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Re: WTO Tuesday

  • Month/Cycle: 9/9

    CD: 
    1?

     WRYDTGKU: 
    Temping, charting, prenatal a, BD timing, OPK

    R/R/CS: 
    Major rant: I was supposed to get a second opinion about a PCOS dx (OBGYN doesn't think I have it but she did no bloodwork and I have one out of three clinical indicators of PCOS). The new doctor's office called to confirm the appointment at an office in a different town than the one I request. I told them I couldn't do that because of work so I cancelled. I talked to my boss and was able to get permission to leave early; I called back to get my appointment reinstated and was told that the office probably wouldn't be a good fit, especially since they don't do consultations for second opinions. I was planning on switching doctors but given the lack of communication I didn't argue.  

    I'm just royally pissed off; I had to wait a month and a half to get this appointment and jump through all the Tricare hoops for nothing. I'm so frustrated I think I may just wait out the next three months, go for my annual and get a referral for an RE then.

    The situation isn't helped by the fact that AF hasn't showed more than a little spotting but I am 19 dpo and all BFNs. My LP was super short prior to this cycle and I've been taking a B complex to try to help things out. Could this be causing a longer than usual LP?


    GTKY: 
    Is there anything you wished would come back into fashion?

    Custom clothing as the norm. I'm very tall so finding clothes that fit are a pain. I envy the days when custom clothing was readily available and cheap.
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  • @sldp123 @beary67 @DiFazette thank you for the responses! 
  • I've mentioned before that I won't be actively TTC until May, so I'm not counting cycles until then. I just need to vent and maybe cry today, so I'm posting. I wish to god I had a baby in my belly now, but my husband is reminding me that we are so close to having debt paid off and that would mean more easily paying baby expenses that come up. 

    CD: 
    6

    WAYDTGKU: I will be tracking my Basal temp using Fertility Friend, and have already started playing around with it. I'm on prenatals and am trying to get a good workout routine established.

    R/R/CS: 
    ****loss of adult relative and visit with pregnant friends mentioned******
    As I've mentioned, my grandma passed away suddenly and unexpectedly last week. It's been the most difficult thing I've ever gone through. I've spent so long trying to wait until the best possible time to get pregnant, and now I am devastated that in doing so, I've missed a chance to have my grandma see a baby of mine. I thought we had years left with her, but she grieved too hard to go on after losing my grandpa in November.

    The loss of my grandma has had a very physical affect on me. I've been sleeping a lot. Usually, I react to stress by being unable to sleep, but losing two precious family members so close together is unlike any stress I've had previously. I went to lunch yesterday with three pregnant coworkers. When I mentioned being so tired, one of them said that her boyfriend was right, and I am pregnant. I reacted more rudely than I meant and said, "No, it's cause my grandma died last week and I'm kinda bummed about it." Then I cried. At the table. I didn't mean to be rude, but no one knows how much it hurts when they mention that I could be pregnant. I know I'm not. I just had my period less than a week ago. It is so painful to know I'm not and that I missed sharing this special time with my grandma. I just don't know how to say it nicely, because I don't want them to talk to me about it. 

    GTKY: 
    Is there anything you wished would come back into fashion? The 1920's. I want to wear long fancy gloves and lace dresses for no reason at all. 
  • @MollyandD So sorry for what you are going through right now. Take the time you need for yourself to grieve. And don't feel sorry for what you said to those ladies. In my opinion they were the ones being rude. *Creepy internet hugs*

    Me: 28 DH: 29
    Married: August 2014
    TTC #1 Since March 2015
    Diagnosed with PCOS March 2016
    SA results normal April 2016
    3 rounds clomid + trigger + TI = BFN
    3 rounds clomid + trigger + IUI = BFN
    Uterine polyp removed July 2017
    Round 1 IVF January 2018




  • @mamamunn I love the creepy internet hugs! Thank you. 
  • Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD: 
    4

    WAYDTGKU: 
    BBT, CM for now

    R/R/CS: 
    SO shared that I was super emotional last month (his nice way of saying BSC). He has been stressed at work, which of course I internalize as my fault.. We had some good discussions this past weekend, so this cycle is starting off in a really positive place emotionally.

