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TunieBee · February 2016

I like participating regularly but I don't like getting too personal i.e. labor buddies, facebook, etc. And as a healthcare provider, I also like to be helpful with medical questions when I can be (although OB is far my area of specialty).

CourtJack · February 2016

So while at the hospital waiting for my amnio yesterday, I was invited to speak with a research assistant in the maternal fetal medicine unit. They're looking for (high risk) participants for a study that will serve as part of the evidence to be used in the push to have NIPT (Harmony, Panorama) become the standard of care in prenatal testing - eliminating the IPS testing that's currently standard (the ultrasound, NT measurement and bloodwork). I was SO excited to hear this. I'm sure it'll take forever but still - this makes so much sense. Right now the test is only covered for high-risk patients (like me) and not for low risk. Yay! So, I consented, they took blood samples AND I got a free parking at the hospital for participating. Woo!

**this is Canada though - not sure how it'd work in the U.S.

lunagrl79 · February 2016

So today at physical therapy I decided to weigh myself. My next ob appointment isn't until next week and I was curious. Well, big mistake. I've gained 25 pounds. I'm 21 + 4. So now I'm super nervous my ob is going to tell me this is too much. Ugh. Why did I get on that scale!!!! Im pretty petite, 5'4" and 120-125 pre pregnancy. I hope I'm not gaining too much but I was cleared to start my prenatal yoga and Pilates DVDs today.

Also paying my doula deposit today and I am freaking a bit about the cost. Seems like way more than I've seen mentioned on here. They came highly recommended and I really clicked with my team but it's a lot.

Ive been so relaxed lately but now I'm so anxious. I keep hearing my mother in my head telling me I'm going to get fat and that using a doula is a waste because I'm not tough enough to try for natural birth. (The main reason I'm using one is because I do not want my mother around and I think the support will be great).

ugh. I need chocolate and a caffeine free Coke stat.

gray51015 · February 2016

WinniethePoohsPants said:

gray51015 said:

OK, OK, OK.. you guys convinced me. I will not knock the nose frieda for now, but I think I might make DH try it out first!

I promise that if you can scrape poop off your LO's hinder, sucking snot out of your LO's nose is far less gag inducing by comparison.

I just giggled at my desk and people turned to look. Lol

MsBeachNJ · February 2016

Just thought I'd share something that made me really happy over lunch! A few weeks ago I posted my rant that FedEx had lost a package with some new Lilly Pulitzer dresses that I had purchased during their end of year clearance sale... Lilly P had already refunded my money and said the package was indefinitely lost & they had none of the items in stock anymore (and to rebuy them elsewhere they were over twice the price). Well I had given up all hope but I went home on my lunch break & on my porch was the missing package!! It was damp & crushed like it had been outside for a while (maybe it was delivered to the wrong house & someone just noticed it now because we live in a very summer neighborhood so lots of people aren't here year round) regardless, I ripped open the bag & there are my brand new dresses, unharmed because they were wrapped in plastic. I'm so happy!!!!!!!!!

MeganF08 · February 2016

kjo79 said:

So today at physical therapy I decided to weigh myself. My next ob appointment isn't until next week and I was curious. Well, big mistake. I've gained 25 pounds. I'm 21 + 4. So now I'm super nervous my ob is going to tell me this is too much. Ugh. Why did I get on that scale!!!! Im pretty petite, 5'4" and 120-125 pre pregnancy. I hope I'm not gaining too much but I was cleared to start my prenatal yoga and Pilates DVDs today.

Also paying my doula deposit today and I am freaking a bit about the cost. Seems like way more than I've seen mentioned on here. They came highly recommended and I really clicked with my team but it's a lot.

Ive been so relaxed lately but now I'm so anxious. I keep hearing my mother in my head telling me I'm going to get fat and that using a doula is a waste because I'm not tuff enough to try for natural birth. (The main reason I'm using one is because I do not want my mother around and I think the support will be great).

ugh. I need chocolate and a caffeine free Coke stat.

I had the same doula experience yesterday when I paid my deposit! Most of the ones I have seen people on the board talk about are $300-$400 but mine is around $1200 so the cost is a little scary (especially for H who is just going along with it because I insist). Likes yours though, mine came highly recommended from a friend who is L&D nurse and my doctor was even enthusiastic about me hiring a doula from that group. I just keep reminding myself that when the day comes, I will appreciate how worth it having her there to help was.

totsabounding · February 2016

@kjo79 I know how you feel. I am 23 weeks and have gained 21 lb total. Things were progressing fine weight-wise, but the number shot up more than they'd like this last interval...so now I'm really trying hard to be more conscious of my choices. They did say, though, that sometimes the baby has a growth spurt that accounts for a bigger-than-average jump some months. But as much as I'd like to rationalize it that way, I know I have been too liberal with the concept of "eating for two." So anyway...you're not alone! And we can get back on track! I'm on day 7 of my new and improved nutrition plan! Still enjoying my food...just not quite so much of it, and choosing healthier options.

totsabounding · February 2016

@MsBeachNJ so you got your full refund AND your clothes? Score!!!!

