I am never impressed/shocked by what percentile someone's kid is in for height/weight/calf circumference/forehead size. I get that the numbers have significance, but sitting around discussing the numbers like they're SAT scores has always struck me as bizarre and AWish. (And I'm super hoping I don't somehow turn into someone who does that.)
Married: 2011 TTC #1: 3/2016 Me 39 - DH 44 BFP 5/27/16 EDD 1/30/17 DD born 2/3/17
I hate baseball and I am so happy the season is finally over. There are too many games and they are so boring to watch.
Yes! H loves sports and we only have 1 TV so it's a constant battle. He always moans and groans during an hour of a show I watch that's on 1x a week! But yet, I'm supposed to be cool with watching baseball for the 3rd day in a row for 3-4 hours?!
I am never impressed/shocked by what percentile someone's kid is in for height/weight/calf circumference/forehead size. I get that the numbers have significance, but sitting around discussing the numbers like they're SAT scores has always struck me as bizarre and AWish. (And I'm super hoping I don't somehow turn into someone who does that.)
It also changes all the time. It bothers me too and I have a kid. There's so much variability. Mine started out with high numbers and now they are low and she's perfectly proportional and fine.
Of course then someone in the supermarket will say "oh she's only 2? She looks huge for her age!"
Then two minutes later I'll walk by someone who says " she's 2?! She's so tiny for her age!!"
I get irritated by people who get on their high horses about being "true fans". I get how annoying it is to have people jump on your bandwagon after you've been suffering through losses. BUT if your team won, focus on that! And enjoy the damn party.
DD1- Aug11 Angel Baby- June13, said goodbye Oct12 DD2- Aug13 DD3- due Feb17
I get irritated by people who get on their high horses about being "true fans". I get how annoying it is to have people jump on your bandwagon after you've been suffering through losses. BUT if your team won, focus on that! And enjoy the damn party.
YES. Im a Cardinals fan, we have a huge rivalry with the Cubs but I still rooted for them to win the WS! Doesn't make me less of a Cards fan but I'm getting a ton of flak.
I am never impressed/shocked by what percentile someone's kid is in for height/weight/calf circumference/forehead size. I get that the numbers have significance, but sitting around discussing the numbers like they're SAT scores has always struck me as bizarre and AWish. (And I'm super hoping I don't somehow turn into someone who does that.)
We use our family dr, he's in his 80s and he has never once mentioned anything about any percentile. It's weird because everyone else talks about it like you said, oooooo my kid is in the 95th percentile on height, what's yours? And I'm always like idk, our dr doesn't do that but says our kids are healthy! Lol
My UO I love those cheesy maternity or DIY pregnancy shirts for the holidays. My DD has the same 2nd grade teacher my DS had. She was pregnant while teaching him and she had a big pumpkin on her belly for Halloween and a snowman sweatshirt... I told her at my DDs Halloween party that I was hoping to find or make some. She said "oh, I still have my snowman one, we aren't having any more (babies) do you want it?" I said oh yes that'd be nice! So today was DDs parent teacher conference and her teacher actually brought it for me!! I'm overly excited about it and most people I know think that those shirts are over the top stupid lol... look here it is! And I'll be doing a pic in it at some point for HDBD lol
I feel like I'd totally prefer that @kswiger06 people get so caught up in the percentiles, which I totally don't get. Like I have short kids- to give you percentiles ds is in like the 4th and dd in the 10th percentile. And people are all omg about the percentile. But I always say- well neither their dad or I are tall. Someone has to be at the bottom. Their dr isn't concerned as they are steadily growing and are obviously healthy kids. Just shorter than yours. This whole message when you're an adult is to feel confident in your body, don't compare yourself to someone else etc. yet here we are comparing our kids like one size is better than the other. My ds was a fat baby. That doesn't mean he was more or less healthy than a more petite baby at his age. Idk. Just annoying to me how people are about it.
Wow, I got busy and haven't been to visit in a couple days, but I haven't missed much. Yay for me, boo for the board.
I totally agree about the percentile thing. But it gets into your head (or mine, anyway). I feel like I'm judged as getting a good grade when my son "scores" well in percentiles, and like I'm supposed to justify to myself when he doesn't. Then I realize how friggin dumb that is and have to snap myself out of it. "Oh, wait... IDGAF about this, do I?" It's not a competition, and yeah, no one wins. Healthy is healthy, whether it's big or small.
I have a really nerdy UO to share. I think the Harry Potter movies are pretty terrible. I'm a giant HP nerd, but only for the books. When somebody references the movies, my interest in the conversation switches off. My husband hasn't read the books and when he tries to reference anything HP, I'm like "you have no idea what you're talking about."
Oh oh! I have another UO. This obsession with coconut oil is way overblown. Yes, it smells good and tastes good and is good for you. But it doesn't work for everybody for everything. Every time I see somebody recommend that somebody else slather that stuff all over their face, I want to smack them. Coconut oil is terrible for certain types of breakout prone skin. If I so much as touch the stuff, I break out in giant zits. I can't even use coconut milk shampoos or conditioners, because the coconut oil in them makes me break out everywhere my hair or rinse water touches. I think coconut oil is EVIL and wish people didn't want to recommend it for bloody everything.
