@ChristinaV2015 how are you holding up? Thinking of you girl, hope the sadness has subsided a bit. Lots of creepy online hugs from across the globe x
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
@flanners1 Honestly, it was a bit... disappointing. I thought it would be really clear and obvious, but I'm measuring about 3 days behind where I should be based on my transfer date. I'm glad I was able to tell the truth about it to someone! I'm hoping next week will be better.
About us: Me - 28, Lean PCOS DH - 31 Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014 Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Yes, those first heartbeats are not very clear, I heard my best friends 3rd sons heartbeat the first time and we had to have a good listening, Thats the 'disadvantage' of early us. Next week will def be better.
sorry to hear you were disappointed @AandDM2014 . As @tvh1982 says, it's a bit early to hear or see much. My sis also had her first u/s at 7 weeks - they wouldn't even perform one before that. I'm sure the next one will be better x
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
Hi ladies how are you all doing? @AandDM2014 did you have another ultrasound yet? @tvh1982 how are things on your side?
Just to a quick update from my side. I'm officially PUPO since this morning and all went really well. Beta on 27th, so fingers crossed!
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
Yay for being pupo @flanners1! I keep my fingers crossed for a Christmas baby!
AFM I had a little scare yesterday due to bleeding, did have a scan to check but it was too early for a heartbeat, so not complete relax yet. But shared my story on pregnant after if and the girls have shared their story as well as piperella and Erin, so I try to keep them mind mind and think positive
@tvh1982 oh that sounds very scary. I hope everything will be ok and you get to relax again soon. I'll check out the other board and read up on everyone else! ☺️ Hope to join you there soon
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
@flanners1 I go in tomorrow morning at 11:30 pst for my next U/S. Waiting a week is challenging! I think on Tuesday my DH was like "why do we have to wait a week" in a super whiny voice. It was pretty funny as he has mostly been neutral about all appointments. I think he is actually getting really excited, which is nice. And awesome for being PUPO!! Hopefully in 10 days you get some great news!
About us: Me - 28, Lean PCOS DH - 31 Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014 Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Hi @flanners1 and @PrayingMom2Be, how are you two doing? I tried to find you in other discussions, but that's difficult with a mobile, the app isn't as user friendly!
Hi @tvh1982 thanks for checking in! How very sweet of you x I've been reading the other thread on the other board - checking in on you to make sure your bleeding subsided. Super happy everything went well! It's really happening for you. How are you doing now? Has it sunk in yet?
On my end, the transfer went well and I was feeling some cramping the first 3-4 days, a bit tired and bloated. But then I made the mistake of testing this morning (it should be 7dp5dt) and it was a BFN. I am devastated. Now just trying to stay positive and telling myself it's still very early, but that voice in my head tells me it's over. But then again, I am in Thailand and our HPT cost like 4 dollars here, they can't be very accurate (and they don't have the digital ones). I should maybe just stop testing and wait until Sunday when my Beta is. Man, this journey is so hard sometimes.
how are you @PrayingMom2Be ? I saw your post on the other thread, and been crossing my fingers for you too.
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
Yes, that might be way to early @flanners1, I tested at 10dp5dt with a HcG of 10 and it barely showed, like I wasn't even sure it was there or not. So the cheap ones are often at 25, and that one only got clear with me at 13dp5dt. So don't give up hope just yet. I'll keep everything crossed for you! Wow, Thailand though! Hope it's for pleasure and that you have a lovely time!
AFM: I was so relieved when I saw the heartbeat and I haven't been bleeding since. It started to get real when I saw it. As morning sickness (or all day long sickness) has kicked in, and all I tolerate is fruit I am definitely pregnant. So weird, yet so wonderful.
The journey is definitely hard, but keep staying positive. 2016 is a great year for all of us girls, I truly believe that! xx
@tvh1982 I'm so happy to hear your ultrasound went well and you saw the heart beat. Must have been very emotional. You really deserve this and I'm so happy for you.
You might be right about it being too early to POAS. I will try to stay positive and just wait for my beta.
P.S I'm in Thailand for work. It's a dream to be living and working in this paradise and travelling the region although really miss my folks in Switzerland!
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
Thank you @flanners1. It was very emotional, felt all the stress from the last 18 months just come out in tears.
Ill keep sending babydust your way. You've got this!
