Testing: today. BFN will test again tomorrow or Thursday if temp still up and no AF
R/R: does anyone else's cat snore? Because mine does and it's SO LOUD! She woke us up last night because of it.
CS/Q: hmmm. Temp dropped 0.10 yesterday but went up 0.20 today, just about tying my highest post-o temp this month. Given the temp increase and my dream last night that I got a BFP, I tested this morning when I otherwise wouldn't have. Trying not to think too much of it, but it's so hard!! Had some cramping again yesterday and pinching pain. Pretty sure AF is gearing up to make her appearance. Only time will tell!
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? FRIENDS!
Edit: forgot some stuff
Me: 31 DH: 32 Dating since: 11/17/2001 Married: 9/26/2009 TTC: June 2016
@LadyMillil Sorry you're feeling crappy, hope you get better soon!
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 20/10
Timing: ED in FW except -4
Testing: Thursday morning
R/R: I know yesterday someone mentioned that they have vivid dreams during the TWW but I swear, I don't remember having this many before! Other than that, it's pretty much nothing new from yesterday.
CS/Q: If you have a slight twinge of nausea that passes within a minute or two and doesn't come back again that day, do you still mark it in FF?
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Grey's Anatomy.
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
R/R: I've needed a mental break from obsessing over TTC, so I haven't been as active lately. Things are great, work is fixing itself (aka my boss finally got fired which is a HUGE weight off my shoulders), and side gig is going super well. Lost a little weight, haven't been sent to the other side of the planet...things are looking up!
CS/Q: I do have a question! I've been chillin in the background for a while. I started b6 about about 70 days ago now to try and lengthen my luteal phase. This might be a stupid question, but I've seen a mixed bag of responses. I was under the assumption it just might make my overall cycle a little longer (it was on the short side), but I'm wondering if it makes you ovulate earlier? Last month my cycle length stayed the same, but I ovulated really early (I was consistently ovulating at CD17, and last cycle was CD14.). I chalked it up to "you're regular until you're not" and carried on. This cycle, I got a positive OPK on CD13 (started OPKs earlier this cycle thankfully!) and probably ovulated on CD14 again (need 1 more temp to confirm, but it's a clear shift so I'm going with it)
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Oooooh....I'm going to have to go with Sons of Anarchy.
@BertieMeetsGertie sorry for the BFN this morning, but yay for increase temp!! My one cat does snore on occasion. It's not super loud though. I roll him over like he's a human to get him to stop.
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 25/13 or 12
Timing: Good
Testing: If I make it there, Friday
R/R: Went to bed at... wait for it... 7:35pm last night. Slept until 2am, then fell back asleep until my alarm at 4:45am. Greatest night I've had in weeks. Eat it TWW, I'll find a way to get my sleep!
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? So all time fave hands down, just like @ladymillil, its GG (Come on 11/25). But because I can't share enough.... Currently running shows it's New Girl or Amazing Race (I will be on this show one day). Old School/Childhood wise it's a 3 way tie between Jem and the Hollograms, ALF, and the original Muppet Show.
@LadyMillil, sorry that you're under the weather. I'd take a runny nose over congestion any day! Take care of yourself. @krys, we certainly understand your need to step back from TB, but I'm so glad to see you back here! I can't speak to the b6 question, but I hope it's working for you! And yay for the job being better for you!! @berg, I had to pet her to stop her from snoring. Sometimes it's hard for me to tell if it's DH or the cat that's snoring!
Me: 31 DH: 32 Dating since: 11/17/2001 Married: 9/26/2009 TTC: June 2016
Testing: Was going to this morning, but didn't have any!
R/R: So I'm so confused with my body. I had cramps yesterday around lunch, and an upset stomach which I attributed to *TMI* the period poops. But then, I didn't have cramps again or anything. No signs of AF.
CS/Q: So I have two questions. I just got a BBT on Wednesday, so I've been temping since Thursday morning. All of my temps have been higher with the exception of Friday morning and Sunday morning, but I drank the night before on both those days. When should I expect a temp drop for my period? Also, I now have pregnancy tests, as I picked them up on my way to work. Should I wait until tomorrow morning for my FMU, or can I take one today? I don't want to waste one, but I'm so anxious not knowing whats going on! I should have gotten my period today.
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Friends, definitely.
@BertieMeetsGertie Sorry for the BFN. I don't have a cat, but my dog snores for sure! @krys Sounds like things are on the up and up for you! @berg FX for you for Friday test!
@BertieMeetsGertie so sorry for the BFN and the crazy dream leading you to test, creepy internet hugs!
@lulu1180 Fx hard for you and I love Grey's Anatomy too!
@berg and @LadyMillil I just finished watching all the seasons of GG on Netflix, talk about a binge but I loved it so much!
@jenshoes Fx for you getting a BFP! If I were you I'd hold it a little and test this morning still but that's only because I'm BSC Keep us posted!
@rainbowturtles sorry to sound cray cray but I read your update after your procedure around 2 am and didn't feel I was awake enough to respond but wanted to tell you that I work in surgery (specializing in abdominal surgery, like your previous one) and we use non-absorbable suture all of the time. It is stronger so it helps hold/bring the abdomen back together after a large incision. I have also had to bring patients back a few years or even months later due to the knots at the end of the suture bothering them so don't feel alone. Just wanted to shed a little light on the matter, hope it makes you feel better and glad to hear all went well yesterday!
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 27/12 or 13? I think
Timing: Thought it was good
Testing: BFN at day 9/10 and 11/12
R/R: Just waiting for AF to come on Thursday...then I'll be headed over to WTO. This is my first cycle and just wanted to let you ladies know how much I've learned from you. I really appreciate the support you all provide!
CS/Q: Best app to chart BBT? FF?
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Either Grey's Anatomy or Criminal Minds...I'm addicted to them both!
Sorry for the crazy post girls! I am headed into work and will try to stop back tonight for more comments!
Testing: I think it's way too early to test even though I'm tempted. I'm also like 99% sure I'm not based on timing.
R/R: This is going to be a long, crazy week at work and all I want to do is curl up in my bed and eat ice cream lol.
CS/Q: My temps are getting higher and higher, and I'm having a lot of trouble trusting them. To be fair, for the past couple of days I've been waking up a little before my alarm and falling in and out of sleep before officially temping, but I don't move at all before sitting up to temp. Still though, my temps are now 1.2 degrees higher than the were pre-o, and I'm not sure that being in and out of sleep for 30 minutes can do that? I don't know...kinda driving myself crazy and hoping that I did in fact O! I think I'll "trust" my body more next cycle. I even had DH take his temp just to make sure the thermometer was working correctly lol. Has anyone else had unusually high temps during a cycle?
