I agreed with my DH that we won't tell anyone that we are pregnant until the end of the first trimester but I've already told my sister and have every intention of telling my parents after the first ultrasound. I just really don't want him to tell his mother because I don't want her calling or showing up all the time or dropping things off because she is an exhausting person who smells funny and I don't think first trimester symptoms and her will mix well.
My MIL is also extremely exhausting (read: completely nuts) and DH told her without asking/coming to me first about it. I was SO MAD. For a few days, she was blowing my phone up and we NEVER talk outside of family functions. It was like, all of a sudden, she thought we were BFFs. I put a stop to that really quickly. Then, last night, we went to our favorite Mexican place for dinner and the owner comes up to our table to congratulate me on my pregnancy. I gave DH the death look. He can't keep his mouth shut for anything.
I'm also a member of the horrible MILs club. My FFFC is that my MILs car broke down the other day. Since my father still pays for a AAA membership for me, my husband and his brother both immediately started blowing up my phone to call AAA and go to her. I went to pull my card out and realized I wasn't sent a new one for 2016. My membership is still good and the tow drivers rarely check the card anyway, but I told my husband the membership was expired and I couldn't do anything. Then I sat back down in front of the tv and let my brother in law handle it.
Didn't feel guilty. I've told my husband that I am no longer doing his mother favors or taking her phone calls. This woman owes me a significant amount of money and has never paid me a dime, but blows her money on cigarettes and weed. And two days before my wedding, the first time I met my sister in law, she implied that I was a whore and proceeded to talk about how awful it was that I stole my husband from his ex girlfriend. Which is not even true. I was so confused because my MIL actually really likes me and was always rooting for us to get together.
Oh and Christmas Day she called me fat. End of rant. Lol
My biggest fear is becoming an uninteresting person/mom. I'm scared that when this baby comes, I'll be lame. I won't be updated on news events and political stories--my brain will only be filled with breastfeeding facts and which stroller is top-rated and why. Prior to this pregnancy, I've always rolled my eyes at the friends who've gone from "wanting to change the world" to just wanting to talk about mom groups and their kids---and my fear is that I'll slowly become one of them.
I got two. One I just realized that it's actually 2 weeks until March break, not just 1 which is seriously upsetting lol. And 2 which makes me sound horrible, but I'm kinda excited to see what tax breaks I get with a baby (that is not the reason why I'm having a baby, but for the next few years I might not have to pay in $1300 every year).
My biggest fear is becoming an uninteresting person/mom. I'm scared that when this baby comes, I'll be lame. I won't be updated on news events and political stories--my brain will only be filled with breastfeeding facts and which stroller is top-rated and why. Prior to this pregnancy, I've always rolled my eyes at the friends who've gone from "wanting to change the world" to just wanting to talk about mom groups and their kids---and my fear is that I'll slowly become one of them.
@annabenanna I had a similar fear when I was pregnant with DD but it didn't happen. I got used to the routine of having a child and CNN is still constantly on in our house. So much so that DH and I joked that her first birthday theme should be News Desk or News Cast because she watched more news than anything else. You'll find your new or your same identity. It comes with time.
Let me just say that all you wonderful ladies MADE MY DAY! I am so sick and am sitting on the couch trying to stay awake so my DD doesn't turn into Godzilla and make a bigger mess than she already has. I desperately want some chicken noodle soup, but I'm Catholic and it is a Friday in Lent so.....pizza is cooking in the oven for us for lunch. This post made me laugh so hard that now I'm uncontrollably in a coughing fit and it was all worth it. Thanks so much for making this sick mama feel a little better! Luvs!
I can't read a book before I watch the movie version of that book. The movie version always sucks, in my opinion, because of the lack of detail. If I watch the movie first, I can read the book afterward and enjoy it, but not the other way around.
My biggest fear is becoming an uninteresting person/mom. I'm scared that when this baby comes, I'll be lame. I won't be updated on news events and political stories--my brain will only be filled with breastfeeding facts and which stroller is top-rated and why. Prior to this pregnancy, I've always rolled my eyes at the friends who've gone from "wanting to change the world" to just wanting to talk about mom groups and their kids---and my fear is that I'll slowly become one of them.
DH and I have specifically had a discussion about this. Our very good friends no longer get invited by some of our other friends to events and such because everyone just assumes they can't go. It totally hurts their feelings but I think it's probably because they used DS as an excuse for not doing this a lot in the beginning (probably because they truly felt they couldn't). Anyway, we have specific plans for not letting that happen
My FFFC- I just found out one of my new employees doesn't know the difference between there, their and they're. I secretly dislike him now and won't be disappointed if he doesn't make it in our highly competitive marketing field.
