October 2016 Moms
LauraPCOS
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Let's Talk About Sex Baby!
LauraPCOS
member
Okay so I'm not sure if I'm allowed to post something like this, so if I'm not, oops and pre-apologies.
As our bellies get bigger, sex can get awkward. What positions (only if you're comfortable sharing) feels better than others? I find missionary is a no-go, and right now we're doing doggy, but I'm finding that's starting to hurt even though we use super amount of lube.
Silver lining - it's fun trying out different sex positions! Oh the work!
p/s it doesn't help that hubby wasn't blessed in that department and I got a big booty so it cuts out some positions.
As our bellies get bigger, sex can get awkward. What positions (only if you're comfortable sharing) feels better than others? I find missionary is a no-go, and right now we're doing doggy, but I'm finding that's starting to hurt even though we use super amount of lube.
Silver lining - it's fun trying out different sex positions! Oh the work!
p/s it doesn't help that hubby wasn't blessed in that department and I got a big booty so it cuts out some positions.
Re: Let's Talk About Sex Baby!
I've found that if I'm on top, I have to be sitting up. I can't bend over to kiss him or I smash the peanut. Missionary is also out because H is a big guy and smothers me even when I'm not pregnant. Doggy has been our go to but I have found it's a tad uncomfortable and requires extra lube. Plus, We're getting kinda bored with it. Interested to see what others suggest!
Me: 32 & DH: 37
BFP #2: 2/8/16 - EDD 10/20/16
IT'S A BOY!!!!
DS Born 10/16/16
You're welcome
Fell in love: Dec 2005 // Married: Feb 9, 2013
Little Miss Rosalie Harper--Born Jan 9th, 2014
I've always enjoyed girl on top, but i also like reverse cowgirl with both of us sitting. Spooning is always a good position too!
https://www.liberator.com/wedge.html
P.S. Also saw it on Amazon
Missionary was fine until closer to the end, but I needed pillows to support my back. Other than that it was me on top which helped me to be able to position my body how it needed to be. We aren't very exciting.
BFP: February 2016 EDD: October 17, 2016
or doggy which I do end up leaning down more on my elbows because my boobs have not been appreciating the movement.
BFP #2 - Feb 2, 2016 --EDD 10/10/16 --Abigail- October 6, 2016. Heart warrior.
October 2017- Began fostering to adopt T, (DOB:November 19, 2013)
@JamieK1882 us either...... glad to know I'm not alone....
Yeah lack of sex in my house too, I know it bothers him but I just don't want anything to do with it. Last weekend I asked if he wanted to try and he actually said that he was okay waiting knowing I wasn't feeling it..
SURPRISE
When I was PG with DS we did a lot of me on top, side laying (as has been described above) and doggy. I also enjoyed one of those small exercise balls under my back/hips to raise things up so that H can kneel between my legs.
Early FFFC for those also admitting: we have not been having much sex since the BFP. Only twice, both in the last few weeks and both times unsatisfying for both of us. It's a goddamn bummer. I'm well into my 2nd tri (nearing 18 weeks), and have no problems masturbating, so I'm very frustrated.
Baby GIRL born 9/16/201
BFP! EDD 8/1/2019 CP 4w2d
We just discovered reverse cowgirl with me adding extra stimulation from the front and him adding extra from behind. Good stuff. Never tried it before but hey, this belly is making us creative! Looking forward to more ideas here.
I'm 17 1/2 weeks btw.
At least I have the comfort of knowing his desires won't stray when I'm a beached whale this summer!
We have gotten back to having a sex life finally, and now we are pretty much everyday or every other day, not too many restrictions yet, but I do have to keep my hands on his hips and push him away if he's going too deep. I can't be on top anymore, the angel is just downright painful now. But other than that, pretty much business as usual.
Edit because words.
Frequency / desire is pretty much what it was pre-pregnancy for us, which I'm glad about.
My problem is after we have sex the whole next day I feel like I might be getting a UTI - frequent urge to pee, slight discomfort around the vagina / vulva, not really pain, mostly just annoying. It lasts like a day and then goes back to normal, no actual UTI develops (yay) and I forget about it, but it's annoying.
vvv Edit just to clarify, the sex doesn't last all day, just the weird almost UTI feeling vvv
I do have to whine though. After reading some great ideas, I dragged hubby to the bedroom to try them out. We started with that one you ladies described about being on my side, him straddling my one leg, my other leg on his shoulder? Well cause I'm plus size, my leg is heavy, and he has should issues, so I held my leg off to the side, but I started loosing feeling in my foot, and if I dropped my leg, it pushed him out....so then we changed it up, and did the one where he stands and I lay on the bed, but he feels awkward not leaning over me, and when he was, it was still great for me, but quickly caused pain in his shoulder....so to me on top we went (planned on starting there then switching to cowgirl)....yea he lost it. Hence the whining.
@LauraPCOS I understand your frustration. FI gets off pretty quick most of the time, and if it's been a while, it has literally lasted barely 2 minutes before =/ But on the flip side, sometimes he doesn't get off at all which is equally frustrating because then he starts trying too hard because he is clearly getting insecure about it then it kills the mood.
Aint nothing gunna stop me