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Sons of Anarchy
A bit of a post and run but I'll try to be back later for comments
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 28/13
Timing: O
Testing: I don't know.. maybe tomorrow evening if I don't start spotting by then? expect AF to arrive Thursday or maybe late Weds
R/R: Mainly just been bloated/gassy for a few days.. which makes me think AF is coming. Nothing is happening this time that happened with my first kid so I think it's unlikely I'm KU this time. I expect to start spotting later tonight or tomorrow so we'll see if that happens or it stays at bay
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Hmmm, I really don't know. When I was a kid I really liked Full House and the rest of the TGIF line-up!
Married since 8.2.08 DS born 8.11.14 BFP #2: 9.14.16, EDD: 5.24.17
@BertieMeetsGertie - sorry for the BFN! @Jenshoes - I get a temp drop starting the day before AF. So, if AF comes on Wednesday, my temp will significantly drop on Tuesday and then drop again on Wednesday and AF will arrive that morning sometime for me. @CallaLily25 - I've definitely had those mornings where I am in/out of sleep for a half hour before temping. I usually mark it as a different time, so it's an open circle, because I think it does raise my temp a bit. @IvyMagic828 - YES! TGIF!
Month/Cycle: 6/4
CD/DPO: 25/6
Timing: our best yet. Maybe it was good that we were apart the week leading up to FW.
Testing: Monday if I can hold out (DPO 12) and don't have solid evidence AF is coming. I don't have any tests in the house right now, so that helps.
R/R: Nada.
CS/Q: I feel like I had a question last night, and now forgot...
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Probably of all time, Full House. I love the reboot too. But I'm definitely also on the GG train - it's on a constant loop on my Netflix account.
Testing: maybe tomorrow because its been so long since I've peed on a stick
R/R: I've been so good about exercising the past couple of weeks and even made it to the early morning kick boxing class I love. Yay for achy muscles!
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? @LadyMillil@berg I have to agree on Gilmore Girls - I'm so excited for November's reboot. I also love Law and Order SVU.
History and blog link in spoiler
2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
R/R: I jumped down a giant rabbit hole this morning. I had a dream I got a BFP so I woke up this morning and was all encouraged but wasn't going to test. But then the FR that I had literally jumped out of the cupboard this morning onto the floor and when I picked them up it said test up to 5 days before your expected period and FF has me expected on Friday so I thought why not try. BECAUSE IT'S TOO EARLY, DILYNNE, THAT'S WHY! You know better. Now I'm bummed lol
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Oh boy. Umm... One Tree Hill was great. Third Watch was another. ER was good. I can't pick just one lol
R/R: It was a good day at work yesterday and I was productive getting stuff done around the house last night.I'm looking forward to dinner with freinds and using their machine to core and peel all the apples we picked this weekend!
CS/Q: not currently
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? I have to agree with @ladymillil@berg@laurad75 and @khrun17 gilmore girls!! I also really love MASH
@dilynne and @bertiemeetsgertie I'm sorry for the BFP dreams followed by a BFN. Those dreams can sure mess with your head.
Sorry for the post and ghost, mobile bumping. Will return later!
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: 21/7
Timing: -1, O
Testing: double digits at least
R/R: made a change in my work schedule to avoid screwing up something for my coworkers, and in turn now my schedule royally screws me. So now I'm tempted to renew. I hate work some days.
CS/Q: a little consistency this morning but damn open circle bc I fell back asleep after temping alarm went off.
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Easy- SVU!
Me: 36 DH: 37 Married May 2013
TTC #1: April 2016 (Mirena removed March 2016 after 2.5 years)a BFP #1: 10/14/16 - DD born 6/2017 TTC #2 November 2018 (Mirena removed October 2018 after 1 year) BFP #2 9/11/19 - EDD 5/24/20 - DD born 5/2020 TTC #3 May 2022 (Mirena removed after almost 2 years) BFP #3 11/24/23 - EDD 7/30/24
@bertiemeetsgertie haha our cats snore softly, but not loud enough to keep anyone awake! And, YAS, Friends is da best! Sorry for the BFN, hopefully its just too early!
@LadyMillil congestion is the WORST. I hope it clears up quickly for you!
@lulu1180 Yup, vivid dreams over here too. And, I loved the first 3-4 seasons of Grey's!
@BertieMeetsGertie and @Dilynne Damn the BFP dreams! Hopefully they're prophetic though! Fx for you both. @lulu1180 I'm certainly not a FF expert, but with the nausea, I would want it to be something that truly impacted my day in a meaningful way, so I would say a minute or two of nausea wouldn't count. But that's just my $0.02. @ladymillil sorry for the nasty congestion and I hope you feel better soon! On the brightside, until we're KU, at least you can take something for it, if you want! @Jenshoes AHH I'm so hoping for you. Selfishly (and because I seem to have developed a POAS addiction) I want you to test today!! If today is the day AF is "supposed" to be here, I would think the chance of turning a test mid-day are pretty good. @ivymagic828 As PP said, every pregnancy can be different. FX for you! Also, Full House is so a favorite/guilty pleasure of mine @laurad75 Good for you on the exercising front. I have been so bad this month. Last month I'm half convinced that I Oed late for me because I was starting up running again, and it has made me superstitious. Crazy, I know. And probably just justifying my laziness. Keep up the good work, girl!
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 23/10
Timing: Not good. I hate having to type that every day...
Testing: BFN yesterday, which was stupid. I'm going to try to hold out until Friday. MH's birthday party is Saturday so I'll need to make a fake-drinking plan if by some stroke of luck, I get a BFP. AF isn't "due" until Monday/Tuesday.
R/R: I underestimated my BSC. I bought some Wondfo OPKs for next month and 20 HPTs with them... so because they're cheap, I keep wanting to use them. Also had some light spotting today, and the normal me is thinking "Ok, AF is coming." But the BSC me says "IMPLANTATION BLEEDING!" Ugh. Luckily the rest of the week I'm super busy so I wont have as much time to obsess. Because that's what I'm doing now for sure.
CS/Q: This has been beaten to death, but with OPKs, I'm thinking around CD 9/10 I do one/day and then if it starts to get darker, up to 2/day until I get a "positive?"
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? I considered not participating today because this is such a hard question for me! Old school, Full House was my fave and I still can watch it anytime it comes one. Loved the reboot and may or may not have cried during some of it... Now my favorite serious show is maybe Walking Dead or GoT. Funny/sitcoms either the Office or HIMYM.
@ShadeofGreen816 Same here. I woman I know who struggled with IF and is now pregnant told me I had to stop exercising or cut back a lot if I wanted to GKU. I gave her my canned response 'Thank you so much for the advice' but it got me thinking that maybe I should cut back and I had been using that as an excuse.
In regards to OPK's. I start with wondfos early because I missed O a couple of cycles back. If I start to see a line I will test 2 or 3 times a day with CB digital or the CVS brand until its a firm positive.
