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TWW Thursday

For those of you who will enjoy the solitude and the delight of impending weekend, your prize is almost here. Friday, we have our eye on you!!!


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GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?
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Me: 31 / DH: 37
Married: November 2015
 TTC #1 Since March 2014
MC: New Years Eve 2014
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  • @KirstinH88  I only have wondfos and a crappy blue dye! I'm worried it's not enough! Haha. But for real.

    @momtoleo That's really cute about your DH reading up on things! Mine asked when AF was due and I said "oh like a week or so..." because I know he'll be disappointed with a BFN. But then again, so will I! I agree about the drinking a lot on vacation - especially if it's somewhere hot, it can be exhausting. 

    Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD/DPO: 30/11

    Timing: -4,-1,+1

    Testing: Tomorrow - I'm terrified. My hopes are way too high. 

    R/R: I'm struggling with the concept of not living like you're pregnant until you are. How do you do this?! I feel like every time we try to plan an event in the future, my brain automatically jumps to "if I'm pregnant, then..."

    CS/Q: Not today.

    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?

    My biggest pet peeve is silly but it happens every time in my family... when it comes to deciding what to do for dinner, everyone says they don't care. Just pick something!

    My favorite thing is relaxing on the beach all day (I'm a beach vacation only person) and then barely getting ready (letting hair air dry, little makeup etc) and heading out for seafood. Never. Gets. Old. 



  • CD1 ya'll... welp see ya later or really FX that I don't! Good luck!!
  • @Saralee797 - Noooooo :sweat:
    **TW**
    Me: 31 / DH: 37
    Married: November 2015
     TTC #1 Since March 2014
    MC: New Years Eve 2014
    Mommy to 4 furbabies
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3f14a1


  • @GrabberBlue2010 Thanks girl. I knew it was coming so it made it a little less painful! I'm ready for a new cycle which is hopefully normal!! <3
  • @kirstinh88 I googled it and apparently, the temps in the LP should be stable - within 0.2 degrees of one another. Not quite sure what it means if they're not.. but I got that off an acupuncture site so I imagine their answer would be 'get acupuncture!' :)

    @grabberblue2010 FX for you and your second interview!! And yes, Xbox sounds amazing. I've got to find a game DH and I can play together. He loves Fifa - I don't. I also can't do FPS's bc  they make me nauseous :( I wish there was like a mario kart for xbox lol..

    @linzrunz Congrats on 9 years!! That's great!!

    @hartmich I do that all the time :( We're trying to decide if we want to go on vacation over Thanksgiving holiday (I get a week off). We're torn between 'Last amazing vacation before baby!' and 'What if I'm already pregnant???' We're looking at Hong Kong right now (super crazy cheap deals from our city), but IDK - we may just go somewhere stateside instead :(

    @Saralee797 :'(

    @jackiemarie1989 Alcohol just jacks with my system period. Whenever I drink a lot (a lot to me is more than 2 drinks), I can't sleep well and wake up throughout the night. This throws my temps off, of course - typically higher than they should be at that point in my cycle. I tend to discard those temps. I don't see much of any difference if I drink 2 or less drinks - but that's my body and my metabolism. Your mileage may vary.

    Month/Cycle: 5/4

    CD/DPO: 33/9

    Timing: -3, -2, +1

    Testing:Tomorrow - 10 DPO is prob too early but idgaf. 

    R/R: Got a huge temp spike today - not sure what it means if anything, probably nothing, but it was weird. No big temp drops, so I guess that's the important thing. Still having some AF like cramps, so we will see what happens.

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?

    Pet Peeve: Probably packing - and the plane flight. I realize both are necessary evils, but I tend to overpack bc I'm afraid of being without something I may need, and I just hate flying. Like, hate it. It gives me panic attacks :(
    I guess that's not really a pet peeve... more just a dislike :)

    Favorite Thing: Eating/drinking all I want with little to no guilt, experiencing different cultures and seeing unique sights!


  • Month/Cycle:  7/7 TTCAL

    CD/DPO: 23/5

    Timing: -5, -4, -3, -1, 1, 2

    Testing: If/when AF is late

    R/R: I’m pretty excited for all the ladies who are testing tomorrow!  I hope the grad thread is FULL!  

    SO, on my way out the door this morning, DH asked what I did different with my makeup (I am a makeup addict).  I didn’t do anything different and said such…he just said “Oh” so I asked if it was better or worse and he just said “It looks different, that’s all.” So cue the BSC because now I’m wondering if I look like a troll with lipstick.  Stop, brain, just stop.

