@Puddles03 yeah, totally. I completely agree and delaying induction to a certain extent makes total sense. I think this pregnancy has left me with almost clinical stillbirth paranoia. Something for which the seed was planted when I had my first.
@TattoosandLace thank you. I don't know how this became the place to push your home/unmedicated birth agenda.
This is an intensely personal decision. One that we are asked to make after putting a lot of trust in other people and faith that they are doing what is in our best interest. I'm getting to the point where induction might very much be what I have to do. My doctor doesn't let you go past 41 weeks. She mentioned stillbirth and ever since I've heard that I'm team induction if it comes to that point.
I don't need a lecture about how bad artificial hormones are and the like right now. I need support and the space to safely discuss with other people and learn from their experiences.
I'm sure the sanctimommies think I'm a shit mom for my elective induction with #2.
However, since the topic of the thread was what to expect/support with inductions, I completely agree that pushing a different agenda here is not only poor taste, but has more than a hint of douchebagery to it.
So so it's ok to be all for inductions but not against? There are two sides to every story and I'm not one for shoving glitter up people's a$$es because they only want to hear one side. Yes some inductions are medically necessary and I had an induction with my first. But because you want baby to arrive on a schedule is not and should not be a valid reason to induce. There can be complications either way but the more knowledge you have going in makes you a better mom and makes you able to make better decisions. If you think it's right for you go for it, but don't blindly follow a doctor's schedule because they want to keep their Saturday T-off time.
"More knowledge you have going in makes you a better mom and makes you able to make better decisions"
yea but it all depends on where you are getting this knowledge! Be damned if I am going to get it from th internet, I am going to listen to what my doctor says. I don't have a medical degree, but they do! And saying they just want to keep their t-time is the biggest bunch of bullshit I have ever heard. My husbands patients come first and I think it is bullshit for you to make such a blanket statement. I know plenty of doctors that miss events with their families and friends because their patients come first!!
So so it's ok to be all for inductions but not against? There are two sides to every story and I'm not one for shoving glitter up people's a$$es because they only want to hear one side. Yes some inductions are medically necessary and I had an induction with my first. But because you want baby to arrive on a schedule is not and should not be a valid reason to induce. There can be complications either way but the more knowledge you have going in makes you a better mom and makes you able to make better decisions. If you think it's right for you go for it, but don't blindly follow a doctor's schedule because they want to keep their Saturday T-off time.
The point of the damn thread was to support those of us that are facing inductions not to debate whether or not you think they are clinically indicated. To each their own, but you're being quite disrespectful saying that women who are induced before 42 weeks without a medical reason simply don't have enough information or are blindly following doctors orders. Not that other women's decisions are ANY of your business anyway... Not a single person on this thread has said they were induced for simplified scheduling reasons. And for you to keep trying to drive the point home that you don't agree with inductions due to personal experience does nothing in the way of support anyone here looking for advice. Take your debate somewhere else.
So so it's ok to be all for inductions but not against? There are two sides to every story and I'm not one for shoving glitter up people's a$$es because they only want to hear one side. Yes some inductions are medically necessary and I had an induction with my first. But because you want baby to arrive on a schedule is not and should not be a valid reason to induce. There can be complications either way but the more knowledge you have going in makes you a better mom and makes you able to make better decisions. If you think it's right for you go for it, but don't blindly follow a doctor's schedule because they want to keep their Saturday T-off time.
@puddles03 so, I should've just gone into the home birth thread earlier in our pregnancies and pushed how I thought it's the dumbest idea I've ever heard and there's so much risk, etc?
Just st because a home birth isn't for me doesn't mean that I need to go into the thread that is SPECIFICALLY FOR SUPPORT/INFORMATION/WHAT TO EXPECT OUT OF HOME BIRTHS AND BASH THEM.
I agree with @TattoosandLace I don't think this was the right forum for you to come and naysay inductions @Puddles03.
The moms on this thread are the ones currently considering it and you appear to not be. And honestly I found your posts to come off as quite judgemental towards those who have chosen to go the induction route.