History and blog link in spoiler
2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
@lulu1180 I have been having crazy vivid dreams too--like several a night! I hope it means I'm KU but it could just mean I'm losing my mind... no surprises there
Month/Cycle: 6/5 if you count the months when we didn't put as much effort in--2/1 if you only count the cycle when we increased efforts and was more sure about O timing (irregular cycles).
CD/DPO: 27/8 (O might be a day off in either direction)
Timing: -3, -1, 0, +1 assuming 8 DPO
Testing: Wanted to wait until missing AF but I have a laser tattoo removal treatment Thursday that I need to cancel tomorrow if cancelling to avoid paying fee. There is zero research on tattoo removals when KU and the laser breaks up the ink so that your white blood cells essentially "eat" ink (clearly I'm not in the medical industry) and just not 100% confident that it isn't bad when KU. Treatments have been going on 2 and a half years and was hoping would be done by TTC but it's taking forever. So expecting BFN tomorrow.
R/R: SS like mad. Vivid dreams like I said above. Thought I felt pinching implantation cramps on one side yesterday and the day before (I don't get PMS cramps) and been really tired. Constipated (sorry if TMI). Probably just more "in tune" with my body or whatever but if not KU I hope nothing's wrong.
CS/Q: Anyone else go through tattoo removal or other laser treatments while TTC? Probably alone on that one... but if you've got tips or better info than me I'll take it.
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? MH and I are obsessed with Peep Show (not actually about a peep show just about 2 roommates in London). Also really into Curb Your Enthusiasm.
@NurseK2016@laurad75@wabash15@shadeofgreen816@lund (maybe I should have waited..) I gave in & tested at work... BFN. But I did have like 16 oz over water over the past few hours... would that impact it? Idk... definitely feeling let down. No AF symptoms though. My body is making me go BSC! @dilynne sorry for the BFN
@CallaLily25 I'm with you on the ice cream... All I wanted to do yesterday was eat lots of food
@laurad75 I stay stick with the exercise... Isn't is supposed to be good for TTC?
@vflux33 I did laser hair removal many years ago, and they always said not to do it if you were pregnant... Not sure if it is the same thing
@jenshoes I've had a temp drop anywhere from two days before af to two days after af for some reason. I vote you wait for fmu, just because I hate to do anything that would cause unnecessary disappointment / over analysis for myself...there's enough of that in ttc as is, so that's what I'd do if it were me. FX whenever you do test it's good news:)
Month/Cycle: 2ttcal
CD/DPO: 24/6 crunch time is coming, people....but it's not here yet
Timing: -4, -3, -2, -1, +1
Testing: not for as long as I can hold out. (See note about subjecting myself to unnecessary disappointment above)
R/R: quote of the day from me to dh(both teachers): "I can deal with incompetent children, but incompetent adults? I just can't anymore..."
CS/Q: I think my chart looks pretty so I'll AW it here, but I don't actually have questions about it now...
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Dunno. Cosby show? Downtown abbey?
Started TTC Oct 2015 BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016 Re-started TTC Aug 2016 Started IF testing Nov 2016 Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017 BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
Thanks @Jenshoes! It's not the same kind of laser treatment, but that advice probably holds true for all laser treatments. More confirmation I need to test way earlier than planned tomorrow just in case.
@BertieMeetsGertie I have a pug that snores! We have to have a fan going in the bedroom every night to drown him out Sorry for BFN
@NurseK2016 thank you! I believed my doc when he said that upon reviewing his notes that he had used one big non dissolving. He also said while HE no longer uses the huge ones (I'd post the pic but don't wanna gross people out) that other surgeons still do. DH said he was full of shit and covering his ass but he's always a bit of a conspiracy theorist lmao I also have a connective tissue disorder and one of my friends who has it said that non dissolving things or "things left inside" can flare the disorder (EDS) so usually they use a combo of glued and dissolving stitches. We didn't know about the disorder back then but it is helpful info for the future (as it's recommended I have a C-section when the time comes). Thank you tho for reassuring me
@IvyMagic828 not to feed the crazy but every pregnancy can have vastly different symptoms
Awww so sorry about your morning and your BFN @Dilynne it's understandable you're bummed even tho it's early
Month/Cycle: 3/3 TTCAL
CD/DPO: 28/14
Timing: hopefully better next time!
Testing: No more unless AF doesn't show
R/R: Thankfully DH finally convinced his brother to pick him up from our house for their canoe trip so I don't have to drive today because I'm definitely ouchie from yesterday. Going to be a nice chill day for me My rant is kind of funny...I was all impressed with how well DH was taking care of me last night...you know, "no no don't get up, I'll do it", heating up and bringing me dinner, etc......Then I saw the kitchen this morning lol oh, men!
CS/Q: OMG another high temp screwing with my head! AF is due tomorrow and I'm clearly not KU so just annoying lol
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? I'm not good at picking favorites so I'd have to say both Friends and Grey's Anatomy for those who liked Gilmore Girls, did you like Parenthood, too? Another of my faves!
@shadeofgreen816 thanks for having awesome taste and reminding me. How could I forget The Office?! My old job was The Office. I swore one particular co-worker was going to pull an Andy (luckily he was let go before he could). Now I need to go Netflix all the seasons and binge. I love TV... probably too much.
@rainbowturtles I did like Parenthood. I watched in on Netflix just this past winter. I watched it mainly for Lauren Graham but then for the guy who plays Joel, because he's hot. In fact learned on Saturday night that he is also in American Sniper and is equally as hot in that. Great movie BTW. So sad but so well done.
R/R: I ordered furniture more than 3 months ago and it still hasn't arrived.
CS/Q: nah
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? This is a really hard question. Gilmore Girls, Good Wife, Six Feet Under, Parenthood, Sex & the City, Shameless...
Testing: With my recent shorter LPs, and the fact that I've started acupuncture again and hope this one will be longer, I seriously have no effing clue
R/R: I go here now! Well, I think I do, although FF and my temps are trying to drive me over the edge. For the past couple of cycles, my pre-O temps have been running pretty hot. I see a shift after O, but it's been much closer, and this month I had to switch to Research on FF to even get my crosshairs. All my signs, including a positive OPK and EWCM, have lined up with this shift, but only Research agrees.
On the plus side, we had OK timing. Also, I get to have acupuncture today. My acupuncturist even asked me to email her my FF chart prior to coming in so that she can determine my treatment from it. This makes me borderline hot, LOL. It's so awesome that she takes it seriously and makes good use of it. CS/Q: I'm pretty comfortable that I O'd, but I love a good CS, so have at it if you're interested
GTKY: Wow, that's a hard question! There is so much great TV out there. GG definitely came to mind first. I also really loved Mad Men. Someone mentioned MASH, and that is definitely on my list, as well as West Wing.
