Hello, let me introduce myself first..
For the first 30 years of my life, everything was smooth and worry-free. I was my parents’ most beloved child, found my true love in college, and happily married him after graduation.
At work, I was my boss’s most valued employee. Whenever I was in charge of a project, colleagues would inevitably say, “Oh, then I’m totally at ease.” I was constantly named “Employee of the Year,” with generous bonuses every year.
Later, I started my own business. Within just three months, I had broken into the market and started making money. By the fifth month, I was earning twice my previous salary. Growth was steady month after month. Right when the business needed more hands, I serendipitously met an amazing partner, and the company reached a whole new level.
Really, it seemed like at every step, whatever I needed, a pair of hands would always place it right in front of me, just in time.
My Two Girls: Ellie & Mia
Meet Ellie, My Firstborn
In 2020, my husband and I decided to have a child. After trying for over a year, we finally got the news in 2021 that a little one was on the way. In 2022, we welcomed our first child, Ellie. She made me a mother.
She is utterly adorable—big eyes, rosy skin, chubby little hands. Every time I look at her, I can’t help but give her a kiss. She is pure joy, and I love her more each day.
But as a first-time mom, I faced unprecedented difficulties. The postpartum tearing wouldn’t heal, and the pain was excruciating. Clogged milk ducts made my breasts hard as rocks. The severe sleep deprivation… And what was even more crushing was that, with zero parenting experience, I was clueless when faced with her unexplained wailing, night terrors, refusal to nurse, constipation, diarrhea, fevers… I desperately searched online, longing for one accurate, truly useful answer!
It was during this time that I thought, once I make it through this “dark” path, I must leave a light on for other new moms.
And Then Came Mia
Ellie had just turned one when I got pregnant again. In 2024, we welcomed our second daughter, Mia.
Completely different from Ellie, Mia is a great eater and sleeper. Although she had her fussy moments in the first two months, starting almost from month three, she became super easygoing. She feeds on schedule, gradually sleeps through the night, loves her solid foods, and adapted quickly when I had to stop breastfeeding due to mastitis.
This made me realize just how vastly different babies can be! It made me even more determined to write about my experiences.
Why I Had to Start This Blog
The Catalyst: A Life Pivoted
After Mia was born, my business also began to decline sharply. I had no choice but to close it and become a full-time mom. My work no longer involves Excel and Word, but instead revolves around changing diapers, washing bottles, making baby food, and managing household chores…
This has been a monumental challenge for me. All my past achievements seem irrelevant now. Managing two young children has brought me a sense of frustration I’ve never known before.
The Daily Reality
They are always fighting over things. When one is in my arms, the other immediately demands to be held too. When I try to cook, Ellie wants me to read her a book. When I attempt to load the washing machine, Mia has a diaper blowout, and I must drop everything to change her…
By the time I finish all that, I see the cup of hot coffee on the table has gone cold again. And it’s not until evening that I remember, “Oh my goodness, the clothes are still in the hamper, unwashed!”
Of course, being a mom is filled with happiness, but that doesn’t negate how hard it is.
My Promise to You
Because I’ve walked this path myself, I won’t just tell you how joyful motherhood is, like many websites do. I want to share my real, unfiltered experiences so every new mom can find a “companion” here.
I want to tell you: you are not alone. What you’re going through, I’ve been there too. Your breakdowns, your helplessness, your moments of losing control—I’ve had them all. You don’t need to feel guilty. This is just a small, necessary stretch of the journey for every mom.
My Hope for This Space
I really want to share my parenting experiences—not just the warm, glowing moments, but to honestly document the pitfalls I’ve stumbled into, the tears I’ve shed, and the “survival wisdom” I’ve scraped together in utter exhaustion.
The Goal: A Mom’s Toolkit
I hope this blog becomes a “mom’s toolkit,” filled not with vague theories, but with:
- Practical Tips: Like how to quickly figure out why a baby is crying, tried-and-true methods for dealing with clogged ducts, or how to efficiently manage the daily grind with twins (or two under two) solo.
- Pitfall Avoidance Guides: Sharing the baby products I regret buying the most, and those “game-changer” parenting hacks. Letting you know which parenting anxieties you can let go of, and which principles are worth holding onto.
- A Community for Moms: I hope my stories connect me with more moms like you. We can cheer each other on in the comments, share our own tricks, turning the storms we face alone into a journey we walk together.
