I love this thread. It's such a wonderful example of unconditional positive regard. I want to bookmark it and come back to it when I'm having a bad day.
I think you are someone who is super confident in everything. You do your research, but once you make your mind up on something that's it, and there's no changing it. You are unapologetic about being yourself, and you probably don't realize it. I think you are so excited for your baby (girl?) And will always do what you feel is best. You probably say you wont over spoil her, but then you will anyway. I think you are quick to defend the people you care about in your life. I think you're super nice, but also have no problem pulling out your "don't mess with me" pants when they are needed. I think you also call it as you see it, and don't waste your time on people you don't think deserve unnecessary attention. I dont picture you as a whiner, but someone who pushes through tough times. I think you probably tell whiners to suck it up and keep going, but yet can offer support to those that are actually needing comforted. I imagine that when it comes to your friends, that you're the one who holds the group together. Everyone in your life enjoys your company because you are an honest person.
I imagine you being a hard worker. I think you put extra detail into the things most people wouldn't care to do. You take a simple common sense approach to life and are the happiest person in your circle of friends. I think you have a million feelings about being a mother, but will be amazing! You will find ways to make every day special for your baby girl. I think you will take great pride in your children because i think you will eventually have several. You probably have an enormous amount of patience that make people around you realize they need to take a chill pill. I think you have a lot of love and are eager to let people feel it. You keep your frustrations under wraps and work through annoying situations and become stronger for it. (You should give yourself a ton of credit if that's true) people around you have a better day because you're always cheerful and happy. Because of all the love and care you put into your dog (s) I imagine you do the same for everyone you meet. I think you go out of your way to help someone out, and are very selfless. I think you're a people person, and people just naturally like you for no particular reason. You unwind by relaxing to some TV and letting your mind forget about your busy day, then are ready to start again with a happy attitude about the day ahead.
I picture you getting all dressed up in your favorite sports teams t-shirts, and getting all pumped up for the big game. I can picture you making plans that revolve around the sports season. You and your husband are the best of friends and enjoy the bonding that happens during game season... but I feel like you are probably one of those people that enjoy a variety of sports all year round. I think you enjoy doing the fun little things, and you don't need anything fancy to make you happy. I imagine you happiest spending the weekend grilling out dinner, and kicking back with your family and friends. I think you're probably laid back and in general an easy person to get along with. I have a feeling that if I saw you at a baseball game you'd be the girl looking all cute in her game outfit with a baseball cap drinking a beer with a group of people. And I'd be all jealous because it's moments like those that I wish I enjoyed the taste of beer. I think your kids will have their mom be their number 1 fan!! I think you take time to do things that your DD(?) enjoys and you get as much pleasure from watching her be happy, as she does doing something special. I have a feeling you are a great party host and people have a great time when they attend something with you.
You somehow turn a 24 hour day into a 36 hour day. I'm always amazed when I see your crafts and wonder how the heck you can get so much done!! I imagine you are very organized and have a place for everything. You keep an extremely tidy place, but it's not snobbish and people feel comfortable there. I think you're a friendly person who enjoys crafting stuff so much that you could easily teach classes, because your expertise and excitement could encourage anyone to learn something new. You're super helpful and give great advice to anyone who comes to you asking for help. I really more imagine you when your son is born. I picture you being the room mom and organizing the parties and crafts and having it all so put together that people like me wonder how you do all that. You'll send all the kids home with the most awesome crafts that their mom's will call the teacher to find out how to make them. I think you're a bubbly person with an infectious happy attitude. People gravitate towards your warmth and happiness. You're so well loved by everyone that if you needed something people will be bickering over who gets to help you out. And now I learned that you have the perfect amount of curl in your hair
@kswiger06 you literally just described my life minus the beer drinking, I love my hard alcohol lol but our lives do revolve around sports and watching them together.