Call me selfish but if my dr offered to induce me today I would take it even though I may have no "medical necessary " reason for my own sanity I would jump on that in a heart beat. Just like I would never judge a mom for choosing to do a medicated or unmedicated birth, or a home birth vs birthing center vs hospital. These are deeply personal and difficult decisions and I hope you can see how coming in guns blazing in a thread you appear to have no stake in comes off as judgemental.
to all the mommas to be having to make this choice. Take your time, weigh your options and make the choice that is best for you and baby.
Why would anyone want to put glitter up someone else's butt? We live in a strange time where people shouldn't be doing arts and crafts with anyone else's anus.
I hope we are able to keep this thread open to support women having inductions. Everyone has their own opinions and values, and I don't think there's one right answer for every family. I do appreciate constructive information and data because I will likely need to make a decision regarding induction seeing as my first was induced 11 days late.
I agree that this thread should remain open because it is something a lot of us will face in the coming days and weeks. If you are against inductions bring it up elsewhere, like on Thursdays, so that there is still a place where questions can be asked and support given. No one here needs to be judged for following doctor advise. I've seen an awful lot of doctors in my life, not once have I felt like I'm pushed to something because of their schedules only that they genuinely care for me and want to help keep me healthy
A thread for Mom's being induced and soon to be induced. Post updates, questions, requests to help with boredom while waiting on your LO's, or requests for some extra thoughts and prayers! We are all rooting for you and anxious to hear good news and updates!
Returning the thread to its original topic, I just finished mine today. This was my second induction (if you remember from earlier, they were going to do a c section but I went in for it and he had flipped AGAIN - 3rd time in 48 hours) since he was head down, we just did an induction. We started with cervidil (which worked like a charm for baby one) and it did nothing except make my cervix a grumpy a$$ bit¢π. Then they switched to a folley balloon (think it's what it's called). My Dr let me have my epidural when she put that in and started the pintocin. About 4 hours later I had dialated to 5 and the thing fell out. Right after it fell out, my water ruptured. In 45 minutes of active labor, I went from 5 to baby literally shooting out like a torpedo (did the transition from 8 to 10 in 7 minutes). Called the nurse who told me whatever I do don't push. Kept telling the hubs that he was coming and, even with the epidural, I felt so much pressure I couldn't not push. Dr came in and barely got me in the sturips. One and a half pushes and he was out. He was a PEANUT at 4lb 10oz (37 week IUGR babe) so that might have contributed. Wishing you all all the best on yours. Hope it goes smoothly
As someone who is hoping to have an unmedicated, minimal intervention birth experience, with a doula, I have found reading these induction stories to actually have calmed some of my fears if for some reason I have to go this route. Induction has always been a very, very scary idea for semi crunchy me. So thank you for all sharing your stories!
@ESchreinerWrites wow we had a similar induction except yours went awesome and mine fizzled. It goes to show how different inductions can be for everyone, it's definitely not something to throw a blanket statement at. Oh and my Elliott says hello to your Elliot!
A thread for Mom's being induced and soon to be induced. Post updates, questions, requests to help with boredom while waiting on your LO's, or requests for some extra thoughts and prayers! We are all rooting for you and anxious to hear good news and updates!
The original point of this thread. ^
Yes, exactly! As someone who may possible be induced for medical reasons, I've found this thread to be extremely helpful and reassuring. I want to thank everyone who has shared their experience because it has reassured me and eased my fears as well.
I don't think this is the place to have debates about inductions. If you don't like them, this isn't the place to advocate against them. It's rude and insulting to the mothers who have gotten them, for whatever reason.
@theshannondee - I saw in the birth announcements that you had an Elliott! Great name choice yeah, that's the scary thing... the fizzle. I was so sure I was going to get 14 hours in and have gone through all of that muss only to end up sectioned. Fortunately, he dealt great with labor despite being ridiculously time.