But for pure fun, I love me some Scrubs!
Me: 45 OH: 42 Beloved SS: born 12/2011 TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016 **TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW** August 2016 - dx with DOR Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T May 2017 - began freezing sperm June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks
@jenshoes sorry about the BFN, really dilute urine could have had an effect, if no AF I would test again tomorrow with FMU.
@rainbowturtles so glad you didn't have to drive DH this morning. Men are so funny, the other day I asked DH to clean the bathroom, so he wiped down the counter and did a quick scrub of the toilet. I asked if he cleaned the tub and his response was "no, we don't take baths"... Really?!? we shower in that tub everyday and its in the bathroom so for me it was logical that when asked to clean the bathroom it would get cleaned too, but I guess men think differently!
@jenshoes sorry for the bfn I just saw your post - i obviously spent too long writing my own post since I posted 12 minutes after you, but your post wasn't loaded before I started my own post... (I started it, left it, and came back to it without refreshing the page)...sorry
TTGP history (*TW*):
Started TTC Oct 2015 BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016 Re-started TTC Aug 2016 Started IF testing Nov 2016 Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017 BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
@Aurora1973 Hey there! I agree that it looks like you O'd on CD 13 but what the deal with all your open circles?
Tell me about acupuncture. I'm starting it next week and they share an office with my RE clinic so they all work together. My nurse highly recommended it and they will try to schedule my appts around my IUI next cycle. I'll try anything!
History and blog link in spoiler
2016 - dx with super low ovarian reserve; failed cycle with clomid, failed IUI, 2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks May 2020 FET; BFN July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate Oct 2020 BFP!
Also, I decided to google info on implantation spotting and apparently people on other forums post pics of tp with the spotting for analysis. Gross!!!!
@Krys Happy to see you back here! Even if I tried to take a break from
obsessing, I would probably obsess worse on my own. At least the ladies here bring me back down
to earth when I need it!
@berg Yay for a good night’s sleep! Last night was the first time I woke up
during the night in the past week and a half; I think I might be getting myself
too worked up with testing day so close. BTW, I’ve never seen Gilmore Girls but
I have a feeling I would love it….perhaps I will start it this weekend.
@Jenshoes Last cycle my temp dropped the day before AF
started
@NurseK2016 I told myself I would stop watching after
McDreamy was killed off but I feel like last season was too good to stop
watching now!
@CallaLily25 Last cycle (first time I temped) my temps
during the TWW were up and down the entire time but I wasn’t sleeping really
great during that time either.
@IvyMagic828 I used to look forward to the TGIF line-up so
much as a kid! I think they need to
bring all of those shows back!
@KhRun17 I always have what I think are great questions the
night before and then I completely forget them when it comes time to post in
the morning
@laurad75 I wish I had the kind of discipline needed to work
out regularly. I just can’t seem to
motivated myself to do it
@wabash15 Yay for being productive! That always makes me feel like such an adult
lol
@sevenn So sorry you’re getting screwed trying to be a good
person
@LuND The dreams are especially messing with my head. In last night’s dream, DH did something to
piss me off so I wanted to be upset with him this morning for something dream
him did lol. Stupid hormones!
@ShadeofGreen816 Thanks for the input! I can never quite decide what should qualify
to be noted in FF. Sorry for the BFN!
@vflux33 I’m with you there!
And to make it worse, every little symptom that sends me down the google
rabbit hole could definitely be a symptom that I’m KU. Fx for you!
@Buthayna I don’t think I’ve ever felt such disappointment
as when I’ve gotten a BFN, that’s why I’m holding out as long as I am too. As it is, if I get a BFN on Thursday, it will
most likely crush me.
@rainbowturtles Glad DH finally convinced his brother to
pick him up at the house!
@doxiemoxie212 Have you contacted the manufacturer to see
where it is?
@Aurora1973 Yay for O!
But sorry your temps are a bit wonky this cycle
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
@laurad75 I meant to tag you earlier...it's awesome to finally be in the same phase with you again...now we just need to find @ahrains and the others whose usernames I am totally blanking on for an AMA group hug! Thanks for the CS. Oh holy crap, the open circles! The first week I was on vacation and DGAF. But the rest, with a couple of rare exceptions, are within an hour of my regular temp time and with at least 3 hours sleep. Also, OH gets up at least once a week at 3 am to leave town for work, and that's the only time I'll have 3 hours in on those days since I get up at 5ish. Also, who am I kidding? My previous charts are littered with open circles. I get up to pee before my alarm but with less than 3 hours until I have to get up on the regular. I should probably just say eff it and start setting my alarm for 2 or 3...I just don't wanna!
@jenshoes, I'm happy to tell you both about acupuncture. I used it previously for migraines, when I went off of the med I used to take to prevent them because it isn't pregnancy-safe. It worked great for that, but it turns out, at least I think, that it helped make my LPs longer. I noticed that my cycles got shorter when I was released from care because my migraines were under control. So after 2 stupidly short cycles, last week I started going to a practice that specializes in fertility that was recommended by my prior acupuncturist, as well as my IVF/RE doc. They've also been written up in a local magazine because of their success rate. They not only are into charting, but they asked to see any of my test results and would like me to get more done.
So the main thing I'm concentrating on is my LP, as well as the fact that I'm AMA. LOL, my acupuncturist said that she "got a 43 year old pregnant this summer." Hopefully that's a good sign!
If nothing else, being treated is very relaxing. The needles don't hurt, although you might feel a little when they are first inserted. Then you get to lay there for around 30 minutes, and I almost always fall asleep. Also, my acupuncturist is also an herbalist, and she incorporates that and supplements. She was pleased when I told her what I'm taking, and also told me she thinks I have a lactose intolerance and recommended enzymes to take when I eat dairy. I think she might be right!!
That was a lot, but there's a lot to it. Fire away if you have any questions!
Me: 45 OH: 42 Beloved SS: born 12/2011 TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016 **TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW** August 2016 - dx with DOR Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T May 2017 - began freezing sperm June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks
@BertieMeetsGertie and @Dilynne - sorry for the BFNs - hopefully the dreams were right, just a bit early! @LadyMillil - hope the congestion clears up soon.. certainly makes temping trickier @lulu1180 - I probably wouldn't mark that as nausea in the checkbox of symptoms, but you could write a note in the note section just in case it might mean something later @Krys - I'm new since you were last here, but welcome back! Sometimes I do wonder if being here feeds my TTC obsession too much but it's nice to have the community and support @ShadeofGreen816 - sorry for BFN but still hoping for you later this week! @Jenshoes - aww, sorry for the BFN today.. maybe just too dilute? Or maybe O date was later than you thought? Still hoping for you.
