"After Dark"

Megzb510

haven't started one of these in a while...feel free to answer any of the below and add your own questions. 

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? 

Have you ever kissed a girl?

Have you ever tried anal sex? 

CajunSnowWhite89

I was just thinking about how we hadn't had one of these in a while!!

1. I usually do orgasm every time. If I feel like it might not happen or will take a little longer then we'll use a vibrator.

2. I've never done anything with a girl.

3. We enjoy anal sex but don't do it all the time. Maybe once every 3-4 months. 

MamaMunn

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Mostly,  unless its strictly a quicky for baby making. In those times I just want to get it done and dont really care too much about the extra effort it takes to orgasim. Horrible I know. 

Have you ever kissed a girl? Nope

Have you ever tried anal sex? No way.  Not for me. 

MamaCoffin

1: DH usually gives me one some other way before penetration occurs. So yes.... But not always from actual "sex".

2: Yes. Many of them. I've kissed 3 times as many women as I have men. 

3. Yes. Once. Hated it. Never again. 

Kay6519

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex?  

No. It's generally something I work to avoid. Orgasm is always accompanied by the most painful migraines I have ever experienced. It feels like someone is drilling through the base of my skull and lasts for hours before subsiding to a dull pressure / ache. It sucks. 

Have you ever kissed a girl? 

Never have done anything with a girl. DH is the only person I have ever done anything with.

 Have you ever tried anal sex?

Yes, hated it. Never again.

MonaLisaRalphio

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Yup!

Have you ever kissed a girl? Yup!

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yup!

Neikoda

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Usually unless like PP said, its a quicky because we have to get it done. But it never happens during sex, it has to happen during foreplay.

Have you ever kissed a girl? Yup, a handful of times. 


Have you ever tried anal sex? Nope. And DH and I have discussed and strictly decided against it. 

mrsstuessy

Hooray! After dark! Good idea @Megzb510

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? usually. DH would never quit until I did. He is very adamant that I enjoy sex as much as he does. The thing is, I can have a pretty enjoyable sex romp without actually orgasming. So I would say about 1 in 8 or 9 times I pretend to orgasm and I really don't. 

Have you ever kissed a girl? When I was between 10-12 years old I kissed my best friend a few times. We had never kissed boys and we wanted to practice. It was silly and totally embarrassing for us to think about now, so we have silently vowed to never bring it up again. But, as an adult, nope. No desire. 

Have you ever tried anal sex? Once. Actually it was just a few months ago. DH and I had agreed that neither of us really wanted to. I didn't 100% believe him, but never planned on trying it. Well, I got drunk sometime in January and one thing led to another. I could tell he was sort of trying, and I figured I would let him just once to get it out of his system. Also... super drunk. When it was actually happening, meh. Again... super drunk though. Afterwards it hurt REALLY bad. Seriously for like 2 days I was in so much pain. So, never, ever happening again. DH claimed he didn't really care for it that much. I again, don't 100% believe him. But, we are definitely not going there again. 

linzrunz

after dark...I love this!

Do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Meh. Sometimes it's nice to have a hit it and quit it session.

Have you ever kissed a girl?  Yes.

Have you ever tried anal sex?  Yes.  It usually has to involve alcohol though...

RatsPJ

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Usually, but like @mrsstuessy I enjoy it regardless. @Kay6519 Yikes. That's a rough thing to have to find out.

Have you ever kissed a girl? Nope, never really had the desire or curiosity

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes, a few times with a previous SO, and while I didn't hate it, I did NOT enjoy the aftermath. My DH is adamantly against it, so that's good.

@lcsrva Your responses made me giggle

mtvkv5

@Kay6519 that sounds awful! Lots of things trigger migraines for me, luckily that's not one of them.

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Sometimes. DH will work hard and make sure it happens if I want to, but sometimes I don't feel like it.

Have you ever kissed a girl? Once, freshman year in college.

Have you ever tried anal sex? A few times. Don't particularly enjoy it though.

mrsdaddario

This is a good distraction! 

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? 
Usually I/we make an effort to have one  during sex, but a lot of the time DH does it for me afterwards. 

Have you ever kissed a girl?
Once, and it involved alcohol. 

Have you ever tried anal sex? 
Yes. (TMI DH is a butt man)  I haven't gotten to a point where it's that enjoyable for me. So its sporadic. But I don't hate it. 

hupp0013

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? 
Yes.  
Have you ever kissed a girl? Nope.  

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes.  I used to enjoy it.  I don't anymore.  DH doesn't care for it, so we don't ever do it.

izza2

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Half and half. A lot of our sex the past couple of months has been quickies or half-asleep kinda quickies. And we haven't had sex that often, so he doesn't last that super long.

Have you ever kissed a girl? When I was a kid, I did. I totally had the hots for a girl in my class and my friend dared me to kiss her. 

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yup. It's a love-hate relationship. Mostly love.

cjt121413

1. Do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? I usually do, but sometimes I'm just there for the baby-making. I still enjoy it. 