The Bigger Vision
My previous career taught me to analyze data, solve problems, and optimize processes. Now, I’m applying all those skills to this new “position” of Mom. I want to prove that a mom’s value is absolutely not confined to the home. The mindset, resilience, and creativity we built in our careers can shine just as brightly—perhaps even brighter—in this more complex, long-term “project” of raising humans, and can even be transformed into a force that helps others.
My hope is simple: that every mom who opens this blog can let out a sigh of relief and say, “So it’s not just me.” Then, she can find a bit of practical info, a dose of comforting solidarity, and return to her sweet, chaotic mom-life with a little more confidence and a little less weight on her shoulders.
This road? Let’s walk it together.
Re: June/July IVF or FET
You'll notice an exciting column I had to add to the spreadsheet now that we have some betas scheduled! Congrats on your transfers @Tusername and @babylonghorn16! Those pics of your little embabies are amazing
According to our records it looks like we have ERs today for @sleepyrn and @Happydays13! Good luck today ladies!!!
AFM- I haven't had any updates really since I'm just still waiting to begin the screening process for the trial. Tomorrow I have my consultation to go over the details of it and then I should know more about my protocol. I've been trying to not focus on fertility stuff right now, but I'm still finding myself stressed about random things all the time. DH and I are trying to figure out a trip to take this month before we start treatments again, just to get away and clear our minds. I feel like it would be refreshing for me.
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
DITTO! Congrats on being PUPO!
My egg retrieval is likely going to be this weekend. I will know the actual date on my ultrasound tomorrow. I am so excited!!!
TI for 4 cycles: 1 round of femara; 2 rounds femara/ injectables: all ended in BFN.
3 IUI Cycles: letrozole/Follistim with HCG Trigger,all resulted in BFN.
FET #1: Baseline appt 4/28/16, Gonal-F/Menopur stims, Centrotide 5/4/16, ER 5/11/16; 6/8/16 ET, BFN
FET #2: Baseline appt 6/22/16, Estrace/PIO shots: 7/12/16 ET, 1st beta 7/21/16: 83 BFP, 2nd beta 7/23/16: 315. 1st U/S: 8/4/16 empty sac. 2nd U/S: 8/10/16 yolk sac appeared, everything stopped growing. Office D&C: 8/11/16, MC.
FET #3: Baseline appt 12/28/16, Estrace/PIO shots: 1/17/17 ET, 1st beta 1/27/17: 146 BFP, 2nd beta 1/29/17: 336, 1st U/S: 2/16/17, 2 healthy twin babies measuring 7w0d. EDD: 10/5/17
@wifeinraleigh28 try not to stress too much! The waiting is the worst part of all of this. For that reason, I actually liked IVF more than IUI. With IVF there's more to DO. Felt like each day I accomplished something! And although it's not very fun at times, at least you're not just waiting around! A trip sounds like a great way to clear your mind though. GL to you!!
Me: 28 DH: 33, Married May 2014
3 failed IUIs Dec '15 - Feb '16
IVF April/May 2016 - 1 failed fresh transfer. 11 snow angels.
Lawson arrived on 4/24/2017 at 7lbs 15oz, 21 1/2 inches long!
Surprise pregnancy!! Baby #2 due 10/11/18
Retrieval done and 9 eggs to fertilize! Will get an update tomorrow about how many were mature and how many fertilized. Had quite a lot of pain immediately after, but Tylenol and a heating pad and time have gotten it to bearable. Still a bit sleepy...so see a nap in the near future. DH was sweet and cooked me a nice lunch and set me up on the sofa before he has to go to work.
A little nervous about our starting number, but will see what tomorrow brings! And hopefully still on track for New York trip on Friday... @wifeinraleigh28 - a trip for you guys now sounds like a great idea!
first RE visit 11/15, me - blocked left tube and Low AMH, DH - low count, motility not great
5/16 Lupron, gonal f, menopur, dexamethasone (5/19 suppression check: 13 resting follicles; 5/24: estradiol 457 - decreased menopur;
5/27: estradiol 1417, progesterone 0.18, 5 follicles >15mm, 9 follicles 5-15mm; 5/30: estradiol 2964, progesterone 0.8, 9 follicles
>16mm, 6 follicles 6-11mm; 5/31: estradiol 3149, progesterone 4.1; 6/1 ER)
6/16 egg retrieval 6/1 (15 eggs, 14 mature, 7 fertilized with ICSI); 5 day update (5AB (biopsied and frozen), 4AB/C (biopsied and frozen), 2/3, 3 morula, 1 multicellular); 7 day update (4 frozen and sent for CCS: 5AB, 4AB/C, 5AB, 4BB); CCS results (2 normal, 1 abnormal, 1 inconclusive)
7/16 attempt to retest inconclusive - didn't survive thaw
8/16 transfer day 8/1: 2 5AB hatching blasts, beta 8/10 = 250!!, beta #2 8/12 = 572, ultrasound on 8/24...TWINS!
