TTC After a Loss

****October TWW*******

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Re: ****October TWW*******

  • @ladipale congrats!!!! Fx for darker lines
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
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  • @ladipale congrats!! happy and healthy 9 to you
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • @ladipale - fx line darkens!
  • *lurking* 
    @ladipale Congrats- FX that the line darkens for you!! 
  • @ladipale Yay! Congrats!
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • I saw 8 new posts and was hoping for good news! Congrats @ladipale!
  • @ladipale a line is a line! Congrats!
  • @ladipale congrats! FX!
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @ladipale  congrats!!!! :D  
  • Thanks everyone... I'm proceeding cautiously. Kind of don't even know what to do next. I emailed my OB to see what she says.
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • 13 msgs I knew it had to be something good!! Congrats @ladipale!!! I'm losing all my cycle buddies but I can't think of a better reason. Keep us posted the next cpl days!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • I thought the same thing I haven't been able to get on TB since yesterday morning and I saw all the messages! OMG @ladipale!! I am so happy for you :) FX! 
     ****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned****
    Me (39) DH (40) 
    From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06 
    DH- no kids
    ******************
    TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
    IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN 
    IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
    1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!!  2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days,  D&C: 2/17/16
    TTCAL: May 2016
    IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
    IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
    IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
    IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
    **10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
    12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!! 
    Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
  • @ladipale Congratulations!!  
  • @ladipale congratulations! FX for you and a happy and healthy 9 months.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
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  • @chloe97 where is the TTCAL grad group.
    Sorry i didn't mean to interrupt the flow.
  • I go here now. Managed to hit almost all days in the FW. Glad I am overly busy for the next few days with little time to focus on how much longer to test :)
  • I am putting myself here now as well. Missed one day in the FW, so hoping we got in enough BDing. Guess I'll know in about a week and a half or so!
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @flipflopped @newmommycoop fx for both of you, especially that time flies by until it's POAS time! 
  • @flipflopped and @NewMommyCoop hoping for a quick TWW for you both! 

    I'm currently 13dpo and somehow managed to make it through nearly the entire TWW without a single symptom, just today are my boobs starting to get a little sore. The past 2-3 cycles they've started hurting and getting big from 5dpoish until AF starts. Hormones are so weird. 
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe Yes they are, and so frustrating! Are you still going to POAS tomorrow? FX for you.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • If AF doesn't start today then I'll test tomorrow since we have that party tomorrow night. Part of me really wants to stay hopeful but I don't feel KU at all. When will you guys test?!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • NewMommyCoopNewMommyCoop member
    edited October 2016
    Well, I am rooting for you @SoonToBeMommaHowe! I will test either November 7th or 8th. AF is supposed to come on Nov 10th based on a 28 day cycle, but I O'd on either CD14 or CD15, so I might not test now until the 8th. I don't want to test too early.

    Edited - spelling
    Edited again - because I obviously need to check the calendar (the 5th or 6th, HA wishful thinking)!
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe beat wishes for you!!

     I have between a 28 and 31 day cycle so trying to be realistic about testing. goal is no earlier than the 11/9 which is good to 28 and early for 31. sooo far away!!
  • Is it crazy to think that nausea at 7 dpo is pregnancy related?
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Good luck to you @SoonToBeMommaHowe! FX you get some good news :) I am either 6 or 7 DPO. I've been cramping like crazy since yesterday. I'm trying hard not to SS but it's so hard. I will probably not test until Sunday the 6th- My cycles are usually around 32 days and I O around CD 18 although I have a susupicion it was earlier this month. I don't use Wondfo's and was thinking of ordering some but was thinking it may encourage the BSC. GL everyone!!


     ****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned****
    Me (39) DH (40) 
    From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06 
    DH- no kids
    ******************
    TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
    IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN 
    IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
    1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!!  2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days,  D&C: 2/17/16
    TTCAL: May 2016
    IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
    IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
    IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
    IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
    **10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
    12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!! 
    Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
  • I'm out, 14 DPO, bfn and the slightest spotting imaginable. so I'm gonna head back over to WTO, AF should be here by the end of the day id imagine.

    GL to the TWWers
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @soontobemommahowe so sorry to hear about the BFN  :( Hopefully the party tonight will be a good distraction for you. 
  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe so sorry about the bfn.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @MimoCa congrats on the bfp. I was reading posts in the waiting for AF thread and saw you had a bfp. hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • @stephann85 Thank you so much. I put it there since I was interacting with the ladies on that thread and I didn't want to come into TWW making an announcement after I had left thinking I was out of the TWW and onto AF. I wish all you ladies luck as well and hope to see you soon in the Grad thread! :)<3 
  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe sorry about the BFN 

    I don't actually have crosshairs yet, but pretty sure I go here now given OPKs and temp spike this morning. I'm already a little BSC about hoping this will finally be our month.
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • Thanks guys. Having a pretty good pity party for myself today. A little retail therapy at Michaels helped a little. I'm actually thinking maybe DH and I should take the holidays off. It's so stressful and such a downer to get BFN I just want to enjoy my favorite time of the year without all the pressure 
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • Sorry for the bfn @SoonToBeMommaHowe. The holidays can be stressful enough and then we add TTC. You and DH do what is best for you guys. 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe So sorry for the BFN.  I could not have imagined this process to be so stressful and gut wrenching.  We each need to do the very best we can to care for ourselves.  If that means enjoying the sh*t out of the holidays without this looming large, then so be it.

    AFM, I finally got some crosshairs so have switched over to the TWW.  I apologize, in advance, for the BSC musings that are sure to be forthcoming!  It took me a few years too many to think children were an option for my life.  Now that I've made the decision, I've turned into a maniac about it.  Glad to have such a wonderful, amazingly knowledgeable, supportive people to share in the mania and musings.

  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe - sorry about the bfn. I totally understand about the added pressure during the holidays. It is my favorite time of year and I'm worried about the added stress of disappointment receiving bfns during Christmas. Especially since I found out I was pregnant the day after Christmas last year and still haven't been able to get KU again. It sucks 
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  • @flipflopped I totally get it, I am 8 dpo and I have been nauseous the last 2 days and had cramping the 2 days before that, so obviously I'm pregnant :D
    The BSC is setting in hardcore and it is becoming increasingly hard to not to test (and I have never had a BFP prior to 14 dpo). It is going to be a long week. :/
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
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