BFP?

Re: BFP?

• Lecool member

  April 2016

  karening13 said:

  Literally have never posted here sorry to offended everybody. This was kind of exciting for me but thanks for being adults about POLITELY telling me that I did something wrong. 
  I didn't have time to read any rules as I was already running late for work and...this is kind of a big deal. 
  
  And for the record Boobs. Said it. Happy? And hard as rocks as opposed to my generally soft tits. 
  
  Have a day you bitches.

  You had the two day waiting period between signing up and being allowed to post to read the rules. And yeah, it is a big deal. That's why everyone's upset. Anyway, bye. 

  Me: 28 | DH: 31
  Together since 2006 | Married May 2015
  TTC #1 since November 2015
  BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17

  

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• MonaLisaRalphio member

  April 2016

  @karening13 you were running late to work since November 2015 when you joined TB?

  
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  BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017

  
  
  

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• karening13 member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

  **Removed for TOU violation**

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• cabu14 member

  April 2016

  No time for rules but plenty of time to make a post with your bfp to a bunch of internet strangers I'm a community you've never even posted before. Makes no sense. You lose. 

  
  Me: 31 | Husband: 32
  Married: September 2014!
  TTC #1: January 2016 BFP 5/16/16 Quinn Born 1/27/17 

  
  

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• mrsdee15 member

  April 2016

  No... Wait... Stop... I'm going to miss all your valuable support and contributions over the seconds you've been posting here...
  
  

  DD born PPROM preemie at 36 weeks on 10/1/17 after over a year TI, 
  then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.
  
  Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW,
  because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!

  

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• MonaLisaRalphio member

  April 2016

  @karening13 TP is toilet paper but TB is The Bump... the... website... you're using... right now...

  
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  Started TTC #1 November 2015
  BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017

  
  
  

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• katesmama0706 member

  April 2016

  Literally just popped in to read WTO and saw this. Definitely here for the comments but howwwwww is this not closed yet? Good freaking Friday morning, no? Ugh.

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• wineo929 member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

  **Removed for TOU violation**
  

  People will be really excited when we get BFPs because we have been contributing members of this community, supporting one another along the way. So, yeah... 

  
  
  
  

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• virginiaham member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

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  It really just sounds like there was little doubt ever in your mind that that's your BFP.

  me . late 30's | h . early 40's | < 3 . 2013
  
  *siggy warning*
  
  

  ttc#1 . jul 2015
  mmc . mar 2016
  dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
  tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
  BFP .  jan 2017
  DD .  oct 2017
  
  ntnp #2 . summer 2018
  mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
  RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
  surprise BFP .  aug 2019
  DS .  may 2020
  
  dx Hashimoto's 2023
  ttc #3 . feb 2023
  mmc . apr 2023
  mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
  dx elevated nk cells
  tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
  BFP . mar 2025

  
  

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• mylove071407 member

  April 2016

  Wow..apparently someone didn't read the newbie guide.  

  
  
  
  Me: 32 DH: 31

  Married:  July 14, 2007
  TTC #1:  January 2008
  Surprise BFP:  November 2009
  

  DD Born: July 10, 2010
  

  TTC #2:  April 2016
  CP:  September 2016
  

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• BigBadWolf12 member

  April 2016

  By the title I knew it would be good, but as soon as I saw the picture posted, I was like:
  
  

  

  
  

  TTGP history (*TW*):
  
  

  Started TTC Oct 2015
  BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016
  Re-started TTC Aug 2016
  Started IF testing Nov 2016
  Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017
  BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
  
  

  
  

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• picklesplease member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

  
  
  
  

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• thj101 member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

  @karening13 yea, we noticed.  Way to make an entrance. I don't think it takes a rocket scientist to figure out that you probably shouldn't post a BFP in a board titled "TRYING TO GET PREGNANT" but what the hell do I know. 
  
  ETA:  There's an entire feed dedicated to pee sticks on the 1st trimester board.........so..........maybe post there?

  Me:  33
  DH:  36
  Together since 2007
  Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
  ~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born:  11.6.2017
  Trying for #2!!

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• HLD3194 member

  April 2016

  "Got a BFP? Congratulations! Please join your Birth Month Club and visit The Bump Message Boards to find topics that interest you."

  That's on top of the site, right next to new discussion...why would you still choose to post here?

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• sldp123 member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

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  You're right, it is exciting and a big deal, which is why we have been here for months, some of us years, some with infertility struggles and losses, trying for what you so flippantly marched in and posted to a bunch of strangers you have literally never talked to before. You don't think that's a little rude?

