TTC After a Loss

***December TWW***

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Re: ***December TWW***

  • Was messing around with FF - aka, falling down the SS rabbit hole - and I realized I had accidentally inputted something under the Ferning Microscope section.  I removed the entry and FF shift my crosshairs making me only 10 DPO (originally was 12, which had already shifted from 13 DPO earlier last week).  If that's true, and this crampiness/brown tinged CM becomes AF, that'll be a shorter than usual LP. I'd really like to not add that to my list of issues!

    GL to everyone testing soon!
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

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  • I took a FRER this morning and BFN :( I'm just at the 6 days before AF so o guess I will be waiting for it to arrive.  I'm a bit bummed.  I've decided one more month of trying and then I will see OB to see options.  I'm 41 and don't want to waste too much time 
  • I'm unofficially moving over here. I'm 2dpo and with one more high temp I get cross hairs. All other signs also point to O on Sunday so thought I would move on over. We had good timing so I'm hopeful but I'm also trying not to go crazy; so far so good. My plan as of now is to wait until AF is due to test, which falls on Christmas Eve and the day DH and I have Packer tickets. So not sure if I will test or not as I don't want to be in a bad mood, so I guess I will just see what my temps look like and go from there.

    @Wingless00 I saw you are also 2dpo cycle buddy! We are totally going to get through this wait together.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Ladies...waiting time sucks..but its a bit easier with all the support from all of you. 7DPO here. Sorry for the BFNs this month. Never lose hope. FX for great news before the end of the year! 
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • @stephann85 I think the fact that my cycle buddy O'ed on Sunday must mean that I did, too! I'll make it official in my head that I'm 2dpo - FF be damned! The Packer's game sounds like a lot of fun. Bundle up!

    @endo_mom The waiting does suck and there is just so much of it. Here's to hoping that we can all turn 2016 around with some BFPs!


  • I hear ya on the waiting.  I'm pretty caught up a time work so I'm stuck with my brain and overanalyzing everything. 

    My obsession from last night was checking my resting heart rate on my Fitbit. 

    7dpo here 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Thought I was already in TWW but surprise EWCM yesterday (had small amount 6 days ago-WTH?) so DH took one for the team last night despite still having very irritated skin from Friday  ;). He's a trooper. Now we wait, cycle buddies @Wingless00 and @stephann85...
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @Mack2342 Sorry for the BFN.  I'm in the same boat.  Per updated FF, 11 DPO and BFN, but I could be as far as 14 DPO and all BFNs.  I'm crampy, spotting the slightest bit, and now just want AF to hurry on up so it doesn't rain on my vacation parade too much.  That means it'll show Friday and be extra terrible because that's exactly how this crappy year should end.  (Sorry, I'm probably PMSing, too!)

    Good luck to the ladies who are early in the TWW. Fx for everyone! :smiley:
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • Sorry about the bfn @laeberge3 and @Mack2342.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • stephann85stephann85 member
    edited December 2016
    So I am super confused... I am now wondering if I actually O'd. I am having really awesome ewcm right now and my cp is still high soft and open. And I haven't slept really well the last couple nights and am wondering if it is affecting my temps... ugh. Sounds like we might be kinda in the same boat @amberruka . I know DH is tired but still planning to HIO tonight just in case.

    Edit because it posted only part of what I wrote.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @laeberge3.  I'm sorry for your BFN.  Totally sucks. I'm 13 DPO.  I hope AF arrives so it doesn't interfere too much with your vacation.  I also want mine to hurry up and get here so I can get back to BD and hopefully get that BFP that we all want.  Hopefully we can ring in the new year with a BFP!   FX for all us! 
  • @SP128 cycle buddy...we are also synced tracking the resting heart rate with fitbit :D . My HR has increased this week but I think it means I have been a couch potato :) Traveling for work this week to Montreal were temperatures are not that welcoming :) It doesnt seem like I will be doing any exercise this week. On the postive note, I didnt pack any HPTs on purpose to avoid the temptation. That being said I cannot confirm nor deny that I took a HPT before leaving today lol
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • @amberruka and @stephann85 I hope you get perfect timing despite the O date confusion. FX the husbands will take one for the team  :)
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • @laeberge3 I hope you are just 11 DPO and its still too early. Sending good vibes your way!
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
  • Dpo 9. Trying to make my self wait till to test. Being patient is hard 
  • Sorry for the bfn's @laeberge3 and @Mack2342 :(

    FF changed my crosshairs after my temps shifted so instead of O'ing on cd 11 like I thought, it says cd 15 (which is more normal for me) so I am 8dpo today...and tested today cuz well why not LOL. Bfn obviously. Guess I'm having a beer tonight. :joy:

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • @laeberge3 and @Mack2342 bfn suck!! Not over till af shows up

    @endo_mom I think we have another cycle buddy @Uhlease13

    today I'm feeling like a bloated tick. Actually the last few days. Been eating heartier meals to support the cause. 