Sounds wonderful in Thailand, but yet again so is Switzerland only way different! Enjoy your stay, do relax in between the working hours! And stay clear of those HPT until you are home!
Hi @tvh1982 and SaWaDee (I'm an American born Laotian so our languages are similar) @flanners1, thanks for checking up on me, it means a lot!
@tvh1982 I am so excited for u, I'll continue to pray for a H&H 9 months!!! Smooth sailing from now on!
@flanners1 I feel it's still may be early for u so don't lose hope just yet! Positive thoughts, and a repeated mantra of BFPs, BFPs, BFPs!!!
AFM I celebrate my 35th bday tomorrow with a HUGE Asian seafood buffet in IL with 30 of some of my family and friends, Easter bday brunch with one of hubbie's grandma, family, Easter dinner with hubbie's other grandma, more family and I'm off Monday to bum around all day! As this point I don't plan to POAS, no different symptoms beside the ones from PIO and this time feels like it's going faster than the other times (could be that it's 9 days instead of 10 to BETA and/or that I am keeping busy?!). I am remaining optimistic and positive because I pray this is it for me but I can't help to have my 6th transfer in place already! No matter how many times it never gets easy!
Sabai dee @PrayingMom2Be ! Such a beautiful country Laos. One of my favourites in this region. So it's Friday here already, so let me congratulate you to your 35th! Sounds like you have a great Easter weekend ahead and will be quite busy. Probably good to hold off with the POAS, it is really too nerve-wrecking. Praying for you that this is the one!
I'm actually in Thailand for good @tvh1982 - I only go "home" to Switzerland for Christmas every year. It's an adventure of it's own out here in Asia, but I met my hubby here and life has been good to me, so I am very happy. Luckily the fertility clinics are also very advanced and our RE is amazing, we totally adore him.
I'm so happy you got to see the heartbeat. That must be such an amazing feeling. I can't remember if the allow gender selection in Denmark - did you get to pick or are you just waiting to find out? I'm sure the all-day morning-sickness is a blessing too as it reminds you you are pregnant every day!
I held off from POAS this morning. Will wait until tomorrow morning or maybe even until Sunday even (day of beta). My sister is in town this weekend, so I should have good distraction and good support too if it all goes belly-up. Thanks again for your kind messages x
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
@flanners1 Kup Chai (thank u) for the first bday wish! I'm happy you'll get the support from ur sister but remember positive mantra, BFP!! I'm so jelly of where u live! I haven't been home in 18 years and I was there during New Years, so much fun!!!! Oh my and the food, Saap Lai (very delicious)!! I'll have to live vicariously overseas thru u! Lol... Do u speak Thai and/or Lao?
Happy 35th birthday @prayingmom2be, glad to hear you are keeping busy. Sounds like you have some fun filled days ahead! I too planned my next transfer, as I was convinced I wasn't. (Until I ate/crave lever pâté...I'm a vegetarian...)
You live there @flanners1, I must have missed that somewhere along the way. Boy am I jealous. Don't get me wrong, Norway is great, but I miss the warmth!
Keep those BFP's mantras going ladies. I'm rooting for you!
I don't know the gender @flanners1, not sure they check for that in Denmark. Still not sure if I want to know or not. So as long as I'm undecided if I should know or not, I won't know.
@PrayingMom2Be yes I speak and read some Thai. It's quite similar to Lao so I manage to have a half-way decent conversation when I go there. The people are so lovely and friendly in this area. How was your birthday?
Tomorrow is the day, ladies. I've held off from POAS for now and enjoying some time with my sis. I'll post here once I know more tomorrow. Thanks for your supporting words x
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
@tvh1982 thank u for the bday shout out and thank u for keeping me on the positive path! No new symptoms just like before but honestly this time seems a lil different, idk what is it but just a bit different from the first 4 attempts. I love liver pate btw! Lol... LO wants what they want!
@flanners1 that is awesome u know how to read and write in Thai so yes Lao will kind of come easy for u, my sisters and one brother says the same. My eldest brother was young when he came to the states so he doesn't remember how to read/write and the younger brother learned here when he answered his calling to become a Buddhist monk. Lao was my first language so I also do not know how to read/write only speak fluently. Enjoy ur sister's visit and tomorrow will be here before u know it!
No Easter plans here @flanners1, got home from my trip in NL on Monday evening, so am just enjoying my days off (long weekend) trying to find out what works with my nausea and take lots of naps.