  
  
  
  

  DS: June 2008
  Married: July 2015
  BFP: 5/20/16  |  EDD: 1/28/17  |  Twin boys born 1/16/17

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• MonaLisaRalphio member

  April 2016

  Man this place has been so quiet all week and now we get a drive-by and a GBCB in one fell swoop?  Looks like I just won Bump Bingo.
  
  
  

  
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  Started TTC #1 November 2015
  BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017

  
  
  

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• Steelerfan78 member

  April 2016

  @MonaLisaRalphio I aspire to be as awesomely snarky as you some day!! 
  

  Married 2/12/2015

  PCOS Dx June 2016
  BFP #1 8/4/2015, MMC 9/24/2015
   DD 2/13/2017 
  BFP #3 8/24/2017, MC 9/20/2017
  BFP #4 11/14/2017, CP
  BFP #5 1/5/2018, MC/BO 2/17/2018
  BFP #6 7/15/2018, CP
  BFP #7 12/15/2018, EDD 8/28/2019
  

  
  

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• ChaoticWolf member

  April 2016

  

  Previously PaukMeKiande
  

  Surprise BFP/MC February 2011 
  BFP May 16th 2016
  

  EDD January 25 2017
  DD born January 30 2017
  Surprise BFP/MC April 2017
  

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• mrsdaddario member

  April 2016

  I don't know why but this part made me laugh: Have a day you bitches.
  Thank you, we WILL have a day! We'll have Friday first! Then a Saturday! THEN we'll get crazy and have a SUNDAY! 
  
  
  
  
  

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• MonaLisaRalphio member

  April 2016

  @Steelerfan78 Yeah when I'm not moping about my empty womb I'm actually pretty fun to be around
  
  
  

  
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  BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017

  
  
  

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• sarah0985 member

  April 2016

  I'm just glad it was cleared up about the bb's! It genuinely took me a minute when I first read that. 
  
  

  TTC1: May 2015

  Primary IF May 2016; Failed HSG; Scheduled Lap Sept. 2016

  BFP: August 22, 2016/EDD: April 29, 2017

  DD: May 1, 2017

  TTC2: June 2019

  CP September 2019

  Lap and repeat HSG scheduled December 2019

  BFP: November 24, 2019/EDD: August 2, 2020
  

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• msirni0 member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

  **Removed for TOU violation**

  Me: 29 DH: 28
  Together since 2008, married Sept 2013
  ttc #1 since July 2014
  DX: unexplained infertility
  Sept, Oct, Nov Clomid 50 mg: BFN
  Feb 2016 IUI w/ 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Prometrium: BFN
  March 2016 IUI w/ 50mg Clomid, Ovidrel, Prometrium: BFN
  June 2016 IVF: BFP 6/28!!! beta #1: 358, beta #2: 1428, beta #3: 3742
  
  
  

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• thj101 member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

  **Removed for TOU violation**

  Me:  33
  DH:  36
  Together since 2007
  Happily Ever After 4.30.2015
  ~~One Beautiful Daughter~~ Born:  11.6.2017
  Trying for #2!!

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• 20T member

  April 2016

  @MonaLisaRalphio now all we need to complete the trifecta is a WK!! 
  
  

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• [Deleted User] member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

  karening13 said:

  Literally have never posted here sorry to offended everybody. This was kind of exciting for me but thanks for being adults about POLITELY telling me that I did something wrong. 
  I didn't have time to read any rules as I was already running late for work and...this is kind of a big deal. 
  
  And for the record Boobs. Said it. Happy? And hard as rocks as opposed to my generally soft tits. 
  
  Have a day you bitches.

  TB is eating my response.
  
  @karening13 you just came to a group of women who are struggling month to month to conceive and waved your BFP in our faces at 6am.  Then when we responded with how much you truly hurt us and how inappropriate you were being you called US bitches??
  
  Girl.  I have been saving this gif ALL MONTH.  
  
  
  

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• picklesplease member

  April 2016

  20T said:

  @MonaLisaRalphio now all we need to complete the trifecta is a WK!! 
  
  

  OH! I've got my WK picture all ready to go!!!!!!
  

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• Megs7911 member

  April 2016

  Wasn't someone just saying yesterday that there was an eerie lack of drama and fly bys lately??! @mrsdee15 was that you? Ask and you shall recieve!!!!