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?
    We walk everywhere when we vacation.  We walked seven miles a day in Savannah.  I love it but I have super sensitive feet so they hurt so bad every morning.  I LOVE exploring new places, finding cool shops and wining and dining at places I’ve never experienced.

    @momtoleo Good work, DH!
    @GrabberBlue2010 I was really hoping your work situation would be better today…sorry, boo.  BEST of all the lucks in your interview tomorrow!  FX for you!
    @linzrunz Happy anniversary, love bird!
    Aw, @Saralee797 …I am so very sorry!
    @Ekzerr Welcome to the work of Go…it’s downhill from here!
    @TheJerilu That timing though!

    Formerly ahrains
    Me: 42 | DH: 45
    TTC since Dec. 2014
    BFP #1 Oct. 2015 | MC Nov. 2015
    Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! | Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results
    Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI
    BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17
    <3 The road probably ends here <3 


  • I think I go here now... I don't know... 

    Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD/DPO: 14/questionable (see R/R)

    Timing: umm... I think -4,-2 (yuck)

    Testing: not for a long, long while

    R/R: So I didn't temp this cycle. I'm ridiculously regretting that. But I am back to negative OPKs, had some terrible (what I'm assuming) O pain, and lots of EWCM, so I'm assuming that I O'd yesterday-ish. I'm just going to go with that I think and reserve the right to change my mind if something crazy happens. Obviously not my best cycle... 

    CS/Q: Nope

    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?
    My biggest pet peeve is over-schedulers. I understand some things require plans and having a semi idea of what we are doing is fine, but if I have to fit relaxation into the "schedule"... No thanks! 
    My favorite thing (if my kids are on vacation with me) is watching them having so many new experiences and making family memories. 
    My favorite thing (if I'm kid free) is having time to nap and read a book! 
    Baby #1: Nixson Thomas - Born 3/11/14 @ 4:32pm, 7lbs 10oz, 21.5"
    Baby #2: Emma Haley - Born 7/2/15 @ 7:09am, 7lbs 9 oz, 21"
    Baby #3: TTC (hoping for a due date of spring / summer 2017)
  • Happy anniversary @linzrunz!!!

    LOL @hezzer78 I totally wish they would bring Mario related stuff to xbox. I loved when they brought all of the classic Sonic games to the first edition xbox. Those were the good ole days!!!
    **TW**
    Me: 31 / DH: 37
    Married: November 2015
     TTC #1 Since March 2014
    MC: New Years Eve 2014
    Mommy to 4 furbabies
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3f14a1


  • @KirstinH88 I stopped by CVS last night. HPTs are expensive! I bought a generic "compare to first response" early test (but it's blue dye). I also have wondfos and a regular timed first response and a regular timed clear blue (Amazon sent the wrong one). I'll start with the wondfo and the generic. 

    Month/Cycle: 1/1

    CD/DPO: 29/11

    Timing: -5, -4, -3, 0

    Testing: Tomorrow

    R/R: I wish I knew how long my LP is, but since I just came off Mirena I don't. Trying to sort out "symptoms." Also, I never got full CH this month, just dotted line, which is interesting. 

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?
    Pet Peeve: DH worrying about what time we are going to eat. He needs his three meals, and I hate having to plan shit around it. 

    Also coming back from vacation stinks too. Too many emails, etc. 

    Favorite: Sleeping in? Being able to change plans if I want. 
    DD #1: April 2017
    DD #2: May 2020
    Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022

  • @KirstinH88 I would say cold water showers definitely qualify (unless it is unbearably hot out, maybe) and FX for tomorrow!! 

    @momtoleo I don't think that sounds strange at all. I can understand having a drink or a couple, but I want to enjoy vacation and not feel horrible every morning the whole trip. (ask me about it 5 years ago though and I might have had a different answer) 

    @GrabberBlue2010 Lots of FX for your phone interview! And that you get to interview fun, interesting people today so it isn't a completely horrible day. Also, I wish DH wanted to play Xbox with me. He plays every night but I haven't gotten  the invite yet. Pretty sure he thinks I'm just terrible and wouldn't have a clue what I'm doing (semi-true, but I'm a fast learner). 

    @linzrunz Happy Anniversary!! Hope you have a great time paddle boarding. It's on my to-do list in the near future. 

    @hartmich FX for tomorrow!! Also, I get the struggle of living like you aren't pregnant until you are. Any plans we make for next summer (or anytime between now and then) I can't help but think about it. 

