TTC After a Loss

My story

I have a healthy 2 year old son and we started trying for baby #2 last fall. We got pregnant right away and the pregnancy ended in a miscarriage around 6 weeks. I passed everything naturally, I had a normal period, and we got pregnant again. December 23rd we went in for our 8 week ultrasound and there was no baby. I had an emergency D&C on 1/7/16 after crazy, uncontrollable bleeding. My doctor referred us to a specialist the next week and he ran every blood test imaginable; all came back normal. My first period after the D&C was a nightmare and lasted 2 weeks. I was due for my period last week and bled for about 4-5 days. I continued to spot after so I called my clinic yesterday and the first thing she told me to do was take a pregnancy test. I said it was crazy but took it anyway. Sure enough, it showed I was pregnant within about 10 seconds. I then went to the clinic for blood work and my hcg was at 1903. I go back tomorrow to check the hcg level again. I'm completely confused, feel like I already lost this pregnancy when I didn't even know it existed. 
Anyone have similar experiences? 

Re: My story

  • What a roller coaster! I am sorry for your losses and for the anxiety you must be facing. I have no advice, but am interested to know what you learn tomorrow. The one thing we seem to all be able to say is nothing after a MC is predictable. Good luck!

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








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  • How stressful! No, I don't have similar experience, but I will be thinking of you and hoping the third time is a charm and your baby is healthy and strong in there.

    DD1 born 5/24/10.

    Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.

    DD2 born 5/14/13.

    Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.

    Expecting someone new 4/17/17.
  • Hi- I am sorry for your losses and can imagine the stress you are going through. My RE told me bleeding patterns after MC and d&c are very unpredictable and complicated. I do hope everything works out for you and your levels go up. Keep us posted.
     ****TW: Pregnancy, loss and children mentioned****
    Me (39) DH (40) 
    From my first marriage DD: 03/04 CP:01/06 DS:12/06 
    DH- no kids
    ******************
    TTC: since 2/15, RE Consult 9/15
    IUI #1 10/15: Letrozole = BFN 
    IUI #2 11/15: Letrozole + trigger = BFN
    1/08/16: Surprise- BFP!!  2/16/16: MMC @10w 2days,  D&C: 2/17/16
    TTCAL: May 2016
    IUI #3 5/27/16: Letrozole+trigger=BFN
    IUI #4 06/24/16: 7.5mg Letrozole+trigger= BFN
    IUI#5 08/24/16 Menopur+trigger = BFN
    IUI #6 09/19/16 5 mg Letrozole +Menopur + Trigger= BFN
    **10/2016: No more medicated cycles, TTCAL on our own**
    12/03/16: BFP!! EDD: 08/12/17 It's a girl!! 
    Eleni was born on 8/14/17!!
  • My hcg went from 1903 to 1600 so it's confirmed its not a viable pregnancy. The most frustrating part is we weren't even trying, I thought I had a "'normal" period last week and was looking forward to this month to try again. 
    After the first two losses, we did blood work and everything came back normal.  I see my dr in about 3 weeks. I have this gut feeling something is wrong, there has to be something. 
  • I'm sorry for your losses
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • I'm so sorry! Hopefully you'll get some answers soon. 
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