Due to many reasons, we are not buying a house after all and I am so so relieved and happy. The stress was destroying me. Plus I like our rental very much.
I agreed with my DH that we won't tell anyone that we are pregnant until the end of the first trimester but I've already told my sister and have every intention of telling my parents after the first ultrasound. I just really don't want him to tell his mother because I don't want her calling or showing up all the time or dropping things off because she is an exhausting person who smells funny and I don't think first trimester symptoms and her will mix well.
My MIL is also extremely exhausting (read: completely nuts) and DH told her without asking/coming to me first about it. I was SO MAD. For a few days, she was blowing my phone up and we NEVER talk outside of family functions. It was like, all of a sudden, she thought we were BFFs. I put a stop to that really quickly. Then, last night, we went to our favorite Mexican place for dinner and the owner comes up to our table to congratulate me on my pregnancy. I gave DH the death look. He can't keep his mouth shut for anything.
Gah!! That would infuriate me! Luckily my DH is being very tight lipped
because he in concerned about jinxing things but I know once we are out
of the woods he's probably going to start telling everyone including
strangers on the street. I'm just not looking forward to the MIL
showing up all then time when in the past 5 years we have maybe seen her
once a year.
@Michi1382 , thank you. It's an irrational fear. I guess I'll keep watching VICE when the baby comes.
@annabenanna Vice is awesome! Extremely informative, better than any news I've ever seen and it's so raw. I love it. Definitely keep watching it; your baby will be the most informed baby in town!
I guess my other FFFC is that I don't watch the news. When I was younger I had zero interest. Now I'm ashamed to admit that I'm very uneducated about how the world works (so listening to different presidential candidates means nothing to me, I honestly don't know who has a plan that would work, I only know who I agree with on social issues) and I don't have the time to educate myself at the moment. I hope someday I will have the time, but my life is too chaotic at the moment and the (very little) free time that I have I prefer to spend with my husband and son.
My biggest fear is becoming an uninteresting person/mom. I'm scared that when this baby comes, I'll be lame. I won't be updated on news events and political stories--my brain will only be filled with breastfeeding facts and which stroller is top-rated and why. Prior to this pregnancy, I've always rolled my eyes at the friends who've gone from "wanting to change the world" to just wanting to talk about mom groups and their kids---and my fear is that I'll slowly become one of them.
DH and I have specifically had a discussion about this. Our very good friends no longer get invited by some of our other friends to events and such because everyone just assumes they can't go. It totally hurts their feelings but I think it's probably because they used DS as an excuse for not doing this a lot in the beginning (probably because they truly felt they couldn't). Anyway, we have specific plans for not letting that happen.
I've been thinking a lot about how to respond to both of these posts, because at first read they definitely touched a nerve. Both posts came across as SUPER judgy but I know neither poster have experienced the other side of things yet.
It can absolutely be lame when it seems like friends, who used to be as independent and up for anything as you are, can only talk about kids or mom groups or can't join you for certain events. But the truth is that having a kid(s) does change everything, and for a while they're you're entire universe -- especially when they're young and needy and need you to do EVERYTHING for them. It can be suffocating, actually, and yes, mom groups can be a savior because it gets you out of the house and interacting with other adults. When that's all you do (and my DS is still young enough that he's basically totally consuming) it can be really hard to keep up with everything that's going on in the world (though lord knows I try!) as well as be in constant contact with friends and stay involved in their social lives.
I guess what I'm saying is, that your world is going to change. It's not a bad thing and you can certainly hang on to your identity and habits pre-baby, but try to cut your friends some slack. If they're talking about the latest stroller it's because theres 25 million options out there and they've probably been researching the right one to buy for weeks. And if they can't meet up for brunch or dinner because of their kid? Take it at face value. My son hasn't slept more than 3 hours at a time for 5 weeks and we're exhausted. Unfortunately we have to pick what's feasible for us to do and meeting up with friends isn't always the highest on the list! Things will get more "normal" eventually but yeah -- I guess try to get away from the mind frame that parenting makes you lame
My FFFC is that I judge people who play video games. DH and I enjoy the occasional game of Halo, but if you're 25 or older and you play video games everyday, I judge the shit out of you. It's so childish to me.
ETA: This may have fit better in UO, but it's still technically a confession of ridiculous judgmental-ness.
