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****October TWW*******

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  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe I wouldn't worry about a bad egg if you are within a few days or normal O. It's normal for O-date to fluctuate. The issue of egg quality is a bigger issue if you had a positive OPK and very obvious signs of impending O that abruptly stopped and then started up again multiple days later. When an egg struggles to be released, that could mean the egg is chromosomally abnormal. Or the egg could also be fine. It's only something that is known in retrospect after MC unfortunately. I freak out about it bc my body revved up at my normal CD 17, and then I didn't ovulate til CD25. I ended up with a triploidy baby, so I'm super sensitive to the "delayed O" not "late O" phenomenon. I hope I didn't freak you out about it!
    Age 39, H 38

    Married 8/15

    Pregnancy #1, MMC, D&C November/December 2015
    Pregnancy #2, Dx with Triploidy at 12 weeks, MMC, D&C May 2016
    Pregnancy #3 BFP 10/20/2016- EDD 7/01/2017
    DD was born on June 26, 2017
    Pregnancy #4 CP 4/2018
    Pregnancy #5 BFP 9/13/2018, EDD= 5/27/2019
    RiverSong15
  • @chloe97 thank you for the reassurance. I hadn't actually thought about egg quality much until I read your posts and then obviously I googled and you can find whatever you want online. So my mind was spinning. But I totally get where you're coming from now with the actual O being much delayed from the supposed O. I have Od cd19, then 18 and this cycle 21 so not too far off.

    Btw...are you testing tomorrow?!
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

    chloe97
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  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe I've already started testing!! Haha. I'm at best 9DPO and worst 7 DPO, but my boobs are killing me. I had a good temp drop today which could be implantation-related or it could just be because I dropped my thyroid medication down in hopes that it would help my headaches. Either way, I'm pretty sure I'm being BSC, but I will keep testing with strips until 12/14 DPO on Monday. Debating whether to spend money on a FRER, since I know I will probably use it too early if I do. At least my BSC testing isn't costing me more than 17 cents right now!
    Age 39, H 38

    Married 8/15

    Pregnancy #1, MMC, D&C November/December 2015
    Pregnancy #2, Dx with Triploidy at 12 weeks, MMC, D&C May 2016
    Pregnancy #3 BFP 10/20/2016- EDD 7/01/2017
    DD was born on June 26, 2017
    Pregnancy #4 CP 4/2018
    Pregnancy #5 BFP 9/13/2018, EDD= 5/27/2019
    amberrukaszwill86
  • Hahahaha yes I love looking for ways to validate the BSC  :D I'll continue checking every day until you're 12/14dpo to see what happens! I actually didn't temp this morning, my first attempt to keep the BSC at bay until expected AF
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

    chloe97ladipaleszwill86
  • Fingers crossed for darkening lines @chloe97
    chloe97
  • @chloe97!!!!!!!! Yay!!!!! I'm so excited for you! Keep us posted on the darkening line!
     <3  <3<3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

    chloe97
  • ***lurking***
    Omg @chloe97 .... they do say BFP is BFP no matter how faint though right!?!?! Can't wait to follow and see them darken up!
    chloe97
  • @chloe97&nbsp; Fx for darkening lines!! :smile:
    Me: 31     DH: 34
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- Noel born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19

     

    chloe97
  • @chloe97 fingers crossed and good vibes being sent your way! I'll be looking forward to updates! :-)
    Pregnancy Ticker
    chloe97
  • @chloe97 omg congrats!!! everything crossed for you
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
    chloe97
  • @chloe97 HOORAY!!! Cheering for you!
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
    chloe97
  • Yay @chloe97!!!! FX for you!! Keep us posted. 
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
    chloe97
  • I'm sitting in the middle area of the TWW - just trying to cheer on my body. Anyone else 3 - 4 dpo? I need someone to help keep me sane..
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
    roxgibbons
  • OMG @chloe97 - fx for you!!!
    chloe97
  • @ladipale I'm twiddling my thumbs at 5dpo so I'm right there with you 
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • I'm technically not in this thread anymore but I have to lurk. And I'm glad that one of my cycle buddies got a BFP!  :#@chloe97 I'm so happy for you and my everything is crossed hoping that lines get darker as the days go on!!
    chloe97
  • Sadly, I'm out. Not sure what's next - if anything. I'm devastated. This was pretty much our last shot at having a 100% ours biological child. 

    I wish you all better luck! 

    Congrats, @chloe97

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • @fivetimesnoluck I am so so sorry. 
    Age 39, H 38

    Married 8/15

    Pregnancy #1, MMC, D&C November/December 2015
    Pregnancy #2, Dx with Triploidy at 12 weeks, MMC, D&C May 2016
    Pregnancy #3 BFP 10/20/2016- EDD 7/01/2017
    DD was born on June 26, 2017
    Pregnancy #4 CP 4/2018
    Pregnancy #5 BFP 9/13/2018, EDD= 5/27/2019
  • @fivetimesnoluck I am so so sorry for the BFN. All the hugs. Do what you need to take care of yourself and your H  <3

    @chloe97 Yayay!!! Congrats! And FX for darkening lines!
  • Oh Im so sorry @fivetimesnoluck - I really was hoping this was going to be your cycle. Sending you a big hug and positive thoughts. <3
  • Oh @fivestimesnoluck, I can't imagine the heartbreak you must be feeling. I am so very sorry <3
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

  • @fivetimesnoluck I am so, so sorry to hear. Take care of yourself and your husband. Thinking of you as you guys talk about what's next.  <3
  • endo_momendo_mom member
    edited October 2016
    @fivetimesnoluck sorry to hear this. Sending you positive vibes.

