Ok ladies, anyone who this is their 2nd, 3rd, Or more baby, this question is directed to you

I am scheduled for my csection for DD#2 Monday 1/4 (I'll be 39w4d). My water broke with DD#1 at exactly 39 weeks on the way to my csection! My cervix never softened and I never dialated then and it looks to be going in the same direction again this time.
Did you feel like you went earlier or later the 2nd time around??
Re: Experienced mommy question!!
My son came 40 weeks +4, on his own
My first daughter came 40 weeks +1
My second daughter came 40 weeks +5
But I did ask my ob to induce me with both my daughters due to their size. So they would of definitely came way later. I think my fourth baby will definitely come past EDD. I don't want to induce, this will be my last baby so I would love to wait until he's ready.
DD2-preterm labor at 34 weeks, stopped with terbutaline, induced at 40 weeks exactly.
DS- waters broke spontaneously 39+3.
DD3- Emergency C-Section at 38 weeks exactly due to failed ECV, low fluids, and fetal distress.
DD4- RCS at 39 weeks exactly due to breech baby.
With this pregnancy I have been contracting for weeks which has very, very slowly helped to dilate and soften my cervix but not enough for it to really matter. RCS scheduled for 39+1, unless I can go naturally beforehand.
DS2 - 37+1 spontaneous labour
I'm currently 39+2 with my third.
DD2 currently at 38w6d; membranes stripped today at appt so waiting to see the outcome.
I am 36+1 with my second today. I'd actually like to go a little longer this time as I am measuring smaller and would like baby to grow some more before she shows up. I am pretty miserable this pregnancy, so whatever happens is okay.