I'm Catholic so I don't eat meat on Fridays during Lent. Nothing at home was sounding appealing to pack for lunch, but then I remembered I have girl scout cookies coming into today. Lunch problem solved!
I was told that being pregnant exempts us from Friday fasting during Lent (meat and eating between meals). I'm no longer a very devote Catholic (don't flame me!) but you may want to check into it.
@smmatt08 you may be right. When I "fast" I only do it two days-Ash Wednesday and Good Friday-and both times I allow myself 3 meals just no snacking in between. I'm also not a huge meat eater so it's honestly not that bad of a sacrifice. Also, I gave up pop for Lent but with the nausea I caved in ginger ale. So yeah, I guess my confession is I'm not a good Catholic this Lenten season.
My FFFC is that I judge people who play video games. DH and I enjoy the occasional game of Halo, but if you're 25 or older and you play video games everyday, I judge the shit out of you. It's so childish to me.
ETA: This may have fit better in UO, but it's still technically a confession of ridiculous judgmental-ness.
Me and my DH play video games every other day/ every few days. It's how we spend time together and we enjoy playing games together. I grew up playing computer games with my parents. Now kids staying up all night playing video games is totally different
My biggest fear is becoming an uninteresting person/mom. I'm scared that when this baby comes, I'll be lame. I won't be updated on news events and political stories--my brain will only be filled with breastfeeding facts and which stroller is top-rated and why. Prior to this pregnancy, I've always rolled my eyes at the friends who've gone from "wanting to change the world" to just wanting to talk about mom groups and their kids---and my fear is that I'll slowly become one of them.
DH and I have specifically had a discussion about this. Our very good friends no longer get invited by some of our other friends to events and such because everyone just assumes they can't go. It totally hurts their feelings but I think it's probably because they used DS as an excuse for not doing this a lot in the beginning (probably because they truly felt they couldn't). Anyway, we have specific plans for not letting that happen.
I've been thinking a lot about how to respond to both of these posts, because at first read they definitely touched a nerve. Both posts came across as SUPER judgy but I know neither poster have experienced the other side of things yet.
It can absolutely be lame when it seems like friends, who used to be as independent and up for anything as you are, can only talk about kids or mom groups or can't join you for certain events. But the truth is that having a kid(s) does change everything, and for a while they're you're entire universe -- especially when they're young and needy and need you to do EVERYTHING for them. It can be suffocating, actually, and yes, mom groups can be a savior because it gets you out of the house and interacting with other adults. When that's all you do (and my DS is still young enough that he's basically totally consuming) it can be really hard to keep up with everything that's going on in the world (though lord knows I try!) as well as be in constant contact with friends and stay involved in their social lives.
I guess what I'm saying is, that your world is going to change. It's not a bad thing and you can certainly hang on to your identity and habits pre-baby, but try to cut your friends some slack. If they're talking about the latest stroller it's because theres 25 million options out there and they've probably been researching the right one to buy for weeks. And if they can't meet up for brunch or dinner because of their kid? Take it at face value. My son hasn't slept more than 3 hours at a time for 5 weeks and we're exhausted. Unfortunately we have to pick what's feasible for us to do and meeting up with friends isn't always the highest on the list! Things will get more "normal" eventually but yeah -- I guess try to get away from the mind frame that parenting makes you lame
@kmalls - hey there! I certainly think that you misinterpreted my intent. I'm very involved with my friend's son. I'm his pseudo aunt :-) I want to talk to my friend about her mom group friends and hear about MommyCon, and talk about the latest stroller, if that's what she wants to talk about. However, mine and DH's goal is to try to be as active as possible in our friend group (knowing it will be less active than we are now). I'm not saying we'll be perfect. But to see my poor friend and her DH's feelings get hurt because they find out through the grape vine that someone else didn't invite them (I always still invite, even if I know they can't make it). That's something I don't want to feel. And rightfully so. I want to make it very clear that I DO NOT judge or think my friend or any mommies are lame for not participating. I watched their son for a few long weekends, during his 1 year thus far, while they were away and it was exhausting... and he only woke up once during the night. I get it. I really do. But my intent in my statement on here is that it's a fear of mine to lose touch with my friends, who are very important to me, because I'm tired and don't take enough time for myself. I want to try to be a little different. Again, not saying I'll succeed. But a girl can have some goals, right? :-)
Edited to add: Please don't feel like I'm judging you or anyone for their social choices... really not my intent nor is it the case :-)
Me and my DH play video games every other day/ every few days. It's how we spend time together and we enjoy playing games together. I grew up playing computer games with my parents. Now kids staying up all night playing video games is totally different
(I can understand about spending time together that way. Like I said, DH and I like to play Halo every now and again. It's more like the intense, reclusive, obsessive type of playing that I judge.)