Have a a fun filled weekend with your sister, before you know it you may POAS.
Hope it's a good different @prayingmom2be. I keep rooting for you two girls! And yes LO wants what it wants, after not being a vegetarian for over a week, am now only liking fruits, chips with applesauce and goldfish.
@flanners1 congrats on a successful transfer. I hope your hpt/beta give you good news tomorrow!
@PrayingMom2Be I support your decision to not POAS. I didn't this cycle, and it made me worry much less. And oh those PIO symptoms!
@tvh1982 you're eating chips with applesauce? LIke potato chips dipped in applesauce? Or french fries dipped in applesauce? That is a strange combo I've never heard of... though my DH keeps asking me if I'd like some clay to eat, so if I someday say yes that would be very strange.
About us: Me - 28, Lean PCOS DH - 31 Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014 Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
@tvh1982 hmm, not quite a weird as potato chips, which is what I first thought you meant, but still interesting. Here in America the thing to do with fries (for some people at least) is to dip them in something called a "frosty", which is kind of a chocolate milkshake. It was never my thing, but I hear some people really like it. As for clay eating, I always assumed it meant you weren't getting enough minerals, so your body would crave them in the form of clay. Ick.
About us: Me - 28, Lean PCOS DH - 31 Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014 Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
Was balling my eyes out for most of the day. It's so hard... i was sure this time around it would work and I even thought I experienced the implantation cramping and all. My RE wants to do a hysteroscopy and some antibodies test because he also thought it's odd. I think we also will take a break for a couple of months to give my body a break.
@prayingmom2be I am routing for you and hope you get your BFP!
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
Oh no @flanners1. I'm so sorry to hear that. I have no words for comfort as that just sucks big time. I truly hope you have some great support back home who will help you to get through this. I'm truly sorry to hear that. Sending you one of those big creepy internet hugs. xoxo
@flanners1 I just posted on the other board but I'll send my hugs to u from Milwaukee, WI (USA) as well! I was rooting for u and will continue to do so, our time will come! DH and I have our next steps in place and if that yet again does not work we'll also take some time off than try one more time with a ER and any more transfers after that. Take it from someone with 5 transfers under their belt, Ik that feeling all too well and it never gets easier! I'll say it again here... The only right time is God's time!
AFM: I had noticeable cramping last night, nothing too painful but definitely more than twitches and twinges. No spotting but I have been getting more discharge than usual (sorry for the TMI) but other than that nothing more.
Thank you all. It's tough and I'm still quite sad, but being back at work helps a bit to keep my mind of things. I haven't decided yet if we should take a break or go straight to the next round. I don't feel like my body has suffered or is tired, but I've been pumping hormones into myself for pretty much the last 3 months... What are your experiences here? I'm also a bit apprehensive of this hysteroscopy. Has anyone done one before?
@PrayingMom2Be still routing for you. Hope you get that BFP! @tvh1982 thanks for the creepy hugs. They were well received and appreciated @AandDM2014 yes I really hope the tests will give me some kind of closure or idea on what needs to be done to ensure the next transfer works out.
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
@flanners1 I had a hysteroscopy in October to remove a polyp. It was my first ever surgery, and involved full anesthesia, and I was nervous as heck! Kinda funny now, but I was most scared of not waking up. Nothing else about it worried me, just that. It's really easy because you'll be asleep the whole time. I got a mask put over me, was told I'd start to feel sleepy, then next thing I know I'm awake and crying for DH (my reaction to the anesthesia is to cry a bunch). I bled a tiny tiny bit, but wasn't in much pain. If I was working at the time I could have gone back the following day. You'll do great! As for taking a break or not, I personally never did. It was month after month after month. I somewhat felt like I couldn't take a break because, as previously mentioned, I don't work and my sole purpose is/was trying to get pregnant (you know what I mean, since I don't contribute financially and am in charge of growing a baby) I felt that if we took a break from trying I'd have to start looking for a job. I hope you're happy with whatever you decide.
About us: Me - 28, Lean PCOS DH - 31 Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014 Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Got my BETA results about 20 minutes ago. 9dp5/6dt and it's a positive at 40.6, I will not say it's a BFP but nonetheless a positive!! Second BETA is due for Friday and third one on Monday, we'll have to tread lightly and I pray that our LO(nes) continues to grow!! After 4 BFNs this is a breath of fresh air and I intend to take it all in for now, I am so elated I can't stop crying!
