I just don't understand it. Beyond those necessary for medical reasons, why are there so many? Medical literature states that the rate shouldn't top 10%, yet in many hospitals the rates tops 30%. On this forum, many of the birth announcements/stories mention a C-section. I'm curious as to why(again, beyond medically necessary)?
Re: What is up with all of these C-sections?
For me with dd1 my only birth plan was that I wanted to avoid a csection at all costs...but ended up having one and felt completely defeated, like my body failed me and it took a while to come to terms with it. I needed a csection because after being induced for low amniotic fluid I did not get past 6cm (only got this far thanks to foley balloon catheter) after 17 hrs of labor and then developed an infection called chorioamionitis where I had a high fever/ throwing up and this put baby in distress.
This baby is a repeat csection sincle almost every dr wouldn't work with me for vbac...two midwives considered trying if my water broke on its own and I showed dilation on my own (they don't think my body dilates on its own)...but alas this baby is breech anyway. So I will be adding to our csection rate on March 22nd. And it is still honestly not how I want to give birth, but it's safer for me and baby and that's all that matters!
I hope all you ladies who had csection are healing well and know that you are birth warriors too! And have the scar to prove it!!
Baby Due July/2015(Loss Dec2014)
OP, who the hell cares how anybody else gave birth?! A baby was born, mama and baby are healthy and that is all that matters.
Why don't you not make people feel like shit and try focusing on learning some couth in the process?!
Congratulations to all the mamas of March!! It's the biggest (and most exhausting) joy ever!
Hats off to all the moms who have gotten them- it sounds scarier and more painful to me (in the long run) than natural birth.
Many women go through life-threatening situations which result in a C-section, but what does it matter? We all deliver our LOs in the end and it shouldn't matter how they get here.
Amelia, my sweet little rainbow baby born March 4, 2016
My Doctor and I had planned a mes free water birth in the birthing center attached to the hospital and it bothered me at first that things did not happen as planned, but my healthy baby is worth so much more than a birth plan.
Bottom line, you do not know anyone's birth story unless they choose to share and it is such a personal experience. Who are you to judge?