Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

8 weeks and no heartbeat at appt this morning

Hi , 
well im looking for any support right now I have never been in such a devastating and heartbreaking place before at 6 weeks we had a heartbeat , never had any cramps or bleeding we went in this morning and no heartbeat now being scheduled for a D&C . We are devastated this is after ivf and letting family and close friends know and now We are numb and heartbroken. I know I am certainly not alone I am just feeling like everyone else who has gone through this we will never give up and I have so much faith that we will have our time. God just decided today that once again this wasn't it. 

Re: 8 weeks and no heartbeat at appt this morning

  • I am sorry for your loss.  This is a great community, I hope you do find support here.  Hugs. 
    About me:
    /loss mentioned/
    TTC#1 July 2014
    dx: MFI (morphology)
    IUI #1 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Sept. 2015 ~ BFN
    IUI #2 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Halloween 2015 ~ BFN
    IUI #3 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Thanksgiving 2015 ~ BFP!!
    hb 146 bpm at 7w5d
    1/28/16 ~ began to say goodbye to our beautiful baby at 11w 
    d&c, followed by cytotec
    TTCAL April 2016
    IUI #4 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Apr. 2016 ~ BFN
    IUI #5 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ CP
    IUI#6 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ BFN
  • It is so hard to go through but unfortunately every single one of us in here know your pain. I also had a great hb at 6w4d, then 8w2d, no heartbeat. I had the d&c, and received so much support. If you decide to stick around here, these women are awesome.
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  • I am so sorry you are experiencing this. Even that doesn't seem like enough to say sometimes. This is a great place to talk about your feelings when you feel like you don't have anyone else to talk to. 
    ***Loss mentioned***
    Me: 38  DH: 38
    Married: 12-15-2012
    TTC: January 2014
    IUI 12-11-2014 ... BFP: 12-24-2014 MMC: 2-17-2015 @ 12 weeks
    IUI 6-1-2015 ... BFP: 6-16-2015 MC: 7-19-2015 @ 9 weeks 2 days
    IUI 3-4-2016 ... BFP: 3-20-2016 MC: 5-2-2016 @ 10 weeks 3 days
  • I am so sorry for your loss. It is very devastating. I also found out at 8w2d my baby didn't have a heatbeat after seeing one at 6w6d. Be sure to take care yourself
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  I have had 3 with heartbeats.  I totally understand how hard & unfair it feels.  This board is very supportive.

    Me: 39 DH: 40
    Married: 12/6/2014

    BFP#1: 1/20/15      MC: 2/14/15
    BFP#2: 10/28/15    MC: 11/24/15
    BFP#3:  3/20/16     MC: 4/26/16
    BFP#4:  7/15/16     DD: 3/18/17
    BFP#5:  5/1/18     EDD: 1/12/19
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  • I had the same thing happen on Tuesday. I had just seen a strong heartbeat exactly one week before. I had a d&c on Wednesday. I hope yours goes smoothly and you can start healing. I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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  • I am so sorry for you loss. It can be especially devastating after the sh*t storm that is IVF. A loss is never easy, but a loss you've paid tens of thousands of dollars for is also financially devastating. I hope that you have some snowflakes and your D&C is smooth and uneventful.
    About us:
    Me - 28, Lean PCOS
    DH - 31
    Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
    Blog: ourbinarystar.com

    FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!

  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. My thoughts are with you. Hugs. 
    Me 29 I Him 26
    Married 4/22/16
    TTC 9/2015
    BFP 2/1/16 I MC 3/21/16 (11w)
    TTCAL 6/15/16
    BFP 3/23/2017 Team pink! Quinn Leigh EDD December 1, 2017
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  • So very sorry. Very supportive group here. 
  • ShoeurnShoeurn member
    Sorry to hear. I too had a miscarriage but at 9 weeks. Its hard. I too come here for some support. As i typing this. Im aslo having one of my many breakdown session. :'(
  • I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I had a similar situation, with no warning that anything was wrong until my 8 week ultrasound. This is a very supportive place. Hugs to you.
  • So sorry for your loss. I also had it happen suddenly. No signs of mc, just no heartbeat at the appointment. It was devastating. 
  • So sorry to find you here, I miscarried at 9 weeks and didn't know anything was wrong until I saw no heartbeat at the ultrasound. So hard when you feel like your body betrayed you. Take care of yourself, we are here for you. 
  • runfastrunfast member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. 
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