Does anyone else hate it?
I have NO CLUE how you second time moms got connected with other moms using this app?!?!?
I used Tb with my son and I definitely got some invaluable support for the Two questions I posted but aside from that nothing...
I don't know how the usability could be improved but I know it can be... so I guess this is just a vent.
Re: This app....
BFP#1 1/21/14 ended in loss DNC 3/5/14
BFP#2 7/2014 Baby Girl born 4/15/15
BFP#3 2/10/2016 natural mc 2/27/2016
BFP#4 6/25/2016 Due 3/2/2017
ETA: I have an Android phone so maybe that has something to do with it?
Me: 26 Hubs: 28
Married: 6/6/15
Baby Girl: 3/22/2017
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Me: 36; DH: 38
DD: 7; DS1: 4; DS2 due 6-21-17!
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MMC & D&C Aug 2016
Samantha - 4/5/2017
Me: 27 - DH: 33
Married: June 2011
TTC #1: January 2016
BFP #1: February 22nd 2016 MC w/ Misoprostol: March 21st 2016 -Blighted Ovum
BFP #2: July 6th 2016 EDD: March 15th 2017
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you could start with you ticker change day ladies. Start asking them about themselves. Read the UO threads or the food threads and comment. If you want to tag people to get their attention add @ and then their username.
If you do all that, you'll be more likely to get asked to join a fb group later too.
its similar to real life, in my opinion. And I think it's worth it.
Married: 07/04/13
BFP #1: 8/14/14, Baby Girl born 4/16/15
BFP #2: 6/21/16, Baby Girl born 2/11/17
BFP #3: 1/26/19, EDD 10/8/19
Fur Babies: 2 Cavalier King Charles Spaniels (Piper and Mia)
I've been active on this board more or less.
This go round I comment on the fitness, weekend ticker, crying, birth plans and more. Heck I took the time to share out my personal information and email and took the time to organize and share all of the hypnobabies resources from my last pregnancy. Ive commented on the multiples board and I'm not having multiples!! So while I'm not on every board every day. I believe this to be active.
So while yes to an extent I agree with you there's a return on time invested my comments were more about the fact that I don't feel like the app is incredibly user friendly.
Perhaps it's the fact that I work in the technical industry and there are so many easy fixes that could be made by the developers to make this app leaps and bounds better. Again as I said before I'm not the type to complain without offering a solution. I've got what I think is a great email drated to the developers. I really hope that I get so feedback from them.
Here are a few of the suggestions I have so far
- Mobile Display of the personal profile data is always distorted (see atttached image)
- add the ability to hide threads
- instead of only receiving a pop up when the app is open for notifications make the notifications a part of the phone notifications (like facbook- I would like to see users have the ability to get more consistent notifications even when they are not using the app)
- add ability to add more information to personal profiles (optional for users)
- the app constantly "eats" half of long posts, GIFS or links people share. Multiple times I've written long posts and half of it is gone. I'm assuming this has something to do with the auto saving function. But several users have talked about it...obv very frustrating.
- star-ing or favorite-ing a thread seems to do nothing. Perhaps keep these at the top or make this configurable. Or add an ability for users to go to a folder to see their favorited boards.
- perhaps be able to sort your view of the threads
If it's just the app you are unsatisfied with then I suggest using the browser if it is available to you. It seems easier to use. The app is great too but it tends to be a bit more finicky.
If it's the community itself, then that is a whole different conversation....which, for the record, I feel is the best around. I have tried other boards (WTE, for example) and it's just a ton of random weird posts all day long. Sort of entertaining to read but no sense of community like here on TB.
I've been using the browser today vs the app and the refresh/autosave etc seems more fluid. But my comments are more than just thr glitches (which happen) it's also about the usability in general. (See my list above)
Most of the moms on here that stick it out and invest more time, have no problem...
It comes across as whiney to me. Like, I had no problem finding community, but I invested in other people and found out about their interests and such. and I see a lot of other girls on here who are doing the same thing. I'm learning their usernames and getting into what they like. Shout out to @chrlyr and @dubcompanion for being cool and all the other ladies on here that spend time doing spreadsheets and organizing weekly posts to build community especially @Scarlett830
maybe the app sucks balls for her, but miraculously, other women have found ways to still get connected with each other.
I explained how I did it, and recommended that she try investing more time into other moms if she wants to get connected.
I know folks are itching for some snark, as am I, but this isn't the post to do that on. Nothing snark-worthy up in here.