*PSA: Please keep this thread BFP-free so that TTGP-ers who are having a tough TTC day can still feel welcome here. If you have a BFP to share, check out the "TTGP Weekly Graduation" thread on the TTGP board or your BMB (Birth Month Board). Thanks
Now on to the goods:
Cycle:
CD/DPO:
Testing:
Timing:
R/R/CS:
GTKY:
Do you wear glasses/contacts?
Re: TWW Thursday
CD/DPO:
Testing:
Timing:
R/R/CS:
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts?
Cycle: 10
CD/DPO: 29/8
Testing: none
Timing: -3,-1,+1
R/R/CS: none at the moment... It's Thursday before an off Friday so I am almost done with my three day work week!
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts?
yep! Glasses since the second grade and got contacts in high school. I was really bad and left them in for months at a time. Then they started bothering me so I would take them out at night. Then a few years ago I got an eye ulcer and basically had to sit in the dark for a couple of days while it healed (this is when I thought it would be a good idea to binge watch The Walking Dead.... I am not a smart woman). Now I wear daily contacts and I love them. Wear them for the day and throw them away. Though, if it gets to around noon I start trying to decide if it is worth wasting a pair and whether or not I should just wear my backup glasses.
CD/DPO: 17/3
Timing: hit every day in the FW!
Testing: June 12 at 11dpo
R/R/CS: I got CH!! That is all
GTKY: I'm a glasses wearer in the fall/winter and rock my contacts in the spring/summer.
CD/DPO: 22/7
Testing: after 10DPO
Timing: -3, -1
R/R/CS: Yesterday was kind of weird. I was at my umpteenth acupuncture session and as soon as I closed my eyes, it totally felt like I was moving/floating/spinning! And not just dreamy, slow movement - i was *really* moving and it went on like this for several minutes! If that had happened every time, I wouldn't have thought anything of it, but I thought it was particularly weird (and of course, I'm SSing as a result). I also was strangely emotional last night while watching a tv show that really didn't warrant it. I'm an easy crier, but....really????
I know I'm reading too much into this stuff. I need to be stopped before it gets out of hand.
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts? Yep! I wear contacts most of the time (since I was 13), but often wear glasses on the weekends if I'm just relaxing. I made sure to get glasses that I would be happy wearing out though, so I do wear them from time to time if I want a different look. I have been thinking about lasik recently....but I'm not sure I'll get the courage!
Married: May 2008
TTC #1 since August 2015
FET #1: November 4, 2016
BFP: November 13, 2016
EDD: July 25, 2017
CD/DPO: 35/2dpiui
Testing: Debating testing at all before my blood work test on 6/13. I don't want to test and get a false positive because of the trigger shot. But I also would like to experience what it feels like to POAS at home and get that elusive BFP.
Timing: Not 100% sure. We DTD on Saturday, had my IUI on Tuesday. O could have been Monday or Tuesday. Nurse at the RE's swear's I didn't O on Monday, but I had a patch of EWCM and then absolutely zero on Tuesday. So what does that make it? Assuming I O'ed on Monday that would be -2 and IUI on +1? Assuming it was Tuesday, that would be -3 and IUI on O?....Math is hard.
R/R/CS: I actually haven't stepped into the BSC yet. It's really early on, and with a big weekend a head of me I'm sure I can hold off on SS until at least next week. Though I do wish I could find that chart that depicts what's going on in the body after ovulation. I can't remember who posted it. Off to Google I go!
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts?
Glasses! Not a fan of contacts.
CD/DPO: 68/9
Testing: doing my best to hold out until Sunday
Timing: -3, -1, 0, +1
R/R/CS: Finally got my referral. Yay!! I was also able to schedule a followup with my RE for Monday to go over the blood work tests he ordered. Now if I can just tame the BSC and stop the SS, I may make it to that appointment without losing my mind.
GTKY: Nope, I don't wear either. I have 20/20 vision and hope it is still a long time before I need them.
