Opinions on Early Ind

Aussie45 · November 2016

I was talking to my best friend towards to the end of her pregnancy a couple of weeks ago and her doctor was going induce the day after her due date because of how big her baby was (she was 8lbs). She ended up going into labor that night on her own. I was also talking to my friend at work today and he mentioned his girlfriend will probably be getting induced at 39w due to the size of her baby too. I was curious to see what you guys thought about it. I had pre-eclampsia with my first pregnancy and had to be induced for DD. I'm not particularly eager to repeat the experience again if I can avoid it.

Has anyone thought about this thus far?

mrsgabus · November 2016

I will likely be induced if I dont go by 40 weeks. As I'm always induced for one thing or another .

Ds1-41 weeks
Ds2-40.4 weeks
Dd-1 40.2 weeks.

birdiejo · November 2016

I think induction , when medically necessary as was your case, is clearly the way to go. I chose my provider based on the expectation that they will only suggest induction if the case was something serious like pre-e or baby/me in distress. Everyone has their personal preferences when it comes to delivery. I would avoid induction at all costs but I know one girl who planned her induction so her family would be in town, one girl who got easily talked into induction because she had a history of high BP ... etc. If you're hoping to avoid unless medically necessary, make sure your doctor is on the same page and you advocate for yourself. Maybe bring it up at your next appointment?

kswiger06 · November 2016

On my @mrsgabus your baby's like taking their time lol.

I've never been induced and really don't want to be. Both my kids were smaller

DS 5.11
DD 6.11

So I'm expecting this one to be similar. I thought 8 lbs was still average size and not a concern? Anyway if an induction is recommended for me, I'll immediately do a ton of research into it and weigh their reasons.

Starfish113 · November 2016

I personally would want to avoid one as much as possible. They didn't end well for any of my friends (emergency c sections). DD was a week late and I would've been induced a few days later if I hadn't gone into labor!

Aussie45 · November 2016

kswiger06 said:

On my @mrsgabus your baby's like taking their time lol.

I've never been induced and really don't want to be. Both my kids were smaller

DS 5.11
DD 6.11

So I'm expecting this one to be similar. I thought 8 lbs was still average size and not a concern? Anyway if an induction is recommended for me, I'll immediately do a ton of research into it and weigh their reasons.

8lbs is a normal sized baby. I think that's the biggest problem, is that some inductions would not be necessary because it's hard to predict baby's size by ultrasound. DD was off by 2 and 1/2 lbs. Hers was off by about that much too I believe. Each to their own obviously, I just wouldn't want to go through an induction again. I was 7hrs away from a c-section and the contractions were the absolutely worst. I toyed with the idea of going without an epidural and I just couldn't handle it. Obviously as long as the baby gets here healthy that's what matters, but I can't imagine going through all that because my baby might be a little big.

MommaBean · November 2016

I would be very, very hesitant to induce due to baby size - those estimates can be +/- a pound and that's a huge margin of error!!

I was induced with DS due to "pregnancy induced hypertension" and I was just telling my OB (different one) yesterday that I don't think it was medically necessary and I won't agree so easily this time. Much prefer to let baby/my body handle things to the extent possible.

Xstatic3333 · November 2016

I have no interest in an induction unless it is medically necessary. I'm likely to have a larger baby, and will have some major Q&A with my providers if they want to induce for that reason alone, especially before 40 weeks.

JulesFo · November 2016

I'll echo what PPs have said about the estimated size not being a great main reason. "They" estimated DD1 to be over 8lbs (not a huge baby in my opinion) at her due date and expressed concern if I went too late that she'd get too large. I was induced later (at just about 41 weeks) and she was just over 8 lbs. I'm not anti induction at all; it's just that the estimates are not terribly accurate and the last thing you want is a C section bc it was too early or rushed. i would be very hesitant for an induction based solely on a size estimate, especially before the due date. That's a decision for you and your dr though.

Gretchypoo · November 2016

FTM so take this with a pound of salt, but I don't want to be induced for reasons PPs have said. My midwives will not induce for any reason but if I go over 42 weeks I can no longer birth in the birth center, i have to go to the hospital.

tishb · November 2016

I wouldn't do it if not medically necessary. I got induced with DS #2 at 40w5d and it failed. After 17 hours with my water broke, he still wasn't ready, so I ended up with a c-section. Which led to a repeat c-section, which is leading to a scheduled 3rd c-section this time.

kjd291 · November 2016

MommaBean said:

I was induced with DS due to "pregnancy induced hypertension" and I was just telling my OB (different one) yesterday that I don't think it was medically necessary and I won't agree so easily this time. Much prefer to let baby/my body handle things to the extent possible.