I was induced at 41w 3d with my first, and in my experience it is completely possible to have a smooth induction without pain meds if that is what you choose. Now I am looking at a possible induction with this LO at 39.5 weeks because he has been measuring so big, and risk of getting stuck (like DD almost did) is a very real possibility if I wait longer. My midwives have been super supportive and they were actually the ones that brought up the possibility of induction about 2 months ago, just to get me thinking about it, if this LO doesn't arrive on his own. Yes, we would all love to go into labor on our own, but everyone has different circumstances for being induced. It's not fun being hooked up to an IV throughout labor and not being able to labor possibly in a way that you would like to, but the end goal is a healthy baby and mom.
Just left the doctor for my 39 week check up and she's scheduling an induction for the week of the 11th if baby isn't here yet! I'm hoping she makes her appearance before then because I'm READY! Also she did a membrane sweep today and that was not so glorious.
I had my appointment with the Perinatal Center this afternoon for a growth scan and NST. The doctor is going to recommend that I be induced at 38 weeks due to GD, baby's size, and the fact that I also have a VP shunt. He really wants me to avoid a c-section because the shunt could become infected. I feel bad because I really wanted her to stay put as long as possible, but I also don't want to put her health or my own at risk. My OB will be finalizing the date next week but it sounds like I could have her as early as the 13th.
I'm mid induction for low amniotic fluid and still only dilated to a 1.5 after 6 hours and two rounds of cytotech. They probably won't start pitocin until tomorrow morning now, so this will probably be a long process. I'm hoping my body decides it wants to kick into labor on its own soon so things start moving, but oh well. Definitely a weird experience! I think I'm most nervous about this ending up in a csection, since that's the one thing I am most fearful of going through. I know it will be OK if that is the outcome, but it scares me.
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After 4 doses of Cytotec and 16 hours, I was dilated to fingertip (not even a 1). Then got a foley bulb/pitocin combo which after 9 hours got me to a 4. The pitocin did the rest 8 or 9 hours later. It was a slow as hell process but I ended up with a vaginal delivery. It is possible!!!!!!!!!! I will keep my fingers crossed for ya! Either way, you get to meet your baby soon and that is the best!!!!! Sending positive vibes your way @winnie1122
@ESchreinerWrites Not yet, things are progressing so slowly that I haven't gotten to a point where I need it yet. Currently at a 3, thankfully contracting on my own without pitocin, but the pain is still manageable. Just hard to sleep and get comfortable.
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@thepen15ismighty I ended up getting few hours between checks, so it was enough. My water finally broke half and hour ago and man it got intense quick!!! Now I can fully appreciate this epidural...truly amazing. Hopefully now things will get moving and this baby will get here today.
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BFP #3 11/13/14 (Found in ER with ruptured cyst) Diagnosed MC 11/15/14
BFP #4 4/2015 MC 7/1/15
BFP #5 10/21/15 EDD 7/3/16 Praying for our rainbow!
@winnie1122 Totally! With my first (also an induction) that is what I learned. Contractions with water in tact = annoying. Contractions after your water breaks = F-ING legit! Not far now
Thanks! Made it to a 6 since getting the epidural....so not there yet but finally getting somewhere. DH is getting very antsy, I'm hungry, we want to meet this little dude!
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BFP #4 4/2015 MC 7/1/15
BFP #5 10/21/15 EDD 7/3/16 Praying for our rainbow!
Have an appointment on Friday (39 weeks on the dot) for my first cervix check and to schedule induction. Baby boy has been measuring big for about 2 months now - my DD was almost 9 pounds and her shoulders were "tight" coming out. Have a lot more anxiety about this labor/delivery than DD just knowing he is so much bigger, and the "what ifs" are taking over (getting stuck, tearing a lot more than with DD, ending up with a c-section). I know I'm almost at the end but feeling very anxious!
Scheduled for an induction next week (7/14). I have to say, reading through all these stories have put my mind at ease. I am still quite nervous, but the excitement of getting to finally meet my LO is easing my nerves quite a bit!