BFP #1 8/4/2015, MMC 9/24/2015
BFP #3 8/24/2017, MC 9/20/2017
BFP #4 11/14/2017, CP
BFP #5 1/5/2018, MC/BO 2/17/2018
BFP #6 7/15/2018, CP
BFP #7 12/15/2018, EDD 8/28/2019
CD/DPO: 18/2
Testing: probably start at 10. Damn you cheapies. I though test weekend was Father's Day but i was a week off. Much less pressure
Timing: -6 through +1 with x2 on -1
R/R/CS: DH persuaded me last night we might as well hit the +1 to cover our bases and get every day. My vag hurts. I just want a break now
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts? Both. I am blind as a bat, especially at night, without them Mostly contacts but I'm supposed to give my eyes a break one day a week. I wore my non- astigmatism colored ones for so long it doubled the astigmatism and I got put on probation from them so I'm working at being better with my clears and glass.
Married: 11.12.11
TTC: Nov 2015
BFP #1: 1.22.16 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
D&C: 3.2.16
BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16
BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.2016
RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending 8.15.16
Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid
half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
CD/DPO: 23/9
Testing: Tested yesterday because I'm a low key masochist. BFN, obviously, though when I pulled it out of the trash 30 minutes later (don't act like you've never done it!) there was a super faint line - alas, a watermark. Rude!
Timing: -3, -1 (x2), 0, +1
R/R/CS: Lalala. I'm ready to move onto the next cycle. At least tomorrow is Friday, and it's my birthday weekend!
GTKY: Nah. I'm sure I'll need reading glasses at some point, though.
TTC Since: Nov. 2015
Dx: PCOS
Clomid + Ovidrel, Round I: BFN
Clomid + Ovidrel, Round II: BFN
Clomid+Ovidrel, Round III: BFP! 7/5/16
CD/DPO: 22/7
Timing: -5, -3, -1
Testing: BFN today, as expected since it's so early.
R/R/CS: I knew it was too early to test, but needed the reassurance of a BFN before I get my Mayan abdominal massage today.
GTKY: Glasses since 7th grade, contacts since 8th grade.
CD/DPO:
26/9
Testing:
BFN this morning becaaaause I can't stop peeing on things.
Timing:
-5,-2,-1
R/R/CS:
1. Spilled my FMU cup in the bathroom cupboard today.
2. Holy smokes I feel like hot wet garbage today, and I've got actual important work stuff to do today.
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts?
Yup! Had glasses since I was 7 or 8. Before glasses became a hip thing. I am extremely thankful for Tina Fey for starting the glasses revolution (I distinctly remember her being one of the first celebrities to go framed on the regular way back when she was on SNL). Now there are so many great frames!
Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
CD/DPO: 16/3
Testing: waiting for AF
Timing: O
R/R/CS: Rant: been at an all day conference where I can't get up to stand up so my back has been really really cranky. Ugh. Rave: YAY crosshairs!
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts? Contacts. In recent years, my eyes get dry much quicker so, I've been trying to wear my glasses more.
Adopted Furbaby: 2014
TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17
TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA
IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
@wineo929 wow great job getting in every day in the FW! That's my ultimate goal and I always fall so short!
@songbirdinthecity I also have been considering lasik... I'm so over paying for contacts!
@mrsdaddario what is this chart you speak of?
@sammajane19 oh I totally pulled mine out of the trash this morning when my temp shot up and it was from yesterday morning
Edit: I'm about to kill mobile bump right now.... Holy f. It won't stop eating my post.
CD/DPO: 31/10 possibly?
Testing: neverrrr
Timing: -3
R/R/CS: well my temp shot way up this morning and I guess I'm going with the notion that I am 10 DPO and not 14 DPO. At this point I'm done trying to figure out this cycle and the shitty timing and just ready to move on to the next one... On on to the next one. Jay Z anybody?
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts?
Both, messed up my eyes a little bit after wearing my contacts over night too much and now am religious about taking them out every night and I even wear my glasses a few days a week. Eye health ain't nothin to mess with!
