom-230415.html?ext_id=6DXC3MY4YDDW&map_id=1&deliverable=
@bunniesrfuzzy I am loving that navy polka dot! May have to get that!
DS2 5/17
#3 Due 9/20