My question for you all is... how long did you have between your first IVF appointment and the cycle when you stimmed? I'm trying to get my expectations. I assumed at a minimum, nothing will happen until the start of my next cycle.... but really hoping it's not much longer than that!
Diagnosed with unexplained infertility
IUI #1- April '16 - BFN
IUI #2 - May '16 - BFN
IVF Fresh Xfer #1 (1 blastocyst) - Sept '16 - BFN
FET #2 - 11/8/16 (2 blastocysts) - Beta on 11/18
4 more blastocysts on ice
@happydays13 glad ER went well and you are home relaxing! FX that all 9 were mature and will fertilize! Hope you're feeling ok for your NY trip this weekend, FX for good and not too hot of weather!
@monica54321 I initially went for my IVF consult in early December but didn't get started until April, which was longer than anticipated and not expected. I had to wait for my beta to zero out following a chemical pregnancy with IUI #3 which took until the end of January and then initially started my cycle on BCPs at the beginning of February. During my mock transfer/saline sono in early Feb my RE had some concerns so had to go for a hysteroscopy which was still sort of inconclusive and then had an MRI so there were some definite delays in there. I ended up starting my cycle in April with a May retrieval and will have a frozen transfer end of June. I think most ladies on here have a much shorter timeline though!
Me: 28 DH: 33, Married May 2014
3 failed IUIs Dec '15 - Feb '16
IVF April/May 2016 - 1 failed fresh transfer. 11 snow angels.
Lawson arrived on 4/24/2017 at 7lbs 15oz, 21 1/2 inches long!
Surprise pregnancy!! Baby #2 due 10/11/18
Diagnosed with unexplained infertility
IUI #1- April '16 - BFN
IUI #2 - May '16 - BFN
IVF Fresh Xfer #1 (1 blastocyst) - Sept '16 - BFN
FET #2 - 11/8/16 (2 blastocysts) - Beta on 11/18
4 more blastocysts on ice
I am new here! Hello to you all! I switched over from the IUI group. Today we met with our RE for the mock embryo transfer, our medication lesson, to pay, and to sign consent forms for my laproscopic surgery on Friday afternoon to drain my endometrioma and to remove scar tissue from up in my lady parts. We start the stim meds on Monday!
I also go in for my baseline appointment on Friday - same day as the surgery to do the first ultrasound and blood for the month.
My head is swirling and I can't shake the memory of my DH's pale face when he was watching the med mixing lesson. He seems overwhelmed by all this on top of a busy work schedule right now.
Anyone on here have a laproscopy before?
Married 2014; TTC since 4/2015
Diagnosed with Stage 3 Endometriosis and possible ovulation dysfunction
2nd TI (clomid/follistim/ovidrel/progesterone)- 5/11/16 - BFN
Hope this helps! There are lots of interesting videos you can look up about the whole process that will help in your understanding of an IVF cycle! Your RE will most likely have an IVF class as well. Mine did, and it was EXTREMELY helpful. GL!!
Me: 28 DH: 33, Married May 2014
3 failed IUIs Dec '15 - Feb '16
IVF April/May 2016 - 1 failed fresh transfer. 11 snow angels.
Lawson arrived on 4/24/2017 at 7lbs 15oz, 21 1/2 inches long!