Same! I was induced last time, against my will, because I was "heading toward" pre-e. IMO inductions unless 100% medically necessary are docs being overly cautious and causing more harm than good. Doctors scare you into thinking it's for the good of baby, but so often they cause unnecessary long, painful labors and end in C-section. I had 5days in hospital in labor before baby made her arrival. This time no one is pressuring me-unless I HAVE pre-E, no one is messing with my babies arrival.

Kashy17 · November 2016

I was induced at 36 weeks because my water broke and my body never went into labor. they induced me the day after to see if my body will do its thing but it didn't .

I hope to not need induction this time and will only do it if absolutly nessisary.

I know of some women who have tried to request early induction because they were "done with being pregnant ".

foxrosy · November 2016

I'd rather not be induced. I know that a lot of times they end up in C-Sections. With my son I wanted to avoid induction and ended up being forced into it because I was almost at 42 weeks and I was having contractions. However I had been having contractions that would come for an hour or two and stop for a month or longer. I knew I wasn't in labor. Anyway, they thought I was and admitted me. I got to the floor and contractions stopped. I then had to be induced. It was horrible and I missed a C-section by three minutes if I wasn't able to push him out in thirty minutes.
Sonrtimes they are absolutely necessary, but I prefer to let it happen naturally. My son was also 6lbs 9oz even after almost going to 42 weeks.

Spicyweiner · November 2016

My water broke at 39+4, but my body wasn't ready at all. Like zero effaced, zero dilated.
I had cervadil and pitocin. It took 30 hours for my body to get there but I only actually pushed for about 10 mins.

cinderin · November 2016

I would avoid it if at all possible.

But sometimes it's not possible to avoid.

I too wouldn't based on a size estimate. but if you are high risk or there are other complications then consider it.

I had a c/s with my son because he was breech. He came on his own at 39 weeks (c/s was going to be at 40) so we did the c/s then. I was HR so they would not let me go past 40 weeks.

This time I have no one to watch my son if my husband wants to be there when the baby is born (and he does). I am HR for a couple reasons this time. I was going to ask for another c/s scheduled at 40 weeks but due to being HR, repeat c/s, history of having a baby earlier than 40 weeks, and the need to have a family member plan to travel to stay with our son, I opted for a c/s at 39 weeks. If the baby comes earlier than that I will just have to have the c/s without my husband so he can be with our son.

if you have an OB you trust, then ask them questions, listen to the answers, consider your choices and decide. don't let them scare you into something, but there are risks either way (going past 42 weeks, if you are HR, etc). that deserve consideration.

jab3-2 · November 2016

Hmm I was induced at 41.5 weeks with DS. He was predicted to be a big baby and they were right, but that had nothing to do with why they induced. My doctor told me he wasn't comfortable with letting me go to 42 weeks or past that point. I know it's horrible I can't even remember exactly why, but maybe something to do with the placenta deteriorating at that point?

I think personally I would avoid it unless there was a medical reason to do it (like in your case the first time around @Aussie45, pre-e is a damn good reason) but like many people including yourself have said, they can be way off with predictions of the babys size so it seems unnecessary. Or they might predict a large baby like mine was and actually make an accurate prediction, but even then my doctor didn't see this as a reason to induce early. All doctors are different obviously though so who knows?

My induction did lead to a csection, but it wasn't an emergency. I pushed for over 6 hours trying to get him out and it just wasn't happening, but due to his head circumference and positioning, not his larger weight/taller height. it isn't something I'll need to deal with this time around because it will be my 3rd csection. I wanted a VBAC with DD, but she was breech so it was an RCS at 39 weeks.

I hope it all works out for you and you don't feel backed into a corner or forced to induce for any reason if you're not comfortable doing so and are looking to avoid it.

grapeskittles4lyfe · November 2016

Jab3 said:

Hmm I was induced at 41.5 weeks with DS. He was predicted to be a big baby and they were right, but that had nothing to do with why they induced. My doctor told me he wasn't comfortable with letting me go to 42 weeks or past that point. I know it's horrible I can't even remember exactly why, but maybe something to do with the placenta deteriorating at that point?

Yeah, my provider will induce once I hit 41 weeks for the same reason. Once I hit 40 weeks I need to go for a monitoring ultrasound every day or every other day (I know I should remember because I hit 41 weeks with DD - the morning of the day I was supposed to be induced is when I went into labor).

MommaBean · November 2016

I feel I should add that while my induction may not have been strictly necessary, it went fine. Started pitocin late the night before, had my water broken around 8:30a, and delivered at 2:34p with about 30 min of pushing. I have a feeling he would've come soon without induction (done at 40w) bc it seemed my body was ready.

poofwok · November 2016

With DS, I had an induction set for 41 weeks (they don't go over 41 weeks at this practice) but ended up going into labor on my own following a membrane sweep at 40+5. I'm pretty sure that's what did it... I was walking around like a penguin, that one really hurt.

