I saw this thread in May and thought it was a fun discussion.
I'm 2 miles away from the mega-hospital (it's basically the major industry in our tourist town at this point). Should take about 5-10 minutes to get there.
Work is a little farther, but I could still get there in less than half an hour. Yay for small towns and no traffic! Plus, I work on a floor full of nurses, so going into labor at work would be NBD.
So tell me about your upcoming trips to birth centers and hospitals! Is anyone delivering at home? Also, I'm gonna take a second to be happy we're having summer babies and avoiding snow-mageddon travel.
Re: GTKY: Distance from the Hospital?
I've never gone into labor spontaneously, and I'll likely be induced due to GD, so I'm not too worried about making it there in time, but it's comforting to know it's just up the road just in case.
I work about 5 minutes from the hospital. I live somewhere in the 35-45 minute area, depending on whether it is rush hour or not. it was fine when I had DD...I actually kept going to the office every day because I figured "why work from home when the office is so much closer to the hospital" but of course I went into labor spontaneously at home on a Sunday morning.
I am SLIGHTLY nervous about this being #2 and her coming faster this time though. With DD I got to the hospital at 2pm with contractions 2-3 minutes apart and she was born at 11:55pm (after they had to give me drugs to slow labor down due to DD's heart rate, and then also it took 2.5 hours to push her out because she was sunny-side-up, thank the good lord for epidurals). My doctor was all "if your next one is face down it will fall right out of you!" and that sounded great at the time but now it's a little scary haha. There is a closer hospital but it's not as nice, so I didn't want to switch to an OBGYN that delivered there when we moved here. That one would still take 15-20 minutes to get to anyway.
Basically as soon as contractions start up I'm heading in this time around. My friend lives a block from the hospital so if they won't admit me i'll hang in her living room until they will. We'll just have to line up child care for DD first. I have an irrational fear that I won't make it there in time for the epidural, and I really want that epidural. I'm kind of hoping my time-able contractions start up on a weekday morning, so we can drop DD at daycare and head to the hospital, knowing that my in-laws will be here in time to pick DD up (it's an 8 hour drive, but they literally had their bags packed and in the car last time and left the minute we called, so I'm not worried about them). If I have to head in overnight, we'll ask a neighbor to stay in the house until my in-laws arrive I guess. it's hard not having family living anywhere close to you, and my closest friend that does live here is due 5 days before me so she will not be an option for child care. In a pinch, I could bring DD to my friend's house who lives right by the hospital too and she would watch her until my in-laws got here. Lots to think about.
I'm a little uneasy about distance for this LO (#3) as my backup care for my kids (my folks) are 2 hours away from my house. Given the distance, we'll probably have to take the kids with us if it is the middle of the night because I'm not waiting 2 hours and then driving another 40 minutes with #3 making his/her way through! With DD, I went from 4cm to fully dilated in less than about 1.5 hours (I had started labor at 2cm).
We live about a 5-7 minute drive from the hospital, it's a straight road with maybe 4-5 sets of lights.
That said, our last child was born at home and we were about 45-60 minutes from the nearest hospital then.
I delivered DD at a different hospital about 20 minutes away. My water had broken, so it was quite the trip!
BFP #1 6/13 DD 3/14
Mirena 10/14-5/16
BFP #2 9/2/16, CP confirmed 9/8/16
BFP #3 10/10/16 EDD 6/22/17
Mom to Madison- 5 and Lillian 2....and now surprise baby #3!
DH: 29
DS: 18 months 4/2/2015
Baby #2 EDD: 6/1/2017
Me: 36; DH: 38
DD: 7; DS1: 4; DS2 due 6-21-17!
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MMC & D&C Aug 2016
@HgPa I am also really happy about it being a summer baby. I would probably panic with a Cleveland winter baby.
married 2011
mmc June 2016
Me: 31 DH: 34
Married 11/09/2013
LO#1: LMP 09/14/2014 BFP 10/15/2014 EDD 06/24/2015 DS Born 06/14/2015
LO#2: LMP 09/18/2016 BFP 10/19/2016 EDD 06/27/2017 DD Born 06/27/2017
LO#3: LMP 05/16/2018 BFP 06/18/2018 EDD 02/20/2019
we were 25 min away with dd and labor with dd did not hurt at all so we didn't go in until my water broke. I transitioned in the car which was not very fun. Especially since dh called to warn them we were coming in while driving and they said they were full!! Lol so as we were walking into the other hospital (across the st from the first) they called back and said they made room. So by the time we checked in and were in our room I was at 9.5 luckily she was presenting a little crooked or she probably would have been born in the parking lot. Lol
Im really hoping I'll be healthy enough to stay home this time.
@c1tym0m22 I'm jealous!
@neludelu 'Brisk waddle' is killing me
I love hearing from STMs in the thread - super reassuring to read your stories. I have too much on my mind to be stressed about labor yet, but I know I'll be getting antsy and nervous soon enough.
This is the same hospital I delivered DD at and the ride wasn't nearly as bad as I'd thought. I vomited intermittently throughout labor and was TERRIFIED I would throw up in the car, but luckily did not! When I go into labor this time my sister will watch DD, she lives in our neighborhood and volunteered to watch her before we even asked.
OP mentioned being glad its not winter and I'm grateful for that too in some ways. Although where I live it will be hot AF come June and when I had DD in December I put on a coat and walked outside at the beginning of labor, that probably won't happen this time, unless I want to be a sweaty laboring puddle on the sidewalk!
I was a schedule c section with my first and scheduled to be induced with my second so child care was easy. I walked in at a 6 not knowing I was really having contractions then went fairly quickly so im a little afraid of going into labor on my own and not knowing until late in the game. Having this baby at home unassisted would scar my husband for life lol. He's a baby when it comes to this stuff. But I'm sure it will all work out.
We'll drive past one and in the opposite direction from another (where the twins were born) that are less than 10 minutes from our home.
The baby factory is about 15 minutes from our house without traffic... otherwise maybe 25, assuming no major issues on surface streets or the highway that would turn it into a 40 minute ride.
Elyse, which hospital are you delivering at? I think it's interesting that some of us could end up delivering at the same hospitals (and potentially be there at the same time).
OP mentioned snowmageddon, I have a friend that went into labor in the middle of the one we had here in Mass exactly two years ago. She got stuck on the on ramp to the highway and needed the ambulance to come get her while her hubby got towed outta the snow since there was a travel ban in place so nothing had been plowed at the time. Quite the story for the little one.
Hopeing to do some laboring at home before we head In so hopefully this baby doesn't decide to come too fast!
K born 8/31/12
C born 1/11/14
BFP #3 Nov 2014: D&C January 2015
BFP #4 Sept 2016: Due May 31 2017
Childcare is a little different, since we have my SS 50% of the time we have to have both bases covered... he goes to a summer program which will watch him from as early as 7am to as late as 6pm... so hopefully I go into labor when he gets dropped off and we will have my MIL stay with him until need be.
If I go into labor in the middle of the night while we have him, he will either have to come with us to the hospital until his summer program opens (it's also within 10minutes from the hospital) or he can stay with MIL.
Or we will get lucky and he will be with his BM