8 weeks and no heartbeat at appt this morning

Rach4185

Hi , 
well im looking for any support right now I have never been in such a devastating and heartbreaking place before at 6 weeks we had a heartbeat , never had any cramps or bleeding we went in this morning and no heartbeat now being scheduled for a D&C . We are devastated this is after ivf and letting family and close friends know and now We are numb and heartbroken. I know I am certainly not alone I am just feeling like everyone else who has gone through this we will never give up and I have so much faith that we will have our time. God just decided today that once again this wasn't it. 

BrightenMySky

I am sorry for your loss.  This is a great community, I hope you do find support here.  Hugs. 

Glitter

It is so hard to go through but unfortunately every single one of us in here know your pain. I also had a great hb at 6w4d, then 8w2d, no heartbeat. I had the d&c, and received so much support. If you decide to stick around here, these women are awesome.

CRJones1978

I am so sorry you are experiencing this. Even that doesn't seem like enough to say sometimes. This is a great place to talk about your feelings when you feel like you don't have anyone else to talk to. 

Hopefulmommy1980

I am so sorry for your loss. It is very devastating. I also found out at 8w2d my baby didn't have a heatbeat after seeing one at 6w6d. Be sure to take care yourself

MrsBinPA

I'm so sorry for your loss.  I have had 3 with heartbeats.  I totally understand how hard & unfair it feels.  This board is very supportive.

a2003tiger

I had the same thing happen on Tuesday. I had just seen a strong heartbeat exactly one week before. I had a d&c on Wednesday. I hope yours goes smoothly and you can start healing. I'm so sorry for your loss. 

AandDM2014

I am so sorry for you loss. It can be especially devastating after the sh*t storm that is IVF. A loss is never easy, but a loss you've paid tens of thousands of dollars for is also financially devastating. I hope that you have some snowflakes and your D&C is smooth and uneventful.

katiegeminimoon

I'm so sorry you're going through this. My thoughts are with you. Hugs. 

Jmccabe12210

So very sorry. Very supportive group here. 

Shoeurn

Sorry to hear. I too had a miscarriage but at 9 weeks. Its hard. I too come here for some support. As i typing this. Im aslo having one of my many breakdown session.

blacknightsky

I'm so sorry that you are going through this. I had a similar situation, with no warning that anything was wrong until my 8 week ultrasound. This is a very supportive place. Hugs to you.

LaurenDarling

So sorry for your loss. I also had it happen suddenly. No signs of mc, just no heartbeat at the appointment. It was devastating. 

Spartanrd4

So sorry to find you here, I miscarried at 9 weeks and didn't know anything was wrong until I saw no heartbeat at the ultrasound. So hard when you feel like your body betrayed you. Take care of yourself, we are here for you. 

runfast

I'm so sorry for your loss.