Married since 8.2.08 DS born 8.11.14 BFP #2: 9.14.16, EDD: 5.24.17
Re: TWW Tuesday
CD/DPO: 31/11
Timing: -4, -2, +1
Testing: today. BFN will test again tomorrow or Thursday if temp still up and no AF
R/R: does anyone else's cat snore? Because mine does and it's SO LOUD! She woke us up last night because of it.
CS/Q: hmmm. Temp dropped 0.10 yesterday but went up 0.20 today, just about tying my highest post-o temp this month. Given the temp increase and my dream last night that I got a BFP, I tested this morning when I otherwise wouldn't have. Trying not to think too much of it, but it's so hard!! Had some cramping again yesterday and pinching pain. Pretty sure AF is gearing up to make her appearance. Only time will tell!
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time?
FRIENDS!
Edit: forgot some stuff
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
@LadyMillil Sorry you're feeling crappy, hope you get better soon!
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 20/10
Timing: ED in FW except -4
Testing: Thursday morning
R/R: I know yesterday someone mentioned that they have vivid dreams during the TWW but I swear, I don't remember having this many before! Other than that, it's pretty much nothing new from yesterday.
CS/Q: If you have a slight twinge of nausea that passes within a minute or two and doesn't come back again that day, do you still mark it in FF?
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Grey's Anatomy.
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
CD/DPO: 16/2 I think
Timing: -1, 0, +1
Testing: We'll see
R/R: I've needed a mental break from obsessing over TTC, so I haven't been as active lately. Things are great, work is fixing itself (aka my boss finally got fired which is a HUGE weight off my shoulders), and side gig is going super well. Lost a little weight, haven't been sent to the other side of the planet...things are looking up!
CS/Q: I do have a question! I've been chillin in the background for a while. I started b6 about about 70 days ago now to try and lengthen my luteal phase. This might be a stupid question, but I've seen a mixed bag of responses. I was under the assumption it just might make my overall cycle a little longer (it was on the short side), but I'm wondering if it makes you ovulate earlier? Last month my cycle length stayed the same, but I ovulated really early (I was consistently ovulating at CD17, and last cycle was CD14.). I chalked it up to "you're regular until you're not" and carried on. This cycle, I got a positive OPK on CD13 (started OPKs earlier this cycle thankfully!) and probably ovulated on CD14 again (need 1 more temp to confirm, but it's a clear shift so I'm going with it)
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Oooooh....I'm going to have to go with Sons of Anarchy.
Met: 2003
Married: 2005
TTC #1: May 2016
@BertieMeetsGertie sorry for the BFN this morning, but yay for increase temp!! My one cat does snore on occasion. It's not super loud though. I roll him over like he's a human to get him to stop.
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD/DPO: 25/13 or 12
Timing: Good
Testing: If I make it there, Friday
R/R: Went to bed at... wait for it... 7:35pm last night. Slept until 2am, then fell back asleep until my alarm at 4:45am. Greatest night I've had in weeks. Eat it TWW, I'll find a way to get my sleep!
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? So all time fave hands down, just like @ladymillil, its GG (Come on 11/25). But because I can't share enough.... Currently running shows it's New Girl or Amazing Race (I will be on this show one day). Old School/Childhood wise it's a 3 way tie between Jem and the Hollograms, ALF, and the original Muppet Show.
@krys, we certainly understand your need to step back from TB, but I'm so glad to see you back here! I can't speak to the b6 question, but I hope it's working for you! And yay for the job being better for you!!
@berg, I had to pet her to stop her from snoring. Sometimes it's hard for me to tell if it's DH or the cat that's snoring!
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
CD/DPO: 30/14
Timing: -4, -4, +1
Testing: Was going to this morning, but didn't have any!
R/R: So I'm so confused with my body. I had cramps yesterday around lunch, and an upset stomach which I attributed to *TMI* the period poops. But then, I didn't have cramps again or anything. No signs of AF.
CS/Q: So I have two questions. I just got a BBT on Wednesday, so I've been temping since Thursday morning. All of my temps have been higher with the exception of Friday morning and Sunday morning, but I drank the night before on both those days. When should I expect a temp drop for my period?
Also, I now have pregnancy tests, as I picked them up on my way to work. Should I wait until tomorrow morning for my FMU, or can I take one today? I don't want to waste one, but I'm so anxious not knowing whats going on! I should have gotten my period today.
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Friends, definitely.
@BertieMeetsGertie Sorry for the BFN. I don't have a cat, but my dog snores for sure!
@krys Sounds like things are on the up and up for you!
@berg FX for you for Friday test!
@lulu1180 Fx hard for you and I love Grey's Anatomy too!
@berg and @LadyMillil I just finished watching all the seasons of GG on Netflix, talk about a binge but I loved it so much!
@jenshoes Fx for you getting a BFP! If I were you I'd hold it a little and test this morning still but that's only because I'm BSC
@rainbowturtles sorry to sound cray cray but I read your update after your procedure around 2 am and didn't feel I was awake enough to respond but wanted to tell you that I work in surgery (specializing in abdominal surgery, like your previous one) and we use non-absorbable suture all of the time. It is stronger so it helps hold/bring the abdomen back together after a large incision. I have also had to bring patients back a few years or even months later due to the knots at the end of the suture bothering them so don't feel alone.
CD/DPO: 27/12 or 13? I think
Timing: Thought it was good
Testing: BFN at day 9/10 and 11/12
R/R: Just waiting for AF to come on Thursday...then I'll be headed over to WTO. This is my first cycle and just wanted to let you ladies know how much I've learned from you. I really appreciate the support you all provide!
CS/Q: Best app to chart BBT? FF?
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Either Grey's Anatomy or Criminal Minds...I'm addicted to them both!
Sorry for the crazy post girls! I am headed into work and will try to stop back tonight for more comments!
CD/DPO: 7 or 8 DPO
Timing: It was ok, but probably not great.
Testing: I think it's way too early to test even though I'm tempted. I'm also like 99% sure I'm not based on timing.
R/R: This is going to be a long, crazy week at work and all I want to do is curl up in my bed and eat ice cream lol.
CS/Q: My temps are getting higher and higher, and I'm having a lot of trouble trusting them. To be fair, for the past couple of days I've been waking up a little before my alarm and falling in and out of sleep before officially temping, but I don't move at all before sitting up to temp. Still though, my temps are now 1.2 degrees higher than the were pre-o, and I'm not sure that being in and out of sleep for 30 minutes can do that? I don't know...kinda driving myself crazy and hoping that I did in fact O! I think I'll "trust" my body more next cycle. I even had DH take his temp just to make sure the thermometer was working correctly lol. Has anyone else had unusually high temps during a cycle?
