I have been under a lot of stress at work but especially with my fiance. It seems for the past week or so all we do is fight. We try to have a normal conversation over text and it always turns into a huge fight where supposedly I am misunderstanding him. He tells me there's no emotion in a text and I beg to differ. Today I told him I had to run something over to a girlfriend's that I borrowed and he flipped in his text asking me who she was, why I haven't mentioned her, and why can't she come get it with. It was a snappy tone in my opinion. I asked him politely to quit snapping at me at work and he told me that he doesn't snap and he's done talking to me. Wtf? Do I have the problem of misreading texts because I'm pregnant and emotional or is he the one not realizing how he's coming across in a text?
Re: So Much Stress Lately
Good luck.
Did he flip because he thinks your cheating? If so, that's a bit red flag IMO, as is putting the idea into your head that you're only upset because you're pregnant. Familiarize yourself with the terms projecting and gaslighting.
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