Surprise pregnancy!! Baby #2 due 10/11/18
Diagnosed with unexplained infertility
IUI #1- April '16 - BFN
IUI #2 - May '16 - BFN
IVF Fresh Xfer #1 (1 blastocyst) - Sept '16 - BFN
FET #2 - 11/8/16 (2 blastocysts) - Beta on 11/18
4 more blastocysts on ice
AFM- I just ordered my meds! Things are getting real. I'm also excited because I'm not doing PIO injections wahoo
Unexplained/ Endo
Medicated IUIs # 1-3 BFN
IVF #1- BFN
FET #1- BFP; Ectopic pregnancy found at 7wks
FET #2- February 2017 BFP Beta #1- 119 (8dp5dt) Beta #2- 475 (12dp5dt)
Married Jan. 2014
Me:36 DH: 39
TTC since August 2014, Mild PCOS + uterine fibroids
Myomectomy June 2015- 18 fibroids removed
IVF #1, May 2016 = 32 eggs retrieved, 12 fertilized, 7 frozen, 3 PGS normal
FET#2, July 2016 = one embryo transferred
TRIGGER
BFP! Beta = 617
Due date = 4/9/17
Delivery date = 3/20/17
AFM-Remember how I hadn't told DH about getting to test on 6/8 before I leave town? My RE gave it away yesterday at my FET, haha. Oh well. The timing is going to be a little interesting because I am going in for beta early on 6/8, DH is returning home on 6/8 sometime and my flight to visit family is the night of 6/8. I've considered cancelling my trip. It'll be hard to leave DH a few hours after he gets home whether it's good or bad news. So, I'm not sure what to do yet. My trip is to go to my hometown to surprise my dad for his birthday. He wasn't able to make it to my college graduation & was pretty bummed about that.
Me: 26 DH: 29
Married Dec 2012
TTC since Jan 2013, interruptions by DH deployments
April 2015, Clomid + gonal f, natural, BFN
Oct 8 2015, Clomid + brevelle, too many follis (10!)- cancelled
Nov 18 2015, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 1 folli, IUI #1 on 12/11, BFN
Dec 24 2015, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 1 folli, IUI #2 on 1/15, BFN
Jan 29 2016, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 2 follis, IUI #3 on 2/11, BFN
March 2016, Follistem + Ovidrel + Progesterone, 2 follis, BD at home this time,BFN
IVF: Stim's start 4/23, ER May 4th, 8 embabies frozen
FET #1 5/31/16, transferred 1 embryo- BFP: Beta 6/8/16 111, Beta 6/14/16 1800....m/c, d&c 7/15/16
FET #2 9/21/16, transferred 1 embryo......BFP!!: Beta 10/1/16 493, Beta 10/3/16 1155
SINGLETON- EDD June 9th, 2016
Married: 12/4/15
Me: 43 DH:43
Me: FSH levels all over the place, pre-menopausal
Him: Low count & motility
Meds start - Lupron until 6/23, Cetrotide started 6/24, Gonal-F starts 7/1
First ultrasound 6/24 shows 8 follicles with some possibly hiding
Egg Retrieval - Between 7/9-7/22
IVF #1 canceled due to poor response - 7/12
Figuring out next steps
Me: 1, possibly 2, blocked tubes
DH: severe MFI
Married and TTC since 2/15
Started stims 7/21/16, ER 8/2 --> 17 eggs, 5 blasts after PGS testing.
Fresh transfer 8/8/16: Chemical Pregnancy
FET #1 9/13: PGS tested 5AA, BFN
Endometrial biopsy 10/18/16: normal result
ERA test 10/18/16: "receptive" result
FET #2 1/3/17: natural cycle, BFP!!! TWINS!! EDD: 9/21 (8/31 with twin adjustment)
Diagnosed with unexplained infertility
IUI #1- April '16 - BFN
IUI #2 - May '16 - BFN
IVF Fresh Xfer #1 (1 blastocyst) - Sept '16 - BFN
FET #2 - 11/8/16 (2 blastocysts) - Beta on 11/18
4 more blastocysts on ice
Married: 12/4/15
Me: 43 DH:43
Me: FSH levels all over the place, pre-menopausal
Him: Low count & motility
Meds start - Lupron until 6/23, Cetrotide started 6/24, Gonal-F starts 7/1
First ultrasound 6/24 shows 8 follicles with some possibly hiding
Egg Retrieval - Between 7/9-7/22
IVF #1 canceled due to poor response - 7/12
Figuring out next steps
@wifeinraleigh28 a trip is a great idea! DH and myself went on a cruise after our failed IUI's before we started the IVF process. It was so nice to have a little fun and gear up for what's ahead.
@Happydays13 praying that your 9 eggs fertilize and grow into beautiful embryos.
@lilmissslp It is great not to have to do PIO!
@Tusername would you be able to go the next day so that you can spend time with DH before you go?
Metformin & Clomid Sep '06 - Sep '07:bfn: found out we had male factor and DH refused mTese, moved on to IUI's with donor sperm.
