my ex and I just broke up and I found out I'm 5 weeks pregnant (found out last week a couple days after we broke up) before he broke up with me he said 2 reasons. 1) he still loves the mother of his first child but wants to get over her and can't 2) he needs to get his shit together(his sister says he just sit on his ass on his phone all day(sorry about language) and after I told him I thought I was pregnant and he told me this: I can't do this I don't have the time or money. Have an abortion by taking tons of calcium pills. But what if it's cute? and before he was always talking about us having a future and a baby but now I'm scared to tell him I'm pregnant and my mom thinks I should wait until the baby is born to let him see the baby and to serve him with a parenting plan because his standards of a parent and mine are different and his is extremely lazy and iffy. I still kind of love him and he explained he loves me but he could juggle having a relationship (even though I let him go get drink with his friends and family and I'd watch his son, I let him use my car to go see his son, I gave him space when he wanted it, and was always supportive and loving) I told myself I'd give him 2 weeks to come back and this Friday marks the 2 weeks and I still feel so emotional(thanks hormones) when someone says his name, and I feel so lost and no one has asked me how I'm doing and I'm a mess on the inside and I'm so lost on what to do. PLEASE HELP ME.