
Cue salt n pepa.
I'm getting bored (and probably H too!) of the same position over and over again. Being on top feels like too much work, missionary obviously doesn't happen right now, and doggy style is getting boring! What positions are working for you at this stage in the pregnancy?
Re: Let's talk about sex baby
Laying on on edge of the bed with a pillow wedged under hips to lift them slightly, he stands or kneels depending on height of bed. He can even lift your hips up more with his arms.
Reverse cowgirl seems to make it easier to balance some of the baby belly. he could be laying down or sitting upright in a chair for this.
Oral sex when all else fails. Fun times lol
Speaking about getting down. The 1st and 2nd tri I had a great increased sex drive. Now it's declined significantly but when I am in the mood I can't seam to climax. I try to get intimate once or twice a week but it usually gets too uncomfortable and if it's not that then I just can't climax. I'm sure this is normal but if anyone has ideas I'm open to suggestions!
I don't like spoon myself, but it seems to work well for a lot of women.
And yeah, oral.
Mine has decreased also I think for the simple fact that its hard to get comfortable and half the time I feel super disgusting but I still make an effort for my SO. I will be glad to have our old sex life back! well.. you know.. when we get time in between feeding and tending to our LO!
We did missionary. Just propped up my left side and he never leaned on me completely. One side was always up. I'm open to from behind and if that doesn't work I've got a book with 365 positions to pick from.
This really feels like TMI... But I guess if I'm going to steal the ideas you lovely ladies have offered, I should share what works for us...
First Pregnancy
Second Pregnancy
- BFP: 09/11/2015
- EDD: 05/25/2016
Baby Born04/15/2016
PGAL
BFP 1: 9/15/2013 | DD 5/23/2014
BFP 2: 9/15/2015 | EDD 5/26/2016
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI IUI #1 8/31/2015
9/15/2015: BFP HCG - 400, 9/17/2015: HCG - 827, 9/21/2015 - HCG 3,327!Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI IUI #1 8/31/2015
9/15/2015: BFP HCG - 400, 9/17/2015: HCG - 827, 9/21/2015 - HCG 3,327!We do me on top and doggie style. I'm getting bored with these as well so I'm really looking forward to when we get rid of our box spring this weekend to make our bed lower and try the position with me on the edge and him standing. Right now our bed is way too high and I'm so sick of feeling like an upside down turtle whenever I have to get up to pee 4 times a night!
Basically my confusion arose from the fact that I used to do it with my legs positioned differently and I think the version people were talking about in this thread is the one where you're kneeling over your partner and aren't bouncing up/down nearly as high. That version is actually really easy to do while pregnant and not physically challenging at all.
So, my bad, the people who recommended that position were right and I was wrong (or was at least misunderstanding what they meant).
At first I thought my sex drive had vanished because I have a low desire to DTD with DH since becoming pregnant. But I was confused because my dreams have been WILD. Basically I've become a huge fan of "self care." I have a high desire to reach the O but a low desire to be touched by anyone (other than myself). I feel a little bad for DH though.
DD: 05/14/16