if you had a 3rd or 4th degree tear with your first delivery, how did your second go? I had a 3rd degree that healed fine after my VBAC. After not wanting to do a RCS, OB is now pushing me on a CS bc of the tear. She said its extremely likely to happen again. My research is showing about 10% chance.
Re: 3rd/4th degree tears
Thankfully, I had not torn into my anal region really at all, so I had a second vaginal birth. I tore again, but only 2nd degree.
DS1 - 03/31/2006
DS2 - 12/31/2008
DS3 - 06/26/2012
DS4 - 08/07/2014