+1 to hating on percentiles. I remember always being told I was 99th percentile in height and weight as a kid and I hated it. Felt like a giant or something. Now my poor kid is already getting it in the womb. So annoying!
@gretchypoo I'm a fan of always sunny but I can see why someone wouldn't get into it. I think the episodes can be really smart with the way they tie in real world issues but make them incredibly ridiculous, petty, idiotic etc.
I love coconut oil as a moisturizer for hands, legs, and torso but don't put anything on my face. Hey that can be my UO! I hate the smörgåsbord of toiletries women are expected to purchase and use. I don't use face wash or makeup or really any products other than basic shampoo, conditioner, coconut oil, and a very mild shower gel when necessary. Otherwise I rely on just the hot water and mechanical scrubbing from a wash cloth. On the bright side my skin regulates itself really well until the bone-dryness of winter, hence the coconut oil I do use hand soap though, don't think I could do without that.
Oh oh! I have a Saturday UO: And this is the most nit-picky thing to complain about but I really don't like when people call me "mama" because I'm pregnant. People will be like "hey mama" or "or look at your bump mama!" and I know it's all meant to be super nice, but really I'm not your mother. Only the fetus I'm harboring gets to call me that and she can't even talk. I have a name. Use it.
Ooo fun-ish fact. Ever since I've had my first (he's 10) my husband has called me "big mama" i used to hate it so much but after all this time its grown on me. I use it for screen names sometimes when I don't know what else to do. I almost did it for TB but decided against it. Lol
But it doesn't bother me when people refer to me as just "mama" I have a cousin who says it all the time even after I had my kids. Maybe if it were several people I wouldn't like it though?
I do think the mama thing changes over time. I was 100% positive I would hate anybody but my child referring to me as mama or mom instead of using my name, but... in the end, it actually doesn't bother me at all. Maybe because it feels like my name, since I hear it approximately seven million times a day.
I finally have an unpopular opinion (which I kind of can't believe it's unpopular, but according to FB it is) and if I wait until next Thursday I'll forget.
Having a dog doesn't make you parent. I get loving a dog or calling yourself your dog's mom jokingly, but if you legitally think its on the same level as being a parent to a kid, then you clearly don't have kids. If said person one day does have kids, then I think they would realize how silly it is to compare the two. Ive done both. Being a "dog parent" and a "kid parent" is wwwaaayy different.
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BFP #2: 09/08/15 miscarried at 6w
BFP #3: DD2 born on 02.07.17
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TTC #1: 3/2016
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BFP 5/27/16 EDD 1/30/17
DD born 2/3/17
Big Bro 7/14/13
Little Bro 2/6/17
Of course then someone in the supermarket will say "oh she's only 2? She looks huge for her age!"
Then two minutes later I'll walk by someone who says " she's 2?! She's so tiny for her age!!"
...sure whatever you think, strangers!
I totally agree about the percentile thing. But it gets into your head (or mine, anyway). I feel like I'm judged as getting a good grade when my son "scores" well in percentiles, and like I'm supposed to justify to myself when he doesn't. Then I realize how friggin dumb that is and have to snap myself out of it. "Oh, wait... IDGAF about this, do I?" It's not a competition, and yeah, no one wins. Healthy is healthy, whether it's big or small.
I have a really nerdy UO to share. I think the Harry Potter movies are pretty terrible. I'm a giant HP nerd, but only for the books. When somebody references the movies, my interest in the conversation switches off. My husband hasn't read the books and when he tries to reference anything HP, I'm like "you have no idea what you're talking about."
I never thought Seinfeld was funny
300 pages of whiny camping.
But I'll have to ask my family about this face stuff. None of them have ever mentioned it before so I'm surprised.
Hey that can be my UO! I hate the smörgåsbord of toiletries women are expected to purchase and use. I don't use face wash or makeup or really any products other than basic shampoo, conditioner, coconut oil, and a very mild shower gel when necessary. Otherwise I rely on just the hot water and mechanical scrubbing from a wash cloth. On the bright side my skin regulates itself really well until the bone-dryness of winter, hence the coconut oil
I do use hand soap though, don't think I could do without that.
We definitely have a giant tub filled with coconut oil as well.
I thought it left a film on my house and dried out my skin.
But it doesn't bother me when people refer to me as just "mama" I have a cousin who says it all the time even after I had my kids. Maybe if it were several people I wouldn't like it though?
Having a dog doesn't make you parent. I get loving a dog or calling yourself your dog's mom jokingly, but if you legitally think its on the same level as being a parent to a kid, then you clearly don't have kids. If said person one day does have kids, then I think they would realize how silly it is to compare the two. Ive done both. Being a "dog parent" and a "kid parent" is wwwaaayy different.