Hi , well im looking for any support right now I have never been in such a devastating and heartbreaking place before at 6 weeks we had a heartbeat , never had any cramps or bleeding we went in this morning and no heartbeat now being scheduled for a D&C . We are devastated this is after ivf and letting family and close friends know and now We are numb and heartbroken. I know I am certainly not alone I am just feeling like everyone else who has gone through this we will never give up and I have so much faith that we will have our time. God just decided today that once again this wasn't it.
It is so hard to go through but unfortunately every single one of us in here know your pain. I also had a great hb at 6w4d, then 8w2d, no heartbeat. I had the d&c, and received so much support. If you decide to stick around here, these women are awesome.
I am so sorry you are experiencing this. Even that doesn't seem like enough to say sometimes. This is a great place to talk about your feelings when you feel like you don't have anyone else to talk to.
I am so sorry for your loss. It is very devastating. I also found out at 8w2d my baby didn't have a heatbeat after seeing one at 6w6d. Be sure to take care yourself
I had the same thing happen on Tuesday. I had just seen a strong heartbeat exactly one week before. I had a d&c on Wednesday. I hope yours goes smoothly and you can start healing. I'm so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry for you loss. It can be especially devastating after the sh*t storm that is IVF. A loss is never easy, but a loss you've paid tens of thousands of dollars for is also financially devastating. I hope that you have some snowflakes and your D&C is smooth and uneventful.
About us: Me - 28, Lean PCOS DH - 31 Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014 Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Sorry to hear. I too had a miscarriage but at 9 weeks. Its hard. I too come here for some support. As i typing this. Im aslo having one of my many breakdown session.
I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I had a similar situation, with no warning that anything was wrong until my 8 week ultrasound. This is a very supportive place. Hugs to you.
So sorry to find you here, I miscarried at 9 weeks and didn't know anything was wrong until I saw no heartbeat at the ultrasound. So hard when you feel like your body betrayed you. Take care of yourself, we are here for you.
Re: 8 weeks and no heartbeat at appt this morning
/loss mentioned/
TTC#1 July 2014
dx: MFI (morphology)
IUI #1 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Sept. 2015 ~ BFN
IUI #2 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Halloween 2015 ~ BFN
IUI #3 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Thanksgiving 2015 ~ BFP!!
hb 146 bpm at 7w5d
1/28/16 ~ began to say goodbye to our beautiful baby at 11w
d&c, followed by cytotec
TTCAL April 2016
IUI #4 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Apr. 2016 ~ BFN
IUI #5 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ CP
IUI#6 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ BFN
Me: 38 DH: 38
Married: 12-15-2012
TTC: January 2014
IUI 12-11-2014 ... BFP: 12-24-2014 MMC: 2-17-2015 @ 12 weeks
IUI 6-1-2015 ... BFP: 6-16-2015 MC: 7-19-2015 @ 9 weeks 2 days
IUI 3-4-2016 ... BFP: 3-20-2016 MC: 5-2-2016 @ 10 weeks 3 days
Me: 39 DH: 40
Married: 12/6/2014
BFP#2: 10/28/15 MC: 11/24/15
BFP#3: 3/20/16 MC: 4/26/16
BFP#4: 7/15/16 DD: 3/18/17
BFP#5: 5/1/18 EDD: 1/12/19
M/C #2 - October 2016
MMC #1 - April 2016
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Married 4/22/16
**TW**
BFP 2/1/16 I MC 3/21/16 (11w)
TTCAL 6/15/16
BFP 3/23/2017 Team pink! Quinn Leigh EDD December 1, 2017