TTCAL Weekly Check-In Week of 1/30/17

NYTino24 · January 2017

1. Introduce yourself. If you're new, this is the perfect place to jump in and let us know a little about you.

2. Status -WTO, TWW, Benched

3. Rants/Raves

4. GTKY: If you could see any musician or band perform live, who would it be and why?

NYTino24 · January 2017

I have to P&G until lunch. HCG was zero Saturday, so there's that. Bring on AF.

Mack2342 · January 2017

2. Status -WTO, TWW, Benched
TWW. 7DPO

3. Rants/Raves. I don't really have anything to rave or rant about. Just that this waiting is a killer.

4. GTKY: If you could see any musician or band perform live, who would it be and why? Prince. I love his music. He was so talented. I was very upset when he passed. I'm glad that I got to see him once in concert.

nalex420 · January 2017

. Introduce yourself. If you're new, this is the perfect place to jump in and let us know a little about you. Not new....Nicole

2. Status -WTO, TWW, Benched...cycle #2 since mc...tww CD 21

3. Rants/Raves....the waiting is killer and makes me think everything is a sign

4. GTKY: If you could see any musician or band perform live, who would it be and why?

SP128 · January 2017

Not new. Mmc 10/2016

wto. Cd 13

negative opk this morning. Having a defeatist attitude. I oed on cd 13 last cycle and the cycle I got ku. In my head there is something obviously wrong.

Had a lovely bday weekend. Pretty much ate the whole weekend. Dh took me to improv and then a Korean restaurant. Sunday morning we had a brunch of dim sum

I would love to go to a Florida Georgia line concert. They just look so fun.

mylittleversailles · January 2017

2. Status - TWW 9dpo!

3. Rants/Raves Had a great time in Montreal and really relaxed. Felt loved and hopefully radiated that back on to people. No rants to speak of.

4. GTKY: If you could see any musician or band perform live, who would it be and why? I actually already saw my dream concert. Sufjan Stevens, 9th row centre at Massey Hall for his Carrie & Lowell tour. It was an electronic assault with the lights and music meant to simulate his mother's death and ascension to heaven. I cried the whole way through and that's not just because it was about extraordinarily complicated grief. His music means everything to me and has always been strangely prophetic when it comes to loss in my life. I'm anxiously awaiting another album and another tour. I'd also love to see Burial, but I doubt he'd ever play North America.

RiverSong15 · January 2017

1. Most definitely not new, unfortunately.

2. TWW 5 or 6 DPO depending on which detector I use in FF.

3. Rants/Raves. I just don't feel like this is our cycle since it was a bit of a weird cycle for me. Scant CM, high pre-O temps (I'm guessing because my estrogen was lower for some reason - would also explain the lack of CM), timing was only OK, and my post-O temp jump wasn't that high until this morning. We'll see though - I was 110% convinced last cycle was going to be it, and clearly I shouldn't go into the psychic business anytime soon. A combo rant/rave is that work is still insane. The rant is that I'm exhausted from working every weekend the last four weeks. The rave is that I can't believe I'm already at 6 DPO - I'm hoping the second half of this TWW goes by just as quickly.

4. I'm a bit lame and don't go to concerts very often. I like the summer concerts at one of the wineries in my state - you can bring food, drink lots of wine, and just sit on the lawn. They tend to only get older bands (we saw Counting Crows and Rob Thomas this summer - is my age showing?). I don't like super loud concert venues.

Sorry for the Post and Ghost - I'm up against a work deadline this morning. I'll come back later to respond to everyone!

Mack2342 · January 2017

@sp128. I love Florida Georgia line too. Anything country! Glad you enjoyed your birthday weekend.

@reneeannemm. Glad you enjoyed Montreal. I have no clue about the band/musician you referenced but sounds interesting

@RiverSong15 Sucks work is so busy but glad it's taking your mind off this dreaded wait! My cycles have been wonky too. This one seems to be the most normal so far. But I'm convinced it's not my time this month. Hopefully doctor can assist when I see her next week.