    Not going to step on scale as i just dont need that added stress
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128 well that's what I'm going to tell myself.  I won't test again unless AF doesn't show up.  However not super hopeful.  
  • @Mack2342 positive thinking. Can't hurt! When is af due?
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Well, I'm out.  But not before getting **TW** a faint bfp last night and again this morning.  I did have blood drawn this morning to check HCG and progesterone (as I'm quite positive it was low) and AF showed up about two hours later.  I would've typically waited another day before calling the doctor but since we're leaving Saturday morning for vacation, I wanted to get in beforehand and have enough time to check levels on Friday if it was going to progress. Ahh, what a whirlwind of 24 hours.  Feeling as well as could be expected, all things considered.  *end TW*.

    Vacation, I so desperately need you.
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • @laeberge3 damn what a whirlwind :( I'm sorry! Enjoy vacation if you can. 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • @laeberge3 I'm sorry. Enjoy your vacation 

    @SP128 AF is supposed to arrive Monday 
  • @laeberge3  : (  Try to relax on vacation.  You deserve it.
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @laeberge3 I'm so so sorry :( I hope you have a kick ass vacation!!!
  • @laeberge3 I'm so sorry. What a roller coaster.
    I hope your vacation is relaxing. 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @laeberge3 ugh I'm sorry for your emotional roller coaster. Hopefully it doesn't dampen your much needed and looked forward to vacation.
  • So sorry @laeberge3 <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • I'm sorry @laeberge3 - enjoy your vacation!
  • @laeberge3 I'm so sorry. Enjoy your vacation, it sounds like it is much needed. *hugs*
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Thanks, ladies. You all really are the best. 
    Me: 35     DH: 37
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- DS born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19 -- DD born 5.24.19 <3
    BFP: 9.1.21 | MC 10.1.21
    BFP: 11.11.21 | EDD 7.24.22 

     

  • I may kill DH ... he managed to start SS today, so I humored him and waited 5 hours to POAS. I'm about 10dpo so I wasn't about to get too worked up about yet another cheapo stick, but the gish darn wondfo has a weird line way father down than it should be. I'm assuming it's dye bleed or something.

    Anyone have experience with wondfos being weird? It's bugging me and I'd like to know what strange things they do. 

    I'll keep testing till AF since I still have a bunch of these things, but they're starting to drive me nuts.  
  • Sorry for no tags on mobile but sorry for the confusion about O dates for several of you. Hopefully the extra bd will be good luck or timing for you ladies!
  • @allowachick hmm! Have you tried another one yet? I would probably try one more tonight and then try again tomorrow. If there's still any hint of a line, then try a digi! But I have no idea about the line being in the wrong spot, it could be a bad batch unfortunately :( I hope not though! GL! 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • @laeberge3 I'm so sorry. This process can be so cruel. Hope you enjoy your vacation and can get some R&R in! 

    @allowachick I've never experienced that with a Wondfo. Have you tried again? Also, I hear you on having DH SS. It's one thing if I'm acting BSC, it's another when he does.  :D

    @Mack2342, @endo_mom , @SP128 , @Uhlease13 , @Hopefulmommy1980  I'm rooting so hard to each of you! It sounds like there will be a lot of testing this weekend! 

    What's going on with this cycle, @amberruka and @stephann85 ?!?! Based on temps and my Wondfos, I feel pretty good at putting my O at Sunday or Monday. But I'm still having some EWCM (which has happened past O for me before) and my damn Clearblue OPKs are still blinking at me. I hate them! DH and I have HIO 8 out of the past 11 days and I would love to get off the BD train. Have either of you had any clarity about O yet? I'm hoping that we all get good timing - whenever O happen(s)(ed). 





  • @Wingless00 I got crosshairs for Monday but I'm wondering if it is more likely for Tuesday based on secondary signs. In any case I am positive I have O'd at this point based on cp and cm alone.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @Uhlease13 @Wingless00 i got the same weird line in the wrong spot with fmu this morning. I think I'm gonna start testing twice a day with what's left of this seemingly weird batch and then if AF still doesn't show I'll FRER it

    I'm wondering if I bought from the wrong anazon listing? But all the packaging (sticks too) matches the images on the wondfo website. The LH ones didn't really give me definite answers on O from this batch either. Who knows
  • @allowachick how frustrating!!! Fx for you!!

    im over here ss. Still trying to decide when to test
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @allowachick I meant to post this before but check the lot number and google if other people have had issues, I've found that it's usually a certain lot number that gives people issues-dumb tests!! 

    Im holding out on testing until at least tomorrow (11dpo) but I will definitely test Saturday since dh and I are going on a date night in SF sat night so I need to make sure bfp or bfn so I know if Im having a cocktail at our fav restaurant! 

    Me.30 DH.31 
    Est.8.2006
    BFP 8/28/15 mmc @ 11 weeks (d&c)
    BFP 9/28/16 mmc @ 8 weeks (d&c) - trisomy 5
    BFP 2/3/17...edd 10/13/17 <3

  • @uhlease13 samsies! Haha I'm waiting until tomorrow at 11 dpo if my temp hasn't dropped yet. Fx for you!
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