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TTGP Grad Thread Week of 11/28

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  • @dragonfly87 I am so sorry. Take care of yourself.  You have nothing to be embarrassed about.  ((Hugs))
    Married 5/21/2011
    DD 1 10/2012
    CP 9/2013
    DD 2 6/2014
    CP 3/2016        
     BFP 12/8/2016        
    BabyFruit Ticker
        
  • @dragonfly87 I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Please take whatever time you need, and take care of yourself. 
    Me: 32 DH:33
    Married 9/2015
    TTC #1 6/2016
    BFP: 4/21/2017 - CP
    Dx Unexplained IF 6/2017
    Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI 7/2017 - Cancelled (overstimulated)
    Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #1 - BFN
    Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI #2 -BFN
    Letrozole + Ovidrel + IUI#3 - BFP! EDD July 15 2018
    Baby Girl H - July 22 2018


  • @dragonfly87 I am so so sorry to see this. I know that this is like a nightmare. I will not lie to you and say it gets better, but you will get stronger and find the will to face each day. Don't hesitate to reach out to any of us if you need anything. 



  • @dragonfly87 Awww sweetie, so so sorry that you are dealing with this... lots of hugs and positivity coming your way. Take all the time you need, and know that we'll be here when you're ready
  • @dragonfly87 hugs to you pee pact buddy.

     
    Me & DH: 29
    Married June 2015
    NTNP January 2016
    TTC #1 October 2016

    Chart: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/50e54f/

  • @dragonfly87 I have no words that others haven't said

    I am so incredibly sorry <3

    Me: 32 / DH: 33
    DD born: 3/31/19

     




  • @dragonfly87 I am so sorry. Please don't be embarrassed by your emotions now or ever. It's okay to feel and its okay to cry. 
        
    Me: 34 DH: 38
    Married: June 2011
    TTC since Feb 2016
    BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 
    BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
    BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
  • @dragonfly87  I am so very sorry, luvv.  and so glad you have YH's support, too.  everything you're feeling is totally natural and normal and there's no need to apologise.  it totally sucks.  ((hugs))  this too shall pass, but until that time, be as mad or sad or weepy or whatever you need to be.  ❤ ❤❤
  • @dragonfly87 So many warm hugs to you today. My heart is with you. Do what you need to do to bring yourself comfort.  <3

    Me 27 <3 DF 44
    TTC post VR Sept 21/16
    SA 6 weeks post op 50.7 mil count 40% motility

  • @dragonfly87 I just saw this and I'm so sorry. All the hugs to you. 
    DD1 born 1/15/14
    DD2 born 9/10/17
    BabyFruit Ticker


  • @dragonfly87 I am so sorry your going through this. you get to feel all the feels. Hugs and know we are here for you
    *TW*
    TTC 1/2012
    Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
    6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
    TTC #3 5/2016
    Restarted Fertility tx
    IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17

  • @dragonfly87 never be embarrassed to feel your feelings.  A loss is a loss and you have every right to grieve.  Take whatever time you need and know that we'll all be here for you when you need us!  <3
  • I'm so sorry @dragonfly87 what a terrible disappointment  :'( big hugs to you  <3
  • Hugs @dragonfly87, so sorry you are going through this. Hoping the best for you.



    Me: 36 / DH: 37
    Met: 9/21/08
    Married: 10/5/13
    BFP #1- 2/5/17 * EDD- 10/18/17 * DD born- 10/25/17
    BFP #2 3/18/19 * EDD 11/25/19* DS born 11/30/19
  • @dragonfly87 good luck tomorrow and all my love!
  • @hartmich Thank you for the response. I guess if there is a uterine lining issue...did you read if it really does take a few cycles to "build back up" or is that not a concern?
  • @dragonfly87 From what I saw, that was just an unsubstantiated guess but there was no proof. I'm not a doctor but I was a few weeks further than you with my loss and bleeding wasn't atrocious... it was like a slightly heavy period. So MAYBE there'd be a concern if you had a later loss but like you said, if you hadn't been tracking you may have never even have known you were KU. 