@kswiger06 you are the best! With the accent, think more liam neeson than anything from hot fuzz (northern ireland so not quite top of the morning leprehauns but not quite the royal family either) & parital to a pint of cider & blackcurrant rather than lager but our office is big on the tea breaks especially if there are buns involved! i have been known to call people a twat but the f word in all forms is a firm favourite, my husband said that he fully expects it to be our little girls first word & she may come out spouting expletives. I've tried not to be a sweary mary on here but will throw in some random ones to entertain you when i remember
@kswiger06 - totally awesome. I am have an unfair advantage since you know me a bit more than some of the others....but if you want to take a crack at it anyway This is fun
I imagine you being the funny one. I think you enjoy having a bit of sarcasm and jokes in your day. I picture you being the type of person, who speaks up right away, so you are never left dissatisfied with anything. You are probably a blunt person, and don't realize how blunt you are. I think you have a good time no matter what you are doing. You are full of knowledge and experience, that allows you to keep up a conversation with a total stranger. Although being an old woman is not something you think about, you will be the little old lady telling the outrageous stories to keep all the young folks laughing. People will enjoy talking to you, just to hear about your past. Once your baby is born, you will always be best friends. I'm not sure if you're having a boy or girl, but either way. You will be inseparable. Your child/future children will always be able to come to you about anything. You will be a strong sturdy guidance for them. Eventually as your child/ren get older, their friends will trust and confidential in you as well.
I picture you being a mostly laid back, glass is half full type of person. I don't think you enjoy drama, so you don't make a big deal out of things that will blow over quickly. I think people respect you as a mother. Your kids are your world, and you are very protective over them. You have no problem stepping into situations when your kids' are involved. I picture you going out of your way to make sure your kids feel very loved and special. I imagine that if they ever have an issue pop up, you get it taken care of so quickly that people are left scratching their heads, trying to figure out what happened. I think you make sure to only surround your family with positive people and influences. People feel relaxed when spending time with you, because of your natural relaxed attitude. People feel at ease sharing their life troubles with you, because you are understanding and offer the right amount of support without being too much. If you have other kids over to your house, they always have an awesome time. They can't wait to come back over again. If this doesn't happen now, it will as soon as your kids have their first friends over from school.
In my mind, you are a very environmentally (is that a word?) conscious person. I can picture spending a day with you, and learning all kinds of stuff about nature and the effects of everyday living. Although you wouldn't lecture me, I'd probably leave feeling guilty for things I do, not realizing how damaging it is. I don't think you'd ever snap at anyone intentionally unless you were seriously provoked. You try to gently let people know when they are wrong about something, to save them from feeling embarrassed. Your friends all think of you as the smart one, and trust your judgement. They ask you for your opinion all the time. You never rock the boat and make the best of every situation. Nobody could ever tell that your not having a good time, because you are always smiling. You are a person who appreciates everything. You are very proud and grateful of your husband. You will have that picture perfect family once your baby is born. Nobody will ever see you scold your children (you will have more ) but your kids will always be so well behaved. People will comment to you often how precious your family is. You'll be another one who makes the most of your days. They would be exhausting to someone like me, but you love being so active and busy. Everything is always perfectly organized and timed. You are so far ahead you probably have your Christmas shopping completed a couple months ahead of time.
@kswiger06 aww sweetie, you've nailed the version of me I'm trying to be; I'm working on speaking up more, because in my "offline life" I don't always do that. But thank you for seeing that in me.
I imagine you being the sweetest person in the world!!! In spite of the fact that things can irritate you, you just can't be mean. I think if you ever get angry and explode, people will still not focus on why you're angry, but just that you flipped out. You are adored by anyone who gets to know you. You are the first person to come to mind when they have something going on. Family and friends who don't get to see you often, still love you to death and get a great deal of joy when they get to visit. I imagine you like to live a simple, quiet life. I don't picture you needing anything fancy to make you happy, you get the same joy out of the small gestures people make for you. I picture you and your husband being the cutest couple, like the ones from the story of the woman's hair and that watch band. (Idk if I'm exactly right this was read in like 4th grade lol) but either way, I picture you being very selfless and making small sacrifices to let others around you be happy. I think that even when life is stressful, you and your husband have a beautiful marriage where you lean on each other and power through together. When your baby is here, you will always do things that include her. She will feel sooo loved and be the happiest kid in the world!! You have a way to make things extra special, when they are usually just ok.