Lilwatz · February 2016

Bah! I just caught up. It's my last day at my job (new job Monday!) and have been slammed transitioning all my work for the past few days.

I have the crazy thread open and READY to dive into when I get another moment to breathe. As for the nose frieda it grosses me out SO BAD, but my husband does it and works SO WELL. So, I am a fan, if I am not the one sucking or cleaning it.

lunagrl79 · February 2016

@MeganF08

That's exactly how much mine is. Thanks for commenting. I already feel a bit better. They offer unlimited support via phone and one more in person meeting before birth to go over my birth plan. I think my contract covers 12 hours of labor ($40 an hour over that, due 30 days after delivery) and one pp visit. Everyone I personally know that has used a doula has used this service and raves about them so I'm going for it. My bf is super supportive since I have made him aware of how much pressure this will take off of him in the delivery room. I think he would be great support but I want him to be able to enjoy it and not be so freaked out taking care of me.

MsBeachNJ · February 2016

@parsonsperson YUP!!! Talk about a lucky day!!!!!

totsabounding · February 2016

@MsBeachNJ fashion show pics??? I want to live vicariously through you. I am not loving my wardrobe right now.

TunieBee · February 2016

@kjo79, I think we paid $1,200 (!!! WTF) for our doula last time. Honestly, it was worth it for our first birth, and we don't feel like we need one this time. We did not end up with a natural child birth (induction with epidural followed by C-section) but it was still totally worth it.

MsBeachNJ · February 2016

@parsonsperson haha they are spring/summery dresses that I hope will cover me in the spring & then again post partum when loose cotton clothes will be my uniform. I'm back at work now but I attached pics of the 3 dresses that I had ordered

Image: https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/w7/wh0q6fgvrokd.jpg

Image: https://us.v-cdn.net/5020794/uploads/editor/f8/v9v8u6a4pvwq.jpg

MamaNicoleof3 · February 2016

MsBeachNJ said:

@parsonsperson haha they are spring/summery dresses that I hope will cover me in the spring & then again post partum when loose cotton clothes will be my uniform. I'm back at work now but I attached pics of the 3 dresses that I had ordered

THOSE ARE SO CUTE! (Yelling intended)

Sydvicious08 · February 2016

Oh my..I'm appreciating my doula prices so much more right now! Maybe it's regional?

totsabounding · February 2016

@MsBeachNJ those are super cute! LOVE!

HBamama2B · February 2016

My doula is certified (whatever that means) and typically charges $1,200 (NYC). That's fairly standard here, but in less expensive locales I'd expect a steep drop!

ahernandez16 · February 2016

I was supposed to meet with a lady to buy her rock n play for like $30. I was so stoked! She didn't show so I went to the mall to drown my sorrows and buy something cute for baby instead and only accomplished eating an entire Cinnabon roll by myself.

I blame the beezy that stood me up.

CourtJack · February 2016

My doula was $800ish I believe. (Ottawa, Canada). And she is certified. I think that is a normal price range around here

fishwife799 · February 2016

ahernandez16 said:

I was supposed to meet with a lady to buy her rock n play for like $30. I was so stoked! She didn't show so I went to the mall to drown my sorrows and buy something cute for baby instead and only accomplished eating an entire Cinnabon roll by myself.

I blame the beezy that stood me up.

I would probably kill for a Cinnabon right now. I live in a tiny town and the closest one is over 100 miles away. Le sigh...

MamaNicoleof3 · February 2016

Certified doulas run around $400-600 here (ND)

lunagrl79 · February 2016

sdnybrk said:

Oh my..I'm appreciating my doula prices so much more right now! Maybe it's regional?

I wondered if maybe that was the case. I'm in the Midwest.

They are also certified and do placenta encapsulation. Not sure if I'm going to bother with that yet. It is a little extra $$$

Sydvicious08 · February 2016

Mine is certified and is actually starting a training programa around here. She is charging $500 with a monthly meeting, meet the OB, hospital for labor plus 2 hours and pp help afterwards. (MS) she is really great and I hope she will help withy stress

we have so few options down here. There are literally less than 10 midwives and nor many more doulas in the entire state.

VikingGirl12 · February 2016

I just got back from the 50% off day of the kids consignment sale here in town. I got 16 dresses, either boutique brand (mudpie, Bailey boys, etc.) or Ralph Lauren for $41. Oh and a big monster truck toy for DS for $2.50. I am gonna have the best dressed baby around.

dennyandlee · February 2016

Why, why, why can't Taco Bell be closer?? Im about to get really sad because there is nothing at my house to eat and I'm so hungry for Taco Bell...