    GTKY: 
    Is there anything you wished would come back into fashion?
    @mokay19 I agree! I look back at photos of my grandparents and every occasion was a reason to get dolled up!

    I work in an office that's business casual, which has somehow transformed into "Sweat Pants Friday." Drives me insane! 
  • sammajane19sammajane19 member
    edited March 2016
    @sldp123 i'm sorry to hear about DH's anxiety. that must be so frustrating. but i don't think you're timing is terrible, at all.  all it takes is once, right?

    @cjt121413OMG, do you shop at the Gap? i just bought a pair of high rise flare jeans and they are like, the best jeans i've ever worn, hands down. they're fitted through the thigh but flare just below the knee, and make your legs look a mile long! i feel like flare is definitely trending right now, too. you should check out Gap.

    @mrsdaddario  that's strange that FF gave you dotted crosshairs. i suppose it was the effects of the provera. i wouldn't take it too seriously, esp. if you never had any fertile CM. 

    Month/Cycle: 5/2

    CD: 
    51

    WAYDTGKU:
     Temping, Metformin, not much else right now...anovulatory cycle.

    R/R/CS: 
    So I had an appt. with my OB this morning to discuss my response...or lack of response...to the Metformin and my crazy long anovulatory cycles.  I'm signed up for another ultrasound this week, got another round of blood work done, the usual. she said we may have to look at the next step of really controlling my cycle and putting me on clomid, but wants to conduct an ultrasound first. which is exciting on one hand, but depressing on the other, because nobody wants to get to this point in the first place.

    BUT what's really interesting is that she does not like me temping, at all. she wants me to rely solely on OPK's and CM. she said "all the latest studies show that it doesn't have any real benefit and is added stress."  and that "it's really hard to do it correctly for accurate results". i'm not sure how i feel about this. temping, whether or not it gives me any new insight, makes me feel in control.  what do you ladies think about this?  

    GTKY: 
    Is there anything you wished would come back into fashion?  eh. i can't really think of anything. maybe clogs? i'm not super into fashion. 
    Me: 29 | DH: 31
    TTC Since: Nov. 2015
    Dx: PCOS
    Clomid + Ovidrel, Round I: BFN
    Clomid + Ovidrel, Round II: BFN
    Clomid+Ovidrel, Round III: BFP! 7/5/16


  • Month/Cycle: 1/1 TTGP (+5 NTNP)

    CD:
    17

    WAYDTGKU:
    Temping, charting, BD when I can convince DH (we've totally switched roles in this!)  Temp was still down this morning, but I'm starting to break out on my face.  Ugh, I'm 30 and still deal with acne twice a month (usually around the time I O and then during AF).  I've never temped to see exactly when I break out vs. when I O, so it'll be interesting to see exactly how it correlates.  Trying to find the silver lining.... ha!  All of my other symptoms point to O any day, so I'm hoping temping will confirm soon!

    R/R/CS:
    It finally stopped raining!!!  But now it's all foggy and gloomy.  I cannot wait until summer.

    GTKY: 
    Is there anything you wished would come back into fashion?  Umm...I have something that I wish will stay in fashion forever if that counts... Leggings.  Hate on me all you want but I truly believe leggings are pants... As long as they are thick enough material.

    Married 07.21.07
    DS#1 01.23.09
    DS#2 08.01.11
    TTC#3  08.31.15
    Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17
    Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17
    Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19
    Left tube removed
    dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis
    BC: February-October 2019
    TTA: November-December 2019
    NTNP: January 2020!

  • @Winnie81 the finale was good!!  No major drama during the After the Final Rose special, so that was kind of lame, but overall, a great season!  Are you going to watch the Bachelorette?

    @brambles1  I'm sorry the office cancelled your appointment.  I hope you get some answers soon!


    @MollyandD *hugs*  Take care of yourself and all the time you need to grieve.  All of my grandparents have passed and will never be able to see our grandchildren, but I know they will be watching over us and smiling from up above.  I will find ways to let me children know how special my grandparents were in my life.  I know you will find a way to honor your grandparents, too!
      