Aug '10 to Jan '11 IUI's #1-5 :bfn:
DH mTese March '11
1st IVF June '11- Antagonist Protocol: 21 ER, 20 mature, 11 fertilized with ICSI, 3dt- 2 (8 cell, 0% fragmentation), 0 frozen :bfn:
2nd IVF Aug '11- Long Lupron Protocol: 23 ER, 18 mature, 10 fertilized with ICSI, 5dt- 2 (blasts), 1 blast frozen :bfp:
DD born 6/2/12
Waiting to start FET cycle for #2 with (1) 6 day hatching blast
Welcome to @freudianmamma as well! It's nice to see some familiar faces here from our IUI groups, but it is sad as well that we have to be here. Definitely bittersweet
Welcome @Andreap681! You'll find a nice group of women here to share this experience with!
I added all the new members to our spread sheet. I will post it soon
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
I still feel crampy and my lymph nodes in my neck are swollen. My nurse says that is not related to the procedure, but they were fine yesterday so its a strange coincidence.
They got 7 eggs (I was so disappointed since I had over 30 follicles). All 7 are mature, and all 7 fertilized thanks to the ICSI. Now I'm just hoping they all grow. I alternate PIO and crinone, and start my estrogen pills 3x a day.
How is everyone else doing?
me:41 dh:42
me:PCOS, blocked left fallopian tube, hyperprolactinemia (dh's swimmers are perfect/normal)
Tried 3 rounds of clomid with Ovidrel trigger (BFNs)
May/June 2016 IVF 6/1 ER 7 eggs retrieved, 7 fertilized via ICSI 6 embryos made it to blasts.
6/6 2 AA embryos transfered, 4 BBs frozen
Beta 6/18 -- BFN
FET #1 August 22 BFN
Dec 2016/Jan 2017 Round 2 was a bust. 6 eggs, Only 1 embryo made it, no transfer
FET #2 cancelled 10/17 due to uterine polyps. Postponed until 9/2018 due to hip replacement.
FET #3 9/11/18 Uterine scratch and antihistamine protocol/lovenox done this time. 2 AA hatching blasts put in. BFP 9/20/18!!
afm - Just got the call...there were actually 15 eggs, 14 mature, and 7 of those fertilized normally!!! So 7 growing now....won't get another update til Monday.
they said that that they will look at them on day 3 but no call because it's over a weekend...sad we won't get an update but maybe it's ok since there's nothing to be done between now and day 5.
Happy weekend eveyone!
first RE visit 11/15, me - blocked left tube and Low AMH, DH - low count, motility not great
5/16 Lupron, gonal f, menopur, dexamethasone (5/19 suppression check: 13 resting follicles; 5/24: estradiol 457 - decreased menopur;
5/27: estradiol 1417, progesterone 0.18, 5 follicles >15mm, 9 follicles 5-15mm; 5/30: estradiol 2964, progesterone 0.8, 9 follicles
>16mm, 6 follicles 6-11mm; 5/31: estradiol 3149, progesterone 4.1; 6/1 ER)
6/16 egg retrieval 6/1 (15 eggs, 14 mature, 7 fertilized with ICSI); 5 day update (5AB (biopsied and frozen), 4AB/C (biopsied and frozen), 2/3, 3 morula, 1 multicellular); 7 day update (4 frozen and sent for CCS: 5AB, 4AB/C, 5AB, 4BB); CCS results (2 normal, 1 abnormal, 1 inconclusive)
7/16 attempt to retest inconclusive - didn't survive thaw
8/16 transfer day 8/1: 2 5AB hatching blasts, beta 8/10 = 250!!, beta #2 8/12 = 572, ultrasound on 8/24...TWINS!
Congrats to everyone who just had their ER's! FX for lots of growing embies!
TTC since October 2014
June 2015: large ovarian cyst removed
Nov 2015: Dx w/ diminished ovarian reserve, extremely low AMH
IVF #1: 04/2016 - 3 eggs retrieved, 2 mature & fertilized, 1 Day 6 blast frozen, PGS normal
IVF #2: 07/2016 - 3 eggs retrieved, 2 mature & fertilized, none made it past day 3
IVF #3: 09/2016 - 5 eggs retrieved, 3 mature & fertilized, 1 day 6 blast frozen, PGS normal
FET #1: 12/2016 - 1 day 6 blast transferred - BFP!! EDD 9/7/2017
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TTC since October 2014
June 2015: large ovarian cyst removed
Nov 2015: Dx w/ diminished ovarian reserve, extremely low AMH
IVF #1: 04/2016 - 3 eggs retrieved, 2 mature & fertilized, 1 Day 6 blast frozen, PGS normal
IVF #2: 07/2016 - 3 eggs retrieved, 2 mature & fertilized, none made it past day 3
IVF #3: 09/2016 - 5 eggs retrieved, 3 mature & fertilized, 1 day 6 blast frozen, PGS normal
FET #1: 12/2016 - 1 day 6 blast transferred - BFP!! EDD 9/7/2017
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For everyone PUPO congrats!! Fx for you all.