TScalei · January 2017

1.) Not new but mmc in March 2016 and mmc in August 2016.

2.) CD 16 - WTO- got some EWCM today so hoping O is right around the corner.

3.) Rant- I have just been feeling kind of blah lately. I have the woe is me - everything is blah and nothing is ever going to get better attitude.
Rave - I now recognize when I am getting down and start doing things to make myself feel better which is progress. Just being proactive about it makes me feel better.

4.) I would love to see Justin Timberlake live. I saw him when he was with *Nsync but that was almost 20 years ago ( yikes!). He is such a great performer/ entertainer and Im sure he would put on a great live show.

@Mack2342 - lucky you saw Prince before he passed away. Im sure he would have been amazing to see live!

@Sp128 - glad you had a good birthday wknd - stand up show and eating all weekend sounds perfect! Fx for you this cycle its so hard not to have a defeatist attitude sometimes.

@Reneeannem - glad you had a fun weekend in Montreal! Fx for you this cycle!

@Riversong15 - I know I felt so optimistic last cycle too and was gutted when I got AF and its just hard to hope after that. Sorry work is still stressful but hopefully it will be a good TWW distraction. Fx for you!

vlagrl29 · January 2017

Not new and AF will hopefully be here within the week. Currently not tracking and just having sex without pressure of timing.

I gave up FB for a week cause it was bringing me down. I just feel like it's becoming all politics and I'm sick of it. So I'm on IG more with the yoga community.

I saw prince back in 2003 I think. So amazing! I would like to see Bruno Mars.

justsuzie · January 2017

@NYTino24 Hooray for ZERO! Hope AF comes quick.

@SP128 Well maybe the 13th is your unlucky number then! Hoping O comes soon.

@reneeannemm Love Sufjan. I actually play one of his songs for the kids frequently because they also love him. FX for tww testing. When are you planning on doing that?

@RiverSong15 Just like @SP128 maybe odd timing, temps, and cm are what will be the key to getting ku! I hope the tww goes by without making you too crazy.

AFM

CD 4- ANd my AF is fierce. I have never had it this heavy before. My last AF was super light so I am thinking my uterine lining is strong and ready next month.

Rant- I work with some of the most right-wing tea party conservatives. Can that be rant enough? Anyhow at work a group of teachers were talking about how pro-life they were and how anyone who has had an abortion would burn in hell. Only 2 people know about my ectopic and having to take methotrexate to terminate. So, I casually walked by and said, "Looks like I'm burning in hell. I hope there's vegan food." I didn't offer any explanation and they all turned ghost white. I can only imagine the rumors that are circulating, and I hope someone comes up to me to ask. Being informed and being pro -life is one thing, which I can respectfully disagree with. Being ignorant and pro-life is disgusting.

I got to see Oasis in high school which was awesome. Now, I would love to see Beach House. I use to go to shows all the time. I think I'm old and lame now.

vlagrl29 · January 2017

@justsuzie your co workers are so close minded. Awesome comeback!

justsuzie · January 2017

@vlagrl29 I gave up FB the week after my loss. Best thing ever. I don't miss it and oddly I feel liberated.

mylittleversailles · January 2017

I also stopped using Facebook for personal posts, though I still use it for my website's page. The constant barrage of horrible things happening in the world was too much; the suffering, the tension, the Nazis. I can read to stay informed on my own, as I can. I can make a difference in my community but not beyond. It's reduced anxiety I didn't even know I was experiencing.

TScalei · January 2017

@justsuzie - Im applauding and hugging you at the same time. Good for you! Im sorry you have to deal with such ignorant jerks!

@vlagrl29 - Ive given up fb several times during this process and always feel so much better when I do. I really should do it again bec all the political posts of late are just too much. I greatly prefer IG - its nice just to scroll through and see pictures without everything else.

vlagrl29 · January 2017

I do use it for my business and I have so many friends on it so I don't want to totally give it up but man does it feel so good to have that control right now of not logging on. I wish there was a way to really control what you see on there w/o having to unfollow people.