CD/DPO: 19/7
Testing: Waiting as long as possible
Timing: -5, -3, -2, -1
R/R/CS: I had my 1st BFP dream last night. Waking up was a bummer
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts? Thankfully, no! I know I'm very lucky not to need them!
CD/DPO: 26/11
Testing: BFN yesterday, no more testing needed.
Timing: 0,-2,-3,-5
R/R/CS: Spotting started last night so I'm out this cycle. Best of luck to all of you
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts?
Nope! Although more and more lately I feel like I might need to.
CD/DPO: 20/3
Testing: Next Friday
Timing: -4, -3, -1, O, +1 - according to FF but I think I o'ed a day earlier.
R/R/CS: I'm trying not to get my hopes up but... They are and I can't stop the crazy train.
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts?
Contacts 99% of the time and glasses when I have to. I really hate wearing glasses for some reason. Thank goodness for soft contacts.
edit: unbolded stuff that shouldn't be bolded
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
CD/DPO: 37/12
Testing: BFN this AM, so I'm gonna go with I'm out for the month
Timing: -1,0,1,7
R/R/CS: Starting to question my math a little bit, maybe I got a few things wrong this cycle. I don't know but i do know that i really freaking wish it would just wrap up so I could start planning for next cycle. Right now i feel like a plane in a really annoying holding pattern. Also my dog has me at my wits end today it's like she's lost her freaking mind.
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts?
i used to wear both, however i recently had to switch from regular glasses to bifocals (damn you law school) and they don't make multi focal contacts in my perscription so I'm out until my eyesight gets worse... isn't that something.
TTC # 1 since July 2015
Cycle: 8
CD/DPO: 19/1-ish? Not temping this cycle but all other signs point to O yesterday.
Testing: LOL, no.
Timing: Great! EOD/ED since end of AF.
R/R/CS: I was sure I was going to have another anovulatory cycle (and silly me decided not to temp this month) but I've had EWCM for the past two days and right sided cramping yesterday. CM is no longer EWCM today so I'm going to go ahead and say I probably O'd already. Now to just chill in the TWW.
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts? I do! Usually just contacts but I'll occasionally wear my glasses instead if my eyes hurt.
CD/DPO: 21/ 5 or 12 DPO
Testing: BFN this morning. I won't test again until next week if AF doesn't come tomorrow.
Timing: -3, -2, -1, O
R/R/CS: I'm really thinking I ovulated the later date so the BFN wasn't too hard to see but I'll be disappointed if AF starts. Im prepared just in case since we are on the road to visit family right now.
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts? No. When my younger brother got glasses as a little kid I wished I could have them also but now I'm glad I don't need them
@mrsdaddario I tell ya, I am sorry for all the O confusion...I admit that would drive me bonkers! And I hope you figure out a testing plan you're comfortable with.
@SnobunnieMel Haaaaa, "my vag hurts." I have been there. Boy, have I been there...
@antoto Sorry to hear about the spotting. Creepy internet hugs.
Husband: 35
Married: June 2007
Son Max born 1/10/17
BFP #2: 10/5/17; EDD: 6/11/18
CD/DPO: 23/6
Testing: 11DPO? I've been saying 12 this whole time, but I'm chaperoning a fieldtrip to an amusement park on Wednesday, shoot...I might test one day earlier than intended. If BFN, I will probably go on all the rides with reckless abandon. If bfp, then I might limit myself to non-turbulent [read: boring] rides.... Do any of you know anything scientific about amusement park during tww risks? I've already goggled... Haha
Timing: every day but -2
R/R/CS: still on a high from the art tour of Stockholm the 3 day outings we're doing....so good!
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts? nope, but I think it might be time to get my eyes checked.... I haven't had them checked in 15years......
BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016
Re-started TTC Aug 2016
Started IF testing Nov 2016
Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017
BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
CD/DPO: 21/5
Testing: 10DPO
Timing: good
R/R/CS: One of my closest friends is here visiting and I'm so excited to spend time with her. On the flip my appetite has been out of control. Not just being super hungry but then getting the feeling of being stuffed after only a few bites. Trying to avoid the SS train but it's barreling down on me!