This time i'm getting a c-section and it'll be scheduled around 39 weeks. I wish I could get closer to 40 weeks but we'll see what happens.

Generally, I'm also of the opinion of not inducing if not medically necessary. I'm a firm believer that baby will come when he/she is ready and those who ask to be induced because "they're done being pregnant or want a specific day" are ridiculous. I'm specifically speaking about ppl who ask around the 37-38 week mark and aren't even close to being overdue.

Lafreeman21 · November 2016

FTM, but medical study!

Tldr;
c-section risk
un-induced women; 12%,
induced for medical reasons 23%
elective inductions 24%

Bishop score <6 was the predominant risk.
"after adjusting for the Bishop score at admission, no significant differences in cesarean delivery rates were found"

cruffino · November 2016

i'm hoping to avoid it if at all possible.

i'm no expert by a long stretch, but my reading seems to indicate that many ob's induce for reasons that are not actually medically necessary, like size of baby, which is only a rough estimate. i've also read that some do it so that the birth fits into their schedules more neatly.

and as @Lafreeman21 points out (science for the win!) induction leads to c-section at twice the rate of un-induction. likely due to pitocin taking the body into advanced contractions before its ready and tiring the mother and baby out (among other reasons).

i feel like its important to add the disclaimer though, that this is only my opinion. and as a feminist, i 100% believe that each woman knows what's right for her and has the right to make her own choices. so ladies, please induce away if that's what you want!

lct2008 · November 2016

I was pretty against and still am un medically needed early inductions. With ds I went into spontaneous labor after my water broke. With dd though my husband had just deployed- so emotionally I wasn't in the best place honestly and my mom could only be with me at a certain time and I didn't want to give birth alone. So I decided to get induced at 39w4d. That being said my bishop score was good so I didn't have an increased risk that way- and when I went into the hospital I was actually already having contractions. Which made me feel better about it. I didn't even really need pitocin. They broke my water and gave me pitocin for like 1 hour. That being said I don't want to do that again. This time I will be waiting till my body goes into labor unless there's a medical reason.

LaurenAshley04 · November 2016

I will avoid if possible. We were induced for my first - medically indicated but I could have probably delayed another few days (GD/2blood vessel cord). I was well into progressing on my own at the point of induction. I was dilated/effaced and having regular contractions. I just wasn't there yet.

The practice I was with had an older doctor who rushed to C sections (especially with complex pregnancies -like mine). He bullied my sister into one 2 months prior. She did not need one!!
In a panic to avoid the same fate I did not oppose induction - so as to have the better doctors on rotation. It worked for us, but I would prefer to go on my own this time since we do not have the same complication! I also have all amazing doctors now !!

PerraSucia · November 2016

I was induced because of pre-e and wish they would of just done the c/s instead. I actually did make it to 10cm and was able to push after 48 hours of hell but can't fit a baby out of me. Pitocin plus magnesium is awful.

leslie1331 · November 2016

My OB said she avoids induction unless medically necessary. At 41.5 weeks they start talking about ways to try to get it started (like foods, exercise, etc), but that she feels baby is ready when it's ready.

Aussie45 · November 2016

Kashy17 said:

I was induced at 36 weeks because my water broke and my body never went into labor. they induced me the day after to see if my body will do its thing but it didn't .

I hope to not need induction this time and will only do it if absolutly nessisary.

I know of some women who have tried to request early induction because they were "done with being pregnant ".

Yikes at that last sentence

foxrosy · November 2016

leslie1331 said:

My OB said she avoids induction unless medically necessary. At 41.5 weeks they start talking about ways to try to get it started (like foods, exercise, etc), but that she feels baby is ready when it's ready.

That's so awesome! I tried to have conveetsation with my OB about letting things happen naturalllt and shared my reasoning. She started over talking me saying if I get to 40 they will schedule an induction. I was immediately turned off. I hate when providers don't consider what you are saying.

leprechaunlady · November 2016

The guy who sits beside me at works wife was due last tuesday & got taken in to be induced today. Here they will let you go 10 days past due date then its in for induction. Really hoping to go naturally before it comes to that!

Aussie45 · November 2016

PerraSucia said:

I was induced because of pre-e and wish they would of just done the c/s instead. I actually did make it to 10cm and was able to push after 48 hours of hell but can't fit a baby out of me. Pitocin plus magnesium is awful.

It really is. I was on both and it was just terrible. Plus I didn't really progress right away and wasn't starving so I begged for food. I literally puked so many times that first night. It took forever for me to progress and I finally got her out. Honestly I think if my doctor suggests an induction before 41w or for a non-medical reason, I'll laugh in his face. Unless I absolutely have to, I'm not going through that again.