Continued prayers for all and always remember that the only right time is Gods time!
@PrayingMom2Be that's amazing news! I'm so so happy for you. Here's hoping your next beta is great.
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
@PrayingMom2Be Oh boy, what a tough time. I understand the feeling of not getting too excited, especially with a beta that low (sorry if this sounds insensitive). I am happy for you, but know first hand the struggle with a low number. I'm gonna be sending out good vibes for you that Friday brings you some joy.
About us: Me - 28, Lean PCOS DH - 31 Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014 Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
@flanners1 and @AandDM2014 thank u both! Nurse at RE's office is happy with BETA and wants to see 70s come Friday. Ik it's not high but it's a step in the right direction and definitely not a BFN. It was nice to hear positive for once, I can only pray that my numbers continue to increase and that LO keeps growing!
ATM no one knows besides myself and RE's office. I plan to POAS after work and surprise DH with a small gift tonight.
Hi @flanners1. I never had a hysteroscopi so I don't know how that is. About the break...I had twice a break, once two months between IUI and IVF. I had to wait for my appointment with RE, and I could do another IUI while waiting, but my lovely nurse advised against it, due to costs and me being all over the place due to hormones. Had another break after my fresh cycle. It was Xmas, so I was travelling, and again my body needed a break. Between my FET's I didn't take a break...as my body could handle it.
All I can say is, listen to your body and your gut. Only those two know what is best for you. (Try to put your heart on a little silent, as we all know to well what that one wants) Thinking of you.
Thank u @tvh1982! I did a digital test and sure enough it came up pregnant! I have it in a lil box along with a small Milwaukee Brewers (our home baseball team and Monday is opening day) onesie inside a gift bag all set for him!
@PrayingMom2Be I hope your surprise worked out? So cute! He must have been over the moon. Fingers crossed for your next beta.
Thanks @AandDM2014 for the update on the procedure. I won't be getting any surgery so I actually think there is no sedation? No idea. I'll knock back some pain killers before I go in and just hold my breath. I got appointment for Sunday. Weirdly I am somehow hoping they find something but only something small that is easily fixed so that all is good. How are things progressing with you? Sorry I haven't asked much...
@tvh1982 you're so right about the body just telling you if it can handle it or not. I do remember after my ER I was very glad I didn't have the fresh transfer because I wouldn't have been able to deal with more hormones of any kind. I felt fine after this cycle because the meds didn't affect me at all and I then ovulated on my own and had the progesterone surge on my own without meds so I think my body was and actually still is pretty comfy. Anyway I think given it will be CD 5 by time I do the tests on Sunday, we might just skip one cycle which is probably not bad. How are things on your front? Anymore scares? Or just the morning - aka all day - sickness? Really nice to chat with you lovelies. Thanks for all your continuous support.
Me: 38, DH: 40 living in Asia TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017. Trying for nr 2
Re: February FET Buddies
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Thats the 'disadvantage' of early us.
Next week will def be better.
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TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
@AandDM2014 did you have another ultrasound yet?
@tvh1982 how are things on your side?
Just to a quick update from my side. I'm officially PUPO since this morning and all went really well. Beta on 27th, so fingers crossed!
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
I keep my fingers crossed for a Christmas baby!
AFM
I had a little scare yesterday due to bleeding, did have a scan to check but it was too early for a heartbeat, so not complete relax yet. But shared my story on pregnant after if and the girls have shared their story as well as piperella and Erin, so I try to keep them mind mind and think positive
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I'll check out the other board and read up on everyone else! ☺️
Hope to join you there soon
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
I tried to find you in other discussions, but that's difficult with a mobile, the app isn't as user friendly!
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I've been reading the other thread on the other board - checking in on you to make sure your bleeding subsided. Super happy everything went well! It's really happening for you. How are you doing now? Has it sunk in yet?
On my end, the transfer went well and I was feeling some cramping the first 3-4 days, a bit tired and bloated. But then I made the mistake of testing this morning (it should be 7dp5dt) and it was a BFN. I am devastated. Now just trying to stay positive and telling myself it's still very early, but that voice in my head tells me it's over. But then again, I am in Thailand and our HPT cost like 4 dollars here, they can't be very accurate (and they don't have the digital ones). I should maybe just stop testing and wait until Sunday when my Beta is. Man, this journey is so hard sometimes.
how are you @PrayingMom2Be ? I saw your post on the other thread, and been crossing my fingers for you too.