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts?
No need for either yet. Hope it stays that way for a bit.
CD/DPO: 21/7
Timing: -5, -3, -1, +1
Testing: I cannot even think about that right now
R/R/CS: I just noticed how lazy I've become with making notes and charting my symptoms in FF. I've tried to be diligent about it in the past so that when something pops up, I can check prior months and go "oh yeah, dumbass, that totally happened before!" Apparently I'm just over it.
Also, totally not related to TTC at all, but I'm totally annoyed at Ross right now. I bought a cute pair of white sandals the other day, and the stupid tag they put in the heel of my right shoe will not come out and is totally showing. I'm sure I look classy today.
Yeah, this is me today:
GTKY: Oh hells yes. I finally got diagnosed in like 5th grade, but I'm pretty sure I've always been impaired. A couple of years ago, my optometrist told me that if glasses and contacts didn't exist, I'd be legally blind. I only wear my glasses when I go between the bathroom and our bed in the morning and at night. Oh! And I've always worn hard contacts. They're not as bad as they sound!
ETA: How many times can a girl use the word totally?
Beloved SS: born 12/2011
TTC my bio #1/our #2 since January 2016
**TW** June 2016 had CP **end TW**
August 2016 - dx with DOR
Somewhere in here received recommendation to do IVF with donor eggs, elected not to; OH dx with Low T
May 2017 - began freezing sperm
June 2017 - OH began treatment for Low T
July 2017 - began doing 1 IUI via a midwife and 1 at home insemination each cycle
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/6259ba
July 2018 - exhausted frozen sperm, officially NTNP since OH is probably shooting blanks
@sammajane19 It's my birthday weekend too!! My birthday is Saturday!! When is yours??
@Schumerator Chart? Not sure I mentioned a chart?.... ETA: I'm an idiot. Of course the chart! Thanks @wineo929
@clover28 Yay for coming on over to the TWW!!
Cycle: 4/3
CD/DPO: 22/anywhere from 1-5?
Testing: Not until June 13
Timing: A few times this weekend.
R/R/CS: Got my first higher temp today after a series of low ones. I dont' even know whether to count it or not because I woke up a few times due to a thunderstorm and DH's dog being an idiot.
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts?
Supposed to. Wore contacts all through high school. Disposable colored ones. You could leave them in for a few days, and one night I fell asleep with them in. When I woke up, one contact had folded over itself and was lodged in my upper eye socket. I had to hold my eye open and dig around to pull it out. Traumatic. Stopped wearing contacts after that. I have glasses now, but only really wear them when I drive. (I'm near sighted)
ETA: Took out question I had.
TTC Since: Nov. 2015
Dx: PCOS
Clomid + Ovidrel, Round I: BFN
Clomid + Ovidrel, Round II: BFN
Clomid+Ovidrel, Round III: BFP! 7/5/16
- "my uterus is still tiny and well protected, it can't hurt"
- "but what about g forces and centripital force and all those FORCES that act on my whole body, not necessarily from physical bumping....what if my zygote is just about to implant, and then I go around a corner and it yanks it off?"
- "but what if it wasn't going to implant, and then the forces push it to the wall and it DOES implant?"
- "wait a minute, implantation would have probably happened days before then...does that mean it doesn't matter either way?"
BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016
Re-started TTC Aug 2016
Started IF testing Nov 2016
Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017
BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
CD/DPO: 25/8 (estimated)
Testing: I think tomorrow morning. I'm taking the day off and I'll be home alone in the morning and that never happens, so on the off chance I actually get a bfp I'll have some time to wrap my brain around it.
Timing: -4, -2, 0, +1
R/R/CS: I had a dream this morning that I was thinking about testing at 9dpo (truth), and I looked at the calendar and I realized it was 15dpo and my period was a day late and I hadn't tested that morning and I was freaking out because I wasn't at home and I wanted to test. I guess my subconscious has given up on getting a bfp and now is just focused on testing haha.
