I'm getting really overwhelmed with all of the appointments I need to have. I think at this point I am supposed to be seeing my OB twice a month but am seeing her every week to run labs for pre-eclampsia because I have chronic high blood pressure. This is in addition to my monthly high-risk OB appointment (this is my second pregnancy so since I had hypertension the first go-round I am automatically high-risk). Tomorrow I also have an appointment with an opthalmologist to do an eye exam because my vision has been doing very strange things. I've seen everything from spots, to cobwebs, to squiggles of lights, to it literally looking like lights are flickering on and off when I am sitting in a dark room and it has me very worried. Mostly it's just been in my peripheral vision but lately I've been seeing some of these things "pinballing" across my main vision line.
I'm worried because apparently the treatment for this is delivery, and I just reached 32 weeks this past Saturday.
Anyone else experiencing similar symptoms that is as far or further along than me that can offer any advice or insight? I'm just hoping I don't have to deliver early.
TIA, Sarah
Re: Anyone else borderline pre-eclampsia/vision problems?
But Seriously coming into an established board and starting your own thread looking for support when you've offered precisely none to us for the 30ish weeks we've been here is frowned upon.
TTC since January 2016
BFP - 3/12/16 - MC 4/5/16
BFP - 6/11/16
@MrsDramaK, how was your response in any way helpful? I find the mobile version of this site to be extremely difficult to navigate which is why I don't post that much. I also spend Monday through Friday from 6am-7:30pm working as a Lead Teacher in an infant classroom where I am offering support, advice, and resources to mothers every day. I'm sorry that's a format that is apparently 'frowned upon' in your opinion, but I offer my help whenever and however I can, even if it is not always here on this website. Between working, chasing around a toddler, and overall just not feeling well this whole pregnancy, I'm sorry I have not been as active on this site as I was the first time around. However, I can honestly say that if someone came to me concerned for their personal health or that of their unborn child, my response would not be to shun and criticize them. As far as I knew, this was a community for women who are expecting in February 2017, of which I am a part of. We are all on this journey together and if you don't want to answer my question that is your prerogative, but you didn't have to be so insensitive about it, either. I clearly found my way to somehow post a thread on here because I am THAT stressed and overwhelmed and didn't need your rude response.
OP, I've had some weird visual floaters, not nearly what you described. I hope you get some helpful answers and can stay pregnant a while longer! Can you reduce your hours/days at work? That would help with all these appointments and probably with your other issues, too. Good luck!
At this point in our pregnancies, we are a very established community who have been sharing and supporting each other since May/June. New people are welcome, but we do have established guidelines. If you'd like to get to know us, post an intro and do some lurking. If that doesn't suit you, well, you may need a fire suit.
Go ahead. Flame away.....
FTM, 2 Furbabies
married 03/17/07
lived in Houston, Austin, Los Angeles and NYC
due: 2/15/17
I think the point PP's were making is that TB is a community. It's give and take. It's as if a stranger walked up to a group of friends and instantly asked for advice and then got offended when people re-directed them or simply asked "who are you?".
First BFP: 12/16/13
EDD: 08/23/14
Baby BOY born: 08/29/14
Every pregnancy is so different and with you being monitored that's really the best source of information you're going to get.
Nobody really got too carried away with criticizing you. I understand why it feels that way, but really a few of us simply suggested to move your question to an appropriate thread in order to get the most feedback... and some even commented directly to your concerns, in this thread, while trying to be helpful.
MommaBean said:
This ^^ was very sweet.
Again I have no experience with what you are going through, and no knowledge, so instead, I'm sorry you feel worried and stressed. I hope your appointment tomorrow can ease your mind, and good luck.
Listen whatevs. I'm just saying I didn't think it needed to be rerouted to symptoms and who cares. If a woman needs support I'm here to help if I can. My support isn't conditional.
I personally try to do things because I want to or out of kindness, not because I expect anything in return. That's how you end up pissed off. Expectations.
Anywho OP I hope someone here is able to help you out and offer suggestions or at least comfort in knowing you aren't alone.
FTM, 2 Furbabies
married 03/17/07
lived in Houston, Austin, Los Angeles and NYC
due: 2/15/17
However your tl:dr/ dear diary rebuttal about why you haven't posted was ridiculous.
We are all busy. We all have different pregnancy issues. We HAVE all established a bond/ community/ rapport that doesn't take kindly to newbs barging in and wanting things their way.
If you want to stay, and be an active contributor you are welcome to, but please don't use us as your personal google.
The issue is more when random people just make their own snowflake thread and then get butt hurt when redirected...
well I don't think anyone was being rude and I also don't think anyone's support here is "conditional". We pretty much agreed from the beginning that this board would be structured a certain way and that's why she was being re-routed to symptoms. It wasn't to be assholes. Anyone who isn't used to
the board's vibe generally get the same responses.
First BFP: 12/16/13
EDD: 08/23/14
Baby BOY born: 08/29/14
You clearly are butt hurt if you think that was "Mean Girls" for someone to tell you our guidelines.
FTM, 2 Furbabies
married 03/17/07
lived in Houston, Austin, Los Angeles and NYC
due: 2/15/17
Instead of coming back and arguing your point, you could have posted in the appropriate place and moved on.
Some of us are definitely snarky, but it is a very supportive board overall.
First BFP: 12/16/13
EDD: 08/23/14
Baby BOY born: 08/29/14