    @chloe97 yes!!!! Congrats of the BFP :smile: FX for darker lines!
    Me 29, DH 32
    Married: 03/2014
    BFP: 08/20/16, Blighted ovum 9/26/16 (8 weeks 4 days), D&C 9/28/16 (8 weeks 6 days)
    BFP: 12/16/16  => DD born 08/27/2017
    chloe97
  • @SoonToBeMommaHowe - awesome!! The middle is the hardest for me. 
    @fivetimesnoluck- I'm so so sorry. :( 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • @fivetimesnoluck&nbsp; So sorry to hear this.  Take extra care of yourself.  :heart:
    Me: 31     DH: 34
    BFP: 1.6.16 | MC: 2.17.16
    BFP: 10.3.16 | CP: 10.11.16
    BFP: 12.14.16 | CP: 12.14.16
    BFP:  1.23.17 | EDD 10.6.17 -- Noel born 10.7.17 <3
    BFP:  9.9.18 | EDD 5.23.19

     

  • @fivetimesnoluck i am so so sorry <3
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • So many hugs @fivetimesnoluck&nbsp; <3

    Hope that second line keeps getting darker @chloe97! Congrats!
    Me: 32 DH: 36
    Married 5/08
    BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
    BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
    Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
    TTCAL 3/16
    BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
    DS #2 born 12/11/17



  • I am so sorry @fivetimesnoluck. My heart hurts for you and DH. Sending hugs.
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @chloe97&nbsp; Yay! Congrats and keep us posted!
    **TW - Loss & Child mentioned**
    Me: 40  DH: 47
    Married: 10/2015
    DSD: 17
    BFP #1: 6/2/15, ectopic, metho 7/15
    BFP #2: 12/4/15, cp 12/7/15
    BFP #3: 8/5/16, MMC discovered 9/1, Misoprostol 9/19
    BFP #4: 5/10/17, EDD 1/20/2018
    Baby boy born January 12, 2018, 6 lbs 3.3 oz, 20.5 in.

  • @fivetimesnoluck I am so, so sorry. Lots of hugs your way.
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • Keep us posted @chloe97!! FX for those lines to keeping darkening :)

    and I'm so sorry @fivetimesnoluck take care of yourself






  • @fivetimesnoluck so sorry. sending you hugs!
  • @chloe97 congrats, FX the lines continue to get darker.

    @fivetimesnoluck so sorry. Prayers and hugs sent your way.
    *** TW ***
    Me 31, DH 30
    Married: 07/2014, TTC since 12/2015
    BFP #1: 1/1/16, MC 1/14/16 (6 weeks), D&C 2/5/16 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 5/25/16, MC 6/23/16 (8 weeks), D&C 6/24/16, 2nd D&C for retained tissue and fibroid removal 9/1/16
    BFP #3: 12/24/16  EDD 09/04/2017
    Pregnancy Ticker
    chloe97
  • @chloe97 omg!!! How exciting!! Keep us posted. I hope this is it for you :) 
     ****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned****
    Me (39) DH (40) 
    From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06 
    DH- no kids
    ******************
    TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
    IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN 
    IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
    1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!!  2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days,  D&C: 2/17/16
    TTCAL: May 2016
    IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
    IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
    IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
    IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
    **10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
    12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!! 
    Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
    chloe97
  • @fivetimesnoluck I'm so sorry my dear. My heart is with you. I know first hand how disappointing it is when medicated cycles don't work out and you are left with the what now. Please take extra care of yourself and know we are all here for you to support you in your next steps. 
     ****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned****
    Me (39) DH (40) 
    From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06 
    DH- no kids
    ******************
    TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
    IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN 
    IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
    1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!!  2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days,  D&C: 2/17/16
    TTCAL: May 2016
    IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
    IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
    IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
    IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
    **10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
    12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!! 
    Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
  • @fivetimesnoluck I'm so sorry. Sending you postive vibes and hugs. 

    @chloe97 I'm so excited for you. I have been lurking and was rooting for you. Hope your headaches get resolved.
  • @fivetimesnoluck I'm sorry you are having to go through this.  I'm thinking of you.  I wish I could offer some advice, but all I can do is stay positive for you and hope that one day you will get your rainbow baby.

    @chloe97 please update over the next few days!  FX
    **TW kids and loss mentioned**

    -- DS 3.8.14
    -- MC 9.22.16 at 8 wks




  • @chloe97 good luck this morning!!! Hope for a great update  :#
    DH - 34, Me - 32
    Married 7/13
    TTC #1 since 10/13
    BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
    IUI #1 2/25/16

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