What about adults staying up all night playing video games? DH and I have a close friend who is 28 years old and has a full time job, but literally spends every other waking moment playing video games. He starts playing immediately when he gets home from work and continues until around 3am. He also CONSTANTLY complains about how tired he is and sometimes misses work because he's too tired to go. Pathetic.
I got this text from his GF (one of my BFFs) today in reference to what they're doing tonight: "We're having a 'date night' tonight... He will play his Playstation and I will sleep then he will randomly try to make out with me and I won't let him because he's given me zero reasons for me to even let him touch me. My life."
I'm having a baby shower/sprinkle and it will be my second child. DS will be 7 when this baby is born and it will be DH's first child. We have nothing for the baby and want to be able to celebrate its arrival with family and friends.
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Every time someone was talking about IB (implantation bleeding) I read it as irritable bowel. I only realized it meant implantation bleeding like 3 weeks ago. I was thinking wow a lot of these women have bowel issues and some of them even bleed a lot during it! Lol oops. I still instantly read irritable bowel
Me and my DH play video games every other day/ every few days. It's how we spend time together and we enjoy playing games together. I grew up playing computer games with my parents. Now kids staying up all night playing video games is totally different
(I can understand about spending time together that way. Like I said, DH and I like to play Halo every now and again. It's more like the intense, reclusive, obsessive type of playing that I judge.)
What about adults staying up all night playing video games? DH and I have a close friend who is 28 years old and has a full time job, but literally spends every other waking moment playing video games. He starts playing immediately when he gets home from work and continues until around 3am. He also CONSTANTLY complains about how tired he is and sometimes misses work because he's too tired to go. Pathetic.
I got this text from his GF (one of my BFFs) today in reference to what they're doing tonight: "We're having a 'date night' tonight... He will play his Playstation and I will sleep then he will randomly try to make out with me and I won't let him because he's given me zero reasons for me to even let him touch me. My life."
I think if you can manage to stay up all night playing video games (there are times we do this on weekends) and still function the next day great. Complaining about being tired all day because of that decision or skipping work because you are too tired is ridiculous. Part of being an adult is going to work, staying up all night normally doesn't lead to going to work and performing your job requirements.
I think my DH would play games and could be obsessed with them if he didn't have me (something to better occupy his time). That sounded really bad, I didn't mean it to sound like I'm so awesome. I think if anyone has something they obsess over it is unhealthy. Also I think neglecting other parts of your life/ responsibilities (such as your friend with the date night) because of a game is stupid and not acceptable.
I think if you can manage to stay up all night playing video games (there are times we do this on weekends) and still function the next day great. Complaining about being tired all day because of that decision or skipping work because you are too tired is ridiculous. Part of being an adult is going to work, staying up all night normally doesn't lead to going to work and performing your job requirements.
I think my DH would play games and could be obsessed with them if he didn't have me (something to better occupy his time). That sounded really bad, I didn't mean it to sound like I'm so awesome. I think if anyone has something they obsess over it is unhealthy. Also I think neglecting other parts of your life/ responsibilities (such as your friend with the date night) because of a game is stupid and not acceptable.
Right. And their situation and others like it have formed my opinion of gamers. Everyone is obviously free to spend their free time as they wish, I just have a tendency to judge gamers. It's rude, I know.
@CopperBoom86 I judge extreme gamers too. Personal experiences shape how we view others and judge them. edit: to add I judge any extreme activity. (By extreme I mean ignoring responsibilities/ those around you)
I judge anyone who makes irresponsible decisions. I just think it's dumb to view video games as a waste of time as opposed to other things people would be doing instead. I relax by playing World of Warcraft. That's not somehow worse than choosing to spend that time sitting on the porch drinking beer, or watching television, or doing crossword puzzles, or gardening, or whatever floats your boat.
My confession is that I bought three different Cadbury products today: the big eggs, the little eggs, and the cookies. Haven't eaten any of them yet, though, so that's something, right? Also, I made a separate secret shopping trip after shopping with my mom so she wouldn't see me buying prune juice and giant underwear and guess that I'm pregnant.
My FFFC is that I judge people who play video games. DH and I enjoy the occasional game of Halo, but if you're 25 or older and you play video games everyday, I judge the shit out of you. It's so childish to me.