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts? Nope, but I should wear reading glasses. I have a slight astigmatism in one eye. I actually have reading glasses somewhere that really help all this screen time I do at work, but I never wear them. My optometrist said that not wearing my glasses won't make the astigmatism worse, so I just sorta get by. But it really is nicer with the glasses.
Me: 32 | DH: 36
Married June 2005
1/2016 - TTC#1
4/2017 - Initial RE visit, Dx: Severe MFI (Varicocele, 14% motility, 3% progression, but normal count)
7/2017 - Stage 3 endometriosis discovered during laparoscopic removal of ovarian cyst
9/27/2017 - BFP at 10dpo (cycle 22), baby boy due June 9, 2018
CD/DPO: 23/8
Testing: I'm caving and testign tomorrow
Timing: -2
R/R/CS: still have a really pretty chart and no spotting
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts? I wear glasses when driving and attending lectures
BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016
Re-started TTC Aug 2016
Started IF testing Nov 2016
Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017
BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
CD/DPO: 21/6
Testing: Trying to wait until AF. It feels like it's been sooo long though....
Timing: -5, -3, -1, 0
R/R/CS: Looking forward to starting to shop for a new car this weekend. I'm upgrading from a 2007 Civic to something midsize SUV. I'd love to hear what you love about your Escape, CR-V, Cherokee, Anything else in that category.
GTKY: Do you wear glasses/contacts? I actually don't. I have no idea how I missed out, most of my family wears lenses or has gotten Lasik.
@wineo929 Congrats on hitting all of the FW days!
@SongbirdintheCity I've thought about Lasik, too but I'm holding out. I feel like it's still too new. I want to know how it's working out for people 50 years after they've had it.
@mrsdaddario I'm with other people. Maybe test the morning of 6/13?
@Steelerfan78 Yay for the referral!!
@SnobunnieMel Wow! You two really went at it like... bunnies...
@sammajane19 Happy birthday weekend!
@FrancesGrace630 Hope your massage goes/went well!
@TheJerilu That's a heck of a morning... at least the spill was apparently after you used it? Hope you got to feeling better at least!
@juliebeannn Hope your conference is at least interesting!
@Schumerator I'm strangely comforted to see all of the people who also wore their contacts over night for a long time. I just hate waking up and not being able to see stuff. I want to be able to see all the time!
@LadyBrettAshley23 You are lucky to not need vision correction. Enjoy it!
@antoto Sorry to hear that AF is on her way.
@THowellEsq16 Hope you can get a plan going and that your dog chills out today.
@clover28 Glad to see you over here!
@ElleB11 Have a great trip!
@MoonOverGoldsboro FX that AF doesn't come but if she does she holds out for Saturday. Even before adding the disappointment, I've always hated times where I've had to pretend that I'm just totally fine while in reality I have awful cramps that are nearly to nausea, a backache, and a panic about whether or not the supplies I'm using are doing their job - especially in situations like that where it's hard to duck out to the bathroom gracefully and alone since when you do get a break, everyone's going to the bathroom at the same time.
@Buthayna If it were me, I'd do the rides I really want to do but not the ones I'm so-so about and I wouldn't go as all-out as usual. Like sometimes I know that if I go again, I'm going to feel woozy and cruddy but I can't quite resist. Maybe skip that last time.
@meilay Sounds like the perfect time to go out for tapas with your friend!
@Aurora1973 I'm with you on the laziness about entering stuff in FF. For a while it was kind of novel because I've always just ignored my body unless there was a problem. I'm over it now, though!
@hezzer78 Sorry you had a traumatic contact experience. It's happened to me I think twice in 15 or so years. But I can't see a dang thing without them and I hate glasses so I still use contacts.
@RatParade FX for tomorrow! If just for my own satisfaction, I'm dying for more good news in the grad post!
@LadyMillil I do love a pretty chart.
@swimsister Best wishes for holding out on testing! And for being the shark at the dealership!
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18