    About me:
    TTC#1: October 2015
    dx: PCOS & MFI
    IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP
    July 2016: Blighted Ovum
    IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN
    IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN
    IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN
    IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN
    FET February 2017 ~BFN
    IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17
    Team Blue X 2!
  • @MollyandD so sorry to hear about your grandma and to deal with the insensitive remarks from those women. Hugs

    @beary67 definitely going to watch the Bachelorette! p.s. I love all the full house gifs :wink: 




    TTC #1: March 2011 (slightly before)
    Fur-children: 3 dogs + 2 cats (all rescued)
    dx: Endometriosis and Fibroids 
    2 Laps and 1 Abdominal Myomectomy
    6 rounds of clomid
    5 rounds of iui
    Several HSG's sprinkled throughout the years to up my chances of a BFP
    Several dilation of cervix because they suspect the scar tissue is hindering it from fully opening (partially adds to the severe cramps all month)
    IVF #1 Gonal F, Menopur and Cetrotide
    ER 12/1/2016
    ER-Retrieved 22 eggs 10 fertilized
    4/4 day 5 embryos were normal for PGS!!! 2 boys/2 girls
    FET 1/10/2017  
    Gallbladder surgery 1/10/2017
    FET estimated end of Feb, beginning of March

  • @anj27 i was checking it all the time and I still am just not as frequently. Honestly I've never seen anything significant, only EWCM once and it didn't correlate with O at all. I'll keep checking, I just never seem to have tons even with drinking tons of water and taking mucinex.
  • mjolkmjolk member
    i got my implant removed and had my period a day or two later. I wasn't expecting things to normal that quickly. Waiting for O, which is one abbreviation I understand. :)
    -----
    TW: Loss
    EDD: 1/14/2017 : Blighted Ovum : D&C @ 10w6d


  • @mjolk It took me a while to figure out what it meant.  I still read O as orgasm, though.  And then giggle.  Every time.

    Married 07.21.07
    DS#1 01.23.09
    DS#2 08.01.11
    TTC#3  08.31.15
    Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 05.16.17
    Hysteroscopy 10.04.17 10.05.17
    Laparoscopy/Hysteroscopy/HSG 01.10.19
    Left tube removed
    dx: Endometriosis, Adenomyosis
    BC: February-October 2019
    TTA: November-December 2019
    NTNP: January 2020!

  • Month/Cycle: 3/3

    CD: 4


    WAYDTGKU: 
    Right now just pouting and waiting for AF to go away 

    R/R/CS: 
    My last cycle was the longest it's been in 4 years.  I kinda thought I was KU even though every test I took was negative.  Boo.  On the upside I told my mom and sister we were TTGP this weekend.  I've been excited to tell them since we started, but I was hoping I could just surprise them with a pregnancy.  Oh well.  They're very excited and I'm glad I can finally talk to them about stuff.  It was weird though, as soon as I told them I had this moment of regret.  There's something nice about not having other people know... if I didn't want to talk about it there was a guarantee no one would ask.

    GTKY: 
    Is there anything you wished would come back into fashion?  I agree with wanting 50's fashion back.  I'm tall and thin and shaped similar to a string bean.  50's style dresses and skirts that come in at the waist and then poof out a little at the hips really help give me some shape.  


    Me: 32 | DH: 36

    Married June 2005

    1/2016 - TTC#1

    4/2017 - Initial RE visit, Dx: Severe MFI (Varicocele, 14% motility, 3% progression, but normal count)

    7/2017 - Stage 3 endometriosis discovered during laparoscopic removal of ovarian cyst

    9/27/2017 - BFP at 10dpo (cycle 22), baby boy due June 9, 2018

    Pregnancy Ticker
  • Checking in late today, so crazy at work and people are crazy.

    Month/ Cycle: 8/8

    CD: 10

    WAYDTGKU: PNV, temping and hopefully HIO. Sometimes I have to remind DH that, that needs to happen at a specific time...

