Not even that they are boring.....just ew. I used to give them to my H in exchange for designer bags. No shame.
Is this a joke?
Why? I can take a flaming. I used to be obsessed with expensive purses (pre kid). Once in a while I would see one that I KNEW he would say no too, and offer a BJ or two in exchange.
No flaming, just seems odd and childish so I thought maybe it was a joke.
I'm pretty sure BJs aren't childish. And it's not like she's asking you to do it.
My FFFC: it pisses me off when strangers get involved in other people's sex lives.
Not even that they are boring.....just ew. I used to give them to my H in exchange for designer bags. No shame.
Is this a joke?
Why? I can take a flaming. I used to be obsessed with expensive purses (pre kid). Once in a while I would see one that I KNEW he would say no too, and offer a BJ or two in exchange.
No flaming, just seems odd and childish so I thought maybe it was a joke.
I'm pretty sure BJs aren't childish. And it's not like she's asking you to do it.
My FFFC: it pisses me off when strangers get involved in other people's sex lives.
Eh we kind of opened that box bringing BJ's up.
We have two sleeping beauties in heaven. Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016. Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015. They will be forever missed.
I've used BJs for bets. Like if you're right you get a BJ, and if I'm right I get ______. Except mine is always a material item and he wants BJs just as bad as I want say, clothes. If anything it's playful married banter, not childish. And he'd let me get whatever it was anyway because he's not an ass.
If someone made a post saying their H will only go down on them if they get an expensive thing in return I would say that he's an asshole. I didn't say BJ's themselves were childish, and I didn't ask questions to get "involved" in someone's sex life I made a comment based off a post. I think there's a difference between playful banter and expecting a handbag in return, I specifically asked if it was a joke to clear that up.
If someone made a post saying their H will only go down on them if they get an expensive thing in return I would say that he's an asshole. I didn't say BJ's themselves were childish, and I didn't ask questions to get "involved" in someone's sex life I made a comment based off a post. I think there's a difference between playful banter and expecting a handbag in return, I specifically asked if it was a joke to clear that up.
I didn't say it was the ONLY time. He gets birthdays. I never said I expected to get expensive purses, it was a method of persuasion, if you will. Everyone else took it as playful except for you, so maybe you need to relax.
If someone made a post saying their H will only go down on them if they get an expensive thing in return I would say that he's an asshole. I didn't say BJ's themselves were childish, and I didn't ask questions to get "involved" in someone's sex life I made a comment based off a post. I think there's a difference between playful banter and expecting a handbag in return, I specifically asked if it was a joke to clear that up.
I didn't say it was the ONLY time. He gets birthdays. I never said I expected to get expensive purses, it was a method of persuasion, if you will. Everyone else took it as playful except for you, so maybe you need to relax.
Maybe I already had an opinion based off the angry boots.
If someone made a post saying their H will only go down on them if they get an expensive thing in return I would say that he's an asshole. I didn't say BJ's themselves were childish, and I didn't ask questions to get "involved" in someone's sex life I made a comment based off a post. I think there's a difference between playful banter and expecting a handbag in return, I specifically asked if it was a joke to clear that up.
I didn't say it was the ONLY time. He gets birthdays. I never said I expected to get expensive purses, it was a method of persuasion, if you will. Everyone else took it as playful except for you, so maybe you need to relax.
Maybe I already had an opinion based off the angry boots.
I'm not sure what the point you are trying to make is...
@Gingersnap I, too, had an opinion based on The Angry Boots (I call that for the title of my first children's book, btw), and that opinion was that you are The Actual Best.
I should make it clear that my H is a really generous and nice dude. I'm totally the brat in the marriage. However, I do EVERYTHING for him so it balances. He actually laughed about the rage-boots. We still laugh about the blowie-purses.
@Gingersnap don't even explain yourself it's not worth it. I don't understand how someone could get upset over what goes on in your relationship. I think everyone was way to uptight today.
@Gingersnap don't even explain yourself it's not worth it. I don't understand how someone could get upset over what goes on in your relationship. I think everyone was way to uptight today.
Weird, huh? I'm over here like "did it read differently than I typed it?" Lol.
I can't bring myself to look at the loss threads. I know I should give my support, but I can't go there. I could barely even think of what to say to the women in my life who are like sisters to me and had miscarriages, I'm really bad with it.
Man I was just reading other posts and am so offended by the girl from November who came into the "gender reveal" post. She had 3 girls and just wanted a boy so bad. The future is female you asshole.
Man I was just reading other posts and am so offended by the girl from November who came into the "gender reveal" post. She had 3 girls and just wanted a boy so bad. The future is female you asshole.