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
I'll keep everything crossed for you!
Wow, Thailand though! Hope it's for pleasure and that you have a lovely time!
AFM: I was so relieved when I saw the heartbeat and I haven't been bleeding since. It started to get real when I saw it. As morning sickness (or all day long sickness) has kicked in, and all I tolerate is fruit I am definitely pregnant.
So weird, yet so wonderful.
The journey is definitely hard, but keep staying positive. 2016 is a great year for all of us girls, I truly believe that! xx
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You might be right about it being too early to POAS. I will try to stay positive and just wait for my beta.
P.S I'm in Thailand for work. It's a dream to be living and working in this paradise and travelling the region although really miss my folks in Switzerland!
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
It was very emotional, felt all the stress from the last 18 months just come out in tears.
Ill keep sending babydust your way. You've got this!
Sounds wonderful in Thailand, but yet again so is Switzerland only way different!
Enjoy your stay, do relax in between the working hours! And stay clear of those HPT until you are home!
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@tvh1982 I am so excited for u, I'll continue to pray for a H&H 9 months!!! Smooth sailing from now on!
@flanners1 I feel it's still may be early for u so don't lose hope just yet! Positive thoughts, and a repeated mantra of BFPs, BFPs, BFPs!!!
AFM I celebrate my 35th bday tomorrow with a HUGE Asian seafood buffet in IL with 30 of some of my family and friends, Easter bday brunch with one of hubbie's grandma, family, Easter dinner with hubbie's other grandma, more family and I'm off Monday to bum around all day! As this point I don't plan to POAS, no different symptoms beside the ones from PIO and this time feels like it's going faster than the other times (could be that it's 9 days instead of 10 to BETA and/or that I am keeping busy?!). I am remaining optimistic and positive because I pray this is it for me but I can't help to have my 6th transfer in place already!
No matter how many times it never gets easy!
FX, GL and Prayers for all!!!
So it's Friday here already, so let me congratulate you to your 35th! Sounds like you have a great Easter weekend ahead and will be quite busy. Probably good to hold off with the POAS, it is really too nerve-wrecking. Praying for you that this is the one!
I'm actually in Thailand for good @tvh1982 - I only go "home" to Switzerland for Christmas every year. It's an adventure of it's own out here in Asia, but I met my hubby here and life has been good to me, so I am very happy. Luckily the fertility clinics are also very advanced and our RE is amazing, we totally adore him.
I'm so happy you got to see the heartbeat. That must be such an amazing feeling. I can't remember if the allow gender selection in Denmark - did you get to pick or are you just waiting to find out? I'm sure the all-day morning-sickness is a blessing too as it reminds you you are pregnant every day!
I held off from POAS this morning. Will wait until tomorrow morning or maybe even until Sunday even (day of beta). My sister is in town this weekend, so I should have good distraction and good support too if it all goes belly-up.
Thanks again for your kind messages x
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
I'm so jelly of where u live! I haven't been home in 18 years and I was there during New Years, so much fun!!!! Oh my and the food, Saap Lai (very delicious)!! I'll have to live vicariously overseas thru u! Lol... Do u speak Thai and/or Lao?
Sounds like you have some fun filled days ahead!
I too planned my next transfer, as I was convinced I wasn't. (Until I ate/crave lever pâté...I'm a vegetarian...)
You live there @flanners1, I must have missed that somewhere along the way.
Boy am I jealous. Don't get me wrong, Norway is great, but I miss the warmth!
Keep those BFP's mantras going ladies. I'm rooting for you!
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Still not sure if I want to know or not.
So as long as I'm undecided if I should know or not, I won't know.
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How was your birthday?
@tvh1982 what plans for your Easter weekend?
Tomorrow is the day, ladies. I've held off from POAS for now and enjoying some time with my sis. I'll post here once I know more tomorrow. Thanks for your supporting words x
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
I love liver pate btw! Lol... LO wants what they want!
@flanners1 that is awesome u know how to read and write in Thai so yes Lao will kind of come easy for u, my sisters and one brother says the same. My eldest brother was young when he came to the states so he doesn't remember how to read/write and the younger brother learned here when he answered his calling to become a Buddhist monk. Lao was my first language so I also do not know how to read/write only speak fluently.
