Our timing has just sucked. Whenever he's interested, it's at bedtime when my bladder is in crazy must get fully emptied by 3-4 trips to the bathroom so I don't have to wake up constantly in the middle of the night mode. Similarly, he's not interested when I am. Blah!
To all the self-love advocates out there (which really should be everyone in my humble opinion), I think it is awesome to take matters into your own hands...with or without your SO. I know it may sound weird, but sometimes that is what MH and I do. Also, sometimes I am in the mood and he isn't so he just watches me. That usually gets him going so he helps himself while I watch, sometimes lending a helping hand here and there. It is just that sometimes he is too rough (the man has bear paws for hands!) and I am so sensitive so I like to do it myself. He is super visual and I think it is slightly voyeuristic so that helps play into the whole thing.
High five to all you out there that still have a sex drive! I think about it ALL DAY, but by the time I get home from work, I am super blah and my back is killing me. My sex drive took a wicked nose dive...DH doesn't complain at all, but I am not happy about it.
I'm very much in the "I really don't want to be touched" camp which basically has killed our sex life. I feel terrible about it, but I just can't shake the feeling of DON'T TOUCH ME. We have been doing some mutual masturbation stuff since I stopped feeling so barfy around 22 weeks.
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