@peachesnbean infertility kinda makes you into a person your not. Once my fucking period started 3 days early the day of my SILs babyshower and I cried until I puked. Is she doing treatment?
Nope. They just finished their first round of testing and everything came back normal. They are deciding if they want to pursue further testing/take the RE referral.
DD1- Aug11 Angel Baby- June13, said goodbye Oct12 DD2- Aug13 DD3- due Feb17
TW -Day 2 of DH out of Town -literally had to drag my toddler out of her crib while she tantrumed (I started waking her up gently, calling her name/lights on/rubbed her back 20 minutes prior) -We started the day with a gag inducing poopsplosion, that she slept through in that 20 or so minutes ...?! -I had to hose her off in the sink to get her clean -Sour milk in my fresh brewed coffee... -late for work
all of this before 7:15 am
I had a second dose of caffeine and I'm eating takeout for dinner - F today
@yogadevil, I am so sorry that the timing of his deployment is going to work out that way. I know it absolutely pales in comparison, but my H was gone literally all the time traveling for work right after the birth of our first and it was a huge struggle, but we made it through somehow and DS still has an incredible bond with H to this day despite him being constantly gone for most of his first year. I think I was the one who struggled the most. I had no family or friends around and had just become a new SAHM so I made sure to surround myself with people. I forced myself to get out and meet new friends/other moms. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you that things work out differently somehow, but just know that if they don't you'll make it through and you have a bunch of people here who you can talk to anytime.
@BlondePeanut, I'm sorry your H treated you like that, but glad to hear that you don't have to deal with him at the moment.
I'm sorry to everyone who is dealing with their moms being jerks too.
If anyone is following my TW story re:yarn, bff messaged me back and is very excited about our Tuesday evening outing. She just had a busy day at work. @PerraSucia
DD1- Aug11 Angel Baby- June13, said goodbye Oct12 DD2- Aug13 DD3- due Feb17
My Mom and sister are the twatwaffles. They continuoulsy make terrible life choices and end up in shitty situations, and because I'm the only person with a stable home and secure income (eta my husbands secure income, I make a pittance) I'm always somehow supposed to help out and save the day. My Mom just tried to destroy my sisters job and relationship in one fell swoop, and now my sister is hitting me up for money because she has no fucking money management. H has put his foot down and said no more, and I can't blame him. I still feel angry for being expected, and also like shit for not helping.
DH and my dog are TW today... DH first. I made sloppy joes last night and there was a ton leftover. He took the entire container of sloppy joes, and all of the buns.
I was planning on that for lunch today. I was craving that for lunch today. So not a happy pregnant lady right now... I was looking forward to sloppy joes for lunch today since i made it last night for dinner!!
The thing that makes me mad even more. When i told him i was making sloppy joes for dinner last night he said. Ew no.
So of course i had a ton left over. And he goes and takes the entire container of it and all 6 buns. So he is a TW for taking the one thing i wanted to eat today..
My dog is TW today also because he stole my son's apple slices then an hour later puked it all up on the couch. He couldn't move down to the hardwood floor and puke. Nooo he had to puke up chunky apple puke all over my couch.. so i had to clean that up while making runs to the bathroom to puke up the little i did get down today. So now my stomach is messed up and i don't want to eat anything. And i still want my sloppy joes.
@PerraSucia@Gingersnap I'm extremely close with my dad, I take care of him actually but he would definitely provide a lot of emotional support. My mom could help, but she tends to get pushy and our relationship is a lot better when we keep each other at an arms length. My MIL on the other hand....she'd insist on moving in and taking over and the thought of it gives me hives. She's so pushy and manipulative...and frankly was a subpar mother to her own children so I resent her a lot.
@MrsP052909 I'm so sorry you guys had to deal with that!! Especially not having internet to communicate as much... weve been lucky in the past that he had internet on the FOB between missions. It's been my biggest fear this would pop up, we knew his brigade was greenlit again in the deployment cycle starting in October but there had only been silly rumors for any tours. I may PM you in the future to talk more about this the recorded book idea sounds wonderful too
My mom said to me the other day "Oh wow look at your belly! Watch out! You need to be like your cousin Sarah and only gained 10 lbs the whole pregnancy." Ummmm.... are you fucking kidding me!? Who says that!?
My mom said to me the other day "Oh wow look at your belly! Watch out! You need to be like your cousin Sarah and only gained 10 lbs the whole pregnancy." Ummmm.... are you fucking kidding me!? Who says that!?
We have two sleeping beauties in heaven. Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016. Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015. They will be forever missed.
@Starfish113 - so not cool! The only thing we need to worry about is taking care of the baby growing inside us. My dr said 20-30 lbs is average, but all women are different. And bloating and other conditions can also come into play. I would've been so pissed. I am a FTM and my belly already starting weeks ago and was full blown obvious at 12-13 weeks to where people at work asked if I had a secret I was going to share. I had someone say, you are only 12 weeks? Wow you are showing already...that is unique. Oh ok......lol. But I love the bump and anyone with something rude to say about showing "too soon" or "too much" can stick their judgement up their butt in my opinion and the same to anyone who negatively judges someone who doesn't show right away. Everyone is different, respect it
Re: Twatwaffle Tuesday 8/23
-Day 2 of DH out of Town
-literally had to drag my toddler out of her crib while she tantrumed (I started waking her up gently, calling her name/lights on/rubbed her back 20 minutes prior)
-We started the day with a gag inducing poopsplosion, that she slept through in that 20 or so minutes ...?!
-I had to hose her off in the sink to get her clean
-Sour milk in my fresh brewed coffee...
-late for work
all of this before 7:15 am
I had a second dose of caffeine and I'm eating takeout for dinner - F today
@BlondePeanut, I'm sorry your H treated you like that, but glad to hear that you don't have to deal with him at the moment.
I'm sorry to everyone who is dealing with their moms being jerks too.
They continuoulsy make terrible life choices and end up in shitty situations, and because I'm the only person with a stable home and secure income (eta my husbands secure income, I make a pittance) I'm always somehow supposed to help out and save the day.
My Mom just tried to destroy my sisters job and relationship in one fell swoop, and now my sister is hitting me up for money because she has no fucking money management.
H has put his foot down and said no more, and I can't blame him. I still feel angry for being expected, and also like shit for not helping.
Do you have a good support system?
DH first.
I made sloppy joes last night and there was a ton leftover. He took the entire container of sloppy joes, and all of the buns.
My dog is TW today also because he stole my son's apple slices then an hour later puked it all up on the couch. He couldn't move down to the hardwood floor and puke. Nooo he had to puke up chunky apple puke all over my couch.. so i had to clean that up while making runs to the bathroom to puke up the little i did get down today. So now my stomach is messed up and i don't want to eat anything. And i still want my sloppy joes.
@MrsP052909 I'm so sorry you guys had to deal with that!! Especially not having internet to communicate as much... weve been lucky in the past that he had internet on the FOB between missions. It's been my biggest fear this would pop up, we knew his brigade was greenlit again in the deployment cycle starting in October but there had only been silly rumors for any tours. I may PM you in the future to talk more about this
Dude i had pre-eclampsia I was so swollen in my last 3 days of being pregnant I went up 11lbs.
WTF is a soldier supposed to do without his ruck?
Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.