@kswiger06 do you drink alcohol? I picture you to be somewhat of a lightweight.
This is a very odd question to ask. But yes I drink alcohol. Not very often, I don't like beer so I go straight to the hard stuff, so it's only rarely. But no, if I am drinking, I'm not considered a lightweight.
I don't think I need to make you extra amazing. I'm pretty confident you're extra amazing already. So far, I've been very wrong when I try to guess you, but certain things are very obviously true. I know that you love being a mom so much, that you will go through sooooo much, just to bring your baby home. You are Cleary a very busy person, who doesn't take a break for yourself even when (I think) it's very much needed and deserved. You have a beautiful house (thanks to HDBD pics, bday pics, and costume pics) and the sweetest looking boy. You have a lot of respect for your family life, because I don't remember you ever bringing attention to it here. You can have strong opinions, and I'm pretty sure people are always disappointed when they go against you in a debate. You can tell people a harsh truth in a way that is clear but gentle. I feel like if I got your opinion about something, I would have no choice but to consider it. I think you see the world clearly for what it is. You will raise your boys to know the world isn't perfect, but there is still so much good in it. They will grow up with strong morals and a respect for women. I don't think you give yourself credit for all the work you do. People in your life would be lost without you, because you're such a strong rock for them. I'm still trying to figure you out, but I know the people in your life are lucky to have you.
@kswiger06 do you drink alcohol? I picture you to be somewhat of a lightweight.
This is a very odd question to ask. But yes I drink alcohol. Not very often, I don't like beer so I go straight to the hard stuff, so it's only rarely. But no, if I am drinking, I'm not considered a lightweight.
@kswiger06 I don't remember exactly why I asked. I know somebody mentioned having drinks with you. I assumed you were a lightweight because you're so tiny! But there's some tiny girls that can do some serious drinking. Basically, I was just wondering.
You are the biggest condensing bish of the group and anytime I see your sn I cringe at what you will say next. People tend to walk the other direction when they see you coming just to avoid the dirty looks you give constantly. When you go to parties people often wonder if you got invited out of pity or obligation. Every conversation cannot be steered in your direction, but that doesn't keep you from trying. Sorry but not sorry...
Omg I completely panicked when the fake SN I made for the post above was hyperlinked.. I was OMG!!! I just CRAZY insulted someone I don't even know!! Lol
@mommabean I thought I shared the recipe somewhere, but they are just cookies that I make for breakfast. They have low sugar, and lots of healthy add ins, so I feel like they are ok for breakfast!
Re: I guess your life/story
I think you are someone who is super confident in everything. You do your research, but once you make your mind up on something that's it, and there's no changing it. You are unapologetic about being yourself, and you probably don't realize it. I think you are so excited for your baby (girl?) And will always do what you feel is best. You probably say you wont over spoil her, but then you will anyway. I think you are quick to defend the people you care about in your life. I think you're super nice, but also have no problem pulling out your "don't mess with me" pants when they are needed. I think you also call it as you see it, and don't waste your time on people you don't think deserve unnecessary attention. I dont picture you as a whiner, but someone who pushes through tough times. I think you probably tell whiners to suck it up and keep going, but yet can offer support to those that are actually needing comforted. I imagine that when it comes to your friends, that you're the one who holds the group together. Everyone in your life enjoys your company because you are an honest person.
ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
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FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN
I imagine you being a hard worker. I think you put extra detail into the things most people wouldn't care to do. You take a simple common sense approach to life and are the happiest person in your circle of friends. I think you have a million feelings about being a mother, but will be amazing! You will find ways to make every day special for your baby girl. I think you will take great pride in your children because i think you will eventually have several. You probably have an enormous amount of patience that make people around you realize they need to take a chill pill. I think you have a lot of love and are eager to let people feel it. You keep your frustrations under wraps and work through annoying situations and become stronger for it. (You should give yourself a ton of credit if that's true) people around you have a better day because you're always cheerful and happy. Because of all the love and care you put into your dog (s) I imagine you do the same for everyone you meet. I think you go out of your way to help someone out, and are very selfless. I think you're a people person, and people just naturally like you for no particular reason. You unwind by relaxing to some TV and letting your mind forget about your busy day, then are ready to start again with a happy attitude about the day ahead.
I picture you getting all dressed up in your favorite sports teams t-shirts, and getting all pumped up for the big game. I can picture you making plans that revolve around the sports season. You and your husband are the best of friends and enjoy the bonding that happens during game season... but I feel like you are probably one of those people that enjoy a variety of sports all year round. I think you enjoy doing the fun little things, and you don't need anything fancy to make you happy. I imagine you happiest spending the weekend grilling out dinner, and kicking back with your family and friends. I think you're probably laid back and in general an easy person to get along with. I have a feeling that if I saw you at a baseball game you'd be the girl looking all cute in her game outfit with a baseball cap drinking a beer with a group of people. And I'd be all jealous because it's moments like those that I wish I enjoyed the taste of beer. I think your kids will have their mom be their number 1 fan!! I think you take time to do things that your DD(?) enjoys and you get as much pleasure from watching her be happy, as she does doing something special. I have a feeling you are a great party host and people have a great time when they attend something with you.
You somehow turn a 24 hour day into a 36 hour day. I'm always amazed when I see your crafts and wonder how the heck you can get so much done!! I imagine you are very organized and have a place for everything. You keep an extremely tidy place, but it's not snobbish and people feel comfortable there. I think you're a friendly person who enjoys crafting stuff so much that you could easily teach classes, because your expertise and excitement could encourage anyone to learn something new. You're super helpful and give great advice to anyone who comes to you asking for help. I really more imagine you when your son is born. I picture you being the room mom and organizing the parties and crafts and having it all so put together that people like me wonder how you do all that. You'll send all the kids home with the most awesome crafts that their mom's will call the teacher to find out how to make them. I think you're a bubbly person with an infectious happy attitude. People gravitate towards your warmth and happiness. You're so well loved by everyone that if you needed something people will be bickering over who gets to help you out. And now I learned that you have the perfect amount of curl in your hair
i have been known to call people a twat but the f word in all forms is a firm favourite, my husband said that he fully expects it to be our little girls first word & she may come out spouting expletives. I've tried not to be a sweary mary on here but will throw in some random ones to entertain you when i remember
I imagine you being the funny one. I think you enjoy having a bit of sarcasm and jokes in your day. I picture you being the type of person, who speaks up right away, so you are never left dissatisfied with anything. You are probably a blunt person, and don't realize how blunt you are. I think you have a good time no matter what you are doing. You are full of knowledge and experience, that allows you to keep up a conversation with a total stranger. Although being an old woman is not something you think about, you will be the little old lady telling the outrageous stories to keep all the young folks laughing. People will enjoy talking to you, just to hear about your past. Once your baby is born, you will always be best friends. I'm not sure if you're having a boy or girl, but either way. You will be inseparable. Your child/future children will always be able to come to you about anything. You will be a strong sturdy guidance for them. Eventually as your child/ren get older, their friends will trust and confidential in you as well.