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Sons of Anarchy
Married: November 2015
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 28/13
Timing: O
Testing: I don't know.. maybe tomorrow evening if I don't start spotting by then? expect AF to arrive Thursday or maybe late Weds
R/R: Mainly just been bloated/gassy for a few days.. which makes me think AF is coming. Nothing is happening this time that happened with my first kid so I think it's unlikely I'm KU this time. I expect to start spotting later tonight or tomorrow so we'll see if that happens or it stays at bay
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time?
Hmmm, I really don't know. When I was a kid I really liked Full House and the rest of the TGIF line-up!
DS born 8.11.14
BFP #2: 9.14.16, EDD: 5.24.17
@Jenshoes: I've heard drinking can make your temps a bit higher, but I don't know how factual that is! I assume it's different for everyone.
@BertieMeetsGertie: Sorry for the BFN
Married: November 2015
@Jenshoes - I get a temp drop starting the day before AF. So, if AF comes on Wednesday, my temp will significantly drop on Tuesday and then drop again on Wednesday and AF will arrive that morning sometime for me.
@CallaLily25 - I've definitely had those mornings where I am in/out of sleep for a half hour before temping. I usually mark it as a different time, so it's an open circle, because I think it does raise my temp a bit.
@IvyMagic828 - YES! TGIF!
Month/Cycle: 6/4
CD/DPO: 25/6
Timing: our best yet. Maybe it was good that we were apart the week leading up to FW.
Testing: Monday if I can hold out (DPO 12) and don't have solid evidence AF is coming. I don't have any tests in the house right now, so that helps.
R/R: Nada.
CS/Q: I feel like I had a question last night, and now forgot...
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Probably of all time, Full House. I love the reboot too. But I'm definitely also on the GG train - it's on a constant loop on my Netflix account.
Dating: 11/14/2010
Married: 10/18/2014
TTC April 2016
BFP: 5/12/2016 ~ MC: 5/25/2016
@Jenshoes I don't think you need FMU to test. They are sensitive enough that it will pick up the hcg. Do it!
@Krys Welcome back. Its nice to see you.
Month/Cycle: 5
CD/DPO: 40/ 9 or 10
Timing: not good, not completely hopeless
Testing: maybe tomorrow because its been so long since I've peed on a stick
R/R: I've been so good about exercising the past couple of weeks and even made it to the early morning kick boxing class I love. Yay for achy muscles!
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? @LadyMillil @berg I have to agree on Gilmore Girls - I'm so excited for November's reboot. I also love Law and Order SVU.
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
Take a look at my blog
CD/DPO: 27/9
Timing: -3, -2, -1, +1
Testing: BFN this morning. See R/R
R/R: I jumped down a giant rabbit hole this morning. I had a dream I got a BFP so I woke up this morning and was all encouraged but wasn't going to test. But then the FR that I had literally jumped out of the cupboard this morning onto the floor and when I picked them up it said test up to 5 days before your expected period and FF has me expected on Friday so I thought why not try. BECAUSE IT'S TOO EARLY, DILYNNE, THAT'S WHY! You know better. Now I'm bummed lol
CS/Q:
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Oh boy. Umm... One Tree Hill was great. Third Watch was another. ER was good. I can't pick just one lol
Married: 04/05/15
TTC since: 02/16/16
CD/DPO: 24/6
Timing: -5,-4,-2,-1,+1
Testing: 10dpo
R/R: It was a good day at work yesterday and I was productive getting stuff done around the house last night.I'm looking forward to dinner with freinds and using their machine to core and peel all the apples we picked this weekend!
CS/Q: not currently
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? I have to agree with @ladymillil @berg @laurad75 and @khrun17 gilmore girls!! I also really love MASH
@dilynne and @bertiemeetsgertie I'm sorry for the BFP dreams followed by a BFN. Those dreams can sure mess with your head.
@krys glad work is better and welcome back
@jenshoes I'd take one, good luck!
@nurseK2016 Most of the ladies use FF. and if you want to buy the full version they often have coupons or deals where its not full price.
@callalily25 my post-O temps vary every cycle. THis cycle they are higher than the last 2 but similar to the one 3 months ago.
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
Month/Cycle: 5/5
CD/DPO: 21/7
Timing: -1, O
Testing: double digits at least
R/R: made a change in my work schedule to avoid screwing up something for my
coworkers, and in turn now my schedule royally screws me. So now I'm tempted to renew. I hate work some days.
CS/Q: a little consistency this morning but damn open circle bc I fell back asleep after temping alarm went off.
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Easy- SVU!
Married May 2013
BFP #1: 10/14/16 - DD born 6/2017
TTC #2 November 2018 (Mirena removed October 2018 after 1 year)
BFP #2 9/11/19 - EDD 5/24/20 - DD born 5/2020
TTC #3 May 2022 (Mirena removed after almost 2 years)
BFP #3 11/24/23 - EDD 7/30/24
Thanks everyone else for the love today!
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
@LadyMillil congestion is the WORST. I hope it clears up quickly for you!
@lulu1180 Yup, vivid dreams over here too. And, I loved the first 3-4 seasons of Grey's!
@Krys I'm so glad things are looking up for you!
@berg oddly enough I went to bed early and slept well last night too! Yay for finally getting some sleep!
@Jenshoes EEEEPS! FX that you have FANTASTIC news tomorrow morning. <--- and if you couldn't tell, I vote you wait for FMU
@IvyMagic828 hey you never know, every pregnancy is different! FX that you're KU!
@laurad75 good for you for keeping up with your workouts! Sore muscles from a good workout is the best kinda pain
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD/DPO: 19/6
Timing: I think -4, -3, -1, 0, +2
Testing: a week from tomorrow.
R/R: Getting a pedicure this evening so that I have pretty toes for our FL trip/my aunt's wedding!
CS/Q: just waiting around for now
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Oh man... Friends was always great, but I LOVE Downton Abbey.
Married: 2/1/2012
TTC #1 since August 2016
DH SA Dec 2016: Low count (11.7 mil total motile), 5% morphology, 73% motility
Blood work June 2017: AMH 1.1 (ugh), FSH 8.4, LH: 5.2, estradiol 28 pg/ML, progesterone 7.4
HSG July 2017: tubes clear
BFP 7/24/17 - EDD 4/5/2018
@lulu1180 I'm certainly not a FF expert, but with the nausea, I would want it to be something that truly impacted my day in a meaningful way, so I would say a minute or two of nausea wouldn't count. But that's just my $0.02.
@ladymillil sorry for the nasty congestion and I hope you feel better soon! On the brightside, until we're KU, at least you can take something for it, if you want!
@Jenshoes AHH I'm so hoping for you. Selfishly (and because I seem to have developed a POAS addiction) I want you to test today!! If today is the day AF is "supposed" to be here, I would think the chance of turning a test mid-day are pretty good.
