I'm happy I learned the true meaning AW. Cause I totally thought it meant a--wipe.... which could also possibly be an appropriate adjective for a certain awful SIL.
@jillibean0871 You have absolutely NOTHING to apologize for. I can just picture it now. "How dare you bring a precious life into this world that will play with and probably grow up very close to the child that I am going to have. How dare you take away all of my attention by choosing to expand your own family?"
Why should anyone dictate what you and your your husband decide to do? Is she going to be paying for your child? No. The fact that she's upset about not getting as much attention is soooo childish.
@jillibean0871 I know others keep saying it but there is no reason for you to feel bad or apologize. I got pregnant when my SIL was 6 months pregnant--TWICE! We laugh about it now and it's great having our kids so close in age. When I got pregnant this third time my husband said "call our SIL and tell her she's apparently 6 months pregnant!" This is a fun time for both of you and anyone who can't see the joy and fun in having someone to go through pregnancy together is a jerk. No one has dibs on a spotlight save for a one time occasion. She can't have it the whole 40 weeks. I hope they get their heads out of their butts and quit making you feel this way!
Echoing pp's that's insane, she needs to not be a narcissist and realize that you being pregnant too with probably just be quite fun and it will really help when y'all are both in the battlefield of motherhood and can bounce ideas and questions off of each other or have play dates etc. what a TW
@MplsKate@kristanoah@msashleyrose thanks ladies and anyone else I forgot to tag! It sucks but I suspect after she's done bitching and moaning about it that she will be just fine. I was just upset i was made to feel like I had done something wrong for expanding my family. If I wasn't AMA already I would have waited even longer and let her have the spot light. But I'm not getting any younger
@mynamestaken Got it. I was thinking A Whole but then I remember that hole doesn't have a "w" in it. Idiot. Thanks!
I think I accidentally reported this trying to write it! I'm sorry!
@Amanda H. No worries. I've accidentally reported people trying to quote the too. But, I can't actually you with the space in your name so you may never see this
Edited because I realized I could just quote you back!
**TW**
Me & DH: 32 Married 2013 Kiddo #1: Sept 2015 BFP: 1/19, EDD: 9/30
"I'm having fruit salad for dinner. Well, it's mostly just grapes, actually. Ok all grapes. Fermented grapes. Fine, I'm having wine for dinner."
Re: Twatwaffle (TW) Tuesday 1/24
Why should anyone dictate what you and your your husband decide to do? Is she going to be paying for your child? No. The fact that she's upset about not getting as much attention is soooo childish.
DS2: EDD- 09.08.17
*TW*
30 January 2017: Loss at 6+2
8 March 2017: Loss at 5+4
*TW*
30 January 2017: Loss at 6+2
8 March 2017: Loss at 5+4
Edited because I realized I could just quote you back!
Married 2013
Kiddo #1: Sept 2015
BFP: 1/19, EDD: 9/30
"I'm having fruit salad for dinner. Well, it's mostly just grapes, actually. Ok all grapes. Fermented grapes. Fine, I'm having wine for dinner."