ColeBug89 · November 2016

As a FTM, one of my biggest fears is being induced and leading to a c-section. I am really hoping that 1) LO comes on her own or 2) An induction will only be an option if it's medically necessary.

I will try to advocate for myself and LO as best as I can to avoid induction unless it is absolutely necessary.

LC12261012 · November 2016

My OB will schedule an induction if you go past 40 weeks. DD was born at 40+4 and my induction was scheduled for two days later. I did not want to be induced AT ALL so I did everything I could think of to get labor started and my water broke on its own. This time around I would like to avoid an induction again and I hope it works out that way.

princesslockness · November 2016

**** Lurker from D'16******

Those of you frowning on 'because they were done being pregnant' inductions need to consider some reasons why people might be done with being pregnant.

I just hit 36 weeks, but have had 18 L&D trips to stop PTL since being 28 weeks. I am currently in day 9 of actual monitored 4-5 min apart, 60-90 second long contractions. I am still pregnant, as LO isn't positioned correctly to dilate my cervix more.

I am done being pregnant at this point. If I wasn't so close to my VBaC (so they won't induce at all) I would be scheduling an induction for the very 1st day they would let me.

birdiejo · November 2016

@kate08young I think people weren't referring to someone in your situation... clearly you've been through a lot and I understand that you're done and ready to have your baby in your arms. I think it's more like the people who are just uncomfortable towards the end without actual valid reasons to "be done". And I know that does happen... at least it has with a few people I've known.

princesslockness · November 2016

@homemake It does happen that 'its just too long' or something. I do understand that, the explanations given seemed to not consider that there could be other reasons why some one is ready to be done early.

foxrosy · November 2016

@Kate08Young I had almost the exact same thing happen with my first. I went in to preterm labor twice and had to have it medically stopped. Then bed rest. The contractions happened all the time, which is why I knew I wasn't in labor when they admitted me thinking I was. I still didn't want to be induced. I was absolutely ready for it to be over so I get what you are feeling.

poofwok · November 2016

Kate08Young said:

@homemake It does happen that 'its just too long' or something. I do understand that, the explanations given seemed to not consider that there could be other reasons why some one is ready to be done early.

Yeah, I'm one of those who frowns on people asking to be induced for no valid or medical reason.

IMO, I consider you're situation a medical issue. It's not at all for selfish reasons so you really don't fit that criteria. I honestly wish you all the best and definitely a smooth delivery!

Aussie45 · November 2016

concreteangell said:

Kate08Young said:

@homemake It does happen that 'its just too long' or something. I do understand that, the explanations given seemed to not consider that there could be other reasons why some one is ready to be done early.

Yeah, I'm one of those who frowns on people asking to be induced for no valid or medical reason.

IMO, I consider you're situation a medical issue. It's not at all for selfish reasons so you really don't fit that criteria. I honestly wish you all the best and definitely a smooth delivery!

This. What you're going through is completely different than someone who had had an uneventful pregnancy and can't wait to be done. Pregnancy is rough and of course we're all anxious to hold our babies in our arms. There's a difference between wanting to be done and wanting an induction when it's not medically necessary. Each woman to her own though, if that's the choice they want to make, then that's their prerogative. I asked personally what people thought and what they would choose for themselves if in that situation.

I would consider yours to be medically necessary. I hope everything goes well with your labor and delivery. It sounds like it's already been a whirlwind of a ride for you and your LO!

Spicyweiner · November 2016

Well, maybe I'm an asshole but I stand firm on my opinion that people shouldn't induce early because they are "done being pregnant".
Some people have amazing pregnancies, some people have shitatstic pregnancies, but the ultimate goal is to do what's best for the BABY.
Most times, it is absolutely the best thing for the baby to stay inside until as close to 40 weeks as necessary, so unless my doctor tells me that it's medically neccassary my baby is staying put despite my own comfort or level of being over it.
I also think it's a little ridiculous for someone lurking our thread from elsewhere to come in and tell us how inconsiderate we are being, when we are responding to the question asked by the OP.

tclayton53 · November 2016

Most babies first time babies are born at 41.3 weeks. I fully believe that your body is made for childbirth and you and your baby will start labor when the time is right. Unless absolutely necessary, I would wait for labor to begin naturally.

Spicyweiner · November 2016

tclayton53 said:

Most babies first time babies are born at 41.3 weeks. I fully believe that your body is made for childbirth and you and your baby will start labor when the time is right. Unless absolutely necessary, I would wait for labor to begin naturally.

Eh, idk about the body being made for childbirth part. I get what you are saying, but some women's bodies just aren't capable of pushing out a baby.
The whole "body is made for childbirth" statement is a slippery slope to shaming moms for interventions.

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