BFP?

stephy_p

Is the picture gone now or are my eyes not letting me see it in order to protect my emotions?

picklesplease

KristoKekerooni

@karening13
FYI, the fact that you keep going on about how exciting this is for you is not helping. Your excuses are not helping. Everything you are saying is not helping. Just stop. You're waving it around in all our faces that you're knocked up. Congrats. Now go away. Seriously, I have been trying for about 2 years and have had 3 losses. Just stop rubbing it in. You need a second opinion? Show your mom, your BFF, your Boo, better yet, go see a damn doctor who can actually tell you for a fact, not us who are looking at the same damn thing as you are... and who also don't want to see your urine. Just stop. 

kellybean1988

I'm coming out of lurking just for this
 

karening13

I actually had a question. You're right I don't have greatest eyes. I don't know what a false positive looks like. 

God im so sorry everybody. I really truly didn't mean to upset everyone. 

I know this will make you feel better.
ive been crying all morning because I didn't realize posting this was wrong. I've seen people post their test on other sites with questions and people helped them figure it out and I just thought I would get the same treatment. I didn't realize there were different boards for everything this is still new to me. 

Im sorry for the bitches thing. I felt like everyone was attacking me and I had no idea what I did wrong. 

Can someone please help me delete this.

karening13

I deleted it. I didn't know I wasn't supposed to post it. I'm sorry.

thj101

A woman calling another woman a bitch is just not ok. Alongside the whole BFP this offends me equally as much.  You had no idea what you did wrong?  Do you literally just blindly post without reading?

karening13

I wasn't trying to wave it in ANYBODYS face. Just because I haven't ever posted here before doesn't mean I haven't gone through all of the same emotions you all have. I've miscarried. I've had people tell me they were pg when it was the last thing I wanted to hear. Yes, I do know what that feels like. I had no idea I was going to be treated like this when I posted a question (because again I didn't realize this was the wrong forum or that you can't post pictures here, like every other board I've seen). I asked a friend in person and she could barely see it.

Bawling my eyes out. Didn't mean to ruin anybody's day I truly truly mean that. 

But my goodness could someone not have just said "hey wrong board, and don't post pictures" and then left it. You all pounced. I'm sorry you all think it was rude of me to post. I agree now that I understand this isn't the right place to post. But jeeez be a little kinder to the next newbie.

LadyBrettAshley23

Steelerfan78

PensiveCrayon

***TW ticker/BFP stuff***
Hey, @karening13! This is a serious suggestion, and I hope you're not so turned off by this entire board that you don't see it. A really great place to post pee sticks for community analysis is Countdown to Pregnancy. Good luck.

picklesplease

karening13 said:

I wasn't trying to wave it in ANYBODYS face. Just because I haven't ever posted here before doesn't mean I haven't gone through all of the same emotions you all have. I've miscarried. I've had people tell me they were pg when it was the last thing I wanted to hear. Yes, I do know what that feels like. I had no idea I was going to be treated like this when I posted a question (because again I didn't realize this was the wrong forum or that you can't post pictures here, like every other board I've seen). I asked a friend in person and she could barely see it.

Bawling my eyes out. Didn't mean to ruin anybody's day I truly truly mean that. 

But my goodness could someone not have just said "hey wrong board, and don't post pictures" and then left it. You all pounced. I'm sorry you all think it was rude of me to post. I agree now that I understand this isn't the right place to post. But jeeez be a little kinder to the next newbie.

Call me heartless, or whatever else you want, but I'm going to go with a "no."



You don't get to come in here after NEVER posting and wave your BFP in our faces and then play the "woe is me! I didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings" card. I'm sorry. That's not how it works. You waited to post until you were allowed. That gave you time to read up and learn about how this group works. We're not other boards, like The Glow. If you want people to spew rainbows, then you go there. You don't come to a board full of women who are trying to have a baby and brag about your BFP and then act all innocent and expect us to forgive you....ESPECIALLY not after calling us bitches. No. I call bullshit. No.

klstone25

How is this thread still open? Are the Bump Admins on vacation?

MonaLisaRalphio

karening13 said:

I wasn't trying to wave it in ANYBODYS face. Just because I haven't ever posted here before doesn't mean I haven't gone through all of the same emotions you all have. I've miscarried. I've had people tell me they were pg when it was the last thing I wanted to hear. Yes, I do know what that feels like. I had no idea I was going to be treated like this when I posted a question (because again I didn't realize this was the wrong forum or that you can't post pictures here, like every other board I've seen). I asked a friend in person and she could barely see it.

Bawling my eyes out. Didn't mean to ruin anybody's day I truly truly mean that. 

But my goodness could someone not have just said "hey wrong board, and don't post pictures" and then left it. You all pounced. I'm sorry you all think it was rude of me to post. I agree now that I understand this isn't the right place to post. But jeeez be a little kinder to the next newbie.

MonaLisaRalphio

@PensiveCrayon


Miss you, boo!

msirni0

@karening13 if you have experienced pregnancy announcements hurting you, then WHY would you think to do this? I'm sorry, I don't buy the whole "I was crying all morning" bit. You got flamed by some internet strangers. It happens, and I can guarantee you that it has happened to some women in this group. The difference is, instead of calling them bitches, They just apologized, left it alone, and didn't make the same mistake. You insulted everyone. Now your apology doesn't seem genuine. 

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