2. Have you ever kissed a girl? yes, but it was a high school dare. 

3. Have you ever tried analysis sex? in 2 previous relationships, but not with DH. We joke around about it. He'll said, "can we?" And I'll say, "on vacation." I don't enjoy it, and he's not into it. 

picklesplease

I'm going to try this out today. 

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? I do, but it's usually because DH likes to take care of me first. I never orgasm from penetration. 

Have you ever kissed a girl? I was in theatre. Of course I've kissed a girl...or several...

Have you ever tried anal sex? Only once and I really hated it. Never again. Thankfully, DH has no desire to try it, so he never asks.

loveinak

1. Do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? No. Less than a handful in the 13 years we've been together. We try lots of different things to make it happen; however, I can't get out of my head and I end up taking care of it on my own afterward. 

2. Have you ever kissed a girl? A few times

3. Have you ever tried anal sex? At least twice a year I think it might be worth trying, then we get started and it turns in to a big nope for me almost immediately. 

whiska

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex?  Pre-ttc, it was like 70% of the time; I really just enjoy the foreplay and act more.  Since ttc I don't really care. Just put it in and leave your seed, please.  


Have you ever kissed a girl?  Practiced kissing with a friend once when we were 12.

Have you ever tried anal sex?  Yes, twice when we were in college and still abstaining from PnV. I guess I'm glad I tried it but I wasn't a fan. Thankfully DH doesn't care.

zrain

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Not usually. I have PTSD and can't quite relax enough for that to happen yet. Maybe someday? If I do it myself during or after I can, but I enjoy sex without needing to orgasm.

Have you ever kissed a girl? I've made out with several. They generally seem to be better kissers, not so much jamming tongues down my throat like guys often do

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes, and I don't care for it.

@Kay6519 That's awful that orgasms give you such a terrible migraine!

SandwichLover

Fun!

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? 
Not every time but about 75% yes. Not always during penetration. 

Have you ever kissed a girl?
Yup  

Have you ever tried anal sex? 
Not really. H wants to. We briefly tried for a second once but I couldn't go through with it. Even a little bit hurt and I freaked!

Megzb510

QBF. 

@Kay6519 - I've had that migraine effect from orgasm....it doesn't happen often but it's awful. 

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Normal, non-TTC sex I usually do cuz of my trusty Hitachi Magic Wand. DH works afternoons, so if the FW ends up in the middle of the week I wake up at 2 am to have sex and at that hour, I'm like just ....finish quickly plz. 

Have you ever kissed a girl? I'm sure I have while drunk in college. 

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes. DH and I tried it once and it was a massive failure. I've had it a few times with previous partners and it was ok. 

Winnie81_Old

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? I would say 3/4 times. I get cramps after an orgasm so sometimes I don't feel like making it happen.

Have you ever kissed a girl? No, but I have had several girlfriends throughout my life ask me if I'd have a threesome with them and their bf/husband. I never have, but I've always wondered what sort of threesome vibe I'm giving off. Makes for fun conversation later.  

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes with DH a few times. It always feels like I have to take a huge dump. I'm pretty sure I'm doing it wrong.

Winnie81_Old

@Kay6519 that really sucks that you can't enjoy orgasms. I'm sorry  

zrain

Winnie81 said:

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes with DH a few times. It always feels like I have to take a huge dump. I'm pretty sure I'm doing it wrong.

I dunno, I assumed that's just how it's supposed to feel and is part of why I don't like it (besides having to concentrate really hard to relax so it's less painful). Is there any other way to do it than to just...do it?

meilay

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? 
Yup. DH really enjoys it and he's the first person outside of myself to be able to provide that pleasure for me.

Have you ever kissed a girl?
Yes.

Have you ever tried anal sex? 
Yes but the only time it was successful I was very intoxicated. Would want to try again though. 

[Deleted User]

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? 
Now I do!!  I used to NEVER orgasm because the dudes I was with had large dicks and it just fucking hurt (thought something was wrong with me because all I ever heard was that big dicks were good).  Husband is slightly below average and now I orgasm every single damn time.  Yesssss.

Have you ever kissed a girl?
Yep.  Many.  And more.  

Have you ever tried anal sex? 
Bleh yes.  Extreme dislike.  It was painful, gross, and there was no pleasure.  I gave it an honest try, but then never tried again.  You know what's right next to my asshole?  My vagina.  It doesn't hurt and gives me orgasms.  So I use that.  Also no poop.

mrsstuessy

Winnie81 said:

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes with DH a few times. It always feels like I have to take a huge dump. I'm pretty sure I'm doing it wrong.

TMI Warning
So, the morning after we did it, I pooped in my pants just a tiny bit. It was like I couldn't hold it in. I was running to the bathroom as some come out. And it hurt. Yep, I said... nope, nope nope, NEVER doing that again. 

sarah0985

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Typically yes. 

Have you ever kissed a girl? Yes. Many times. 

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes. I enjoy it but don't do it often. My ex enjoyed it more than my H so that's where it started. 
I'd say we do it once a year. 
For or those saying they try every so often but can't get it right...try being on top. If the man is in control it can definitely hurt too much because it's so much more sensitive. And go slow.  Also, it helps to have a few drinks. Not enough to make you sloppy but a good buzz goes a long way with anal. 