I forgot to mention I had a dream last night **DD mentioned** Had a dream she was in middle school and after she got on the bus I realized how lonely I was because we didn't have any younger kids yet everyone around me did. Woke up feeling like even if we can't conceive kids on our own I want to adopt. I don't want any regrets of not having more. It would hurt me so much.

amberruka · January 2017

1. Not new-but it looks like so far we don't have anyone new this week, so that's good.
2. WTO CD3. Cycle 6 TTCAL. Working on that 'staying positive' thing too.
3. R/R: I started a muscle relaxer for my back and it's like, where have you been all my life?! Ha ha. Hopefully head out for a bit for a combo run/walk, just walking is killing me!
4. Can't think of a dream concert, but I can't *wait* for Depeche Mode to tour again, they put on the most amazing, electric performances!

@RiverSong15 I've had issues the last 3 months with the scant EWCM as well, it's so frustrating!
@NYTino24 glad you finally got back to zero.
@justsuzie good for you! I have used in the past, "whoever gets there first, light the barbeque" as well.
@reneeannemm keep us posted (from TWW) okey dokey?
@Mack2342 I've heard Prince live is amazing, that's awesome you got to see that.

hdaley · January 2017

1. Not new.
2. Benched. Hcg levels last week Thursday were 2. Very bittersweet. Just waiting for my first period post miscarriage on January 2nd.
3. Still can't get over upper management at work telling me that security footage showed me smiling and not in emotional distress when I made a mistake at work that ended with a severe right up. I am currently looking for a new job thanks to that comment.
4. New kids on the block but only in the 90s!!!

justsuzie · January 2017

@amberruka My very good friend got KU taking muscle relaxers when she scratched her cornea. They actually helped relieve her stress as well and she attributes that to her first child. So happy your back is getting better. And i will have to steal your comeback, love it!

@reneeannemm I was getting bummed out on FB seeing all the bad going on in the world. I like to stay informed but I felt like FB was a dumping ground for depressive things.

SP128 · January 2017

@justsuzie Awesome response. Good for you. In that situation I would probably just freeze. I would either leave or eat in silence. Love your rationale. Maybe 13 isn't my number.

@reneeannemm So happy to hear that Montreal was good. So many positive thoughts your way right now.

@RiverSong15 Being super busy stinks. The only good thing is that it is making this wait go by faster for you. Hoping that the second week of waiting flies for you too.

@NYTino24 Great news on 0 for HCG.

splashmountain · January 2017

1. Introduce yourself.
Not new MC 12/25/16

2. Status -WTO, TWW, Benched
Benched for another cycle

3. Rants/Raves
Rave- DH and I have been either going to the gym or going for a walk every day! I always hated working out, but this time it has been such a stress reliever that I'm excited to go! Never thought I'd say that lol

4. GTKY: If you could see any musician or band perform live, who would it be and why?
I haven't been to a concert in years! Last one I went to was Backstreet Boys (4-ish years ago) talk about flashing back to age 11! I've always wanted to see Cake, I think that would be a fun concert.

Uhlease13 · January 2017

@NYTino24 come on AF!

@Mack2342 @nalex420 @RiverSong15 @reneeannemm fx this TWW goes by quickly!

@justsuzie sorry for a fierce AF but yes, hopefully that means lining is all good

and seriously I hate overhearing those types of convos - and never have the guts to say anything back. Kudos!

@TScalei hugs, sorry about the blahs..hope you feel better soon.

@vlagrl29 those dreams are so hard!!

@SP128 hugs

@amberruka hope the muscle relaxer is the key!!

@hdaley wtf, your work sounds awful for saying that.

@pumpkin0913 yay for liking your workouts!!

afm-
1. Not new, mmc 10/2015 and 10/2016

2. TWW, 5dpo

3. Rant: feeling super at ease right now. I was a mess last cycle, so hopefully I can keep this up for the rest of this TWW. Will be testing next sat/sun.