    R/R/CS: nothing right now. Just sitting here waiting for something to happen..

    GTKY: I used to only buy bell bottom jeans, but I don't know if I want them to come back lol 

    10/2/10  <3
    Me:29 H: 31
    TTC#1: Aug 2015
    https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072

             
  • @h4apartyof5 I watched Vanderpump Rules too. I'm hooked on that show. I have some characters I love, and some I love to hate. 

  • mjolk said:
    i got my implant removed and had my period a day or two later. I wasn't expecting things to normal that quickly. Waiting for O, which is one abbreviation I understand. :)
    Welcome to the WTO board! There's a lot of lingo to learn on the TTGP board, so I'll recommend you read the Ultimate TTGP Guide and the other pinned posts at the top of the forum. Lots of good info! Take some time to lurk around and learn how we operate here. Looking forward to getting to know you through the WTO/TWW daily threads :)
  • @BusinessWife sometimes I just want to dress like I'm in Grease. And that dress that you described sounds gorgeous! I always say, I'd rather be over-dressed than under-dressed!
  • funny story... I totally posted in the TWW this morning ... sigh.

    here's my post from 8am... obvi I needed more coffee this morning. it's now 3.30p and I still feel like I need more coffee lol.

    Month/Cycle: 11/11

    CD: 3

    WAYDTGKU: BBT, FF, PNV,+DHA BD ED/EOD

    R/R/CS: Gloomy Rainy Day here in Minnesota, perfect to match my AF mood- lol! I enjoyed a lovely glass of red last night so yay for that & for casual days @ the office, hello jeans & lululemon pullover 3 

    GTKY: Pineapple PIzza with Ranch- so f'n good! 

    ME: 31 | DH: 31

    Married: April 2015

    TTC (BBT & FF) #1: April 2015 (Off BC: January 2015)

    Fur Baby: 1 English Mastiff (Rupert) 

  • funny story... I totally posted in the TWW this morning ... sigh.

    here's my post from 8am... obvi I needed more coffee this morning. it's now 3.30p and I still feel like I need more coffee lol.

    [cut]

    GTKY: Pineapple PIzza with Ranch- so f'n good! 

    I don't think pineapple pizza will ever go out of style ;)
  • Guys I think I just had my first positive OPK! Can I share my pee stick or is that not allowed here? It was no line at all this morning! I'm so excited!

    Me: 27 years old            DH: 27 years old
    Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
    Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
    Married in July 2014
    TTC #1 since late Feb 2016
    BFP #1 3/29/16     MMC: 5/5/16
    BFP #2 7/6/16    SCH, D&C 8/4/16
    BFP #3 12/26/16     EDD: 9/6/17
    My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
    My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast: 
    Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
    A1Cs:
    1/12/16 6.7%
    5/25/16 6.0%
    11/2/16 6.1%
    3/22/16 5.8%
    4/27/17 5.4%
    6/13/17 5.3%
               
    "Sugar Fancy Tutu"
  • Guys I think I just had my first positive OPK! Can I share my pee stick or is that not allowed here? It was no line at all this morning! I'm so excited!
    No pee sticks, please. But yay!!! Time to HIO!
  • Guys I think I just had my first positive OPK! Can I share my pee stick or is that not allowed here? It was no line at all this morning! I'm so excited!
    We don't do pee sticks, but if the test line is darker than the control, it's positive. When in doubt, HIO!



    DS: June 2008
    Married: July 2015
    BFP: 5/20/16  |  EDD: 1/28/17  |  Twin boys born 1/16/17
  • @Sugargirl1019 I just have H look at it, and I ask him which line is darker (since he doesn't know WTF he's looking at), it's a good objective eye!
  • @Sugargirl1019 I just have H look at it, and I ask him which line is darker (since he doesn't know WTF he's looking at), it's a good objective eye!
    That's such a great idea, thank you! So I did send it, and he thinks the left is slightly lighter. I guess I'm just trying to see a positive. C'mon bedtime POAS! I'm in BSC mode :) 

    Thanks guys. I'll try to tone it down now.