    @hezzer78 I'm also a 10dpo tester. I know it's crazy, but at least we aren't alone in our crazy. And I feel you on the packing and plane/travel part. I wish there was a way to make vacation happen while skipping that part. 
    Baby #1: Nixson Thomas - Born 3/11/14 @ 4:32pm, 7lbs 10oz, 21.5"
    Baby #2: Emma Haley - Born 7/2/15 @ 7:09am, 7lbs 9 oz, 21"
    Baby #3: TTC (hoping for a due date of spring / summer 2017)
  • @yaeger07 I have no idea how long mine is either. This is my 3rd cycle off the pill but first temping. It seems like from tracking CM last month it's about 14 days but that cycle was (likely) longer than this one will be. So who knows. 

    @ahrains When will men learn you just don't make those comments? My husband does that too and it drives me nuts. If you aren't complimenting me, keep your mouth shut! 

    @hezzer78 That's a perfect example. To me, it seems irresponsible to book something expensive like a vacation that for various reasons you may not end up wanting to take, or even being able to take, and risk not getting a refund. I guess there's travel insurance etc but still. 



  • themrsthemrs member
    edited July 2016
    Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD/DPO: 28/11

    Timing: it was okay 

    Testing: Today, BFN :/ 

    R/R: I wasn't going to post today cause I was sad about the negative. Temps also plummeting.  Shortly after I tested, I started spotting so I'm just not very happy. I don't know how some of you ladies make it several months and years sometimes. It's only our second month and I feel sad. 

    CS/Q: none

    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?
    I haven't been on enough vacations to have pet peeves about them; I do hate flying though. Best thing about vacation is just having time together to do whatever we want. Stress-free. 
    H & I: Both 28
    Married: June 2015
    TTC #1: June 2016
    BFP: 11-24-16 ~ EDD 8-9-17
    IT'S A BOY!

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Month/Cycle: 15/15

    CD/DPO: 29/15 dpiui

    Timing: iui

    Testing: tested this morning. Bfn. Whomp whomp.

    R/R: What the actual f. My lp has never been longer than 13 days. This cycle is a mind fuck.

    CS/Q:  dear body: 


    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?

    I am not a fan of over drinking on vacays either. I love having a few drinks and over indulging maybe one day out of the vacation but that's it.

    I love being disconnected from work. I make it a point to not check emails like I obsessively do 24 hrs a day when not on vacation.
    Me: 31 Husby: 36
    Married May 2014
    TTC # 2  Since December 2021
    Baby girl W born 2/2021
    Our journey so far...
    (tw loss & infertility)
    Diagnosis: Poor Egg Quality 
    Working with an RE since March 2016
    2 failed TI cycles
    3 failed IUI cycles

    IVF Feb - April 2017
    23 eggs collected, 20 mature, 14 fertilized with ICSI, 4 day 3 blasts, 3 day 5 blasts, 1 PGS normal
    Transferred 1 PGS normal embryo 4.12.17
    BFP 4.21.17
    MMC due to small gestational sac 6.8.17

    Our adoption journey:
    12.25.18 Agency picked and apps submitted!
    5.1.19 Adoption on hold so we can buy a house! 
    1.1.20 Homestudy process started
    3.14.20 First social worker visit
    5.25.20 Homestudy Approved & Submitted to Agency

    6.1.20 Surprise! Positive pregnancy test!
    Healthy baby girl born 2/10/2021


  • @KirstinH88, @hezzer78, @PepperAT thanks! I typically only have 1 or 2 these days (body can't handle much more anymore) so I guess it's probably not having a huge effect on my temps. I think my bigger problem is not having consistent timing.
    Me: 26 DH: 27
    Married 6-15-13
    DS born 4-9-15
    Septate Uterus
    BFP 10/12/16--EDD 6/24/17


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  • @AngelaPlus3 - awwww DH should totally invite you!! What do you guys like to play??
    @TheMrs - HHUUUGGGSSSSS

    **TW**
    Me: 31 / DH: 37
    Married: November 2015
     TTC #1 Since March 2014
    MC: New Years Eve 2014
    Mommy to 4 furbabies
    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3f14a1


  • Month/Cycle: 6/7

    CD/DPO: 12/1

    Timing: -1, O

    Testing: nope nope nope.  