@ivymagic828 As PP said, every pregnancy can be different. FX for you! Also, Full House is so a favorite/guilty pleasure of mine
@laurad75 Good for you on the exercising front. I have been so bad this month. Last month I'm half convinced that I Oed late for me because I was starting up running again, and it has made me superstitious. Crazy, I know. And probably just justifying my laziness. Keep up the good work, girl!
Month/Cycle: 1/1
CD/DPO: 23/10
Timing: Not good. I hate having to type that every day...
Testing: BFN yesterday, which was stupid. I'm going to try to hold out until Friday. MH's birthday party is Saturday so I'll need to make a fake-drinking plan if by some stroke of luck, I get a BFP. AF isn't "due" until Monday/Tuesday.
R/R: I underestimated my BSC. I bought some Wondfo OPKs for next month and 20 HPTs with them... so because they're cheap, I keep wanting to use them. Also had some light spotting today, and the normal me is thinking "Ok, AF is coming." But the BSC me says "IMPLANTATION BLEEDING!" Ugh. Luckily the rest of the week I'm super busy so I wont have as much time to obsess. Because that's what I'm doing now for sure.
CS/Q: This has been beaten to death, but with OPKs, I'm thinking around CD 9/10 I do one/day and then if it starts to get darker, up to 2/day until I get a "positive?"
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? I considered not participating today because this is such a hard question for me! Old school, Full House was my fave and I still can watch it anytime it comes one. Loved the reboot and may or may not have cried during some of it... Now my favorite serious show is maybe Walking Dead or GoT. Funny/sitcoms either the Office or HIMYM.
In regards to OPK's. I start with wondfos early because I missed O a couple of cycles back. If I start to see a line I will test 2 or 3 times a day with CB digital or the CVS brand until its a firm positive.
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
Take a look at my blog
@BertieMeetsGertie and @NurseK2016 @Dilynne sorry for the BFNs. I think I'll be joining you in that club shortly.
Month/Cycle: 6/5 if you count the months when we didn't put as much effort in--2/1 if you only count the cycle when we increased efforts and was more sure about O timing (irregular cycles).
CD/DPO: 27/8 (O might be a day off in either direction)
Timing: -3, -1, 0, +1 assuming 8 DPO
Testing: Wanted to wait until missing AF but I have a laser tattoo removal treatment Thursday that I need to cancel tomorrow if cancelling to avoid paying fee. There is zero research on tattoo removals when KU and the laser breaks up the ink so that your white blood cells essentially "eat" ink (clearly I'm not in the medical industry) and just not 100% confident that it isn't bad when KU. Treatments have been going on 2 and a half years and was hoping would be done by TTC but it's taking forever. So expecting BFN tomorrow.
R/R: SS like mad. Vivid dreams like I said above. Thought I felt pinching implantation cramps on one side yesterday and the day before (I don't get PMS cramps) and been really tired. Constipated (sorry if TMI). Probably just more "in tune" with my body or whatever but if not KU I hope nothing's wrong.
CS/Q: Anyone else go through tattoo removal or other laser treatments while TTC? Probably alone on that one... but if you've got tips or better info than me I'll take it.
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? MH and I are obsessed with Peep Show (not actually about a peep show just about 2 roommates in London). Also really into Curb Your Enthusiasm.
I gave in & tested at work... BFN. But I did have like 16 oz over water over the past few hours... would that impact it? Idk... definitely feeling let down. No AF symptoms though. My body is making me go BSC!
@dilynne sorry for the BFN
@CallaLily25 I'm with you on the ice cream... All I wanted to do yesterday was eat lots of food
@laurad75 I stay stick with the exercise... Isn't is supposed to be good for TTC?
@vflux33 I did laser hair removal many years ago, and they always said not to do it if you were pregnant... Not sure if it is the same thing
Month/Cycle: 2ttcal
CD/DPO: 24/6 crunch time is coming, people....but it's not here yet
Timing: -4, -3, -2, -1, +1
Testing: not for as long as I can hold out. (See note about subjecting myself to unnecessary disappointment above)
R/R: quote of the day from me to dh(both teachers): "I can deal with incompetent children, but incompetent adults? I just can't anymore..."
CS/Q: I think my chart looks pretty so I'll AW it here, but I don't actually have questions about it now...
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? Dunno. Cosby show? Downtown abbey?
BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016
Re-started TTC Aug 2016
Started IF testing Nov 2016
Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017
BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
@NurseK2016 thank you! I believed my doc when he said that upon reviewing his notes that he had used one big non dissolving. He also said while HE no longer uses the huge ones (I'd post the pic but don't wanna gross people out) that other surgeons still do. DH said he was full of shit and covering his ass but he's always a bit of a conspiracy theorist lmao I also have a connective tissue disorder and one of my friends who has it said that non dissolving things or "things left inside" can flare the disorder (EDS) so usually they use a combo of glued and dissolving stitches. We didn't know about the disorder back then but it is helpful info for the future (as it's recommended I have a C-section when the time comes). Thank you tho for reassuring me
@IvyMagic828 not to feed the crazy but every pregnancy can have vastly different symptoms
Awww so sorry about your morning and your BFN @Dilynne it's understandable you're bummed even tho it's early
Month/Cycle: 3/3 TTCAL
CD/DPO: 28/14
Timing: hopefully better next time!
Testing: No more unless AF doesn't show
R/R: Thankfully DH finally convinced his brother to pick him up from our house for their canoe trip so I don't have to drive today because I'm definitely ouchie from yesterday. Going to be a nice chill day for me
My rant is kind of funny...I was all impressed with how well DH was taking care of me last night...you know, "no no don't get up, I'll do it", heating up and bringing me dinner, etc......Then I saw the kitchen this morning
CS/Q: OMG another high temp screwing with my head! AF is due tomorrow and I'm clearly not KU so just annoying lol
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time?
I'm not good at picking favorites so I'd have to say both Friends and Grey's Anatomy
@shadeofgreen816 thanks for having awesome taste and reminding me. How could I forget The Office?! My old job was The Office. I swore one particular co-worker was going to pull an Andy (luckily he was let go before he could). Now I need to go Netflix all the seasons and binge. I love TV... probably too much.
CD/DPO: 23/7
Timing: -5, -3, -2, -1, O
Testing: not yet
R/R: I ordered furniture more than 3 months ago and it still hasn't arrived.
CS/Q: nah
GTKY: What's your favorite TV show of all time? This is a really hard question. Gilmore Girls, Good Wife, Six Feet Under, Parenthood, Sex & the City, Shameless...