  • ChefRamsayChefRamsay member
    edited December 2016
    @dragonfly87 I am so sorry you have to go through this. When I had my MC at 8 weeks my MW told us we could try again immediately, but I still waited a few months because I was not emotionally ready to try again. If staying on the TTGP board helps you please feel free to participate as much as you feel up to. The MC/pregnancy loss board is also a great place for support. I mostly lurked there after my loss but it really helped me reading about other people stories. I am so terribly sorry about your loss and am sending lots of love your way.
    **TW**
    Me: 30  DH:30
    Together 2003, Married 2011
    DD: July 2005
    BFP: 4/10/16, MC: 5/20/16
    BFP: 1/10/17, DD2: Sep 2017

    TTGP Dec '16 siggy challenge winner!


  • @dragonfly87 The best advice I've received regarding knowing if you're ready to try again, is whether or not you are willing to accept any outcome. Whether you get a BFN, a healthy rainbow baby or another loss, you should be ready to accept any outcome. 
    **TW**
    Me: 30  DH:30
    Together 2003, Married 2011
    DD: July 2005
    BFP: 4/10/16, MC: 5/20/16
    BFP: 1/10/17, DD2: Sep 2017

    TTGP Dec '16 siggy challenge winner!


  • @ChefRamsay: Thanks for the advice. I guess I will give myself a few days to decide how I would feel about the outcome. I feel like no one is ever ready for another loss....I think I could handle a BFN. But a positive would probably scare me and make me worry the same thing would happen again. I have decided going forward, I will only test if AF does not show for an entire week. That will at least save me some grief and money.
  • @dragonfly87 I tried again right after my first CP.  I was emotionally ready to try again.  I happened to ovulate earlier than normal the cycle after.  I did start to O a little later for about 6 months later after the last one.  Again, I am so sorry you are going through this.
    Married 5/21/2011
    DD 1 10/2012
    CP 9/2013
    DD 2 6/2014
    CP 3/2016        
     BFP 12/8/2016        
    BabyFruit Ticker
        
  • @NamelessAria Thanks for your response. Yeah she commented that "recent research" might suggest not needing to wait, but still said to wait. Ugh.

    Also, how did you realize your progesterone levels were low? Did they have to run a specific test? I noticed when temping that my temps dropped quite a bit around CD 27. What's weird is that I didn't test positive that day, but then AF didn't start for another two days. Given I was having a CP, I guess everything could have been thrown off, but was just curious is temping could indicate potential issues with progesterone.
  • @dragonfly87 I also have low progesterone, which may or may not have caused my loss (there's really no way of knowing). I only temped for one month, but the progesterone didn't seem to effect my temperature. I found out about it from testing during my pregnancy - when my number was low again in the second pregnancy, my doctor started me on progesterone supplements at five weeks. You can ask for your progesterone to be tested when you go in for your second beta tomorrow, though I don't know how much that will tell you. I believe you can also have it tested during your luteal phase. If it does turn out to be low (which it may well not! Most CPs are caused by it just not being a viable sperm or egg!), I would recommend testing for pregnancy early so that you can start the supplements ASAP.
    TTC #1: 4/16
    BFP #1: 5/16
    MMC at 8 weeks: 6/16
    BFP #2: 10/16 
    Sweet baby boy arrived 7/7/17!
  • spiderlover25spiderlover25 member
    edited December 2016
    @dragonfly87 I'm so sorry you have to go through this. FWIW, it doesn't hurt to get your levels tested and it's piece of mind. My dr said that they usually recommend a 1 month break but it's more for mental health and cycle regulation and everyone's situation could be a little different. 

    **TW** I had an early loss at 5 weeks and my dr only confirmed the loss with a hpt in the office. I was cleared to ttc right away and we got another bfp that cycle.  That pregnancy ended in a ruptured ectopic that the dr said was unrelated. However, I always still wonder if the second pregnancy was related to the first (either a twin or other situation) since my levels were not tested to 0.
    DD1 born 1/15/14
    DD2 born 9/10/17
    BabyFruit Ticker


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