I feel like that's something you don't admit too...
I can't bring myself to look at the loss threads. I know I should give my support, but I can't go there. I could barely even think of what to say to the women in my life who are like sisters to me and had miscarriages, I'm really bad with it.
Don't be afraid, looking at the loss thread won't cause you a loss, I know it might get you emotional but even more emotional are the women who have lost, those women are really in pain and just a simple "im so sorry you're in my thoughts and prayers" goes a long way to help them know you care or that you are thinking of them.
Woweeee I missed a lot today. Add me to the pro-blowies camp. Just, not in first tri. I can't be anywhere near his balls right now, or even where they've recently been. However, he always makes it super worth my while and I always end up feeling appreciated.
As for being post-it noted, I often "love" people's arguments if they expressed themselves eloquently. I am a huge fan of playing devil's advocate but also tend to side with the "underdog" in any given situation unless they're absolutely being an ass. It's just how I'm built to be, though often I see the merit in each side. If that gets me post-it noted here and there I can live with it
ETA my actual FFFC: I am blinder than a deaf bat and would die without the camera on my phone. I can't bear to admit just how many times a week I use my phone to take pictures of my surroundings just to find where I set my glasses (they are useless for up-close things so I just give up and take them off--then am left with a focal point that maxes out three inches in front of my nose). Shame.
... As for being post-it noted, I often "love" people's arguments if they expressed themselves eloquently. I am a huge fan of playing devil's advocate but also tend to side with the "underdog" in any given situation unless they're absolutely being an ass. It's just how I'm built to be, though often I see the merit in each side. If that gets me post-it noted here and there I can live with it ...
Re: FFFC 7/22
My FFFC: it pisses me off when strangers get involved in other people's sex lives.
Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.
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Started TTC #1 November 2015
BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017
I've used BJs for bets. Like if you're right you get a BJ, and if I'm right I get ______. Except mine is always a material item and he wants BJs just as bad as I want say, clothes. If anything it's playful married banter, not childish. And he'd let me get whatever it was anyway because he's not an ass.
But for an entree? It's very rare.
Big Bro 7/14/13
Little Bro 2/6/17
I think there's a difference between playful banter and expecting a handbag in return, I specifically asked if it was a joke to clear that up.
ET 9/10 - transferred 1 perfect 5AA blast
7dp5dt BFP ~~ Beta on 9/19 - 77.4 Beta #2 on 9/21 - 357
Low heartbeat on 10/7 86, lower heartbeat on 10/11 76, no heartbeat 10/14/13. D&C 10/15/13
Tests revealed MTHFR c677t mutation, put on Folgard.
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FET #1 1/6/14 - 4BB blast - BFN
He gets birthdays.
I never said I expected to get expensive purses, it was a method of persuasion, if you will.
Everyone else took it as playful except for you, so maybe you need to relax.
Meh, I've been called worse.
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Started TTC #1 November 2015
BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017
edit: it only posted my emoji.
Jack gained his wings on 09/02/2016.
Kali gained her wings on 07/28/2015.
They will be forever missed.
I'm totally the brat in the marriage.
However, I do EVERYTHING for him so it balances.
He actually laughed about the rage-boots. We still laugh about the blowie-purses.
I'm over here like "did it read differently than I typed it?" Lol.
First BFP: 12/16/13
EDD: 08/23/14
Baby BOY born: 08/29/14
As for being post-it noted, I often "love" people's arguments if they expressed themselves eloquently. I am a huge fan of playing devil's advocate but also tend to side with the "underdog" in any given situation unless they're absolutely being an ass. It's just how I'm built to be, though often I see the merit in each side. If that gets me post-it noted here and there I can live with it
ETA my actual FFFC: I am blinder than a deaf bat and would die without the camera on my phone. I can't bear to admit just how many times a week I use my phone to take pictures of my surroundings just to find where I set my glasses (they are useless for up-close things so I just give up and take them off--then am left with a focal point that maxes out three inches in front of my nose). Shame.
So I'm suuuper late to the party but: @glitterDragon Man deodorant all the way! The lady stuff just won't cut it for me!
@Gingersnap I freaking love you. That is all.
And on the topic of BJ's. I hate giving them, but I will give them if it means I get some mouth to vag action in return. I do you, you do me, sir.
ME: 25, DH: 27
TTC #1 since 09/2015
Miscarriage @ 10 wks 02/28/2016
BFP 05/28/2016!
Hopefully I don't miss this next Friday's.
Married: 10/10
EDD: 8/27/16 MMC 1/16
Rainbow Boy: 2/04/17
TTC: 4/18 BFP: 1/2/19
EDD: 9/6/19