4. Gtky: hmm, I've seen them a couple times before, but the only band I'd still pay money to see would be Metallica. I'm not a huge concert person.

NYTino24 · January 2017

1. Introduce yourself. If you're new, this is the perfect place to jump in and let us know a little about you.

MC @8 weeks 1/8/17

2. Status -WTO, TWW, Benched

benched post-O on CD23 and waiting for flow...

3. Rants/Raves: I get angry when people flaunt how easy it is for them to get KU on TTGP and IRL. It may have only taken me 3 cycles, but I worked my @$$ off researching, charting, taking vitamins, going off BCP, getting bloodwork done a year before, etc. Even though both DH and my families are extremely fertile going back several generations doesn't mean I will be able to stay KU after getting pregnant.

4. GTKY: If you could see any musician or band perform live, who would it be and why?

I would have loved to have seen Elvis in the 50s or maybe even The Beach Boys. I just like their music! Modern day? I need to see Tim and Faith.

ladipale · January 2017

1. Introduce yourself. If you're new, this is the perfect place to jump in and let us know a little about you.
I'm unfortunately not new but coming back after another loss. I was active here in the summer and fall after our MMC last March. That loss was discovered at 13 weeks. We took the summer off to regroup and travel and got pregnant again in October. Last Monday our world was crushed when we went in for our 16 week appt and discovered baby had passed. This was after a great NT scan 3 weeks earlier and an appointment at 14 weeks as well. I was showing and 'out' to all my co-workers and students. Its been an impossible week

2. Status -WTO, TWW, Benched
Benched for now as we wait. Had a D&E last Monday and surgeon recommends 2 cycles. we are also waiting to do more testing and for appointments with MFM and maybe RE as well. Last time I benched myself for personal reasons for many months and this time I'm ready to jump back on the wagon.

3. Rants/Raves
I don't even know where to start. I could rant all day about how I'm not pregnant anymore. Instead, I'll rave about the amazing care and love we've been showered with for the last 7 days. Starts with my OB whom has shown me more grace and support and love than I think I deserve. The woman cried with me last monday and hasn't left my side (figuratively of course). she's shocked and sad and mad along with us. Then we have the OB she referred us to for our D&E because she doesn't do the procedure. This 2nd OB was equally as amazing. She got us footprints of our sweet little boy (she thinks it was a boy - we are waiting for test results to confirm) and hugged my DH and tried to break rules for us so Dh could be with me in recovery (that didn't happen but she tried). Then there is the village of friends that have surrounded us. So much food in our fridge and freezer. so many flowers. gifts for our girls. countless phone calls and texts and people just showing up when i know they don't want to.

4. GTKY: If you could see any musician or band perform live, who would it be and why? I'm not huge on live music - I know, I'm old

we like to see people like Ira Glass and Trevor Noah live - such nerds.

amberruka · January 2017

Oh @ladipale, I am so, so sorry to see you back here. Big hugs to you.

NYTino24 · January 2017

@ladipale I am so sad for you and especially sorry for you to return again. We are here for you!

TScalei · January 2017

Oh my goodness @ladipale- I'm so sorry. Sending you so many hugs right now. Please take care of yourself this week.

Uhlease13 · January 2017

@ladipale I am so heartbroken for you

I'm sorry you find yourself back here. Hugs.

mylittleversailles · January 2017

@ladipale I'm so sorry. Take care.

@justsuzie I set aside a small amount of time once or twice a day and catch up on Twitter. It always ends in sobbing, but ya know. I've volunteered with Syrian refugees in my neighbourhood and I'm just sick about all of this horseshit.

MimoCa · January 2017

@ladipale so sorry to see you back here and so sorry we were in the same BMB and it didn't work out for neither of us

Mack2342 · January 2017

@ladipale I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself

SP128 · January 2017

@ladipale I'm so sorry that you find yourself here again. I am so happy to hear that your friends and doctors were so good to you. It's heart warming to hear doctors treat you like people with feelings and not just a case. You deserve all that caring and more.