Lastly has anyone, or will you be doing ICIS? My re just brought it up bc dh's last sa was slightly lower than his first. I'm convinced it was because he had the ac blasting in the car for the 20min drive and some of his swimmers didn't make it. Does anyone have concerns with it?
@Happydays13 wahoo for your 7! Sending you good wishes!
@Monica54321 and @wifeinraleigh28 hello again. I hope we have better luck with this next step!
Married 2014; TTC since 4/2015
Diagnosed with Stage 3 Endometriosis and possible ovulation dysfunction
2nd TI (clomid/follistim/ovidrel/progesterone)- 5/11/16 - BFN
@ale9687 We used ICSI because of my age, DH's SA was all normal but they said it would be the best chance for us. And I guess it worked because 7/7 fertilized with it.
me:41 dh:42
me:PCOS, blocked left fallopian tube, hyperprolactinemia (dh's swimmers are perfect/normal)
Tried 3 rounds of clomid with Ovidrel trigger (BFNs)
May/June 2016 IVF 6/1 ER 7 eggs retrieved, 7 fertilized via ICSI 6 embryos made it to blasts.
6/6 2 AA embryos transfered, 4 BBs frozen
Beta 6/18 -- BFN
FET #1 August 22 BFN
Dec 2016/Jan 2017 Round 2 was a bust. 6 eggs, Only 1 embryo made it, no transfer
FET #2 cancelled 10/17 due to uterine polyps. Postponed until 9/2018 due to hip replacement.
FET #3 9/11/18 Uterine scratch and antihistamine protocol/lovenox done this time. 2 AA hatching blasts put in. BFP 9/20/18!!
TTC since October 2014
June 2015: large ovarian cyst removed
Nov 2015: Dx w/ diminished ovarian reserve, extremely low AMH
IVF #1: 04/2016 - 3 eggs retrieved, 2 mature & fertilized, 1 Day 6 blast frozen, PGS normal
IVF #2: 07/2016 - 3 eggs retrieved, 2 mature & fertilized, none made it past day 3
IVF #3: 09/2016 - 5 eggs retrieved, 3 mature & fertilized, 1 day 6 blast frozen, PGS normal
FET #1: 12/2016 - 1 day 6 blast transferred - BFP!! EDD 9/7/2017
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Oh yeah, forgot to mention: got call yesterday - we have 8 embryos that were biopsied for PGS testing and frozen and 4 more than were frozen without testing - we only paid for 8 bc we didn't think we'd have more! Total of 12 little frosties!! So so happy with this cycle (so far
Me: 28 DH: 33, Married May 2014
3 failed IUIs Dec '15 - Feb '16
IVF April/May 2016 - 1 failed fresh transfer. 11 snow angels.
Lawson arrived on 4/24/2017 at 7lbs 15oz, 21 1/2 inches long!
Surprise pregnancy!! Baby #2 due 10/11/18
*trigger warning**
we had ICSI done, 28 or 27 out of the 34 eggs fertilized (PCOS ovaries went crazy on the meds). Anyway, I highly recommend it. I know there are concerns that the 'fastest' swimmer doesn't fertilize the egg, but we have a very healthy, very happy little IVF/ICSI baby. Personally, ICSI was awesome for us.
I love the tracker! There are so many of us here, it makes it so much easier to keep track of everyone. Good luck all!
Also, I have a question for those of you who are on a second IVF cycle. How did the protocol change for you? I'm on BCP right now and I've been told I'll do Lupron this time around. Not sure what other changes to expect. Maybe PIO instead of the gel suppository? Any other changes you think I'd get?
@FatPony @babylonghorn16 and @sleepyrn those are great fertilization rates! I'm deffinately more comfortable doing icsi now. I think i was just worried because it wasn't really discussed but now it seems like that's really the best route to go.
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!