    R/R: Rave: We HIO 2 days in a row.  You guys....this never happens for us, so I'm so proud of us.  DH wanted to skip last night because he was super tired yesterday after a full day of manual labor and a tough workout.  But, I told him it was my last day of FW and he stepped up his game!! In previous cycles, this sort of pressure caused some performance anxiety, but no issues last night!  A part of me thinks this post is totally ridiculous, but hey! I'm excited!!
    RantAll signs point to O yesterday but silly me forgot to temp before I got up to pee, so I immediately ran back into bed and temped.  Of all days to forget to temp, the day after suspected O!!  Probably not accurate, but oh well.  

    CS/Q: nope

    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?
    Pet peeve: I hate the pressure and usual timeshare spiel you get when you go to an all-inclusive resort.   I also hate having to go through customs if we're traveling internationally.  Always such a pain.
    Love: I just love being on vacation.  I love no alarms, no obligations...just lots of relaxation time.  
    Together 2007 | Married 2011 | Me: 36 | DH: 38
    Adopted Furbaby: 2014
    TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17
    TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA
    IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21

  • Month/Cycle: 16/19

    CD/DPO: 17/4

    Timing: -5, -1

    Testing: if I'm late

    R/R: still bleeding

    CS/Q: 

    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?
    DH doesn't feed me often enough! He normally skips breakfast, but if he has breakfast then he's not usually hungry at lunch time and so on, whereas I usually have 4-6 small meals during the day. Visiting new places

  • Answers to Q

    red tinged cm should be marked as spotting

    Alcohol can increase your temp, even 1 glass but This depends on the person. I don't notice an elevated temp after 1-2 drinks, but some women have a huge temp spike
  • Month/Cycle: 3/3

    CD/DPO: 20/4

    Timing: -4, -3, -2, -1

    Testing: Maybe 11DPO, but no earlier

    R/R: Almost the weekend! And we're going on vacation!

    CS/Q: None today

    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation? Not sure this counts as a pet peeve, but I never sleep well my first night in a new bed, so I'm always exhausted on the first full day of vacation. My favorite thing is having more time to read :)
  • KirstinH88KirstinH88 member
    edited July 2016
    Uh oh guys. I may be out and not even testing tmrw. I'm spotting. And I didn't bring any supplies to work because it's too early! If my LP is the same as last month, AF shouldn't be here til Sunday. 3 days early is no good!

    ETA: I O'd one day later this month, but it look like my LP is being shortened from 13 days to 11. What the crap.  :s
    Me: 29 DH: 33
    Married: 5/30/2013
    DSS #1: 5/25/2007
    DSS #2: 1/22/2011
    DS #3: 7/8/2012
    BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
    DS #4: 4/21/17
  • DD #1: April 2017
    DD #2: May 2020
    Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022

  • @KirstinH88 :( When I get spotting before AF, I usually spot for one day, then no more spotting the next day, then AF the following day, so if you follow that pattern, then LP will be 13 days. Crossing my fingers for you!

  • @Squiddly Thanks. I was one of those horrible people who never really paid attention to anything relating to my body or cycle before a few months ago. So I only started temping and paying more attention to the signs last month. Last month I spotted and AF came the next day. Assuming it will happen that way again, but you never know...
    Me: 29 DH: 33
    Married: 5/30/2013
    DSS #1: 5/25/2007
    DSS #2: 1/22/2011
    DS #3: 7/8/2012
    BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
    DS #4: 4/21/17
  • MrsFL2015MrsFL2015 member
    edited July 2016
    Month/Cycle:   3/3 

    CD/DPO:  28/10

    Timing:   Good!  Excellent! 

    Testing:  I want to test tomorrow, but I'm having second thought. Typically, I get AF around CD 28/29 (but I don't have a average luteal phase length...I've had my LP anywhere between 7-12 days).  Tomorrow is CD 29 and DPO 11.  Our timing was excellent this month and I keep trying to tell myself that it might actually be possible I'm KU, but then part of me doesn't want to go through the disappointment of a BFN.  I'd rather just anticipate AF and not think about testing unless I'm really late (like 12+ DPO).     


    R/R:    Nothing......

    CS/Q:   Nope.....

    GTKY:  What is your biggest pet peeve while on vacation? And then your favorite thing about vacation?

    I guess my biggest pet peeve on vacation is getting stuck around other vacationers!  I'm talking about the annoying ones that hog all the chairs at the pool/beach or they act own the resort or something.   When I go on vacation, I don't want to be annoyed by random strangers and their obnoxious attitudes. 

    My favorite thing!  I don't have to worry about cleaning the house/making the bed (thank you hotel staff) or cooking dinner.   No work or serious responsibilities for a couple of days.  Just fun and relaxation.  
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