DeePaddy24 · February 2016

I just got home from prenatal water yoga & REALLY want some chocolate peanut butter ice cream...but, I don't want to get dressed & go out again, & DH isn't home. Short Stop should start a delivery service!

Edited. Ugh, words.

MamaNicoleof3 · February 2016

DeePaddy24 said:

I just got home from prenatal water yoga & REALLY want some chocolate peanut butter ice cream...but, I don't want to get dressed & go out again, & DH isn't home. Short Stop should start a delivery service!

Edited. Ugh, words.

I think Starbucks could rule the world (even more than they currently do) if they delivered. Why isn't this a thing?!

DeePaddy24 · February 2016

MamaNicoleof3 said:

DeePaddy24 said:

I just got home from prenatal water yoga & REALLY want some chocolate peanut butter ice cream...but, I don't want to get dressed & go out again, & DH isn't home. Short Stop should start a delivery service!

Edited. Ugh, words.

I think Starbucks could rule the world (even more than they currently do) if they delivered. Why isn't this a thing?!

Update: my neighbour is also pregnant & was craving the same thing, so her husband went to the store for both of us. Dreams really do come true! YESSS!

MsBeachNJ · February 2016

@DeePaddy24 that's awesome! What a nice man!!

MamaNicoleof3 · February 2016

One of my best friends' BIL started making these YouTube videos...they're quite amusing. This one is appropriate:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=a_Pqvq3UHnw

i should mention that he's an actor in LA, so these are well done and not crappy homemade
youtubes

fishwife799 · February 2016

So I just got this text from my mom saying that a local hotel got new beds and they are giving away 22 king size beds. Um, thanks? I've worked in a hotel before and I don't even want to imagine all the nasty shit that could've gone down on those mattresses. I think I'll pass mom.

HBamama2B · February 2016

@fishwife799 so agree. Ewwwwwwwww.

Emztron500 · February 2016

CourtJack said:

My doula was $800ish I believe. (Ottawa, Canada). And she is certified. I think that is a normal price range around here

About what I'm paying for mine in Edmonton too

BabyboyS2016 · February 2016

@MamaNicoleof3 He hasn't said any of these things but sent straight to H!!!!! HILARIOUS!

ashleyrobertson0113 · February 2016

Totally random and just needed to whine about it... On Wednesday I hit my head on a cabinet while trying to change the garbage bag in our kitchen trash. Swear I thought I cracked my skull open. (Thankfully I didn't; but, I now have a giant lump and a bruise on the corner of my forehead.) I cried hysterically when it happened. And for the last two days I've had the most god-awful headache and off and on fatigue and ringing in my ears. Realized in hind sight I should've gone to the doctor to get checked out because I think I have a mild concussion. Good grief I'm a hott mess.

crdo · February 2016

ashleyrobertson0113 said:

Totally random and just needed to whine about it... On Wednesday I hit my head on a cabinet while trying to change the garbage bag in our kitchen trash. Swear I thought I cracked my skull open. (Thankfully I didn't; but, I now have a giant lump and a bruise on the corner of my forehead.) I cried hysterically when it happened. And for the last two days I've had the most god-awful headache and off and on fatigue and ringing in my ears. Realized in hind sight I should've gone to the doctor to get checked out because I think I have a mild concussion. Good grief I'm a hott mess.

You're making an appointment today, right? I wouldn't let that go without getting checked out.

dennyandlee · February 2016

Yeah, @ashleyrobertson0113 I would definitely go get checked out, expecially if you are still having headaches and fatigue. Ringing in your ears? Girl, go call your doctor.

CourtJack · February 2016

ashleyrobertson0113 said:

Totally random and just needed to whine about it... On Wednesday I hit my head on a cabinet while trying to change the garbage bag in our kitchen trash. Swear I thought I cracked my skull open. (Thankfully I didn't; but, I now have a giant lump and a bruise on the corner of my forehead.) I cried hysterically when it happened. And for the last two days I've had the most god-awful headache and off and on fatigue and ringing in my ears. Realized in hind sight I should've gone to the doctor to get checked out because I think I have a mild concussion. Good grief I'm a hott mess.

Um yes - go to the doctor.

CourtJack · February 2016

fishwife799 said:

So I just got this text from my mom saying that a local hotel got new beds and they are giving away 22 king size beds. Um, thanks? I've worked in a hotel before and I don't even want to imagine all the nasty shit that could've gone down on those mattresses. I think I'll pass mom.

ha!!! this made me laugh out loud. Totally something my mom would do - meanwhile you'd probably get about 20 stds and ebola.

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