ETA: This may have fit better in UO, but it's still technically a confession of ridiculous judgmental-ness.
That's just so sad for you.
Just curious, do you also judge people who are older than 25 and who watch movies, read books, or watch TV? Because video games are way more interactive than those other forms of entertainment, and are just as powerful at telling stories.
My FFFC is that I judge people who play video games. DH and I enjoy the occasional game of Halo, but if you're 25 or older and you play video games everyday, I judge the shit out of you. It's so childish to me.
ETA: This may have fit better in UO, but it's still technically a confession of ridiculous judgmental-ness.
That's just so sad for you.
Just curious, do you also judge people who are older than 25 and who watch movies, read books, or watch TV? Because video games are way more interactive than those other forms of entertainment, and are just as powerful at telling stories.
My FFFC is that I judge people who play video games. DH and I enjoy the occasional game of Halo, but if you're 25 or older and you play video games everyday, I judge the shit out of you. It's so childish to me.
ETA: This may have fit better in UO, but it's still technically a confession of ridiculous judgmental-ness.
That's just so sad for you.
Just curious, do you also judge people who are older than 25 and who watch movies, read books, or watch TV? Because video games are way more interactive than those other forms of entertainment, and are just as powerful at telling stories.
Not sure you understand how FFFC works...
Oh honey, if you think that's a flame, you have a lot of living to do.
Just curious, do you also judge people who are older than 25 and who watch movies, read books, or watch TV? Because video games are way more interactive than those other forms of entertainment, and are just as powerful at telling stories.
Not sure you understand how FFFC works...
Oh honey, if you think that's a flame, you have a lot of living to do.
Just curious, do you also judge people who are older than 25 and who watch movies, read books, or watch TV? Because video games are way more interactive than those other forms of entertainment, and are just as powerful at telling stories.
Not sure you understand how FFFC works...
Oh honey, if you think that's a flame, you have a lot of living to do.
It's your tone. It's sarcastic and patronizing.
Because this is SarcasticPatronizing&FlameFreeFridayConfessions? It's the internet, you don't get to dictate tone. Bless your heart.
Because this is SarcasticPatronizing&FlameFreeFridayConfessions? It's the internet, you don't get to dictate tone. Bless your heart.
Seriously? There's no need to be rude just because you disagree with someone. I have no interest in arguing with anyone over something as silly as video games. And I personally can't stand the cute little sarcastic sass thing... "Bless your heart" "Oh honey" "So sad for you"... Annoying. So, I'm out.
Im a total gamer, who is way over 25. Lol, why is that the cut off? The average gamer is in their 30s. Just because you know one douche bag, or a dozen, doesn't mean every gamer is childish and irresponsible.
Im a total gamer, who is way over 25. Lol, why is that the cut off? The average gamer is in their 30s. Just because you know one douche bag, or a dozen, doesn't mean every gamer is childish and irresponsible.
Like I said above, that guy and others have shaped my opinion. I also said I know I shouldn't judge.
Not sure why 25 is the cut off lol. I guess for most people I know, that's the age when people really start to get their shit together.
If I personally knew one gamer who played more than 1 hour a day and still had their shit together, my opinion would probably be different. But to be fair, I don't know a lot of gamers. DH and I are outdoorsy type people.
ETA: I misread the first line of your post. That's why I said "and others." My bad!
I want to tell everyone I'm pregnant, and that it's twins. I've told quite a few close friends, but non of our family, and I have NO idea why!? I have this fear that if I tell our families, and something goes wrong, I'll be disappointing them, and I'll feel like a failure...Again. What the hell is wrong with my thinking!? Why does this anxiety never leave me the f**k alone!?
My biggest fear is becoming an uninteresting person/mom. I'm scared that when this baby comes, I'll be lame. I won't be updated on news events and political stories--my brain will only be filled with breastfeeding facts and which stroller is top-rated and why. Prior to this pregnancy, I've always rolled my eyes at the friends who've gone from "wanting to change the world" to just wanting to talk about mom groups and their kids---and my fear is that I'll slowly become one of them.
Eek. You can still change the world & be very into mothering. If you think about it, you are changing the world while shaping another human. That's s big deal. I'm still pretty interesting even though my hobbies have expanded to include "mom" things.
Re: FFFC
Didn't feel guilty. I've told my husband that I am no longer doing his mother favors or taking her phone calls. This woman owes me a significant amount of money and has never paid me a dime, but blows her money on cigarettes and weed. And two days before my wedding, the first time I met my sister in law, she implied that I was a whore and proceeded to talk about how awful it was that I stole my husband from his ex girlfriend. Which is not even true. I was so confused because my MIL actually really likes me and was always rooting for us to get together.