@NYTino24 and @reneeannemm Ugh.... acupuncture sounds absolutely amazing. I don't think we can afford it. These are the prices with a 20% insurance discount. $115 for 90 minute initial visit and $75 for weekly visits for the foreseeable future.

MimoCa · January 2017

1. Introduce yourself. If you're new, this is the perfect place to jump in and let us know a little about you.
Not new, Mimi, 1st MC August, 2nd 12 weeks MMC at 9weeks
2. Status -WTO, TWW, Benched
Benched
3. Rants/Raves
Well, work is quiet so that suck. Also spent my day off on the phone with Immigration to see where DH green card is as its been nearly 2 years pending and still appareny pending. DH also had to warn his cousin to not go to Canada in case this stupid ban gets stupider and it extends to their country of origins. She's a PHD student with a specialty in Cancer research so her dept are going to lecture in Canada but he worries for now and it is better to be safe than sorry. Hoping for a better week but superbowl is this Sunday which means another bad weekend so we just might close and take *gasps* two days off!
4. GTKY: If you could see any musician or band perform live, who would it be and why?
No idea, I never really cared to go to concerts that much but DH wants to see Pink Floyd but tickets are crazy expensive.

@NYTino24 yay for 0 hcg. Means AF will follow soon!
@Mack2342 waiting is the worst!
@nalex420 hope there's good news for you this TWW
@SP128 I love dimsum, I haven't been in so loooonnng. I use to go with my mom every Sunday.
@reneeannemm I never heard of those musicians but I will surely look them up. Sounds interesting!
@justsuzie must suck to work in the environment!
@amberruka Depeche mode! Oh yes!
@hdaley I hope you find a new job soon!
@RiverSong15 sorry work is so crazy.
@TScalei sorry you've been feeling down

@vlagrl29 I can't seem to look away in FB, it's like a train wreck but I'm so nosey!
@pumpkin0913 I hate working out too and I wish I can get back into it but I fell so far lol

justsuzie · January 2017

@Uhlease13 Hang on to those cool as a cucumber vibes as long as you can, they make the tww that much easier. good luck.

@MimoCa Good luck finalizing Green Card stuff. I am sure this is a super tricky time to expedite that process. It's like, can anything EVER working out in your favor. Sometimes I feel like the whole world is against me and all I'm left with is mismatched socks and moldy bread.

@ladipale So sorry to see you back here.

This week is gonna drag ladies, I already feel it. And...do we think punxsutawney will see his shadow or not on Thursday? I am DONE with winter.

MimoCa · January 2017

@justsuzie yes especially with our track record of shit hitting the fan lol

splashmountain · January 2017

@ladipale I'm so sorry for your loss.

SP128 · January 2017

@MimoCa We tried The China in Quincy. It was really good. Haven't been in a so long either. May have to make it a point to go more often.

babypi · January 2017

2. Status - TWW-8dpo

3. Rants/Raves- still getting over a crummy cold, so I'm feeling pretty defeated.

4. GTKY: If you could see any musician or band perform live, who would it be and why? Little Big Town would be top of my list, but I'm not really big on concerts. Too loud for me

jen83mn · January 2017

@ladipale

I am so so sorry ... I can't even imagine the pain you're going through right now. Sending you hugs.

SoonToBeMommaHowe · January 2017

Oh @ladipale, I'm so very sorry ❤️

TScalei · January 2017

@mimoca - GL with the green card stuff- what a fun time to be doing that! Hope business picks up soon but in the meantime a 2 day break sounds nice - you guys have been working so hard!

@justsuzie - I feel that way all the time too - its like bad luck has to run out eventually right? I hear you on the week dragging, this morning I was like at least its Wednesday then I got to work and realized nope its Tuesday...ugh!

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