CD/DPO: 17/4
Timing: -5, -4, -1, +1, +2
Testing: With my recent shorter LPs, and the fact that I've started acupuncture again and hope this one will be longer, I seriously have no effing clue
R/R: I go here now! Well, I think I do, although FF and my temps are trying to drive me over the edge. For the past couple of cycles, my pre-O temps have been running pretty hot. I see a shift after O, but it's been much closer, and this month I had to switch to Research on FF to even get my crosshairs. All my signs, including a positive OPK and EWCM, have lined up with this shift, but only Research agrees.
On the plus side, we had OK timing. Also, I get to have acupuncture today. My acupuncturist even asked me to email her my FF chart prior to coming in so that she can determine my treatment from it. This makes me borderline hot, LOL. It's so awesome that she takes it seriously and makes good use of it.
CS/Q: I'm pretty comfortable that I O'd, but I love a good CS, so have at it if you're interested
GTKY: Wow, that's a hard question! There is so much great TV out there. GG definitely came to mind first. I also really loved Mad Men. Someone mentioned MASH, and that is definitely on my list, as well as West Wing.
But for pure fun, I love me some Scrubs!
Beloved SS: born 12/2011
TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016
**TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW**
August 2016 - dx with DOR
Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T
May 2017 - began freezing sperm
June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T
July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba
July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks
@rainbowturtles so glad you didn't have to drive DH this morning. Men are so funny, the other day I asked DH to clean the bathroom, so he wiped down the counter and did a quick scrub of the toilet. I asked if he cleaned the tub and his response was "no, we don't take baths"... Really?!? we shower in that tub everyday and its in the bathroom so for me it was logical that when asked to clean the bathroom it would get cleaned too, but I guess men think differently!
@buthayna it is a very pretty chart
@aurora1973 your chart didn't post...
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016
Re-started TTC Aug 2016
Started IF testing Nov 2016
Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017
BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
Tell me about acupuncture. I'm starting it next week and they share an office with my RE clinic so they all work together. My nurse highly recommended it and they will try to schedule my appts around my IUI next cycle. I'll try anything!
2017 - egg retrieval #1 - 3 eggs, 0 embryos appropriate for transfer; ER #2 2 eggs, 0 embryos on day 3; ER #3 1 egg 0 embryos
moved to donor egg in summer 2017; 35 eggs retrieved; 19 fertilized; 9 total embryos
Fresh transfer Dec 2017= BFP! baby boy born 8/22/18
May 2019 - surprise natural pregnancy ended in MC
Nov 2019 FET; MC at 9 weeks
May 2020 FET; BFN
July 2020 FET; CP treated with methotrexate
Oct 2020 BFP!
Take a look at my blog
I'd like to know about acupuncture too!!
Also, I decided to google info on implantation spotting and apparently people on other forums post pics of tp with the spotting for analysis. Gross!!!!
@Krys Happy to see you back here! Even if I tried to take a break from obsessing, I would probably obsess worse on my own. At least the ladies here bring me back down to earth when I need it!
@berg Yay for a good night’s sleep! Last night was the first time I woke up during the night in the past week and a half; I think I might be getting myself too worked up with testing day so close. BTW, I’ve never seen Gilmore Girls but I have a feeling I would love it….perhaps I will start it this weekend.
@Jenshoes Last cycle my temp dropped the day before AF started
@NurseK2016 I told myself I would stop watching after McDreamy was killed off but I feel like last season was too good to stop watching now!
@CallaLily25 Last cycle (first time I temped) my temps during the TWW were up and down the entire time but I wasn’t sleeping really great during that time either.
@IvyMagic828 I used to look forward to the TGIF line-up so much as a kid! I think they need to bring all of those shows back!
@KhRun17 I always have what I think are great questions the night before and then I completely forget them when it comes time to post in the morning
@laurad75 I wish I had the kind of discipline needed to work out regularly. I just can’t seem to motivated myself to do it
@Dilynne Sorry for the BFN!
@wabash15 Yay for being productive! That always makes me feel like such an adult lol
@sevenn So sorry you’re getting screwed trying to be a good person
@LuND The dreams are especially messing with my head. In last night’s dream, DH did something to piss me off so I wanted to be upset with him this morning for something dream him did lol. Stupid hormones!
@ShadeofGreen816 Thanks for the input! I can never quite decide what should qualify to be noted in FF. Sorry for the BFN!
@vflux33 I’m with you there! And to make it worse, every little symptom that sends me down the google rabbit hole could definitely be a symptom that I’m KU. Fx for you!
@Buthayna I don’t think I’ve ever felt such disappointment as when I’ve gotten a BFN, that’s why I’m holding out as long as I am too. As it is, if I get a BFN on Thursday, it will most likely crush me.
@rainbowturtles Glad DH finally convinced his brother to pick him up at the house!
@doxiemoxie212 Have you contacted the manufacturer to see where it is?
@Aurora1973 Yay for O! But sorry your temps are a bit wonky this cycle
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
@jenshoes, I'm happy to tell you both about acupuncture. I used it previously for migraines, when I went off of the med I used to take to prevent them because it isn't pregnancy-safe. It worked great for that, but it turns out, at least I think, that it helped make my LPs longer. I noticed that my cycles got shorter when I was released from care because my migraines were under control. So after 2 stupidly short cycles, last week I started going to a practice that specializes in fertility that was recommended by my prior acupuncturist, as well as my IVF/RE doc. They've also been written up in a local magazine because of their success rate. They not only are into charting, but they asked to see any of my test results and would like me to get more done.
So the main thing I'm concentrating on is my LP, as well as the fact that I'm AMA. LOL, my acupuncturist said that she "got a 43 year old pregnant this summer." Hopefully that's a good sign!
If nothing else, being treated is very relaxing. The needles don't hurt, although you might feel a little when they are first inserted. Then you get to lay there for around 30 minutes, and I almost always fall asleep. Also, my acupuncturist is also an herbalist, and she incorporates that and supplements. She was pleased when I told her what I'm taking, and also told me she thinks I have a lactose intolerance and recommended enzymes to take when I eat dairy. I think she might be right!!
That was a lot, but there's a lot to it. Fire away if you have any questions!
Beloved SS: born 12/2011
TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016
**TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW**
August 2016 - dx with DOR
Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T
May 2017 - began freezing sperm
June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T
July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba
July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks
@LadyMillil - hope the congestion clears up soon.. certainly makes temping trickier
@lulu1180 - I probably wouldn't mark that as nausea in the checkbox of symptoms, but you could write a note in the note section just in case it might mean something later
@Krys - I'm new since you were last here, but welcome back! Sometimes I do wonder if being here feeds my TTC obsession too much but it's nice to have the community and support
@ShadeofGreen816 - sorry for BFN but still hoping for you later this week!
@Jenshoes - aww, sorry for the BFN today.. maybe just too dilute? Or maybe O date was later than you thought? Still hoping for you.
DS born 8.11.14
BFP #2: 9.14.16, EDD: 5.24.17
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17