I'm sorry, @amberruka. Waiting for anything when TTCAL sucks.
I called the new hematologist I was referred to and the wait is into May.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
Thanks, lassies. Y'all know how to cheer a girl up. On a positive note I could use the jacuzzi at my hotel tonight without reserve...;-)
@SeriouslySirius I think he was overdoing it on the neosporin, I had him do the "air out" thing for a few days which helped, but not enough to keep from tearing.
@NYTino24 May?! Do they know how much your bleeding?! Maybe you could get on a cancellation list...?
@amberruka My doc has to call them and send my bloodwork. Then they will decide if I get to jump the line. She must be good if her waiting list is that long.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@vlagrl29 Well, we aren't waiting for either doc appointment. If I get KU before then, maybe we will get into both sooner.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
Ive already had a lot more CM this month vs last month. I noticed how dry I was the month of my CP so this is encouraging. Quite a bit of creamy CM yesterday.
so we BD this afternoon and tonight I'm feeling crampy. I know its just from the sex but it reminds me of the feeling I had a couple days before I got my BFP in December. I felt so crampy but my boobs were also very sore and full. DH and I had just had sex the night before. oh well for whatever reason I feel pretty hopeful this month possibly because of the increase of CM or possibly because of the progesterone test coming up in a couple week. I'm just happy I'm finally feeling myself again.
@hdaley I tried it out without AF and it seemed fine. Let's see if I can manage during AF.
I'm still clueless over here about when I will O. CD 16 and no positive OPK since the last one 5 days ago which was probably because of HCG still in my system from CP. @vlagrl29- Did you count the first day of bleeding of your CP as CD1? And what CD did you O after that? Last month my cycle was only 21 days.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@justsuzie CD1 is supposed to be the first day that you really bleed from a MC. I did not track in Jan because I didn't want to so I'm not sure the actual day I O'd. The only reason I'm tracking this month is for my Progesterone test. I'll be starting the OPKs again on Tuesday. I should O sometime this upcoming week. Then no more tracking until I have to. Let me just say the sex is so much better. Watching 50 shades darker yesterday with DH got me in the mood.
@vlagrl29 Yah, planning sex takes all of the fun out of it. I am pretty sure I haven't/won't O this cycle considering I am on CD17 and no positive OPK and my temps are ultra low. I guess it's because of the CP? ALthough I got pg the month after my first CP. I have also been seriously stressing over the CP and I have heard that delays O as well. The more I say I WONT think about tracking and temping the more psycho I become so I guess I am back to tracking next cycle. @vlagrl29 I am glad the no tracking/temping is working for you though! Good luck this cycle.
I am not temping... fully intended to but then hubby will know exactly what I am up to and I don't want to put pressure on him. Just using OPKs, more for the purpose of knowing if I have a chance at being pregnant each month, as it doesn't work for us to plan sex. But at least this way I will know if there is a chance.
I took a break for a week or two, but am back and should be Oing soon. I decided to take the month off from temping because my O date has been pretty consistent the past 5-6 months and I just need a break. DH and I just decided to have all the sex this month so no matter when I O we should be good. If I O the same as usual it will be Thursday so heres to hoping maybe this is finally the month.
Dh has also said that he really doesn't want to do testing so even though next month will be a year of trying post loss I will not be going in. This has been hard on me, but I still feel like we need to be on the same page and all the testing in the world might not show anything to begin with. Since I only have 1 tube it may naturally take longer anyway so we are just going to ride it out and hope so hard our rainbow baby will happen.
Me: 32 DH: 36 Married 5/08 BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13 BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16 Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube TTCAL 3/16 BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17 DS #2 born 12/11/17
Glad you were able to take a step back and take a break @taggarab.And you are right that testing doesn't always show anything so why push it with DH if he is so opposed. You have gotten pg before so hopefully it will happen again sooner rather than later. Fx for you!
I thought for sure when I took an OPK sunday it would be positive because of the stretchy CM I saw but I'm on CD 12 and still negative. Now I'm constantly wondering. See this is why I don't like traking
@Taggarab fx this is your cycle! that's frustrating DH isn't willing to pursue testing but I agree, you need to be on the same page. This is so hard, especially on relationships. I hope he'll come around if you don't get a bfp soon.
TW*** Child and loss mentioned Married 10/12 DS 11/14 Ectopic 2/16 PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16 IUI x 3- BFN Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos FET- 6/17- BFP! Due Feb 15, 2017
It's really the little things that make me happy. Knowing my body is back on track. Eating dinner tonight I felt a lot of CM come out. Then after my shower and after I got my clothes on I felt a lot more like water consistency. I got up walked into the kitchen and felt a little drop on my leg. It actually went thru my underware! BD is going to be on tonight. I would not be shocked if that opk was positive tomorrow morning. I haven't had this much CM come out of me in a very long time.
Afm finally a positive opk this morning. I usually O within 48 hours. I was worried I wasn't going to O this cycle due to CP. O is going to be 10 days later than usual but I'll take it.
Im still waiting for AF - it should come tomorrow. Hate that O seems so far away right now. I feel like after you get a BFN you just want to try again. But Im going to try to enjoy the time where I am worrying about O or the TWW as much as I can.
@justsuzie I'm glad O was just a little late this month.
I'm at CD8 and might O in the next few days with the amount of CM I have. I've never been able to catch my surge with OPKs (though I keep trying), so we mainly just do our best to have good timing and then I confirm with temps. We started BDing as soon as AF was over this cycle just in case I have an earlier O than last month's CD11.
@SP128 - at least we have another cycle of fun together! Its nice to have someone going through the same thing at the same time. Even though I wish neither of use were going through this.
@babypi I'm the oppposite...I can't catch my O with CM. I only get watery the day of O and then it's a smaller window. We were using preseed because of this. Hope you have good timing!
I'm on CD 4 and hoping that my cycles go back to normal soon. Debating whether to temp or not. I get a little obsessive with the whole tracking thing! I really just want to feel like my body is back on track & not like I'm malfunctioning!
Me 36 DH 38 Married 1/22/10 BFP #1 3/11 m/c 7w 3d blighted ovum BFP #2 5/11 DD born 1/12 BFP #3 3/16 Chemical Pregnancy BFP #4 12/16 m/c 7w blighted ovum
CD 1 for me today! AF finally came today like clockwork. Its kind of bittersweet because on one hand its like Im knowing exactly when I O and AF came just went it was supposed too but then on the other hand its like damn i had perfectly timed sex and Im still not KU. At least I am understanding my cycles now I really feel like that is half the battle.
Re: February WTO
I called the new hematologist I was referred to and the wait is into May.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
@SeriouslySirius I think he was overdoing it on the neosporin, I had him do the "air out" thing for a few days which helped, but not enough to keep from tearing.
@NYTino24 May?! Do they know how much your bleeding?! Maybe you could get on a cancellation list...?
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Married 7/13
TTC #1 since 10/13
BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
IUI #1 2/25/16
I'm on CD 16 and still no O signs. OPKs are back to negative so HCG is hopefully out of my system.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!
Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017
I'm still clueless over here about when I will O. CD 16 and no positive OPK since the last one 5 days ago which was probably because of HCG still in my system from CP. @vlagrl29- Did you count the first day of bleeding of your CP as CD1? And what CD did you O after that? Last month my cycle was only 21 days.
@justsuzie. Hopefully your body gets back on track soon. I don't think I O'd that first cycle after loss or if I did I missed it.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
If you stress you may O late. I was so stressed with timed BD in October I O'd 5 days later.
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
BFP#1 10/21/11 EDD 06/22/12 natural m/c 11/03/11 6w6d
BFP#2 03/08/12 EDD 11/19/12 met our sweet boy @ 36w5d! 10/25/12!
Dh has also said that he really doesn't want to do testing so even though next month will be a year of trying post loss I will not be going in. This has been hard on me, but I still feel like we need to be on the same page and all the testing in the world might not show anything to begin with. Since I only have 1 tube it may naturally take longer anyway so we are just going to ride it out and hope so hard our rainbow baby will happen.
Married 5/08
BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
TTCAL 3/16
BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
DS #2 born 12/11/17
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
Afm
finally a positive opk this morning. I usually O within 48 hours. I was worried I wasn't going to O this cycle due to CP. O is going to be 10 days later than usual but I'll take it.
@justsuzie - yay for O!
@vlagrl29 hope you get a pos opk soon. So jealous of your abundance of cm
@justsuzie glad to hear that o isn't coming albeit a little delayed.
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
I'm at CD8 and might O in the next few days with the amount of CM I have. I've never been able to catch my surge with OPKs (though I keep trying), so we mainly just do our best to have good timing and then I confirm with temps. We started BDing as soon as AF was over this cycle just in case I have an earlier O than last month's CD11.
@babypi. That's what DH and I do. I missed the first O after MC. So we start BD on CD8 and the every other day until positive OPK.
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
@babypi I'm the oppposite...I can't catch my O with CM. I only get watery the day of O and then it's a smaller window. We were using preseed because of this. Hope you have good timing!
I really just want to feel like my body is back on track & not like I'm malfunctioning!
Married 1/22/10
BFP #1 3/11 m/c 7w 3d blighted ovum
BFP #2 5/11 DD born 1/12
BFP #3 3/16 Chemical Pregnancy
BFP #4 12/16 m/c 7w blighted ovum