I picture you being a mostly laid back, glass is half full type of person. I don't think you enjoy drama, so you don't make a big deal out of things that will blow over quickly. I think people respect you as a mother. Your kids are your world, and you are very protective over them. You have no problem stepping into situations when your kids' are involved. I picture you going out of your way to make sure your kids feel very loved and special. I imagine that if they ever have an issue pop up, you get it taken care of so quickly that people are left scratching their heads, trying to figure out what happened. I think you make sure to only surround your family with positive people and influences. People feel relaxed when spending time with you, because of your natural relaxed attitude. People feel at ease sharing their life troubles with you, because you are understanding and offer the right amount of support without being too much. If you have other kids over to your house, they always have an awesome time. They can't wait to come back over again. If this doesn't happen now, it will as soon as your kids have their first friends over from school.
In my mind, you are a very environmentally (is that a word?) conscious person. I can picture spending a day with you, and learning all kinds of stuff about nature and the effects of everyday living. Although you wouldn't lecture me, I'd probably leave feeling guilty for things I do, not realizing how damaging it is. I don't think you'd ever snap at anyone intentionally unless you were seriously provoked. You try to gently let people know when they are wrong about something, to save them from feeling embarrassed. Your friends all think of you as the smart one, and trust your judgement. They ask you for your opinion all the time. You never rock the boat and make the best of every situation. Nobody could ever tell that your not having a good time, because you are always smiling. You are a person who appreciates everything. You are very proud and grateful of your husband. You will have that picture perfect family once your baby is born. Nobody will ever see you scold your children (you will have more
I imagine you being the sweetest person in the world!!! In spite of the fact that things can irritate you, you just can't be mean. I think if you ever get angry and explode, people will still not focus on why you're angry, but just that you flipped out. You are adored by anyone who gets to know you. You are the first person to come to mind when they have something going on. Family and friends who don't get to see you often, still love you to death and get a great deal of joy when they get to visit. I imagine you like to live a simple, quiet life. I don't picture you needing anything fancy to make you happy, you get the same joy out of the small gestures people make for you. I picture you and your husband being the cutest couple, like the ones from the story of the woman's hair and that watch band. (Idk if I'm exactly right this was read in like 4th grade lol) but either way, I picture you being very selfless and making small sacrifices to let others around you be happy. I think that even when life is stressful, you and your husband have a beautiful marriage where you lean on each other and power through together. When your baby is here, you will always do things that include her. She will feel sooo loved and be the happiest kid in the world!! You have a way to make things extra special, when they are usually just ok.
I don't think I need to make you extra amazing. I'm pretty confident you're extra amazing already. So far, I've been very wrong when I try to guess you, but certain things are very obviously true. I know that you love being a mom so much, that you will go through sooooo much, just to bring your baby home. You are Cleary a very busy person, who doesn't take a break for yourself even when (I think) it's very much needed and deserved. You have a beautiful house (thanks to HDBD pics, bday pics, and costume pics) and the sweetest looking boy. You have a lot of respect for your family life, because I don't remember you ever bringing attention to it here. You can have strong opinions, and I'm pretty sure people are always disappointed when they go against you in a debate. You can tell people a harsh truth in a way that is clear but gentle. I feel like if I got your opinion about something, I would have no choice but to consider it. I think you see the world clearly for what it is. You will raise your boys to know the world isn't perfect, but there is still so much good in it. They will grow up with strong morals and a respect for women. I don't think you give yourself credit for all the work you do. People in your life would be lost without you, because you're such a strong rock for them. I'm still trying to figure you out, but I know the people in your life are lucky to have you.
You are pretty close, too! I am more on the introverted side than bubbly, but I do try to be an outgoing person.
@soandso
You are the biggest condensing bish of the group and anytime I see your sn I cringe at what you will say next. People tend to walk the other direction when they see you coming just to avoid the dirty looks you give constantly. When you go
to parties people often wonder if you got invited out of pity or obligation. Every conversation cannot be steered in your direction, but that doesn't keep you from trying. Sorry but not sorry...
ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
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FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN
ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
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FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN
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but i I love it.
ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
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FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN