TMI WARNING (to all of this probably, and this whole thread in general haha)
Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Almost every time, but only because I take myself in hand, so to speak. When DH and I first got together I never orgasmed because we were both really bad at sex (teenagers lol).
Have you ever kissed a girl? Yes, I'm actually bisexual closer to the lesbian side of the spectrum. I was completely surprised by how attracted I was (and am) to DH.
Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes, but I've never liked it when it's with a partner. I think I like the stimulation of the nerves but not the stretching from the penetration.
Previously PaukMeKiande
Surprise BFP/MC February 2011 BFP May 16th 2016
EDD January 25 2017 DD born January 30 2017 Surprise BFP/MC April 2017
Have you ever kissed a girl? Yes, I'm actually bisexual closer to the lesbian side of the spectrum. I was completely surprised by how attracted I was (and am) to DH.
Samesies! My husband has said more than once to me, "Are you sure we can get pregnant? You are a lesbian you know."
I'll play now that I'm on my personal computer. Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? ~90%, but only if I have some extra, I can't just from penetration.
Have you ever kissed a girl? No. Not really interested in it either.
Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes. While it wasn't horrible, it wasn't great. H doesn't like that, but every once in a while he wants to use a toy there while in doggy. That really good.
Formerly known as Kate08young August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Me: 28 H: 24 Married: 7/22/14 Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017. Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
Ooh, I love these! Sorry I've been away so long. We're moving and everything is in upheaval.
Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? No, I find that it's too distracting for me. I like to just concentrate on the sex and bonding time. I orgasm in my free time, or sometimes we'll just concentrate on me.
Have you ever kissed a girl? Yes, a lot of them. Sex with women was a fun part of my past.
Have you ever tried anal sex? Yep, I love it! We don't do it often enough, IMO. But it's hard with a kiddo always around. Since we've been ttc, we've only done it the traditional way.
1. Do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Yes yes yes! I love my WeVibe - seriously, @dogmomwantinghuman you should get one of these!! But DH also makes sure I finish every time if I don't finish first.
2. Have you ever kissed a girl? yeaa it was dumb.
3. Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes, but it's been a really really long time... And I'm drinking wine, so I know what I'm going to do tonight!
Me: 27 years old DH: 27 years old Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
Married in July 2014
TTC #1 since late Feb 2016
BFP #1 3/29/16 MMC: 5/5/16 BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16 BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17 My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast: Juicebox Podcast Episode 118 A1Cs: 1/12/16 6.7% 5/25/16 6.0% 11/2/16 6.1% 3/22/16 5.8% 4/27/17 5.4% 6/13/17 5.3% "Sugar Fancy Tutu"
1. I've never orgasmed during traditional intercourse, but DH has other talents
2. I've been the guest in a few "threesomes," but they never get beyond naked kissing and touching and I usually run away giggling. More recently, at a festival, a woman was blowing smoke (pot) into my mouth and I kissed her. When someone's lips are that close, my natural reaction is to kiss! DH was not pleased.
3. Yes, I was wasted and I hated it so much.
Me - 33 DH - 30 Married May 2015 TTC #1 since January 2016 BFP 03/14/16 EDD 11/22/16
1. Yep. Always. And now that we're TTC, I'm all about those tandem finishes. Wanna give all the swimmers their best chance to make it to the end zone.
2. Yes. A bunch.
3. One time with DH. We were both drunk and decided it was a good idea. I wasn't a fan. And DH is weirded out by it when sober. So we've never done it since.
Well this thread makes me feel super boring! 1 never.... I've woken up with an orgasm a few times, but never in my waking hours. It bothers Dh a bit that I've never orgasmed , but I'm not a very sexual person at all, and I'm actually ok with that...which is why I've never told him I've orgasmed in my sleep, because then he'll want to try when we're awake and I just don't want to. I'm just happy Dh and I can have sex without it hurting now.... Took more than a year into our marriage to make that work. Having said all that, I do actually enjoy baby making sex, so that's a benefit... Maybe it's just condoms that I hated before. 2 nope 3 nope
ETA: my phone autocorrected a word that I had to undo
TTGP history (*TW*):
Started TTC Oct 2015 BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016 Re-started TTC Aug 2016 Started IF testing Nov 2016 Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017 BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Very rarely from sex itself, usually other methods are required.
Have you ever kissed a girl? Actually no.
Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes, don't mind it but I have to be in the mood for it and never straight off the bat, I have to really be in the mood for it not to hurt like a bitch.
Me - 22 | DH - 32 | Married - 24 May 2014 DS - January 2014
TTC#2 - December 2015
BFP - 6 March 2016 | MC Confirmed - 21 March 2016 TTCAL | April 2016 CP | June 2016 CP | July 2016
1. It is very difficult for me to orgasm during sex, but DH always tries his best! It's always nice when he succeeds. But like a few of the PP said, it has happened much since we've started TTC.
2. "I kissed a girl and I liked it"....so yes. LOL
3. Yes and it is usually much easier when I have been drinking. I sold Pure Romance for a while and learned many ways to make it easier and far more enjoyable. Having said that, we still don't do it very often! LOL
1. Most of the time. It's a good thing I can usually orgasm with penetration, since DH has never really been into oral (woe is me...). 2. Yes, in my younger days. 3. Again, in my younger days. I'm not completely against it, but I don't see it happening anymore. Also, I've seen pornstar butthole after anal, and NO thanks.
@kay6519 that is tragic!! Have you tried any treatment for it? @atcwag "uh, I need your sperm in my vag" LOL! Yea, pretty much.
"Expectation is the mother of all frustration" -Antonio Banderas
Re: "After Dark"
Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex?
Almost every time, but only because I take myself in hand, so to speak. When DH and I first got together I never orgasmed because we were both really bad at sex (teenagers lol).
Have you ever kissed a girl?
Yes, I'm actually bisexual closer to the lesbian side of the spectrum. I was completely surprised by how attracted I was (and am) to DH.
Have you ever tried anal sex?
Yes, but I've never liked it when it's with a partner. I think I like the stimulation of the nerves but not the stretching from the penetration.
BFP May 16th 2016
DD born January 30 2017
Surprise BFP/MC April 2017
Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex?
If there are toys involved then yes. If not, then it's really hard for me to orgasm from sex
Have you ever kissed a girl? Yes, many times
Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes - we both enjoy it but there's a lot less of that going on now that we are actively ttc.
DX Diminished Ovarian Reserve, Factor V Leiden Mutation, Secondary Infertility
MFI (SA #1Count 11mill, Motility: 18%, Morphology: 1%)
AMH .328 | FSH 13.2
Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? ~90%, but only if I have some extra, I can't just from penetration.
Have you ever kissed a girl? No. Not really interested in it either.
Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes. While it wasn't horrible, it wasn't great. H doesn't like that, but every once in a while he wants to use a toy there while in doggy. That really good.
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
Sorry I've been away so long. We're moving and everything is in upheaval.
Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? No, I find that it's too distracting for me. I like to just concentrate on the sex and bonding time. I orgasm in my free time, or sometimes we'll just concentrate on me.
Have you ever kissed a girl? Yes, a lot of them. Sex with women was a fun part of my past.
Have you ever tried anal sex? Yep, I love it! We don't do it often enough, IMO. But it's hard with a kiddo always around. Since we've been ttc, we've only done it the traditional way.
Have you ever kissed a girl? No, I'd like to though. Just to see. ..
Have you ever tried anal sex? No way. Never.
~Formerly @dogmomwantinghuman ~
TTC #1 since January 2015
BFP #1: 11/30/15| MC 12/16/15BFP # 2: 6/2/16 | EDD 2/16/17
2. Have you ever kissed a girl? yeaa it was dumb.
3. Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes, but it's been a really really long time... And I'm drinking wine, so I know what I'm going to do tonight!
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
~Formerly @dogmomwantinghuman ~
TTC #1 since January 2015
BFP #1: 11/30/15| MC 12/16/15BFP # 2: 6/2/16 | EDD 2/16/17
Type 1 Diabetes since 2001, MTHFR hetero A1298T
Dogs: Raider 4 yrs, Dex 4 yrs
BFP #2 7/6/16 SCH, D&C 8/4/16
BFP #3 12/26/16 EDD: 9/6/17
My Chart / My Diabetes/Pregnancy Blog
My Type 1/TTC/Pregnancy Podcast:
Juicebox Podcast Episode 118
A1Cs:
1/12/16 6.7%
5/25/16 6.0%
11/2/16 6.1%
3/22/16 5.8%
4/27/17 5.4%
6/13/17 5.3%
"Sugar Fancy Tutu"
2. I've been the guest in a few "threesomes," but they never get beyond naked kissing and touching and I usually run away giggling. More recently, at a festival, a woman was blowing smoke (pot) into my mouth and I kissed her. When someone's lips are that close, my natural reaction is to kiss! DH was not pleased.
3. Yes, I was wasted and I hated it so much.
Me - 33 DH - 30
Married May 2015
TTC #1 since January 2016
BFP 03/14/16
EDD 11/22/16
2. Yes. A bunch.
3. One time with DH. We were both drunk and decided it was a good idea. I wasn't a fan. And DH is weirded out by it when sober. So we've never done it since.
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
Have you ever kissed a girl? Yes
Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes, didnt care for it. Its so so. I feel like im pooping backwards.
HSG - All clear, ectopic kidney didn't affect uterus (yay!)
CT Adrenal Scan - no tumors!
SA - sperm count excellent, 2% Morphology
March/April IUI scheduled - surprise BFP w/ help of Progesterone - 3/18/2016
Beta #1 @ 11dpo - 45.7 #2 @ 14dpo - 163 #3 @ 18dpo - 997 #4 @ 21dpo - 3799
EDD 12/1 based on O, 11/28 per Ob/Gyn (but he's wrong lol).
*TEAM BLUE!*
1 never.... I've woken up with an orgasm a few times, but never in my waking hours. It bothers Dh a bit that I've never orgasmed , but I'm not a very sexual person at all, and I'm actually ok with that...which is why I've never told him I've orgasmed in my sleep, because then he'll want to try when we're awake and I just don't want to. I'm just happy Dh and I can have sex without it hurting now.... Took more than a year into our marriage to make that work. Having said all that, I do actually enjoy baby making sex, so that's a benefit... Maybe it's just condoms that I hated before.
2 nope
3 nope
ETA: my phone autocorrected a word that I had to undo
BFP #1 June 2016: EDD 16 March 2017, MC July 2016
Re-started TTC Aug 2016
Started IF testing Nov 2016
Spontaneous BFP #2 January 2017: Rainbow Baby Boy September 2017
BFP #3 November 2018: Baby #2 expected August 2019
Very rarely from sex itself, usually other methods are required.
Have you ever kissed a girl? Actually no.
Have you ever tried anal sex?
Yes, don't mind it but I have to be in the mood for it and never straight off the bat, I have to really be in the mood for it not to hurt like a bitch.
DS - January 2014
TTCAL | April 2016
CP | June 2016
CP | July 2016
2. "I kissed a girl and I liked it"....so yes. LOL
3. Yes and it is usually much easier when I have been drinking. I sold Pure Romance for a while and learned many ways to make it easier and far more enjoyable. Having said that, we still don't do it very often! LOL
-yep, pretty much in some way or another
Have you ever kissed a girl?
-nope
Have you ever tried anal sex?
-never and don't really have a desire to either
2. Yes, in my younger days.
3. Again, in my younger days. I'm not completely against it, but I don't see it happening anymore. Also, I've seen pornstar butthole after anal, and NO thanks.
@kay6519 that is tragic!! Have you tried any treatment for it?
@atcwag "uh, I need your sperm in my vag" LOL! Yea, pretty much.
"Expectation is the mother of all frustration" -Antonio Banderas