Oh and Christmas Day she called me fat. End of rant. Lol
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My FFFC- I just found out one of my new employees doesn't know the difference between there, their and they're. I secretly dislike him now and won't be disappointed if he doesn't make it in our highly competitive marketing field.
It can absolutely be lame when it seems like friends, who used to be as independent and up for anything as you are, can only talk about kids or mom groups or can't join you for certain events. But the truth is that having a kid(s) does change everything, and for a while they're you're entire universe -- especially when they're young and needy and need you to do EVERYTHING for them. It can be suffocating, actually, and yes, mom groups can be a savior because it gets you out of the house and interacting with other adults. When that's all you do (and my DS is still young enough that he's basically totally consuming) it can be really hard to keep up with everything that's going on in the world (though lord knows I try!) as well as be in constant contact with friends and stay involved in their social lives.
I guess what I'm saying is, that your world is going to change. It's not a bad thing and you can certainly hang on to your identity and habits pre-baby, but try to cut your friends some slack. If they're talking about the latest stroller it's because theres 25 million options out there and they've probably been researching the right one to buy for weeks. And if they can't meet up for brunch or dinner because of their kid? Take it at face value. My son hasn't slept more than 3 hours at a time for 5 weeks and we're exhausted. Unfortunately we have to pick what's feasible for us to do and meeting up with friends isn't always the highest on the list! Things will get more "normal" eventually but yeah -- I guess try to get away from the mind frame that parenting makes you lame
ETA: This may have fit better in UO, but it's still technically a confession of ridiculous judgmental-ness.
Now kids staying up all night playing video games is totally different
I want to make it very clear that I DO NOT judge or think my friend or any mommies are lame for not participating. I watched their son for a few long weekends, during his 1 year thus far, while they were away and it was exhausting... and he only woke up once during the night. I get it. I really do. But my intent in my statement on here is that it's a fear of mine to lose touch with my friends, who are very important to me, because I'm tired and don't take enough time for myself. I want to try to be a little different. Again, not saying I'll succeed. But a girl can have some goals, right? :-)
Edited to add: Please don't feel like I'm judging you or anyone for their social choices... really not my intent nor is it the case :-)
What about adults staying up all night playing video games? DH and I have a close friend who is 28 years old and has a full time job, but literally spends every other waking moment playing video games. He starts playing immediately when he gets home from work and continues until around 3am. He also CONSTANTLY complains about how tired he is and sometimes misses work because he's too tired to go. Pathetic.
I got this text from his GF (one of my BFFs) today in reference to what they're doing tonight: "We're having a 'date night' tonight... He will play his Playstation and I will sleep then he will randomly try to make out with me and I won't let him because he's given me zero reasons for me to even let him touch me. My life."
I think my DH would play games and could be obsessed with them if he didn't have me (something to better occupy his time). That sounded really bad, I didn't mean it to sound like I'm so awesome.
I think if anyone has something they obsess over it is unhealthy. Also I think neglecting other parts of your life/ responsibilities (such as your friend with the date night) because of a game is stupid and not acceptable.
edit: to add I judge any extreme activity. (By extreme I mean ignoring responsibilities/ those around you)
My confession is that I bought three different Cadbury products today: the big eggs, the little eggs, and the cookies. Haven't eaten any of them yet, though, so that's something, right? Also, I made a separate secret shopping trip after shopping with my mom so she wouldn't see me buying prune juice and giant underwear and guess that I'm pregnant.
Just curious, do you also judge people who are older than 25 and who watch movies, read books, or watch TV? Because video games are way more interactive than those other forms of entertainment, and are just as powerful at telling stories.
Im a total gamer, who is way over 25. Lol, why is that the cut off? The average gamer is in their 30s. Just because you know one douche bag, or a dozen, doesn't mean every gamer is childish and irresponsible.
Not sure why 25 is the cut off lol. I guess for most people I know, that's the age when people really start to get their shit together.
If I personally knew one gamer who played more than 1 hour a day and still had their shit together, my opinion would probably be different. But to be fair, I don't know a lot of gamers. DH and I are outdoorsy type people.
ETA: I misread the first line of your post. That's why I said "and others." My bad!
I don't feel judgey about that, at all.
Maybe I should amend my confession to "I judge people who value gaming over pretty much everything else in life." lol.
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