@Kay6519 I've never heard of that. I'm so sorry. 

QueenSunscreen

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex?  Evening or weekend sex, almost every time via penetration. Morning sex is about 50/50 - I get annoyed because we're in a rush and showers and adulting, so I handle matters myself once DH is in the shower.  Njoy Pure Wand - perfect when you need a quick pick-me-up!  

Have you ever kissed a girl?  yep. 

Have you ever tried anal sex?   nope. Big nope. Nothing about it seems pleasurable for me. There would have to be a LOT of sweet talking and reassurance and DH isn't very good with propaganda. He claims he's not very interested in anal, so meh. 

Kay6519

antoto said:

Have you ever tried anal sex? 
Bleh yes.  Extreme dislike.  It was painful, gross, and there was no pleasure.  I gave it an honest try, but then never tried again.  You know what's right next to my asshole?  My vagina.  It doesn't hurt and gives me orgasms.  So I use that.  Also no poop.

I could not agree more! Seriously though, who wants to clean up shit covered dick? Bleh! And, plus, also if that is not the last item on the sex agenda, a bathroom to wash it off before moving on to anything else is necessary. That's just too much work and puts a huge damper on the mood.

atcwag

1. No. I've actually never orgasmed from sex. Bummer dude. 

2. Yes. College. 

3. Yes. I can get into it from time to time. DH is all for it and I'm like...uh, I need your sperm in my vag. 

canavara

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? 

I've never orgasmed from sex--I'm assuming because I used to have vaginismus (whole downstairs area went into lockdown mode anytime anyone went near it) and it took me some time, years ago, to overcome that. I enjoy sex though, just don't orgasm. I don't really mind, because I have no problem orgasming through masturbation.

Have you ever kissed a girl?
A few times, only once that I remember as an adult though?

Have you ever tried anal sex? 
Nope.

Lecool

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Pretty much. Unless it's a pre-work BD. I'm with @Megzb510, my Hitachi Magic Wand is magical. 

Have you ever kissed a girl? Yes. In High School. 

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes, and it didn't go well, and I didn't give it a fair shot. But I'm open to it, and I think we'll give it another go. 

antoto said:

You know what's right next to my asshole?  My vagina.

This made me laugh out loud! 

Sirius37

I was just thinking I hadn"t seen one of these in awhile!

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex?
Yes! Thank God, I thought I was broke or something cause it rarely ever happened with my two exes.

Have you ever kissed a girl?
Nope

Have you ever tried anal sex? 
Once. Never again. Ever. It took weeks for the pain to stop.

MrsDramaK

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? It's 50/50 for me, depends if my head is in the game or not.

Have you ever kissed a girl? Sure, that's why God invented Tequila and college right?

Have you ever tried anal sex? Um yes, and (TMI Warning) I couldn't Poo right for months after cause the guy was just...well...huge.  DH, thankfully, thinks it's gross as a concept and won't do it cause he refuses to acknowledge I even have a butthole.

Winnie81_Old

mrsstuessy said:

Winnie81 said:

Have you ever tried anal sex? Yes with DH a few times. It always feels like I have to take a huge dump. I'm pretty sure I'm doing it wrong.

TMI Warning
So, the morning after we did it, I pooped in my pants just a tiny bit. It was like I couldn't hold it in. I was running to the bathroom as some come out. And it hurt. Yep, I said... nope, nope nope, NEVER doing that again. 

I don't blame you! No one likes to lose control of bowel movements!  

sammajane19

I love these after dark posts!

1. Do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Usually! But I don't feel the need to every time, either. I can enjoy sex without having an orgasm. I can't orgasm from penetration alone, though. That's only ever happened once. I need to help myself out.

2. Have you ever kissed a girl? Yep! 

3. Have you ever tried anal sex?  No. Absolutely NOT interested. DH isn't either. 

juliebeannn

1. Do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? Usually -- but, I don't have to to enjoy it.  

2. Have you ever kissed a girl?  Nope

3. Have you ever tried anal sex?  Yes.  When DH was my BF he wanted to experiment.  I cried.  We obviously never went there again.

ladystinson

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? with exH, never. With DH hehe, I'm a lucky lucky girl 

Have you ever kissed a girl? peck with former BFF in high school during truth or dare jenga lol

Have you ever tried anal sex? not my thing

TheJerilu

Do do you typically orgasm every time you have sex? 
I'd say I get there probably about 90% of the time, 5% being enjoyable but not quite there, and the other 5% being the super orgasms that probably should have a different name.

Have you ever kissed a girl?  Men and women and everything in between!

Have you ever tried anal sex?  We visit Djibouti a few times a year.

mrsdee15

1. Nope, not even sure I ever have.  I get way too into my own anxiety headspace if I feel like I have to and then I definitely can't.  Sometimes I'll finish myself afterwards, but honestly I enjoy sex without my own orgasm just because of the closeness with DH.  

2. Maybe while drunk in college? I can't remember any actual occurrences but I feel like that may have happened. 

3.  Tried once in college for about a second, no thanks.  Too painful.