   

  1st BFP 12/12/13 DS born 8/2014

  TFAS March 2016 - BFP 5/19/16!!! EDD: 1/31/17

  

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• felix08 member

  April 2016

  @karening13 That test very obviously has a second line...I just don't get what you were hoping for. 
  @MommyForTheFirstTime The hate might not be that silent. 
  @sldp123 THANK YOU for saying exactly what I was thinking re: the "this is exciting" comment. No shit. We've been waiting, hoping, praying, doing everything we possibly can for a chance at that excitement for months upon months without knowing if we will ever get to experience it. Ugh. 

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• karening13 member

  April 2016

  I didn't see any board to post to on my phone at the top it says new post and that's it. Thanks for actually trying to help.

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• mrsdee15 member

  April 2016

  Megs7911 said:

  Wasn't someone just saying yesterday that there was an eerie lack of drama and fly bys lately??! @mrsdee15 was that you? Ask and you shall recieve!!!!

  It was me, I jinxed us, I'm sorry!!!
  
  

  DD born PPROM preemie at 36 weeks on 10/1/17 after over a year TI, 
  then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.
  
  Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW,
  because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!

  

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• karening13 member

  April 2016

  I'm sorry. I didn't realize it was like that here. I've seen so many boards where people post their questions and other people help them. 
  Move requested for them to delete my account.
  
  Im really sorry to have offended everybody. I didn't realize I was doing anything wrong when I posted that. I was just excited and looking for a second opinion. 
  We've been trying for months too.

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• picklesplease member

  April 2016

  Why did you need a second opinion when there was clearly a second line? You want a second opinion? Ask a doctor, not a bunch of internet strangers.
  

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• PepperAT member

  April 2016

  lol I am a little amused that this has not been closed yet. It's like the Bump Gods knew we all needed to blow off a little steam. You have all made my morning! Thank you.
  
  Except for you, OP.
  
  Well, this "bitch" needs to get on with her day now.
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  10/2/10 
  Me:29 H: 31
  TTC#1: Aug 2015
  https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072
  
           
  

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• Kenya715 member

  April 2016

  @pepperAT - So true. It seems like so many of us have had horrible, emotional weeks and needed something like this to just blow up on. Where are the admins? Definitely didn't expect this one to go on so long. 

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• [Deleted User] member

  April 2016

  karening13 said:

  I'm sorry. I didn't realize it was like that here. I've seen so many boards where people post their questions and other people help them. 
  Move requested for them to delete my account.
  
  Im really sorry to have offended everybody. I didn't realize I was doing anything wrong when I posted that. I was just excited and looking for a second opinion. 
  We've been trying for months too.

  Did you ACTUALLY have a question or did you just want to show it off?  If you genuinely cannot tell that thing is positive I suggest you go have an eye exam.  
  
  Just... just READ the board before you post something.  It's like bursting in a room full of people and shouting stuff without taking 5 seconds to be quiet and look around to get a feel for the group of people.  This is basic stuff.

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• wineo929 member

  April 2016

  I'm going to agree, @PepperAT. I've never actually let loose on a post like this, and this has been a horrific week and I let it out. 
  
  We can close this cluster out now, though!

  
  
  
  

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• MamaCoffin member

  April 2016

  

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• sLass42 member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

  
   @karening13 joined in Nov 2015, 1st post is a drive by....class participation grade = 0 
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• sLass42 member

  April 2016

  karening13 said:

  Literally have never posted here sorry to offended everybody. This was kind of exciting for me but thanks for being adults about POLITELY telling me that I did something wrong. 
  I didn't have time to read any rules as I was already running late for work and...this is kind of a big deal. 
  
  And for the record Boobs. Said it. Happy? And hard as rocks as opposed to my generally soft tits. 
  
  Have a day you bitches.
  
  So I can't escape the quote box...just wanted to use this gif I've been saving since I just scrolled back and saw the rudeness.
  
  

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• felix08 member

  April 2016 edited April 2016

  karening13 said:

  I'm sorry. I didn't realize it was like that here. I've seen so many boards where people post their questions and other people help them. 
  Move requested for them to delete my account.
  
  Im really sorry to have offended everybody. I didn't realize I was doing anything wrong when I posted that. I was just excited and looking for a second opinion. 
  We've been trying for months too.

  While I appreciate the apology, it doesn't ring quite as true following your previous response when you referred to us as bitches.
  
  If you've also been trying for months, you should certainly be more cognizant of how it feels as a woman trying to conceive when another (unknown) woman waves her BFP around and inexplicably asks if it is indeed positive (when it very clearly is).
  
  Good luck. 
  
  eta: grammar

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