My best friend asked me to join her down at the Ozarks for St. Patty's day fun, sun and warm weather. Turns out I was only invited to be her and her family's DD so I'm spending my day at bars, outside by myself because inside is way too smoky for me (you can't smoke in bars in Iowa), waiting for them to be ready to go to the next place. I don't mind being a DD but I was pretty hurt and irritated as it's become obvious that was the only reason I was invited, and that they're so drunk that because I'm not on their level I'm left to myself. Also, it's been rainy and cloudy all day...so I haven't been able to just enjoy some sun
ETA: thank you for reading my rant...I just needed to vent so I don't take out these emotions on them!
Thats supremely shitty..... I'm sorry There are certain people in mine and H's life that I really don't mind being DD for, but for someone to invite me to come along but not ASK if I was ok with being DD first would be really upsetting.
My best friend asked me to join her down at the Ozarks for St. Patty's day fun, sun and warm weather. Turns out I was only invited to be her and her family's DD so I'm spending my day at bars, outside by myself because inside is way too smoky for me (you can't smoke in bars in Iowa), waiting for them to be ready to go to the next place. I don't mind being a DD but I was pretty hurt and irritated as it's become obvious that was the only reason I was invited, and that they're so drunk that because I'm not on their level I'm left to myself. Also, it's been rainy and cloudy all day...so I haven't been able to just enjoy some sun
ETA: thank you for reading my rant...I just needed to vent so I don't take out these emotions on them!
I'd be so tempted to leave them. Cabs count as an acceptable alternative to DDs
@CourtJack damn you're right I forgot. Hold on lm going to go make a post about how she just wants to spite me and how I deserve a baby more and so on. I don't know how I was so blind!
@junebabyjoy that's super annoying and hurtful and I'm sorry. I second the people who said to just leave
@fishwife799 thank you! Also I'm obsessed with the shoes to the left with the flowers
@shannonrnbsn thank so much! I'm wicked excited for both things! I secretly want it to be a boy because I have two boys close in age and I think 3 would be so fun but then again we have no girls yet and I want to buy all the girl clothes I see
Thank you @sdLindenberg, @sdnybrk, and @alysemciver! I got them rounded up and were at least back at the lake house. I know I've been that drunk person depending on the sober one before but I was just over it!!
I feel badly if my post on the wives tales thread was misinterpreted. My gif was purely because I knew it was going to get some flame because of the original question. By this point in our pregnancies, with multiple u/s "confirming" it's one sex, it shouldn't be a question at all.
My ONLY "feeling" with this kid, and I'll probably be very wrong since I'm a FTM, is that she's coming early. I've been feeling this for almost 3 weeks, and I just get this feeling she really wants to be a May baby, but she doesn't understand how freaking cool you guys are, so I'm keeping the trap door shut lol
I feel like my child is in my pelvic bone right now pushing it apart with his little hands. meanwhile kicking my ribs. And my stomach feel like it could pop because the skin is so tight.
ahhhhhh
oh yea. And I want to punch something because my husband is annoying me tonight.
I bought the cutest baby converse today. I love them.
My son wears converse all the time. I got him some at good will for $1.99 and they are seriosuly the best shoes for him. I got a pair the next size up at a local store on clearance for $12 that he is in now. I'm hoping I can find another pair in the next size cheap like the others I have.
My ONLY "feeling" with this kid, and I'll probably be very wrong since I'm a FTM, is that she's coming early. I've been feeling this for almost 3 weeks, and I just get this feeling she really wants to be a May baby, but she doesn't understand how freaking cool you guys are, so I'm keeping the trap door shut lol
**damn box**
I knew that my daughter would be late. I was due the 19th of July and thought I may even go into August. So when I woke up on the 20th and my water had broke I just couldn't believe it. I told my H "I'm a ftm I have like 9 days before she's suppose to be here" apparently my instinct is terrible lol.
I bought the cutest baby converse today. I love them.
My son wears converse all the time. I got him some at good will for $1.99 and they are seriosuly the best shoes for him. I got a pair the next size up at a local store on clearance for $12 that he is in now. I'm hoping I can find another pair in the next size cheap like the others I have.
I wear them all the time!! lol. Actually the groomsmen, my ring bearer and my H had the same turquoise ones, and after the ceremony, I changed out of my completely rhinestoned-by-hand flats (I'm ridiculous.... It's a skater problem) into kind of sparkly silver converse for the reception. It was awesome. And now baby girl has both a blue and a silver pair
Just has the most delicious ice cream at sweet frog. Then got the worst heart burn nothing some tums and Zantac can't fix.
today there was a huge consignment sale by me. I got so much stuff for LO. Wooden cars, saftey vests for swimming, musical instruments and my biggest a score a book shelf.
We we also picked up our crib. Our close friend never used it for his daughter when he had visits since they shared visitation. We just need to register for a mattress and get some matching furniture.
My sister suggested a serta. I've asked some of the moms I coach with and they all said serta or a Seely. We ended up with the serta perfect mornings, which actually doubles as a toddler mattress too! But I think most mattresses do these days.
Re: Weekly Randoms go here...
Also, happy birthday @alysemciver! I'm jelly of your massage. Enjoy every second.
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@junebabyjoy that's super annoying and hurtful and I'm sorry. I second the people who said to just leave
@fishwife799 thank you! Also I'm obsessed with the shoes to the left with the flowers
@shannonrnbsn thank so much! I'm wicked excited for both things! I secretly want it to be a boy because I have two boys close in age and I think 3 would be so fun but then again we have no girls yet and I want to buy all the girl clothes I see
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My ONLY "feeling" with this kid, and I'll probably be very wrong since I'm a FTM, is that she's coming early. I've been feeling this for almost 3 weeks, and I just get this feeling she really wants to be a May baby, but she doesn't understand how freaking cool you guys are, so I'm keeping the trap door shut lol
ahhhhhh
oh yea. And I want to punch something because my husband is annoying me tonight.
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today there was a huge consignment sale by me. I got so much stuff for LO. Wooden cars, saftey vests for swimming, musical instruments and my biggest a score a book shelf.
We we also picked up our crib. Our close friend never used it for his daughter when he had visits since they shared visitation. We just need to register for a mattress and get some matching furniture.
Any suggestions on mattress?
also- I'm very irritated that I ate over an hour ago and still feel way too full. Go away food, I need ice cream space!
I can't believe we all missed the QFP opportunity. I'm disappointed in us!
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I love a good consignment sale!
Triplets due 6/29/16 also from an IUI!