Enjoy ur sister's visit and tomorrow will be here before u know it!
Happy Saturday morning/evening to u both!!
Have a a fun filled weekend with your sister, before you know it you may POAS.
Hope it's a good different @prayingmom2be. I keep rooting for you two girls!
And yes LO wants what it wants, after not being a vegetarian for over a week, am now only liking fruits, chips with applesauce and goldfish.
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Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
clay eating is apparently worth to try according to google
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Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
i was sure this time around it would work and I even thought I experienced the implantation cramping and all. My RE wants to do a hysteroscopy and some antibodies test because he also thought it's odd.
I think we also will take a break for a couple of months to give my body a break.
@prayingmom2be I am routing for you and hope you get your BFP!
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
I have no words for comfort as that just sucks big time.
I truly hope you have some great support back home who will help you to get through this.
I'm truly sorry to hear that.
Sending you one of those big creepy internet hugs. xoxo
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AFM: I had noticeable cramping last night, nothing too painful but definitely more than twitches and twinges. No spotting but I have been getting more discharge than usual (sorry for the TMI) but other than that nothing more.
Happy Monday!
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
I haven't decided yet if we should take a break or go straight to the next round. I don't feel like my body has suffered or is tired, but I've been pumping hormones into myself for pretty much the last 3 months... What are your experiences here?
I'm also a bit apprehensive of this hysteroscopy. Has anyone done one before?
@PrayingMom2Be still routing for you. Hope you get that BFP!
@tvh1982 thanks for the creepy hugs. They were well received and appreciated
@AandDM2014 yes I really hope the tests will give me some kind of closure or idea on what needs to be done to ensure the next transfer works out.
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Got my BETA results about 20 minutes ago. 9dp5/6dt and it's a positive at 40.6, I will not say it's a BFP but nonetheless a positive!! Second BETA is due for Friday and third one on Monday, we'll have to tread lightly and I pray that our LO(nes) continues to grow!! After 4 BFNs this is a breath of fresh air and I intend to take it all in for now, I am so elated I can't stop crying!
Continued prayers for all and always remember that the only right time is Gods time!
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2
Me - 28, Lean PCOS
DH - 31
Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
Blog: ourbinarystar.com
FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!
Nurse at RE's office is happy with BETA and wants to see 70s come Friday. Ik it's not high but it's a step in the right direction and definitely not a BFN. It was nice to hear positive for once, I can only pray that my numbers continue to increase and that LO keeps growing!
ATM no one knows besides myself and RE's office. I plan to POAS after work and surprise DH with a small gift tonight.
Excited to hear what your hubby says!
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I never had a hysteroscopi so I don't know how that is.
About the break...I had twice a break, once two months between IUI and IVF. I had to wait for my appointment with RE, and I could do another IUI while waiting, but my lovely nurse advised against it, due to costs and me being all over the place due to hormones.
Had another break after my fresh cycle. It was Xmas, so I was travelling, and again my body needed a break.
Between my FET's I didn't take a break...as my body could handle it.
All I can say is, listen to your body and your gut. Only those two know what is best for you. (Try to put your heart on a little silent, as we all know to well what that one wants)
Thinking of you.
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prayers for all!!!!
Thanks @AandDM2014 for the update on the procedure. I won't be getting any surgery so I actually think there is no sedation? No idea. I'll knock back some pain killers before I go in and just hold my breath. I got appointment for Sunday. Weirdly I am somehow hoping they find something but only something small that is easily fixed so that all is good.
How are things progressing with you? Sorry I haven't asked much...
@tvh1982 you're so right about the body just telling you if it can handle it or not. I do remember after my ER I was very glad I didn't have the fresh transfer because I wouldn't have been able to deal with more hormones of any kind. I felt fine after this cycle because the meds didn't affect me at all and I then ovulated on my own and had the progesterone surge on my own without meds so I think my body was and actually still is pretty comfy. Anyway I think given it will be CD 5 by time I do the tests on Sunday, we might just skip one cycle which is probably not bad.
How are things on your front? Anymore scares? Or just the morning - aka all day - sickness?
Really nice to chat with you lovelies. Thanks for all your continuous support.
TTC since March 2015 with known PCOS and MIF
IVF in 2015. FET nr 3 in 2016 - BFP. Healthy baby girl born in April 2017.
Trying for nr 2