I'm 40w5d and have an appt today with my least favorite doctor in the practice. He's repeatedly told me they only start offering inductions at 41 weeks. Fine, no problem. That would be Friday for me. But then he continues to say, but we "like to schedule them at the beginning of the week" so it'll likely be Monday.
Why? Can someone tell me WHY it makes a difference what day of the week it is? I am in excruciating pain and discomfort and there is NO chance I was wrong on dates and this baby is underdeveloped. Please provide logic so I don't snap at this man again.
I'm 40w5d and have an appt today with my least favorite doctor in the practice. He's repeatedly told me they only start offering inductions at 41 weeks. Fine, no problem. That would be Friday for me. But then he continues to say, but we "like to schedule them at the beginning of the week" so it'll likely be Monday.
Why? Can someone tell me WHY it makes a difference what day of the week it is? I am in excruciating pain and discomfort and there is NO chance I was wrong on dates and this baby is underdeveloped. Please provide logic so I don't snap at this man again.
This should probably go under U/O... But my guess as to the early in the week induction preference is so that if it takes a while, the doctor on call won't have to come in on the weekend. They may very well may have to come in for someone that goes into labor on their own but planning a weekend labor is different. I could be totally wrong. But that's the first thing that comes to my mind. I know there was a "tee time" comment somewhere that did not go over well and I'm not trying to say that at all. But if you could schedule work for a "work day" as opposed to a potentially free weekend, wouldn't you? I would. Lol Hopeully if you push they'll change their mind though!
Re: Inductions
thank you. I don't know how this became the place to push your home/unmedicated birth agenda.
This is an intensely personal decision. One that we are asked to make after putting a lot of trust in other people and faith that they are doing what is in our best interest. I'm getting to the point where induction might very much be what I have to do. My doctor doesn't let you go past 41 weeks. She mentioned stillbirth and ever since I've heard that I'm team induction if it comes to that point.
I don't need a lecture about how bad artificial hormones are and the like right now. I need support and the space to safely discuss with other people and learn from their experiences.
However, since the topic of the thread was what to expect/support with inductions, I completely agree that pushing a different agenda here is not only poor taste, but has more than a hint of douchebagery to it.
yea but it all depends on where you are getting this knowledge! Be damned if I am going to get it from th internet, I am going to listen to what my doctor says. I don't have a medical degree, but they do! And saying they just want to keep their t-time is the biggest bunch of bullshit I have ever heard. My husbands patients come first and I think it is bullshit for you to make such a blanket statement. I know plenty of doctors that miss events with their families and friends because their patients come first!!
edit because i spelled their wrong
@puddles03 so, I should've just gone into the home birth thread earlier in our pregnancies and pushed how I thought it's the dumbest idea I've ever heard and there's so much risk, etc?
Just st because a home birth isn't for me doesn't mean that I need to go into the thread that is SPECIFICALLY FOR SUPPORT/INFORMATION/WHAT TO EXPECT OUT OF HOME BIRTHS AND BASH THEM.
The moms on this thread are the ones currently considering it and you appear to not be. And honestly I found your posts to come off as quite judgemental towards those who have chosen to go the induction route.
Call me selfish but if my dr offered to induce me today I would take it even though I may have no "medical necessary " reason for my own sanity I would jump on that in a heart beat. Just like I would never judge a mom for choosing to do a medicated or unmedicated birth, or a home birth vs birthing center vs hospital. These are deeply personal and difficult decisions and I hope you can see how coming in guns blazing in a thread you appear to have no stake in comes off as judgemental.
to all the mommas to be having to make this choice. Take your time, weigh your options and make the choice that is best for you and baby.
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I don't think this is the place to have debates about inductions. If you don't like them, this isn't the place to advocate against them. It's rude and insulting to the mothers who have gotten them, for whatever reason.
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Why? Can someone tell me WHY it makes a difference what day of the week it is? I am in excruciating pain and discomfort and there is NO chance I was wrong on dates and this baby is underdeveloped. Please provide logic so I don't snap at this man again.