    Yay @houseofsetters !!! I'd stay here too to confirm with the chart, make your doctor extra bristly. Bristle-y.. Whatev.

    Me: 27 years old            DH: 27 years old
    Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
    Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
    Married in July 2014
    TTC #1 since late Feb 2016
    BFP #1 3/29/16     MMC: 5/5/16
    BFP #2 7/6/16    SCH, D&C 8/4/16
    BFP #3 12/26/16     EDD: 9/6/17
    My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
    My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast: 
    Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
    A1Cs:
    1/12/16 6.7%
    5/25/16 6.0%
    11/2/16 6.1%
    3/22/16 5.8%
    4/27/17 5.4%
    6/13/17 5.3%
               
    "Sugar Fancy Tutu"
  • Month/Cycle: 8/6

    CD:1

    WAYDTGKU: nothing right now

    R/R/CS:
    last cycle was 52 days so that sucked so not as sad to see CD1 cuz it's like FINALLY! But everyone is sick. DH took DS to the dr today and he has a sinus infection and pink eye. I hope he is game to go to bed early tonight. 

    GTKY: Is there anything you wished would come back into fashion?  Flared jeans, IOU sweatshirts, the thermal shirts that would change colors with the temperature. 
    Me: 33 DH: 31
    DS: 5 years old
    TTC #2 since August 2015
    July 2016: Testing cycle with 100 mg Clomid = BFN
    August 2016: 50 mg Clomid + IUI = BFN
    October 2016: IVF#1 - 13 retrieved / 12 mature /  9 fertilized / 2 blasts
    November 2016: FET#1 = chemical
    January 2017: FET#2 = chemical
    March 2017: IVF#2 - 18 retrieved / 18 mature / 16 fertilized / 5 blasts
    April 24, 2017: FET#3 - BFN
    May 24, 2017: FET#4 - BFP! - Beta #1 151 - Beta #2 503 - Due date 2/9/18
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD: 
    18

    WAYDTGKU: 
    HIO ED currently, Temping and charting, CM, CP, OPK, PNV with DHA.

    R/R/CS: 
    Tuesday's are the worst. It's actually my easiest day at work in terms of classes I teach, but then I tutor for three straight hours after work, and by the time I'm done I'm so exhausted. Hence the super late post today and lack of energy to reply or chat as much as I'd like. In other better news I really think O is going to be today or tomorrow. Time will tell! But our timing will hopefully be fantastic. We hit everyday in FW so far if my prediction is right. Yay!

    GTKY: 
    Is there anything you wished would come back into fashion?
    Honestly, not really!
    **Formerly @aliciabhen**
    Me: 26 DH: 24
    Married: November 2015  <3
    TTC#1: January 2016
    BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
    Computer Hope
  • @sldp123 I'm sorry for what you are going through with H.  It sounds so frustrating :-(

    @babymish You could always rock Heelys!


    @felix08 Good luck at your appointment!

    @MollyandD I'm really sorry about your grandm and your tactless co-workers.  I can't imagine how much you must be hurting right now. Sending creepy internet hugs and warm thoughts your way.
  • @lcsrva Haha I did a lot of googling too!! Glad I'm not alone. I google every little thing.

    Me: 28  DH: 28
    TTC #1 since Nov. 2015
    Dx: Both tubes blocked, PCOS, DOR, RPL
    IVF Cycle #1 Dec. 2016 - 11R·11M·5F - Transferred 2 - BFP - Miscarriage - 0 Embryos Left
    IVF Cycle #2 March 2017 - 5R·4M·3F - Transferred 1 -  BFP - Miscarriage - 0 Embryos Left
    Instagram: KateDoesIVF

  • @lcsrva Haha I did a lot of googling too!! Glad I'm not alone. I google every little thing.
    Girl if I ever vanish under suspicious circumstances, I've already got a friend on deck to delete my Google search history.  Not because of anything salacious - just because I've wondered about some weird-ass things in the middle of the night.  The Google Rabbit Hole is real.

    ________________________________________________________


    Started TTC #1 November 2015
    BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017


    Pregnancy Ticker
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